Dealing with Difficult Colleagues -Ven. Pomnyunโs Dharma Q&A
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Ven. Pomnyun's Answer to "Dealing with Difficult Colleaguesโ
Selection from a Dharma Q&A session at Bethesda Chevy Chase Regional Service Center in Washington D.C. (September 18, 2019)
Questioner (Q): Hello Sunim. So in this [pressure] to perform world, how you can control and how you can keep yourself calm when you are with your aggressive colleagues that always want to hijack your conversation with others, and tries to improvise and take the conversation in their own way. How can you keep calm in that situation?
์ ๋ชฉ : (๋ํํ๊ธฐ) ์ด๋ ค์ด ์ง์ฅ๋๋ฃ๋ฅผ ๋ํ๋ ๋ฒ
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์ฆ๋ฌธ์ฆ์ค์์๋ ๋ต ์ ์์๋ ๋ฒ๋ฅ ์ค๋์ ๋ชจ์ต์ด๋ก๊ตฐ์ ํ์ง๋ง ํญ์ ๋ฐ๋ปํ์๊ตฌ์
์ฌ๋ ์ฌ๋ ๊ณณ์ ๋ค ๋๊ฐ์๊ฐ ๋ด์^^
๋๊ตฌ๋
ํธ์ํ๊ฒ ํ๋ ค๋ณด๋ด์.
๋ฌผ์ด ํ๋ฌ๊ฐ๋๊ฒ์ฒ๋ผ~
๋ด๊ฐ ์ก๊ณ ์์ง์์ผ๋ฉด
์ ์ ๋ก ํ๋ฌ๊ฐ๋๋ค.
๋งค์ผ๋งค์ผ ๋๋ฌผ์ด ํ๋ฅด๋๊ฒ์ฒ๋ผ
๋๋ฅผ ์ค์ ์ ์ผ๋ก ๊ดด๋กญํ๋ ์ฌ๋์ด๋ผ๋ฉด
๊ทธ์ฌ๋์ ๋ฑ๋ ๋ฐ์ด ๋ณด๋ด๋ฉด ๋ฉ๋๋ค.
๊ทธ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ์
๊ทธ์ฌ๋์ ๋ณผ๋๋ง๋ค
๊ทธ์ฌ๋ ์ฌ์ง์ ๋ณด๊ณ ๋ผ๋
๊ฐ์ฌ์ ๊ธฐ๋๋ฅผ ์ฌ๋ฆฌ๋๊ฒ์ ๋๋ค.
๊ทธ์ฌ๋ ์๋๊ฒ ํด์ฃผ์ธ์~
๊ทธ์ฌ๋์ด ์ง๊ธ๋ณด๋ค
๋๊ณผ๋ช ์๊ฐ ํจ์ฌ ์๋์ด์
๋นจ๋ฆฌ ๋ฐ๋ค๋ก ํ๋ฌ๊ฐ ์์๋๋ก
ํด์ฃผ์ธ์~
๊ทธ๋ฌ๋ฉด
๊ทธ์ฌ๋์ ์๋์ด์
๋์๊ฐ์ด ํจ๊ปํ๋ ์ธ์ฐ์ด
๋๋๊ฒ ๋ฉ๋๋ค.
๊ทธ์ฌ๋์ ๋ฏธ์ํ๋ฉด
๊ณ์ ๊ทธ์ฌ๋๊ณผ ํจ๊ปํ๋
์ธ์ฐ์ด ๋ฉ๋๋ค.
๋๊ตฐ๊ฐ๋ฅผ ๋ฏธ์ํ๋ฉด
๋์๊ฒ๋ ์ข์์ผ์ด ์์๊ธฐ๊ณ
๊ทธ์ฌ๋์๊ฒ๋ ์ข์์ผ์ด ์์๊ธฐ๋
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