Living with IBS 😭

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  • κ²Œμ‹œμΌ 2017. 02. 11.
  • As you may know I have IBS... I thought I would share some more details of what it is like living with IBS today. I've had IBS for a very long time now and I am not over exaggerating when I say that IBS has been life changing for me - not in a positive way either!
    It is something that I really have to deal with on a daily basis and you never quite know what it's going to be like from day to day. It affects my mood, my relationships, eating and drinking out, my job. I definitely do just get on with it; so many people have no idea what I am going through.
    I'm sure lots of you guys also have to deal with IBS on a regular basis, so please share your stories in the comments below. & if you are a doctor watching/reading this... no IBS is NOT 'just IBS' it really is rubbish & dehabilitating. But hey, life goes on I guess!
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    Becky xxx

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  • @catlaure7583
    @catlaure7583 5 λ…„ μ „ +851

    people don’t understand how hard it actually is having to live with it

    • @hussy4477
      @hussy4477 4 λ…„ μ „ +4

      cat j true

    • @rvperthrh3103
      @rvperthrh3103 4 λ…„ μ „ +19

      I understand because I have ibs☹️

    • @laibasaleem01
      @laibasaleem01 4 λ…„ μ „ +33

      cat j I know right, all they have to say is ITS ALL IN YOUR HEAD :(

    • @edub3628
      @edub3628 4 λ…„ μ „ +5

      Sometimes I just have to power thru that cheat day

    • @user-ip6wp9xm6o
      @user-ip6wp9xm6o 4 λ…„ μ „ +2

      SUOMI NIGHTCORE SAMEEE 😩

  • @hannahbunny4413
    @hannahbunny4413 5 λ…„ μ „ +337

    My IBS has basically taken over my entire life, I’m constantly in pain which triggers my anxiety because I am scared to go anywhere because I’m scared there may not be a bathroom or I might get too stressed and my family and boyfriend might get annoyed because of my stress, I just feel hopeless but watching your video made me feel less alone. Thank you so much

    • @Liam-oj9fj
      @Liam-oj9fj 2 λ…„ μ „ +9

      Literally me

    • @areejshaikh
      @areejshaikh 2 λ…„ μ „ +4

      Same

    • @VedaShree_S
      @VedaShree_S 2 λ…„ μ „ +6

      Same here... no idea about how to fight against it, I am fed up πŸ˜” my abdomen hurts very badly 😭😭

    • @adnanriaz9604
      @adnanriaz9604 2 λ…„ μ „ +3

      Same is the case here

    • @gajodharsinghcool5849
      @gajodharsinghcool5849 2 λ…„ μ „

      @@VedaShree_Sit's 100%curable don't listen to these idiots.

  • @mandyj5477
    @mandyj5477 3 λ…„ μ „ +222

    I deal with ibs every day and people don’t understand how hard it really is.

    • @alyismyname999
      @alyismyname999 3 λ…„ μ „ +13

      Mandi Arcane me too. People always tell me to figure out what is causing it, stay positive, everyone has struggles and I’m like I get that but try living in pain

    • @mariasole295
      @mariasole295 3 λ…„ μ „ +8

      You're right, I've friends that get upset because I'm the only one who can't have pizza or mc. I always say: "Get what you want, I'll bring my own things to eat" but also this bothers them. It seems that the problem is theirs, not mine...

    • @krystathirteenth4904
      @krystathirteenth4904 2 λ…„ μ „ +5

      It's so hard when people don't believe you either, or tell you "I'm sure it's bad but just power through, it'll pass" like no. I literally have a stomach all the time. It never ends, there is no power through sometimes because by the time I'm actually talking about how it hurts, it's cause it's severe and I can't take it anymore

    • @violeta3321
      @violeta3321 2 λ…„ μ „ +3

      I agree with you girl... I deal with it...

    • @johngray1253
      @johngray1253 2 λ…„ μ „

      I understand how you feel but most people don't even know nothing about it they should learn about it so they could deal with people that have it, good , Barbara Gray commenting

  • @brooke4608
    @brooke4608 4 λ…„ μ „ +290

    It’s been a year and I forgot what it’s like to be my happy self I used to be. I can’t eat without anxiety and fear of the pain I’ll be in after. I’m so jealous of my friends who go to McDonald’s everyday and eat 10 nuggets and large fries everyday and have no pain while I eat an orange and get horrible stomach ache and diahrrea.

    • @oliviawannan5356
      @oliviawannan5356 4 λ…„ μ „ +13

      Yeah when I go to college my friends eat like this and I try to but it just makes me bloat and leaves me constipated for around 3 days . I’m trying to change my diet but it’s almost like anything just triggers it and leaves me feeling uncomfortably full . We love that ✌🏻

    • @brooke4608
      @brooke4608 4 λ…„ μ „ +4

      Olivia Wannan oh yes it’s such a pleasant feeling βœ¨πŸ§šβ€β™€οΈ. Recently I’ve been put on the β€œFODMAP” diet by my doctor, and it’s very restrictive and hard to stick to, but it’s so worth it. I’m on my 3rd week (it’s. 6 week diet) and I’m finding myself craving junk food that triggers me less. But it’s basically a diet where you eliminate all possible triggers (there are plenty of lists of what you can and can’t eat online) and then after 6 weeks you slowly re introduce those foods until you know exactly what your triggers are and what to stay away from! So far I figured out I am sensitive to eat lactose (by a few months ago I could totally fine but it suddenly got worse for some reason), and vegetable oil. Which makes so much sense because most fast food has high amounts of vegetable oil. While on this diet I’ve had far less horrible stomach aches. Like way less. I know I have more triggers I just haven’t found them yet. I also struggle with constipation so I take miralax (or restoralax) every day. It’s a laxative that does not cause dependence because it isn’t a stimulant laxative like other laxatives are. It’s one that simply draws water to the stool to keep everything soft. I hope this helps

    • @oliviawannan5356
      @oliviawannan5356 4 λ…„ μ „ +1

      Brooke Elyse ahh I’m glad to hear that’s helping . My doctor told me to look up the FODMAP diet but did not really explain to me what it is . I can not cut everything out completely like it says to ( especially with the pandemic making it harder to get food regularly ) and also with items being sold out . I have been trying to avoid gluten and dairy for around a month . I have eaten gluten a couple of times ( once by accident ) . I am also trying to avoid eggs now too . I have found that flax seeds have been helping with the bowel movements and also more exercise and fruit . I crave so many things though and I never have any healthy lunch ideas or any at all really I can make . I also have rennie after most meals . I hope you find all your triggers . I end up feeling full after not even eating much because of bloating and it’s so annoying because I want to eat and enjoy meals without stressing . I think I have the same lactose issue as you too though and also gluten ✨✨

    • @nicolewoo900
      @nicolewoo900 3 λ…„ μ „ +2

      omg i feel u that’s exactly how i feel this year (first year for me w it took it rlly sucks and i hope you find helpful techniques :( i just started taking benefiber which actually has been helping since i have the same symptoms as u so u should try it!!

    • @kasturibora9414
      @kasturibora9414 3 λ…„ μ „ +2

      Mee to from the last three years I have been suffering greatly😊. Whenever I think it's better it again become worse and hits me with pain, my frnds have junk food daily n I could not even have a lunch at restaurant, I feel inferior to them every time always get shy because of this disease πŸ™‚πŸ™‚. I have gone to every dr and what they say that it's not a disease and it will not heal cmpltly, I can't understand why the hell they can't work on ibs to make better medicines which would improve the intestines. My life has changed its course because of Ibs, I never feel happy or energetic πŸ™‚πŸ™‚. I have spend nights crying 😭😭😭. I feel like I should have some other disease instead IbsπŸ™‚πŸ™‚. It's a curse for me, I can never see myself healthy again and this breaks my heart πŸ’”.

  • @thehoneybadger1223
    @thehoneybadger1223 4 λ…„ μ „ +271

    Does anyone else hae this thing where they feel very faint and dizzy during a flare up (particularly when you're trying to hold it in)?

    • @aprilbell4525
      @aprilbell4525 4 λ…„ μ „ +23

      Yessss I always feel nauseous

    • @SRBOMBONICA86
      @SRBOMBONICA86 4 λ…„ μ „ +5

      Try mebeverine,it's anti spasmodic medication for intestines

    • @SRBOMBONICA86
      @SRBOMBONICA86 4 λ…„ μ „ +2

      @@aprilbell4525 try mebeverine,it's the only thing that calms my bowel

    • @thehoneybadger1223
      @thehoneybadger1223 4 λ…„ μ „ +1

      @@SRBOMBONICA86 I was given some from the doctor, but it increased the pressure in one of my eyes so much so that it started to impact my sight. I control mine (to an extent) through diet, it isn't perfect but it's a little more manageable

    • @SRBOMBONICA86
      @SRBOMBONICA86 4 λ…„ μ „ +1

      @@thehoneybadger1223 its great that diet helps you:)

  • @clockchest186
    @clockchest186 6 λ…„ μ „ +128

    Having IBS is awful.

    • @BeckyExcell
      @BeckyExcell  6 λ…„ μ „ +5

      Yep, totally agree :(

    • @gemini6911
      @gemini6911 3 λ…„ μ „ +2

      Ye I have had it for nine years I got it when I was two. Pure. Freaking. Hell.

    • @bestboi6215
      @bestboi6215 3 λ…„ μ „

      @@gemini6911 I’m going to the GI soon cause of my digestive disorders

  • @alecbrady6901
    @alecbrady6901 7 λ…„ μ „ +329

    IBS for me is not constant. It comes around every few months and destroys my entire life when I have it. I have noticed that the flair ups often correlate with extremes of emotion, exam periods, holidays. It is horrible, I cannot walk standing up straight, the pain is unexplainably extreme to the point where I consider going to A&E! I get IBS-C. The pain is awful where I can't even focus on my work or sit in a chair, lying in fetus is the only way through. Often after a week it is over, and I start to forget about my disease again. Sometimes it quickly comes back, maybe only a week later. Other times months later it reappears back into my life. The thing that sucks is people misunderstanding the illness - it is NOT period cramps, it is NOT me overreacting and it is NOT my diet choices!

    • @BeckyExcell
      @BeckyExcell  7 λ…„ μ „ +13

      Hi Alec, totally agree and feel for you as I know exactly what you are going through. It is totally impossible to concentrate or do anything when it gets really bad yet nobody does understand properly. I really struggle with work because of it, I just have to pretend nothing is wrong but I am in constant pain. I think stress is a massive factor, so I always hate when people say stuff about stress not really being an issue that can affect the body - it can! I hope you are getting on ok at the moment, let me know if you find anything that helps you out more xx

    • @joshuahahn7691
      @joshuahahn7691 6 λ…„ μ „

      Alec Brady I

    • @oxxxEDLESxxxo
      @oxxxEDLESxxxo 6 λ…„ μ „ +2

      hey ,if anyone else is searching for
      best medicine for ibs
      try Mackorny Defeat IBS Blueprint (do a google search ) ? Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my neighbor got amazing success with it.

    • @lucypike1160
      @lucypike1160 6 λ…„ μ „ +1

      I have never related to something more in my life!

    • @marisasultana92
      @marisasultana92 6 λ…„ μ „

      Alec Brady the exact for me! Sometimes its a whole week every 3 months..sometimes more frequent!

  • @LC-vx9dl
    @LC-vx9dl 6 λ…„ μ „ +101

    My boyfriend and I have IBS which is unfortunate considering that we are total foodies. At least we get each other.

  • @asmrlover2176
    @asmrlover2176 5 λ…„ μ „ +198

    Mine effects me every day because mine is based on anxiety and with me being in school I have a lot of anxious feelings

    • @mumzybeast6230
      @mumzybeast6230 4 λ…„ μ „ +14

      asmr_rockstar same life's not good

    • @kyaramoerike3457
      @kyaramoerike3457 4 λ…„ μ „ +18

      Same and my parents just can’t understand that when I try and talk to them about online school

    • @peterdarley5161
      @peterdarley5161 3 λ…„ μ „ +6

      Hi, this is a very well presented video. Thank you.
      I'm Elizabeth and I'm a new IBS patient but it started in 2017 but I thought it was side effects of my strong antidepressants as I have Clinical Depression.
      IBS is ruling my days and nights now. I have all the symptoms that Becky describes here. It's a comfort to know I'm not alone.
      The pain and the bloating are the worst symptoms to endure. I'm in bed. I don't want to get up. I have a psychiatrist nurse who helps me keep my mood elevated but, basically, I'm a professional artist who wants to get back into the studio!!!!!!!

    • @asmrlover2176
      @asmrlover2176 3 λ…„ μ „ +1

      Peter Darley truly I know what you’re going through ❀️ and it really does help to know others can relate I’ve had mine pushing 7 years now but hold on there are good days and bad days. I really can empathise with your point about pain and bloating I’m currently going through it right now so I have criminal minds and green tea πŸ˜‚πŸ₯° I love to write stories so I’m glad I can continue my passion while ill except for the times when it’s too painful to do anything :(

    • @ashuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu
      @ashuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu 3 λ…„ μ „ +3

      I used to be very anxious in school but my symptoms started coming in last year of schooling and still have....try meditation if you haven't tried yet, it will help.

  • @DanielleFerreira-kt7ix
    @DanielleFerreira-kt7ix 5 λ…„ μ „ +92

    I feel exactly like you, but most times I eat anyway and suffer later because I just don't know how to live without eating pretty much anything!! So frustrating...

  • @ellefrizzell5263
    @ellefrizzell5263 5 λ…„ μ „ +94

    I definitely struggle socially. I feel like people don't understand IBS. People say i'm being 'fussy' by not eating certain things but it not being fussy, it's not a free choice; it causes me pain for days!

    • @BeckyExcell
      @BeckyExcell  5 λ…„ μ „ +3

      I know that feeling!! x

    • @marym3355
      @marym3355 λ…„ μ „

      We all get criticized by people who don’t understand how it feels.

  • @aidou97
    @aidou97 4 λ…„ μ „ +163

    IBS has made me literally want to cut open my stomach and rip my intestines from my body. That's how much it hurts 😭😭😭

    • @kikikiki3216
      @kikikiki3216 3 λ…„ μ „ +3

      You read my mind

    • @nightmareseer3755
      @nightmareseer3755 3 λ…„ μ „

      Ikr😩

    • @gemini6911
      @gemini6911 3 λ…„ μ „ +1

      Yeah that’s how it feels for me like your getting torn open and everything is getting ripped out but you can’t seem to die.

    • @giovannyandrescortesrodrig2846
      @giovannyandrescortesrodrig2846 2 λ…„ μ „ +1

      I have ulcerative colitis , it goes the same, I wish I didn't have any guts , I could give up at eating.

    • @sk8catatonik
      @sk8catatonik 2 λ…„ μ „

      yes!

  • @Coastiestevie
    @Coastiestevie 6 λ…„ μ „ +76

    I have IBS too and my God, I can barely do anything. I missed work today :/

    • @BeckyExcell
      @BeckyExcell  6 λ…„ μ „ +6

      Hi Stevie, so sorry to hear that :( I hope you had an ok Christmas with it all xx

  • @xoashleylovesmusicox
    @xoashleylovesmusicox 6 λ…„ μ „ +130

    150%%% relatable !!!! Had it for about 5 years, I also suffer from anxiety and it's basically left me house bound 80% of the time.

    • @BeckyExcell
      @BeckyExcell  6 λ…„ μ „ +7

      Aw Ashley, I'm so sorry to hear that. If you ever need to chat please let me know. I find chatting helps. You shouldn't be living a life like that. Big hugs xx

    • @jairajfitnessgym-tilakwadi2366
      @jairajfitnessgym-tilakwadi2366 5 λ…„ μ „ +6

      Same here, my day starts & ends at home

    • @dao5147
      @dao5147 5 λ…„ μ „ +8

      I know how you feel. I was doing so well, and had a plan for life. Now I can barely leave the house, rarely see my friends. Couldnt continue going to school, and now the only jobs i am qaulified to apply for are always jobs that would be extreamly difficult to do with my problem. There is not that. Much oppurtunity where I live for people with anxiery and ibs. I am trying to eat healthier, but my family keeps getting unhealthy food and i cant stop myself despite trying so hard for the last 10 years. I spent years of my life thinking i am going to be doomed to disability and barely existing. Oddly enough i could bare with that but i have high achiving friends and nothing feels worse then watching them advance in their plans, while i am sitting here with this ball and chain holding me back. One day I am going to be free of this ailment. And i am going to enjoy every second of being outside.

    • @spikelee2818
      @spikelee2818 4 λ…„ μ „ +1

      @@dao5147 i am like you, I am a teen and I can't go to school for this problem...how can we live with this? I can't exit I can't work, I can't live!

    • @dao5147
      @dao5147 4 λ…„ μ „ +1

      @@spikelee2818 my best advice to you is consume nothing but water and whole foods. (Nothing proccessed) and exersise every day hard. Doing those things can go a long way.

  • @sydneykochan2388
    @sydneykochan2388 4 λ…„ μ „ +17

    IBS is quite a struggle for me as well. My symptoms flare up randomly and with no warning. Going to work (and riding the metro with no bathrooms into and out of the city) is always worrisome. Foods that I can normally eat suddenly trigger major constipation, diarrhea, and abdominal pain. For a foodie, it’s really disheartening. The worst is that gastrointestinal problems are not talked about as much as they should be, so it can be embarrassing to try to explain to coworkers and friends why I look like I’m in pain, why my stomach makes disruptive noises, and why I need to visit the restroom so often. Thanks for sharing your story, it helps to relate to someone and know that you are still able to have fun and live well with the condition.

  • @ceryshowley2496
    @ceryshowley2496 7 λ…„ μ „ +41

    I've got it to and it's ruining my life! I already have depression&anxiety and living with this brings me down even more! NOONE understands me even tho you think they do they just dontπŸ˜“

    • @BeckyExcell
      @BeckyExcell  7 λ…„ μ „ +3

      Aw I completely understand, in a way I think nobody can truly understand except you and others who have it too. It's difficult, but keep smiling, it might be worth going to the doctors and asking for a dietician appointment, not always useful but they might be able to help you. Lots of love from me xx

    • @cockatoosmom
      @cockatoosmom 5 λ…„ μ „

      Cerys Howley I understand. My life went from bad to hell. Lost 51lbs and my bones stick out. Bday is in 2 days :(

    • @mumzybeast6230
      @mumzybeast6230 4 λ…„ μ „ +1

      Same fuck my life gonna go die

    • @khitai8227
      @khitai8227 4 λ…„ μ „

      I’ve had it for 20 years I lost some friends too and jobs, but you are not alone and you can figure out how to control it too. We all have different triggers. I thought I was alone with this but I found out so many ppl have it. Find your triggers for it and try to stay positive. You are not alone

    • @usagiwhitenight
      @usagiwhitenight 4 λ…„ μ „ +1

      Cerys Howley the thing is that it’s an evil circle, you get IBS because you’ve anxiety, and you’ve anxiety because you’ve IBS. So then your IBS gets worse because you don’t feel good :(

  • @cuborican
    @cuborican 3 λ…„ μ „ +8

    Going on travel to anywhere requires so much planning. Plus I feel that I am constantly looking for where the closet bathroom is. And if there is not bathroom, my anxiety goes through the roof. Traffic is another nightmare.

  • @OnionCrisps
    @OnionCrisps 5 λ…„ μ „ +42

    IBS is the worst pain I've ever felt in my life. I was diagnosed a couple of years ago with this plague and my god.. It doesn't happen too often but when it does it feels like my insides are being ripped inside out. I literally can't do anything when it flares up. It gives me diharrea, naseau, stomach cramps that feel like I'm being stabbed repeatably, loss of appetite. It's that bad that i xqnt walk or stand up properly. The toiilet is my best friend when it comes down to IBS and endures the many many hours I'm stuck on the toilet awaiting the pain to go away.

    • @SRBOMBONICA86
      @SRBOMBONICA86 4 λ…„ μ „

      Please try mebeverine ,it's anti spasmodic for intestines ,take 3 tablets a day 30 minutes before each meal,it calmed my nervous bowel a lot:)))

  • @finlaymessichannel6706
    @finlaymessichannel6706 7 λ…„ μ „ +39

    It's so bad I'm the same 15 years no joy with anything I've tried it wears u down a lot stay positive and be strong

    • @jairajfitnessgym-tilakwadi2366
      @jairajfitnessgym-tilakwadi2366 5 λ…„ μ „ +2

      finlay Messi channel same here :( it's 20 years & I find I've not lived my life the way it should be.

    • @SRBOMBONICA86
      @SRBOMBONICA86 4 λ…„ μ „

      @@jairajfitnessgym-tilakwadi2366 try mebeverine,it's anti spasmodic for intestines ,30 minutes before every meal take 1 tablet ,so that's 3 tablets a day of mebeverine

    • @parkerenglish9773
      @parkerenglish9773 4 λ…„ μ „

      @Abukenyo Ibs can be cured 100% it is mentally disorder i had been suffiring for 2 years now i am absolutely fine i can cure u contact on whatsapp +918826601203

  • @Sarah-ty5ev
    @Sarah-ty5ev 6 λ…„ μ „ +54

    I'm so thankful that you made this video! I was diagnosed with IBS earlier this year, and I've had such a difficult time adjusting to the way life is now. One of the hardest parts for me has been trying to adjust my social life because many of my friends don't seem to understand. Luckily for me, it runs in my family, so they all understand. It always helps to know other people are having the same problems!

    • @BeckyExcell
      @BeckyExcell  6 λ…„ μ „ +5

      Yeah definitely, if I didn't have Mark I think I would struggle a lot more. People try to be understanding but a lot of people I find just really don't get it. They just tell me they are bloated too... but IBS is so much more than that!

  • @karlieshay
    @karlieshay 4 λ…„ μ „ +26

    I feel this video so much. IBS is so mentally and physically straining and I feel like I find new symptoms of stomach pains every single day. My IBS bothers me every day and it seems everything I eat hurts my stomach in some way or form; I wake up and immediately feel pain. Just last night, I woke up with anxiety and my chest was hurting-for a moment I thought I was experiencing symptoms for a heart attack but it ended up just being my IBS and Acid Reflux. Never felt those sensations of being faint and clammy in the middle of the night, with muscle pain nearby, so it was concerning. Hope everyone is coping somehow in their own ways.

  • @Joe-mt7km
    @Joe-mt7km 4 λ…„ μ „ +4

    Oh my God, Becky. SAME!!! I am sending this to everyone I know so I don’t have to say it. You posted this over a year ago and it’s still helping people. Thank you from the bottom of my aching gutπŸ™.

  • @fpfpfpfppf
    @fpfpfpfppf 4 λ…„ μ „ +3

    Thank you so much for sharing and bringing us all together. My IBS pains keep me up at night and it's so upsetting and frustrating. But I enjoy watching your videos, they are a great help and it's nice not to feel alone with this even though its such hard work!!

  • @hayzychick
    @hayzychick 6 λ…„ μ „ +30

    Thank you for making this video, my ibs the last 2 weeks has been so painful, everyone always rolls they’re eyes when I mention it or cancel plans 😒

    • @BeckyExcell
      @BeckyExcell  6 λ…„ μ „ +4

      No problem, such a shame that people don't understand. They should really think... why would you really want to cancel?! Hope you are feeling better than the last couple of weeks x

    • @hayzychick
      @hayzychick 6 λ…„ μ „ +3

      Becky Excell exactly! I’ll feel better soon mine is bad at the moment as we go on holiday Monday so I’m stressing about food and travel lol anxiety and ibs really don’t mix well πŸ˜‚ xx

  • @benwarzeski7227
    @benwarzeski7227 7 λ…„ μ „ +18

    Hey Becky,
    Thank you so much for making this video. You described one of the most frustrating, and isolating, parts of my life as if you were in my head.
    I have been suffering from IBS... I think for most of my life. Only recently diagnosed, I grew up thinking I was just super picky, and had constant stomach bugs. I got in trouble for the number of times I stayed home, to the point where I started questioning if I was "faking it". "I mean... my stomach hurts, but I'm not actively vomiting and I don't have a fever, so maybe I should just go in. This is something everyone probably deals with". I really thought that everyone dealt with what I was dealing with, but I was just weaker. I was the one who wanted to stay home just because my stomach hurt. I didn't realize that most people would have stayed home on any number of the days that I went in, because it just became my normal.
    It wasn't until I had a Gastro doc tell me (2 years ago) that my constant nausea was not normal, and diagnosed me with IBS that I took a look and noticed that most of the things I am picky about are things that generally trigger people with IBS. Its so easy to say that the kid who doesn't like vegetables is just picky, but I really didn't feel well when I ate those things.
    Going to people's houses for dinner has always been, and remains now that I am diagnosed, one of my biggest fears. I've started warning people before-hand: "I'm a really picky eater because of my stomach. Please don't be offended if I don't eat what you make. I can take care of myself, I just want you guys to enjoy yourselves"...
    Now that I am diagnosed... I don't know how well I'm handling it. Trying the diet stuff (low FODMAP, high soluble fiber), I have a probiotic supplement with gut probiotics and digestive enzymes, and take peppermint pills occasionally to battle symptoms. Really hard to tell if anything is helping, especially as I had to stay home from work today on account of how badly my stomach hurts.
    Hoping to see some positive effect over time, but with the amount of conflicting information out there, its hard.

  • @angiexgs3731
    @angiexgs3731 7 λ…„ μ „ +65

    I can relate to everything u said I have ibs as well 😞stay strong πŸ’ͺπŸ’›

  • @MissThomylu
    @MissThomylu 7 λ…„ μ „ +3

    This is amazing. Honestly I feel so alone and fed up with this horrible condition. It's comforting to know I'm not the only one who struggles. Thank you for posting. Hope you will do some more of these videos soon xxx

    • @BeckyExcell
      @BeckyExcell  7 λ…„ μ „ +1

      Hi Lucy, thanks for the comment. I will definitely be making more of these videos, I find it comforting to make them. I really hope you are having a lovely day and your IBS isn't raging. Just be positive (as much as you can!!) xx

  • @gabby-st7ul
    @gabby-st7ul 3 λ…„ μ „ +9

    got diagnosed 2 years ago and since then have felt vey isolated and misunderstood. people dont undestand how taxing it is on your legitimate EVERY DAY life. thankyou for making this video, felt like a big hug.

  • @trudyronnie5609
    @trudyronnie5609 5 λ…„ μ „ +2

    Thank you Becky for your honesty. I'm sorry for your suffering!
    You are the first person I have listened to, whose story is my life.
    Years of pain, so many doctors, tests, dietitians, naturopaths, alternate therapies, psychologists and on and on...
    Work colleagues and friends don't understand and my husband tries, but I know struggles with my constant quest to figure it out.
    Listening to you I don't feel alone.

  • @ursurada
    @ursurada 3 λ…„ μ „ +3

    Thanks for sharing your struggle Becky! I have ibs too, and havent met anyone with ibs yet, so i am struggling alone. Most people dont understand it. It took me 10 years to understand what to eat, and i am still trying to figure it out! But, i have a supportive husband that eats low fodmap meals with me!

  • @karabrockhall
    @karabrockhall 6 λ…„ μ „ +50

    When I was diagnosed with ibs about 5 years ago I did a lot of research, as I was in so much pain most days! I took the decision to go Vegan & have stayed vegan for the past 5 years, I stay clear of all my trigger foods & all animal products, I haven't had any pain at all in the last 3yrs 😊 I know going vegan isn't for everyone but, it gave me my life back! 😊

    • @BeckyExcell
      @BeckyExcell  6 λ…„ μ „ +3

      That's great to hear Kara, I'm so glad you have your life back & you're happier for it πŸ’œ

    • @janetrodriguez5001
      @janetrodriguez5001 2 λ…„ μ „ +3

      That’s great! I would like to do the same but one of my main concerns is loosing weight since I’m already so small. Having a goals to gain weight is hard when you have ibs:(

    • @sydnaps1995
      @sydnaps1995 λ…„ μ „ +1

      Yep I'm transitioning to being vegan but there's a lot of filler proteins and veggies I can't have. It's definitely helped tho.

  • @UrGirlCharlz
    @UrGirlCharlz 4 κ°œμ›” μ „ +2

    Sending all my prayers to people with ibs .i dont deal with it myself but now that I've watched this i feel really bad KEEP ON GOING you got this!

  • @susansorrentino2278
    @susansorrentino2278 6 λ…„ μ „ +17

    I can relate so much, I'm always in pain and its the worst feeling I've been in for a colonoscopy and endoscopy and all these other tests and it sucks so much the pain the always and I can barely do anything I'm practically forced to stay in because I hate going out when I feel so miserable and when I do go out the most I see are new bathrooms. I hate when people say it's all in my head the pain when obviously it isn't. I'm so happy I'm not alone and that other people can relate to what I feel. thank you for posting this

    • @BeckyExcell
      @BeckyExcell  6 λ…„ μ „ +2

      Hi Susan, that sounds terrible. I must admit my IBS really gets me down sometimes and I don't always feel like being around lots of people. I mean, who wants to be around me when I'm grumpy because of pain?! I really hope yours improves though. I'll keep my fingers crossed :) xx

    • @giltgirl1
      @giltgirl1 5 λ…„ μ „ +1

      Susan Sorrentino yes I start thinking it’s all in my head too but it’s not, it’s painful

    • @kathrynxx4540
      @kathrynxx4540 5 λ…„ μ „

      You’re definitely not alone, keep going ❀️

    • @harrisonmidgley9759
      @harrisonmidgley9759 4 λ…„ μ „

      Is it any better nowadays

  • @lovelylily28
    @lovelylily28 7 λ…„ μ „ +4

    hi Becky. I'm glad I found your channel a year ago. I have been suffering with IBS for the last 12 years. my doctors tried me on different medication and none of them helped. So then they changed my diet and realized that gluten, wheat, alcohol and dairy are the main sources that make me have problems. I have pain, I have to toilet a lot and sometimes get sick or nauseous. since my diet change it has got a bit better but still have problems. last April I was in severe pain, couldn't keep any food in. It was awful, It got so bad I ended up in hospital for 2 weeks. watching your videos though shows me I'm not alone. also watching your hauls gives me good ideas on food to try. I'm sorry you have to suffer like me I feel your pain. Thank you for the videos look forward to lots more xxx

    • @BeckyExcell
      @BeckyExcell  7 λ…„ μ „ +2

      Hi Lily, thanks so much for the comment. Really sorry to hear you suffer so much with your IBS. I hope you are a lot better than when you had to go into hospital, hopefully its more under control now. Yep I find it reassuring that I am not alone and we are all in this together. If you ever want to chat, let me know xx

  • @sadielaffoon7622
    @sadielaffoon7622 7 λ…„ μ „ +1

    Hi Becky! I've been struggling with awful stomach pain, cramps, weight loss, and so so many digestive problems. Was on a gluten free diet for about a month which was really difficult. Have had loads of tests done on me. (Thyroid, celiac, upper endoscopy, HIDA scan, and other blood tests have been ran on me) and they still haven't found out what's wrong with me. They started giving me medicine for IBS but it's been causing me to have awful side effects like sleep paralysis. I agree with you about always having stomach pain & it bringing you down. It's so hard for me to go hangout and have fun bc my stomach hurts so bad. And it wakes me up so much at night. I relate to your video so much. Thank you for sharing!!

  • @guyhunt475
    @guyhunt475 2 λ…„ μ „

    I loved the video, it's nice to know there are people who feel the same on a daily basis

  • @peng2732
    @peng2732 4 λ…„ μ „ +2

    My friend recently got diagnosed and I’m trying to learn everything I can so i can attempt to help her out in any way I can thank you for showing more what it’s like instead of just describing symptoms and how to know if you have it

  • @mapp4751
    @mapp4751 5 λ…„ μ „ +1

    sad to see such a young and attractive girl dealing with this! i am 65 diagnosed with IBS ABOUT 4 years ago still struggling with it! no pain but the bloating and general discomfort is unreal and certainly affects one's life! i am suprised and saddened by the number of young people dealing with this! all the best to you Becky and all others coping with this illness!

  • @reb109
    @reb109 λ…„ μ „ +3

    I love seeing this community. I suffer from IBS after immense stress and binge drinking cold drinks. Now my main trigger is the cold. When I get anxious, I feel a sense of cold sweat that makes me feel colder, triggering my stomach. During mornings or rainy days, I get very sensitive and would have to wear tons of layers. I’m so jealous of people who could live their dream teenager life and dress now they want to.

  • @rhiannonbritten1594
    @rhiannonbritten1594 6 λ…„ μ „ +8

    I suffer from IBS everyday. I've had it for two years, and I absolutely hate it. I constantly bloat, feel sick and go to the bathroom. I cannot eat fruit, nuts, pulses, lentils, beans, gluten and dairy. It is great that you are doing KRplus videos, it is nice to have someone to relate to! As a lot of friends and family do not understand, nor do many doctors. I find exercise helps, peppermint tea and the Low Fod Map Diet.

    • @BeckyExcell
      @BeckyExcell  6 λ…„ μ „ +1

      HI Rhiannon, so sorry to hear you've been struggling with IBS like me, it sucks right! Sounds like you have very similar issues to me as well... so many things to avoid :( I've found some exercise helps and definitely peppermint tea too! x

    • @lukecohen9833
      @lukecohen9833 11 κ°œμ›” μ „

      ​@@BeckyExcell my best friend sadly has it but one time we went to a hockey game and thru out the game she had to go to the bathroom 20 times and on the car ride home she had to go a another 10 times she said she won't really leave her house hope you get better

  • @krystianajacinto6324
    @krystianajacinto6324 6 λ…„ μ „ +10

    Thank you so much for you IBS hacks. Had IBS since I was 10 and it's been hard. It's nerve racking when going on road trips because I constantly need to have the comfort of a restroom around me. I even passed up a free Disneyland trip because of my IBS :(

    • @BeckyExcell
      @BeckyExcell  6 λ…„ μ „

      No problem, I do find mine gets in the way of me doing things too, even if I don't want it to :( Sorry to hear it stopped you going to Disneyland that sucks! Hope you do get to go sometime though xx

    • @NewEraChi
      @NewEraChi 5 λ…„ μ „

      I get sick every time I travel out of town. It doesn’t matter if I’m on a plane, train, or in an automobile, I always end up sick. I ended up in the ER on my last trip cause I was dehydrated from not eating or drinking all day.

    • @hellosunshine2460
      @hellosunshine2460 5 λ…„ μ „

      i’m so sorry! i feel the same way

    • @brainbean3104
      @brainbean3104 3 λ…„ μ „

      @@NewEraChi same lol I didnt drink or eat an entire day in hopes that I wouldnt need to use the toilet

  • @kkmak1000
    @kkmak1000 7 λ…„ μ „

    I'm having a rough day with the ibs and came across you vid. Felt like you were speaking my language and were so spot on about what we go through..im 33 and got diagnosed with his when I was 27 although I know I had it all my life..I quit drinking 2 months ago and am trying to eat clean but like you said even when you stick to plain food I still get bloated and drained. The things is it takes the enjoyment out of life, really effects your mood and energy levels I feel like binge eatting sometimes to get through the days (which I try not to do). I know there's no cure so have to try and stay positive I have cut out diary and other foods etc and am trying to run a few times a week to help the bowls. The only thing I find helps is peppermint tea and drinking lots of cold water to loosen up the bowls. Make more vids good job it helps when you have people you can relate to when feel down from ibs..😎

  • @julialubitz199
    @julialubitz199 6 λ…„ μ „ +1

    I totally get it!! Glad I'm not alone.

  • @pablotescobar2744
    @pablotescobar2744 λ…„ μ „ +13

    hey guys, were all in this together, stay strong πŸ’ͺ finally speaking to a gastroenterologist this week after waiting for six months. current state of NHS is appalling. its hard to stay positive, its hard when you know people don't understand. But we mustn't let this consume us. Let's come together, this comment section is here for you. Feel free to talk here. it really helps me to talk about my struggles. keep going pooper troopers πŸ˜‰

    • @beckydiaz365
      @beckydiaz365 λ…„ μ „

      I feel like I’m on a thread. I get so emotional but prayer, writing journals has help ease the anxiety. I also have an appointment with a gastroenterologist and I’m nervous and happy. It just sucks that sometime we have to go through this but the comment section is helping me

  • @marytorti2135
    @marytorti2135 3 λ…„ μ „ +1

    Hello Becky glad to watch your video today. I have suffered from this terrible disease for many many years. I never knew what I had because there was no way to find out in my village. Just recently I heard about colitis/ IBS/Ibd . It nice in a weird way to know that I am not in this alone. I have felt all alone for a long time

    • @parkerenglish9773
      @parkerenglish9773 3 λ…„ μ „

      IBS can be cured permanently believe me. I had suffered IBS for 6 years and now i have cured myself 100% There is no need to pay even a single dollar to anyone. They just want to mint money.I can help You and don't worry I don't charge anything just a step towards humanity
      You can contact me on instagram
      "parker_1989_ " or on whatsapp "+918826601203"
      Be strong,

  • @angelsRsinging
    @angelsRsinging 6 λ…„ μ „ +3

    You are absolutely not alone Becky:) I have anxiety and recently my life has gone through a real whirl wind of stressors so the IBS Bitch came out to play for Christmas. Wish I could smother her with my stocking-_- When I have to give presentations, write exams, or get together with new people my IBS flares up and makes it sooooo much worse. I have been in severe pain and cried with panic attacks because I felt like I was going to die and all my internal organs were going to explode. I thankfully have a wonderful family who helps me calm down though. Anyways, like I've said before thank you for the comforting words and support. I feel so much more calm and that's because of you. Merry Christmas Becky!xxx

    • @BeckyExcell
      @BeckyExcell  6 λ…„ μ „

      Aww that is so kind of you to say, glad I can help you out. Also so glad you have a supportive family, that makes such a difference. Haha I'd love to smother IBS with my stocking too, I wish we could!!! Hope you have a lovely Xmas IBS attack free xxxxx

  • @vanessasegaline4173
    @vanessasegaline4173 7 λ…„ μ „ +1

    Thank you so much for sharing! It really helps me understand IBS more! I was told that I have IBS but I really don't know anything about it or where to start changing my diet.

    • @BeckyExcell
      @BeckyExcell  7 λ…„ μ „ +1

      no problem, the thing with IBS and the reason that it is not something that can be cured is that everyone's is slightly different. The main thing is that you learn what your IBS is like and manage it as best you can. Good luck xx

  • @karmah2620
    @karmah2620 λ…„ μ „

    hey im 22 with ibs , had it for years now. its really bad as im only just started to kinda follow the low fodmap diet. thanks for posting this. helps alot to know im not alone. youre strong

  • @dhananjaytalwar7565
    @dhananjaytalwar7565 λ…„ μ „ +2

    I empathise with this so much!
    Particularly that other people (including doctors) keeeep telling me that it’s psychological/in my head when it clearly isn’t! So frustrating!

  • @oliverstrika5201
    @oliverstrika5201 4 λ…„ μ „ +11

    A few things that helped me:
    Ginger tea
    L-glutamin
    Slippery elm
    Hot-Lemon water
    ACV
    Cinamon
    Turmeric+black pepper
    Liquid clorophyl
    Spirulina
    Probiotics
    Digestive enzymes
    Collagen / beef gelatin
    D3+k2 vitamin
    Omega3 (fish or krill oil)
    C vitamin
    Bone broth on daily basis
    Liquorice root tea
    Coconut oil
    Pepermint oil
    About food...following a low fodmap diet, dairy free (except ghee because its pure fat without casein and lactose, very beneficial for gut healing) , gluten free ass well and legumes free as well, focus on cia seeds, good quality fats like i mentioned coconut and ghee, from grains choose millet, rice, quinoa or buckwheat, as much leafy greens as much you can, raw red cabadge, soft egg yolks , try to drink at least 2l of water a day, stay hidrated, moderate excercise (3x a weak), reduce stress to minimum, and try some meditation, deep breathing, or some other mind relaxing, spiritual rutine on a daily basis, all the best for every1 :)

  • @maisyteresa1874
    @maisyteresa1874 6 λ…„ μ „

    I was only just diagnosed with IBS after trying to find an anwser with what was wrong. I find it so hard in school because when I eat it makes me feel sooo ill. I used to feel like I was the only one suffering but I'm happy I found your channel xx

  • @LauraHeartTwilight
    @LauraHeartTwilight 7 λ…„ μ „ +19

    This video is the most relate-able things ever. I've had IBS my whole life, diagnosed when I was 10 and I am now 22. The main part of my life it affects is my social life I would say, like you said I don't want to burden anyone and talk about my pain constantly but, that leads to me pushing people away because I just can't do things sometimes. Like you said, if other people were in the pain you are in they probably wouldn't go out that day. People tend to perceive me as being a flake or lazy, but I just don't have the energy to explain why most of the time, and it's usually answered with "Oh I think I have a bit of IBS too"... (If I had a pound for every time someone told me that.)
    Personally, I've been on the low fodmap diet since September (very strictly) which has helped somewhat. But, of course, even on a good day i have cramps, I'm just used to them. It has just made it slightly more manageable I guess. I'm also looking into candida overgrowth at the moment. It's still an absolute mine field, there are so many different things linked with my systems, I have no idea what I'm doing. But, I'm trying to become active in the IBS community rather than keep it all to myself. That's basically why I'm leaving this comment lol.
    Thanks for sharing your IBS story! :) #subscribed

    • @BeckyExcell
      @BeckyExcell  7 λ…„ μ „ +2

      Hi Laura,
      Thanks so much for your comment, its the reason I make videos like this - not just to help you, but you've just made me feel better.. knowing I'm not alone! Everything you just said I can completely agree with. No one can understand but us, I don't expect them to though, IBS is so frickin weird. Glad to hear low fodmap is helping somewhat, but yeah a 'good' day for me is definitely still a day with some pain... do you remember the last day you didn't have any pain?! me neither! If you ever wanna chat, let me know xx

    • @LauraHeartTwilight
      @LauraHeartTwilight 7 λ…„ μ „

      It is nice to feel like you're not the only one aha! Will do, and same here! :) xx

    • @SRBOMBONICA86
      @SRBOMBONICA86 4 λ…„ μ „

      Try mebeverine ,it's the ONLY thing that helps my intestinal cramps

  • @thimbledust9356
    @thimbledust9356 6 λ…„ μ „ +1

    I know your pain. Constant struggle. You have to pretend. I do but York always in pain to the point I want to cry. just started low FODMAPS eating plan and already having results but still some pain when I wake up every morning. Keep at it darling. You have helped me a lot. Thankyou so so much xxx

    • @BeckyExcell
      @BeckyExcell  6 λ…„ μ „

      Thanks so much and so glad I have helped you out too xx

  • @caraosang5952
    @caraosang5952 7 λ…„ μ „ +11

    Totally get it! I was constantly bloated to the point where I would constantly be asked when my baby is due. When I realised that I had a gluten and slight egg intolerance and cut them out the constant bloating went away so that I only bloat out when I eat a small amount of gluten. I still suffer with feeling bloated, constipation and excess gas with some times being worse than others. It gets really bad during my "time of the month" (sorry boys) and stress is a huge trigger as well. This week I've had to try a new hormone medication because I have some gyney issues and that triggered it off. I'm only just adapting after 5 days but it's still a bit sensitive so I have to keep food fairly bland and easy to digest. I find that yoga really helps. I do it everyday. There are certain poses that ease bloating, gas and constipation and it also helps calm the mind.

    • @BeckyExcell
      @BeckyExcell  7 λ…„ μ „ +1

      yeah I agree on time of the month, that affects me more too. i live on fairly bland foods as it helps me. I've also been thinking of trying yoga, never done it before but it's good to know it helps you :) I hope you are getting on ok xx

    • @caraosang5952
      @caraosang5952 7 λ…„ μ „

      You can find specific yoga poses for relieving ibs, constipation and trapped gas on the internet and it helps to calm the mind and keep you focussed on something other than your symptoms. I just find that it effects my self esteem and confidence more than anything. When I feel particularly gassy (sorry for all the crude details by the way), I feel dirty and smelly (even though It's probably not noticable) and when I'm bloated, I want to hide my body away which is not easy when you do activities such as dance and gymnastics (I once put a video up of me practicing a skill on facebook and someone commented on it asking if I'd put on weight (I hadn't, I was just bloated). I've also taken activated charcoal tablets on occasions when I'm really bad (such as when I eat gluten) as it helps remove toxins from the body but they should only be used on an occasional basis

  • @mary1037
    @mary1037 6 λ…„ μ „ +6

    its so nice your partner is able to relate to you having IBS

    • @BeckyExcell
      @BeckyExcell  6 λ…„ μ „ +1

      It is really helpful, we both have IBS so we can really help each other a lot... nobody understands IBS like a fellow IBS sufferer does!

  • @themanhimself5650
    @themanhimself5650 11 κ°œμ›” μ „

    Needed this to know we arnt alone, ibs is rhe worst and its so misunderstood by those who dont have it 😒 thank you for being open and starting discussion with all of us ❀

  • @Alice-eb2qu
    @Alice-eb2qu 6 λ…„ μ „ +1

    OMG! We understand each other soooo much! Thanks for your video! I have the same problems in the same situations... and people don't understand it! "It is just your mind" is the sentence that I HATE hahaha' I really wanna hug you!

    • @BeckyExcell
      @BeckyExcell  6 λ…„ μ „

      Aww Alice, glad you get me!! I knew there were people out there who have to deal with the same sort of things! x

  • @cockatoosmom
    @cockatoosmom 5 λ…„ μ „ +4

    Love your astrological top. I am a Pisces & IBS-D has really ruined everything

  • @ducks_r_da_best
    @ducks_r_da_best 5 κ°œμ›” μ „ +2

    I have had IBS since I was 7. I have to cut myself off from other activities a lot because my stomach.
    I also have lots of mental issues. One of those being anxiety. When I get anxious my stomach hurts so much more than it usually does.

  • @KaylynBartlett
    @KaylynBartlett 7 λ…„ μ „ +2

    Hey girl! I am so sorry you suffer from IBS! I started The Way of Kay to document the things I have done to heal my IBS and live a more happy + healthy lifestyle now that I am free from debilitating pain along with the depression and social anxiety living with such a weird condition brings on. Anyway, I threw up every day for almost two years, and towards the end I could barely work or go to class, I was so bloated and in so much pain with cramping and nausea. I spent a year trying every diet (FODMAP, Paleo, Keto, Low carb, HIGH carb, raw til 4, SCD) and felt WORSE! And it hit me! The reason there are so many diets out there to help IBS is because we are all different! We all have different ratios of bacteria in our gut.
    I am a nutrition student and one of my professors told us while studying GI disease that the best way to ensure a proper ratio of our microflora is to eat fiber! So that's what I did, I cut out all foods with no fiber for 2 weeks and just ate whole plant foods. After doing that, I was able to add in vegan ice cream, maple syrup, and other non-whole food plant based items that normally would have sent me running to the bathroom! I just want you to know there are answers and there are a TON of success stories of people who have managed their IBS through diet and lifestyle, and attacks are 99% preventable once you find a way of eating that works for YOU. That's what my channel is all about, finding a healthy balance that works for YOU!
    I wish you the best on your healing journey! Nutritionfacts.org has some great information on the microbiome I highly recommend! Also Dr. John McDougall has some digestive trouble shoot seminars here on KRplus that really helped me out!

    • @BeckyExcell
      @BeckyExcell  7 λ…„ μ „ +1

      thanks for all the details, that's super useful :) xx

  • @zelialoana3986
    @zelialoana3986 3 λ…„ μ „ +1

    Thank you for making this video! I mean i have ibs and it sucks as bad as you describe it, eats you life out. Sometimes i want to die, art is one thing that helps me keep going, also if y’ve never tried it, kratom does wonder for pain and can be a substitute to alcohol, it helps my ins, but it’s a narcotic natural drug, every individual is diferent, i woudlnt just recomend it, but you can read about it and decide for yourself, so many hugs, love your chanel☺️

  • @subho8141
    @subho8141 10 κ°œμ›” μ „

    It's totally relatable.
    It's so much of frustration.
    To work with this is more frustrating as no one understands how it actually feels inside..

  • @honeybunny7467
    @honeybunny7467 3 λ…„ μ „

    Hi so glad I have found you. I was suppose to go out for dinner with friends yesterday, and all day I was in pain and hadn’t eaten anything all day, and low a behold, I had a flare up due to stress about going out, and ended up not going, and it’s my sons birthday today and I have been ill all morning, so I’m staying home. It’s just getting so bad now! I just don’t know how much longer I can go on like this, I’m so scared to leave my house xoxo

    • @parkerenglish9773
      @parkerenglish9773 3 λ…„ μ „

      Trust me, IBS can be cured I had IBS not now i am completely cured with some medications and will power. You can also get rid of this problem. Don't spend even a single dollar in joining stupid programs and all. I can help you without charging anything, feel free to contact me on instagram "flourishyourenglish" or whatsapp me on +918826601203

  • @damnationdaniel4726
    @damnationdaniel4726 λ…„ μ „ +14

    Having IBS as a dude is hard. You feel constantly judged by your friends, made fun of for it and none of them truly understand that it's not just "the shitting disease haha". Friends and family try to be supportive, but it's truly hard for them to understand just how awful it feels - and when you're feeling fine between flares even you begin to forget. It's a detriment to your life and it usually starts at a young age which is even worse... its lifelong.

    • @donew1thita11
      @donew1thita11 11 κ°œμ›” μ „ +1

      Yeah as. A dude they think u being a sissy and stuff like wtf if it’s a woman they understanding

    • @joshaicrag7113
      @joshaicrag7113 11 κ°œμ›” μ „ +1

      Ikr I think I got it too and my bowel habits differs day by day sometimes it's type5 and the next it's type 3 or 4 or sometimes mixed and the unpleasant feeling won't leave me alone except after doing calisthenics and riding bicycle during mornings and relaxing at night

    • @rexncaesar345
      @rexncaesar345 3 κ°œμ›” μ „

      Exactly. Men have it too

  • @leighbarber8223
    @leighbarber8223 3 λ…„ μ „ +1

    Found this after being diagnosed with ibs in the last few weeks and I’m glad I did

  • @sixwingproductions
    @sixwingproductions 7 λ…„ μ „ +16

    at least your list is constant mine is random one day something wont bother me the next it will make me sick. but i have gurd to so yeah fun.

    • @BeckyExcell
      @BeckyExcell  7 λ…„ μ „ +3

      you would think that, but my list is pretty random too. those are just the definites, then every other food in the world will affect me one day and then not the next :( its horrible isn't it... hang in there! x

  • @tahliah6691
    @tahliah6691 6 λ…„ μ „ +5

    I find peppermint or spearmint tea helpful and the peppermint capsules before food are a great relief.

  • @hannahsimpson8587
    @hannahsimpson8587 6 λ…„ μ „ +1

    I’m 17 and I have had ibs for all my life and sometimes,, and I hate it when people who don’t have say it’s not that bad but it is because it affects my everyday life I used to run all the time but it’s gotten so bad that I just sit at home in pain I don’t know what it’s like to be normal 😭 and I’m sorry to hear you have it as well no sure should go through this it’s horrible

  • @carolgreen5448
    @carolgreen5448 λ…„ μ „ +2

    You nailed it exactly how I live each day...usually in the bathroom. The constant pain, bloating feeling like crap ( no pun intended) I dread going anywhere as I have to scan every loo. I can't eat out. 😫

    • @lukecohen9833
      @lukecohen9833 λ…„ μ „ +1

      I have a best friend who has ibs,chrons,lactose and gluten intolerant and she says it sucks

  • @luna9659
    @luna9659 λ…„ μ „ +1

    Amen. I am here with gastritis/endometrosis /ibs that is continously getting worse to the point ive landed in the hospital for 5 days at a time on a few occasions with colitis symtoms as well i work only part time because i was let go for being sick so much having to take days off ever so often its so stressful, painful and depressing . Doctors solution to everything is just taking deep breaths and happy thoughts ..they always think we are being dramatic or are drugseekers . So many people have this yet we know next to nothing about how to treat it.

  • @abbiexx21216
    @abbiexx21216 5 λ…„ μ „ +6

    It affects my life every single day. I’m really struggling to cope with it! I hate it😫

  • @pianoart7460
    @pianoart7460 2 λ…„ μ „

    You are so cool. You are my voice! It’s sucks. This is my life too!ibs with bloating and constipation. I want to be your friend and I thank you so much for sharing. It helps me to listen to your story which is also my story

  • @MrAkarock
    @MrAkarock 6 λ…„ μ „ +24

    Yes people consider me anti social but I'm not. Lost so many friends bcuz of ibs and no one understands u

  • @JoeKennedy-iz6bj
    @JoeKennedy-iz6bj 3 κ°œμ›” μ „ +1

    Living with IBS is no joke. I also have diverticulitis so I have to watch eating greasy foods, but the flare up’s happen out of no where and the pain be unbearable. Usually happens over night and nothing like being woken up to extreme pain. I’ll sit on the toilet in the dark for 2+ hours waiting for the β€œplug” to come out to get relief. I’m really sorry for what you are going through

  • @candrasteenkamp5992
    @candrasteenkamp5992 5 λ…„ μ „ +1

    Hi I just watched your video and I can relate on so many levels. Literally my life has changed tremendously after being diagnosed with ibs. I had problems with my stomach for years. Either diahorrea or constipation, a lot of gas and constant bloating and I never knew what it was. Now that I know and now that it has escalated I am so miserable about it all. My family has big parties all the time and now I can't have any of the things at the party so I practically can't attend them because people don't understand ibs. Most people think it's in your mind but no one understands the constant pain I have on a daily basis. I'm a mother of one and my husband doesn't understand ibs at all so he thinks I'm overreacting. It's really overwhelming. I have a 9 to 5 job and some days I need to be away from work and I feel so bad cause it makes me look incompetent. I'm just so glad that there are people out there that feel the way I do and that go through the same things I do. It's really nice watching your videos it makes me feel better about my situation.

  • @RealDirectioner
    @RealDirectioner 7 λ…„ μ „

    I also suffered from IBS but it was because of the contraceptive pill (even though it's not listed as a side effect). It disappeared after I stopped taking the pill, but I really sympathise with you and hope that you can find new ways to live with it. Stay strong xx

    • @BeckyExcell
      @BeckyExcell  7 λ…„ μ „

      Thanks Melissa, I have wondered in the past if that was what caused mine so I took a break from it for a while and it didn't make a difference :( glad yours has disappeared! great news :) x

  • @gsmusic2009
    @gsmusic2009 5 λ…„ μ „

    I'm 100 percent with you, I am not as strict on the diet But I'm trying and its not easy! its rough and it affects you. I try to stay busy that helps sometimes lol

  • @Lucailey
    @Lucailey λ…„ μ „

    I have IBS too and lately it's been a real struggle. I have only recently joined a support group on facebook and asked the questions ive been wondering about. I think it has really just dawned on me that these stomach ached ive been getting since as far back as i can remember were probably always connected to ibs.

  • @egidijasiaulyte1916
    @egidijasiaulyte1916 4 λ…„ μ „ +3

    It’s so stressful . I’ll go a few months without having no symptoms and then it just hits me and lasts for weeks and it is awful . When I want to eat I know that it will cause consequences to the point where I literally just cry on my floor. Sometimes even drinking water makes me sick because of it πŸ˜•

  • @irishdancer9898
    @irishdancer9898 7 λ…„ μ „ +3

    I really struggled when I was first diagnosed with cutting so many food out of my diet. I found, eventually, with the help of my doctor that only some foods that are high in FODMAPS caused me to be symptomatic. I also have found taking daily probiotics to be super helpful in being able to add certain foods back into my diet! My doctor also initially had me basically cleanse my bowels with some pretty strong medication to give me a fresher start and reduce the constant pain to only when i ate something i shouldnt

  • @sk8catatonik
    @sk8catatonik 2 λ…„ μ „ +2

    Thank you. I feel validated whenni see ppl telling their IBS stories. I feel less alone in this. Question, how do you deal with work? Theres so many times i cant go because of a flare up....and bosses hate "excuses"

  • @dominicbalise8985
    @dominicbalise8985 4 λ…„ μ „ +41

    I have IBS-M and I have a particular scenario I would like to share:
    First off, IBS-M includes constipation and diarrhea
    I was at Macy’s with my mom and my sister and I had been having some lower abdominal pain (this was before my diagnosis). I started REALLY feeling the pain and so I just sat down on one of the beds, and I literally thought I was going to die. I then thought I was about to crap my pants so I ran to the bathroom and sat there for 30 minutes and like a tiny nugget came out. My sister was getting annoyed because she wanted to go hole, it then when we got in the car, j felt the pain and the urge again. As soon as I got home, I went straight to the toilet, and, well, the flood gates opened. I felt fine, but then five minutes later, I got pain again, so I went back to the bathroom and had another bowel movement. The whole thing lasted for an hour but after all of the πŸ’© was out of me, I felt a lot better.
    ALSO! Does anybody else get pain when they take a deep breath when they are having an IBS movement?
    Thank you for taking the time to read this, and have a wonderful day.

    • @diamondlara4368
      @diamondlara4368 3 λ…„ μ „ +8

      You described my exact pain

    • @Helsyedd172
      @Helsyedd172 3 λ…„ μ „ +4

      I’m so sorry I know exactly how this feels 😭

    • @sairra8664
      @sairra8664 3 λ…„ μ „ +3

      I have the exact same IBS and it's everyday for me. No matter what I eat or what time of day I eat it. The worst part is when I have an IBS attack(that's what I call it) and my family and I are on a road trip and we stop for gas and suddenly I'm stuck in the only woman's one person bathroom for hours... I feel like crap(no pun intended) literally. And just when I think I'm done I'm not... :'( and I was never like this before I had my gull bladder removed.

    • @dominicbalise8985
      @dominicbalise8985 3 λ…„ μ „

      Sairra Ellingson oh my gosh that sounds awful

    • @Z3R0FiR3
      @Z3R0FiR3 4 κ°œμ›” μ „

      I have IBS-C...spent most of my life with it but didnt get diagnosed offically with IBS until 2018. I can go a week without going and then when I do it's hell. Literally sitting in the restroom for hours. Then when I get done.. i'll go lie down and if I put any pressure on my butt i'll have to go again... during my school days when I was a kid teachers and school nurses thought I was mental and were always annoyed with me... was a huge depressive headache.

  • @mercedezmunoz0128
    @mercedezmunoz0128 λ…„ μ „

    Mama!! u are a life saver ❀️ I got diagnosed on Tuesday after 1 year suffering. IBS I am Happy because I was told is was Cancer
    Is e bitter and sweet thing.. No cancer but a syndrome that is difficult to live whit.
    thank you 😊

  • @ICONICPARIS
    @ICONICPARIS λ…„ μ „ +2

    I suffer from IBS every since I was a child. It use to be called a nervous stomach. I've pretty much become a recluse. I just go to work and come home. Sometimes I can't even make it to work. It's affected my life in every way. I don't have a relationship because I'm embarrassed about it and don't feel like explaining it to anyone. I'm 50 and realize I'll probably be alone the rest of my life because of this horrible disease. If u decide to go out anywhere I have to really plan the day out. I can't eat anything until I get home. Sometimes no matter how much plan I can't go anywhere. It's a horrible way to live. After all these years I just learned how deal with it. Depression sets in a lot. I think it's hereditary. My dad has it to.

  • @girl1213
    @girl1213 6 λ…„ μ „ +2

    I'm glad I'm not the only one suffering a plain diet because of IBS, although it’s not as severe as yours. But every time I go out, the first I look for is the where the bathroom is located, and I always pray it’s a single occupant bathroom since it’s so embarrassing when I’m having an attack and multiple people are in the room with me. I don’t turn down invitations for dinner at a friend or family member’s house, but I hate it when I have an attack there since I know they hate seeing me in pain (in the abdomen, the backside and during the worse flares, the rectum), and sometimes these attacks can be messy and I don’t want them to have to clean it up. As for going to restaurants, I tend to frequent the ones that I had the least amount of attack triggers.

    • @BeckyExcell
      @BeckyExcell  6 λ…„ μ „

      So sorry to hear that. It's great that you still feel happy enough to go round others for dinner and out to restaurants - the main thing is, it shouldn't control your life :) xx

  • @sohanmia8937
    @sohanmia8937 λ…„ μ „ +3

    sometime i feel death is better than ibs

  • @glutenfreecatlady322
    @glutenfreecatlady322 7 λ…„ μ „ +1

    😩 this sounds sooo tough for you. I've got coeliac disease and have been told by doctors a few times when I've been with stomach pain that 'well I'd probably test you for coeliac but as you already have it it's probably IBS ok bye' πŸ‘Œ πŸ‘‹πŸΌ so helpful. I tend to get it more in bad periods so it'll be bad for a couple weeks and ok for a while, seems to be random I can't work out if it's any particular foods. I think for me it's also anxiety but I don't know which one is causing which! I have the FODMAP book and should try to do it but it looks so hard 😭

    • @BeckyExcell
      @BeckyExcell  7 λ…„ μ „ +1

      aww that sucks, doctors are really terrible with things like this! I'm definitely going to be trying to do the low fodmap more, it'll be hard but worth it i hope!

  • @lemonzest107
    @lemonzest107 3 λ…„ μ „ +2

    Just recently got diagnosed with it after switching to a new doctor. I don’t eat at school because no matter what I eat it makes it really bad. I missed a lot of school because of it and my brothers think I’m faking it. It also made me lose all my friends because I would sometimes be in a bad mood because my stomach really hurt and I wouldn’t be able to hang out with them because I was afraid. I’m learning how to live with it now and I’ve started trying to make new friends and also my family has been better at working with me and helping me out with this.

    • @parkerenglish9773
      @parkerenglish9773 3 λ…„ μ „

      IBS can be cured permanently believe me. I had suffered IBS for 6 years and now i have cured myself 100% There is no need to pay even a single dollar to anyone. They just want to mint money.I can help You and don't worry I don't charge anything just a step towards humanity
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      Be strong,

  • @nessybessy2531
    @nessybessy2531 λ…„ μ „ +2

    I’m currently having a flare up and I feel like dying! Im on the bridge of tears. The pain is 10/10 😒 people don’t understand

    • @Lone_Star86
      @Lone_Star86 λ…„ μ „ +2

      I understand your pain πŸ’™πŸ™

  • @adelinegrace3673
    @adelinegrace3673 6 λ…„ μ „

    I feel you, I have IBS, IC ( interstitial cystitis ) which is a bladder problem causing me to not be able to have tomatoes and citrus foods and a gluten and lactose intolerance. It’s definitely hard because I miss school, dance, I don’t like going out to eat much because I can’t eat much without feeling sick and my friends don’t really understand. I have Iberagast drops before breakfast and dinner. It’s amazing!!

  • @1232070
    @1232070 λ…„ μ „ +1

    I full understand what you are saying. I have been suffering with it since 2011 and I hate it so much. I'm always bloated and can't wear the clothes I want to and now lately I have been having pain in the groan Area. It does suck having it

  • @BK02027
    @BK02027 7 λ…„ μ „ +10

    I recently started taking betaine HCl and it seems to help a lot. I just take one before a meal. It doesn't help all the time, though.

    • @BeckyExcell
      @BeckyExcell  7 λ…„ μ „ +1

      Thats good to know, hope it helps more often than not! xx

    • @mumzybeast6230
      @mumzybeast6230 4 λ…„ μ „

      Does it help and where can I get them

  • @sarahphillips5730
    @sarahphillips5730 6 λ…„ μ „ +2

    I'm going through the diagnosis process at the moment. I've found following the lowFODMAP diet helps but everyone with IBS is different. You may be able to eat some foods on the lowFODMAP diet, doing the diet with a dietitian allows them to find out what foods you react to and what foods are fine. I'll be doing this soon because I know there are some foods that really don't sit well with my stomach but then there's some on the diet that I think I am fine with.
    Doing it with a dietitian will really improve things, and it should really help you to have less bloating and pain.

    • @BeckyExcell
      @BeckyExcell  6 λ…„ μ „ +1

      Hi Sarah, I'm glad the low FODMAP diet has been helping you, it definitely helps me too. I have tried reintroducing a few things which sadly hasn't worked out, but at least I am getting to know what truly hurts me! x

  • @badboy7689
    @badboy7689 κ°œμ›” μ „

    Stay strong gyuz

  • @jennifers7555
    @jennifers7555 4 λ…„ μ „ +3

    Currently lying in bed trying to sleep but suffering. Bloated, feel like I’m going to barf and faint. It’s such a miserable thing to have. I’ve currently had it for four months straight now. My IBS is the equivalent of gastrointestinal flu. It’s a nightmare. I totally relate to everything you’ve said.

    • @anniewilson695
      @anniewilson695 4 λ…„ μ „

      Jennifer S have you gone to a doctor?? And where does it hurt? I am just wondering because I think that is what I have but I haven’t seen a doctor yet

    • @jennifers7555
      @jennifers7555 4 λ…„ μ „

      Annie Wilson My family doctor is following me, especially since I have other medical issues as well. My symptoms are basically look good poisoning, so when I have an attack, I’m in really back shape for usually about a week (if the trigger isn’t ongoing), and it’s usually stress/upsetting situations/events/news that bring on my attacks. Otherwise when I’m not having an attack, I can pretty much eat anything (I only have issues with certain wheat products like bread and pasta... they severely bloat me and put me into a comatose state).

  • @kayennmedia5256
    @kayennmedia5256 5 λ…„ μ „

    This video explains what I want to say to people very well. For me I hate letting my friends and partner down when Im too ill to hang out. Or if I have to ask people to go home because Im too ill all of a sudden. Cant even go for a simple walk in the park without some small symptom hanging around

  • @DerekNewtonKeswick
    @DerekNewtonKeswick 5 λ…„ μ „ +4

    I have ibs and it definitely rules my life to an extent. I’ve never really worked out what triggers it as it doesn’t always react. Maybe it’s combinations of things?

  • @kathleensmith4130
    @kathleensmith4130 4 λ…„ μ „ +2

    I have one constantly and when I eat salad my stomach feels like it's cramping

  • @pearluniverse7878
    @pearluniverse7878 4 λ…„ μ „ +2

    I have ibs d and I’ve been hurting so much, Everytime I eat I have to go to the restroom and it’s making me feel weak, I have really bad stomach pain and cramps it’s just terrible

  • @alyssa7081
    @alyssa7081 5 λ…„ μ „ +1

    I’m 15 and it’s so hard! I’m thinking about starting online school which might be bad for me mentally, but it’s worse with the constant pain, gas, bloating, & urge to cry in public. ive missed sooooo many school days. & whenever i tell my mom about it she says β€œyeah, well i get stomachaches too, stop complaining”