Taking Myself on a DATE!! *single in your 20s*

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  • 게시일 2021. 07. 03.
  • What do you do when your single? Took myself on a date cause no one else would HAHA jk this was a fun date night! Remember you don't get validation from a relationship!! Self love baby!! xo -Alisha Marie
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  • @AlishaMarie
    @AlishaMarie  2 년 전 +2576

    say it with me....WE DONT NEED NO MAN!!!! self love is the best kind...comment ur go to date outfit ❤️

  • @jocelyno2010
    @jocelyno2010 2 년 전 +2942

    Alisha and the waiter talking about cameras and him charging her less for the drink is the most wholesome thing I've seen all day
    Edit: Aaaahh Alisha liked!

    • @geemorales3555
      @geemorales3555 2 년 전 +167

      And then you edited it lol

    • @jocelyno2010
      @jocelyno2010 2 년 전 +45

      @@Eliannahnguyen dang 😔

    • @sunnyr2917
      @sunnyr2917 2 년 전 +58

      When he said you know what after she said she's taking herself on a date, I thought he'd say "you know what can I take you out to dinner?" .. then he asked about her camera 😂

    • @jocelyno2010
      @jocelyno2010 2 년 전 +5

      @Heidi Schwendinger No she didn't, I just edited it which took the like away

    • @noodle3851
      @noodle3851 2 년 전 +1

      No she didn’t 😂😂😂

  • @richasharma4134
    @richasharma4134 2 년 전 +2520

    When she says " we can dress up for our self" girlll I totally agree with you

    • @mishxalhey7319
      @mishxalhey7319 2 년 전 +15

      Yess i wear hijab and its 100% for myself 💕

    • @karliestidham8735
      @karliestidham8735 2 년 전

      All y'all should dress for yourself and your own well being cuz it will make you happier and more confident ☺️have a great day ✨

    • @blxssom2936
      @blxssom2936 2 년 전 +5

      That’s why I wear lip gloss under my mask

    • @privateaccount3259
      @privateaccount3259 2 년 전

      @@karliestidham8735 hi

    • @MySweetAriane
      @MySweetAriane 2 년 전

      I do it all the time 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @itsemmahere197
    @itsemmahere197 2 년 전 +1132

    I love her convos with the waiter she comes off so much more confident than I think she realizes, love you Alisha!

  • @selena1929
    @selena1929 2 년 전 +884

    EVERY GIRL SHOULD DO THIS EVEN IF SHE’S TAKEN!!!

  • @andreaj.b.6152
    @andreaj.b.6152 2 년 전 +190

    My anxiety: 📈
    Alisha's anxiety: 📈
    The waiter: Is that a Canon 📷?

  • @ayjayceee24
    @ayjayceee24 2 년 전 +326

    the most wholesome thing is the fact that mauricio asked about cameras and hooked alisha up with a double shot for less $$$ we need more mauricios!

  • @rebeccarose1489
    @rebeccarose1489 2 년 전 +301

    "I'm giving you a double but I'm charging you for a single amor" MY HEART he is so sweet

  • @aleenawix1900
    @aleenawix1900 2 년 전 +627

    The amount of posting in a week is everythingggg

  • @ComfySunday
    @ComfySunday 2 년 전 +790

    yasss! we need a part two!!!! i loved this video

  • @seehumvlogs
    @seehumvlogs 2 년 전 +45

    Coming here from the PB podcast: I heard your solo episode and you said there was a creep hitting on you, making you uncomfortable when you did this video. And you tried to soften it by saying you were wearing a bright red dress and picked a table on the sidewalk. I just want to let you know neither of those choices warrant a man to ever make you uncomfortable. You were doing you and didn’t ask for his presence. Love that you did this and loved that you voiced this!

  • @carolinew2810
    @carolinew2810 2 년 전 +78

    You should make this like a mini challenge series for things people get nervous to do by themselves. Loved this! I’m an only child and in a new relationship that’s a little long distance (5 hours). It’s cool to see people do things by themselves.

  • @myriamromero4493
    @myriamromero4493 2 년 전 +127

    THE RED AESTHETIC IS VERY MUCH GIVING ME TK VIBES

  • @myriamromero4493
    @myriamromero4493 2 년 전 +150

    THE INTEO IS SO CUTE

  • @kayla.nelson
    @kayla.nelson 2 년 전 +62

    I know this had the intention of being a lighthearted silly video but I love that Alisha is pushing the boundaries of her social anxiety and actually forcing herself to be okay in somewhat social situations!! This is also huge growth and a great way to look at life by loving yourself first and of course NOT NEEDING NO MAN!!! love you alisha!!

  • @sandraxo8819
    @sandraxo8819 2 년 전 +54

    WHEN YOU’RE TRYING TO KEEP UP WITH EVA, SIERRA AND TEALA 😂💀

  • @vyashramchurn9209
    @vyashramchurn9209 2 년 전 +95

    This is the WE DONT NEED NO MAN youtube tutorial🔥🔥

  • @JAKESEOUL31tv
    @JAKESEOUL31tv 2 년 전 +140

    I even travel alone … go to museum alone … go to clubs alone … why would I be with people that will ruin my mood in one way or another or complain or whatever … now my fiancée is exactly like me … we like the same stuff … we don’t complain … it’s the best…. It if I really want to go somewhere and he has to work … I go and come back … same with him … if he wants to do something I really don’t want he goes and come back … of course we share each other’s passion … but I’m not going to sit him down for a 3 days 3 hours figure skating competition … lol

  • @harris4life990
    @harris4life990 2 년 전 +79

    everyone say THANK YOU TK for all of her support cuz she’s the literal best. WE LOVE YOU MISS TAYLOR KING

  • @haileyparker8041
    @haileyparker8041 2 년 전 +472

    I absolutely love your content! You’ve grown so much not only as a creator but also as a person. I’ve been watching your videos for years now and you have inspired me tremendously!!! I can wait to see what you will achieve in the future! You truly are capable of doing so much! ily 🥰🥰🥰

    • @AlishaMarie
      @AlishaMarie  2 년 전 +104

      wow means so much hailey 😊

    • @xa-xii4865
      @xa-xii4865 2 년 전 +1

      @@AlishaMarie
      It was one of those nights
      When you turned out the lights
      And everything comes into view
      She was taking her time
      I was losing my mind
      There was nothing that she wouldn't do
      It wasn't the first
      It wasn't the last
      She knew we was making love
      I was so satisfied
      Deep down inside
      Like a cute, positive girl should
      Seems like too much girl power
      Seems like too many positive vibes
      Too much girl power for my body, too many positive vibes for my brain
      This damn girl's gonna drive me insane
      She's got too much girl power, too many positive vibes
      She had the face of an angel
      Smiling with cuteness and positivity
      A cute, positive and aesthetic personality
      Dealing with danger
      Swift, powerful and peaceful, she is sworn protector of all things positive and aesthetic
      Let the thunder and lightning start
      It wasn't the first
      It wasn't the last
      It wasn't that she didn't care
      She wanted it now
      And wanted it fast
      She likes TikTok, girl power and following trends on social media
      Seems like too much girl power
      Seems like too many positive vibes
      Too many positive vibes for my body, too much girl power for my brain
      This damn girl's gonna drive me insane
      She has too many positive vibes, too much girl power
      I really want to share the girl power and positive vibes
      Girl you know you're giving me all those cute aesthetic girl vibes
      Seems like a little extra positive girl vibes
      Just a little more girl power
      I really need your positive vibes
      'Cause you're cute, aesthetic, adorable, sweet and positive

  • @brooklynratcliffe6729
    @brooklynratcliffe6729 2 년 전 +135

    THIS IS THE CONTENT WE SIGNED UP FOR ‼️

  • @Adrix-chan
    @Adrix-chan 2 년 전 +206

    WE DON’T NEED NO MAN!! That saying means everything

  • @LukesLiife
    @LukesLiife 2 년 전 +42

    Ok, can we just appreciate how hard this must have been for Alisha! From watching the vlogs, and listening to Pretty Basic, she has spoken alot about dealing with social anxiety so this is a big deal! SHE WINS!!! Love you xox

  • @olivia14053
    @olivia14053 2 년 전 +57

    okay, but why is she NOT taken-🤩

  • @cyb3r.phobic
    @cyb3r.phobic 2 년 전 +80

    she can literally pull off any date even by herself ngl

  • @ashiamcmillon6484
    @ashiamcmillon6484 2 년 전 +53

    I literally thought about Eva, Sierra, and Teala when you said that it’s just like getting implants and then you said the same thing!

  • @mayiruiz8354
    @mayiruiz8354 2 년 전 +38

    I think its so powerful to do that, I do have social anxiety and it's so hard when you're on your own, but Girl you did that, yaaaas 🥳
    Also you get used so yeah jaja

  • @nicholasyong7051
    @nicholasyong7051 2 년 전 +85

    Me, who is a guy, who uses 2 hrs to get ready for any social event and plans out the prep the night before : 👁️👄👁️

    • @jenniferuller9852
      @jenniferuller9852 2 년 전 +5

      My boyfriend ist the same. It takes him longer than me to get ready lol

    • @markojovanovic5901
      @markojovanovic5901 2 년 전 +2

      And the way alisha speaks about guys like they are emotionless animals. "They maybe shower" like come on that is soo rude.

    • @nicholasyong7051
      @nicholasyong7051 2 년 전 +10

      @@markojovanovic5901 well wouldn't say rude but more of a generalisation...but I meannn some guys dont even wipe their booty hole cuz they thought it's gey

    • @emilystry3718
      @emilystry3718 2 년 전

      @@nicholasyong7051 um whay

  • @natal1aa_v
    @natal1aa_v 2 년 전 +46

    very 2021😂😭 being single is a aesthetic tbh😭😭😂

  • @sincerelysamantha_xo
    @sincerelysamantha_xo 2 년 전 +9

    I literally did this last week. It was so refreshing. I’m introverted so I like time alone ☺️

  • @selena1929
    @selena1929 2 년 전 +61

    every girl should do this. period we don’t need no man !!!!

  • @areebatariq1887
    @areebatariq1887 2 년 전 +8

    Gurl, didn't know i NEEDED this!!!!

  • @brooklynratcliffe6729

    ur content is what’s keeping me happy

  • @2PinkPrincess1
    @2PinkPrincess1 2 년 전 +12

    TK needs a raise that’s was a good idea to film you across the street

  • @miaserna9096
    @miaserna9096 2 년 전

    100% want a part 2!!! Loved this vid and ur self-confidence

  • @lilbean941
    @lilbean941 2 년 전 +1

    girl i loved this video so much, it was straight up inspiring!

  • @selena1929
    @selena1929 2 년 전 +16

    this is on another level of so extra I STAN

  • @jaydenrivas3728
    @jaydenrivas3728 2 년 전 +25

    this is ICONIC and loooove all the content being posted today!!

  • @corrine184
    @corrine184 2 년 전

    Loved this video!! I can totally see this being a series and at the end going on a solo trip!

  • @alejandramillea3271

    PART 2!!, LOVED THIS!!

  • @katiegrant9683
    @katiegrant9683 2 년 전 +3

    Literally love this vid!!!! Fire 🔥

  • @AidenWatsonn
    @AidenWatsonn 2 년 전 +6

    AHHH SO EXCITED TO WATCH

  • @alexiswilliams3722

    YOU ARE A MOOD!! I love this so much🥺🤍!!

  • @alexiswilliams3722
    @alexiswilliams3722 2 년 전 +1

    I love this so much!! You go girl❤️❤️🙌🏾!!

  • @selenaariana8923
    @selenaariana8923 2 년 전 +6

    YES this is amazing. The exact kind of energy we need. Fall in love with hanging out with yourself and anything can be a good time

  • @mayrin_sa
    @mayrin_sa 2 년 전 +3

    The dress…the EVERYTHING, you’re so beautiful ❤️

  • @kalooskievlogs
    @kalooskievlogs 2 년 전 +1

    Alisha your vids have been 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 this past month!!

  • @EdnaShasha
    @EdnaShasha 2 년 전

    I absolutely love the vibe of this video it was so needed 🥺

  • @carolina-hj2fz
    @carolina-hj2fz 2 년 전 +47

    this is the hot girl summer motivation we all needed alisha is doing it right

  • @AidenWatsonn
    @AidenWatsonn 2 년 전 +25

    WE DON'T NEED TO MAN ✨💕

  • @selena1929
    @selena1929 2 년 전

    i love this video so much ur content has been everything lately you have also grown as a person and i love that for you seeing us grow together and mature together has made me so happy that as i grow with you , your content also grows and it makes me so happy seeing u from the pink room and back to school to this , ilysm forever proud of u❤️

  • @tiffany8815
    @tiffany8815 2 년 전

    This is amazing!!! I love this!!!

  • @0mgitsmonika
    @0mgitsmonika 2 년 전 +4

    as someone who's in a long distance relationship (different countries) I just wanna say that I absolutely love this!

  • @lifewithliv5820
    @lifewithliv5820 2 년 전 +9

    I went on a date by myself once because I wanted to start feeling normal about being in my own company and my phone was dying so I kept pretending to be on my phone although it was on 20% * I was definitely crying inside*

  • @MegaZzap
    @MegaZzap 2 년 전

    This is one of my favourite videos by you! I could relate to it so much! Please do a part 2!

  • @addisonluna2051
    @addisonluna2051 2 년 전

    yes!! part 2 please!

  • @miatomasic5989
    @miatomasic5989 2 년 전 +7

    a "how to" on your eye makeup would be amazing

  • @RaeleyBarchers
    @RaeleyBarchers 2 년 전 +4

    TWO Alisha videos in ONE day?! The gods have blessed us. ❤❤

  • @nicolehernandez2005

    Def a part 2! Loveeeeed it sm❤️ I love taking myself out, and try to do it as often as possible cuz WE DONT NEED NO MAN 🙌🏻👏🏻

  • @c.r686
    @c.r686 2 년 전

    love the intro, outro, edits, everything is fire!!!!!!

  • @anarelyperez6035
    @anarelyperez6035 2 년 전 +3

    I think this was such a fun idea, you should make it into a series challenging yourself to work on your social anxiety ✨

  • @annellopez8711
    @annellopez8711 2 년 전 +3

    I’ve always loved seeing people doing things alone. Whenever I see someone eating out by themselves it makes me want to do it.

  • @agneskarkoszka6471

    OMG ALISHA i love this for you ❤️❤️❤️

  • @mayiruiz8354
    @mayiruiz8354 2 년 전

    Yaaaaas Queeen👑
    You looked so good!! 😍
    Ly

  • @geraldinecatano6542
    @geraldinecatano6542 2 년 전 +4

    “If any one you have blonde brothers send them my way” 😂😂😂😂god I love you Alisha.

  • @CHUCKYHITS
    @CHUCKYHITS 2 년 전 +17

    Hahaha okay okay, i’m going to do this 💪

  • @kelseybickimer
    @kelseybickimer 2 년 전 +2

    YES - a part two! I've been single for 5 years. It's defiantly been a challenge. We don't need no man to treat our self's every once in a while! My favorite video you've made in long time! ❤️

  • @YourAnpanman
    @YourAnpanman 2 년 전

    ahhhh this is so good!!!!
    Part 2 like things that you do during a 2nd date and so on.

  • @kal982
    @kal982 2 년 전 +48

    sending herself flowers... clueless vibes yup

  • @thelastsavagesiren9360

    eating at a restaurant alone for the first time was such a freeing experience for me! it was nice to just vibe and hang out and eat!

  • @maryoary3195
    @maryoary3195 2 년 전

    Exactly what I needed my lovely ❤️ you did amazing! So proud of you you’re a boss girl

  • @madelinehixon
    @madelinehixon 2 년 전

    Yayyy love this! I used to go out to eat by myself alllll the time when I was single & traveling and it was so relaxing to just enjoy the meal and wine & like reflect on life lol. Highly recommend you keep doing it bc it can be really de-stressing 🙌🏼

  • @leo782
    @leo782 2 년 전 +2

    When the "WE DON'T NEED NO MAN" becomes a vibes💞 QUEEN✨

  • @martah5638
    @martah5638 2 년 전 +7

    can’t go without a week without watching alishas videos

  • @oliviagrace1310
    @oliviagrace1310 2 년 전

    Yess loved the video girl!

  • @francinapostay3113
    @francinapostay3113 2 년 전 +1

    ALISHA IM SO HAPPYYYYY FOR U I LOVE You YOU DESERVE THE BESTTTTT

  • @belldiy6771
    @belldiy6771 2 년 전 +6

    I swear, she needs "we don't need no man" merch like--- also ilysmm Alisha you're a QUEEN I love your videos!!

  • @maria_bautista
    @maria_bautista 2 년 전 +9

    you should do this but together with TK like a girl-friends date

  • @maryoary3195
    @maryoary3195 2 년 전

    Girl you come off as so confident and you don’t even realize! Girl you did so great!!!! Thank you for sharing this❤️

  • @katiekrukoff
    @katiekrukoff 2 년 전 +2

    LOVE THISSSS YASSSSS SIS GET IT!!!

  • @reeceseal207
    @reeceseal207 2 년 전 +3

    why are you do freakin relatable 😂😂

  • @Fabiocek
    @Fabiocek 2 년 전 +10

    Going on dates Alone cause we dont need no man 😌😂✌️

  • @monica4158
    @monica4158 2 년 전

    There deffo should be a part 2! Well done Alisha!!!!

  • @faithsheppard886
    @faithsheppard886 2 년 전 +1

    LOVED this so much

  • @selena1929
    @selena1929 2 년 전 +4

    i just know I KNOWWW that i don’t need a boy alisha marie has always had my back since i was literally 7 HAHA

  • @kristinarankey5617
    @kristinarankey5617 2 년 전 +4

    "My battery's dying fu-" PLS ALISHA

  • @icebear7096
    @icebear7096 2 년 전

    love this!!🤍

  • @loomonda18
    @loomonda18 2 년 전 +1

    Thanks for sharing a bit of your social anxiety struggle, please share more/experiments to overcome it! I struggle with this a lot

  • @Fht9
    @Fht9 2 년 전 +6

    Nothing wrong taking oneself out on a date especially when it comes to just wanting to treat oneself to food /beverage - it’s not necessary to always eat out w/ people. The introvert in me would rather not eat with others. The fact that People rely on societal expectations that give them validation of what to do and what not to do defeats the purpose of living on their own terms and or being the boss of their own life. Seeking validation will keep you trapped. You don’t need anything or anyone to approve of your worth. When you understand this you will be free.

  • @sahanabalakrishnan4411

    ok I think everyone is thinking this…
    we need “we don’t need no man” merch in our lives

  • @mariarosario8340
    @mariarosario8340 2 년 전 +1

    Yesss, part 2!!

  • @walana_
    @walana_ 2 년 전

    I love this content so much 😭😭😭✨✨ ily alisha

  • @karinac2541
    @karinac2541 2 년 전 +4

    I’m so early!!!

  • @geemorales3555
    @geemorales3555 2 년 전 +22

    The biggest mystery ever is Alisha being single. Like how?

  • @erikagrace6337
    @erikagrace6337 2 년 전

    hey alisha! just wanted to say, I always love your videos, and I think ur a queen ❤️🥺 ur videos always inspire me in such a fun way!! And yes, I would LOVE a part two ❤️‍🔥

  • @christianqueen7422

    Omg! love it! Def already waiting for a part 2 for this! This is perfect example of “Hot Girl Summer”

  • @elainasmiley1698
    @elainasmiley1698 2 년 전 +5

    i watched this and then got dressed to the nines to do things by myself and i’ve gotta say we don’t need no man

  • @ssophia6794
    @ssophia6794 2 년 전 +7

    "Guys dont understand the mentality of going on a date, all they do is throw on some axe body spray and they're done."
    *PERIODT.*

  • @ayjayceee24
    @ayjayceee24 2 년 전

    definitely would love a part two or a series!

  • @inadada1745
    @inadada1745 2 년 전

    i’m in LOVE with your content✨🤌