My Daughter is Just Like My Husband -Ven. Pomnyunโs Dharma Q&A
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Ven. Pomnyun's Answer to "My Daughter is Just Like My Husbandโ
Selection from a Dharma Q&A session at Bethesda Chevy Chase Regional Service Center in Washington D.C. (September 18, 2019)
Questioner (Q) : Itโs been 15 years since I got married and my daughter is 12 years old. Just hitting the beginning of teenager age. Before I even resolved my relationship with my husband, things that I do not agree with, like his personality-wise or daily habit-wise, I see my daughter displaying the same habits and personalities that my husband has that Iโm not crazy about.
So I noticed lately that the way I try to handle the situation is Iโm becoming way too strict and I try to discipline my daughter more than whatโs needed because I have the frustration towards my husband and seeing that from my own child is making me go crazy.
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ํต์ญํ์๋ ๋ถ ์ ๋ง ๋๋จํ์ฌ์ ๋งค๋ฒ ๋๋๋๋ค
๊ฐ์ฌํฉ๋๋ค ใ ก
์ฐ์ใ กใ ก๋ธ๊ณผ์ ๊ด๊ณ ์ง๋ฌธ์ใ ก๋จํธ๊ณผ ๋ํํ๊ณ ์ ์ง๋ด์ผํ๋ค๋ . ..๋ต์ ๋ค๋ฅธ๊ณณ์ ์์๋ค์ ใ ก๋น ๊นจ๋ฌ์ .
์์ ๋ ์ค๋์. ํ๋ต
ใ ก ํต์ญํ์๋ ๋ถใ ก๋ชฉ์๋ฆฌ ๋๋ฌด ๋ฉ์ฐ
๋จํธ์ด ๋ด ๋ง์์ ๋ค์ง ์์ง๋ง ์ ์ด๋ฏ์ด ์๋น ๋ฅผ ๋ฎ์ ์์๋ ๋ด ๋ง์์ ๋ค์ง ์์ง๋ง ์ ์ด๊ฑฐ๋ค ๋ผ๋ ๋ฏฟ์์ด ์์ด์ผํ๋ค.
๊ทธ๋ฌ๋ฉด ์์ด ๋ฌธ์ ๋ ์ ์ ๋ก ํด๊ฒฐ๋๋ค.
ใ ใ
It was a very good advice.
์์ด๋ก ํด์ฃผ์ ์ ๋ฏธ๊ตญ์ ์๋ ์์ด๋คํํ ๋ ํ ์ค๋ก ๋ณด๋ผ์ ์์ด ๊ฐ์ฌ๋๋ฆฝ๋๋ค.
๊ทธ๋ ๋ค์. ์์ด๋ค๋ ํ๊ตญ์ด๋ฅผ ์ํ๋ฉด ๋ ์ ์ด๊ฒ ์ง์.
๊ฐ์ฌํฉ๋๋ค~
๊ฐ์ฌ ํฉ๋๋ค~
์ค๋ ๊ฐ์ฌํฉ๋๋ค
ํ๋ต์ด์ญ๋๋ค๐๐๐
๋ถ๋ถ๊ฐ ์ดํดํ๊ณ ์ ์ด๋ฉด ์์ด๋ ์ ํค๋๋ฏ~
์ด์น๋ฅผ ์๋ ค์ฃผ์ ์ ๊ฐ์ฌํฉ๋๋ค
๋จํธ์ด๋ ์ ์ด๊ฒ ์ต๋๋ค
์~^^๋๋ฌด ์ข๋ค์~!
์์ฐโก^^~์ข๋ค
๊ฐ์ฌํฉ๋๋ค
์ ์ ์ ์๋ง์ ๊ด๊ณ์ ๋๋ฌด ๋๊ฐ๋ค์..๊ณต๊ฐ์ด ๋ง์ด ๊ฐ๋๋ค.
๐์ผ์ฒด์ ์ฌ์กฐ
ํต์ญ์ด ๋งค์ฐ ์ ์ ํ๋ค์. ๋ํ์ง๋ ์๊ณ ๋ํ์ง๋ ์์ต๋๋ค. ๊ฐ์ฌํฉ๋๋ค.
์ค๋... ์ด์ด ๋น ์ง์ ์ ๊ทธ๋ฐ๊ฑด์ง ํผ๊ณคํด ๋ณด์ด์ธ์.์ค๋ ์ ์ฑ๊ธฐ์๊ธธ ๋ฐ๋๋๋ค.