Dealing with Difficult Colleagues -Ven. Pomnyunโ€™s Dharma Q&A

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  • ๊ฒŒ์‹œ์ผ 2019. 11. 18.
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    Ven. Pomnyun's Answer to "Dealing with Difficult Colleaguesโ€
    Selection from a Dharma Q&A session at Bethesda Chevy Chase Regional Service Center in Washington D.C. (September 18, 2019)
    Questioner (Q): Hello Sunim. So in this [pressure] to perform world, how you can control and how you can keep yourself calm when you are with your aggressive colleagues that always want to hijack your conversation with others, and tries to improvise and take the conversation in their own way. How can you keep calm in that situation?
    ์ œ๋ชฉ : (๋Œ€ํ™”ํ•˜๊ธฐ) ์–ด๋ ค์šด ์ง์žฅ๋™๋ฃŒ๋ฅผ ๋Œ€ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฒ•

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  • @user-zy9pd4ez1u
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    ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ใ…ก

  • @_DoDam_
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    ๊ณ ๊ท€ํ•œ ๋ง์”€ ์˜ค๋Š˜๋„ ๊ฐ์‚ฌ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

  • @user-js4pj7ku2w
    @user-js4pj7ku2w 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +5

    ๋ฒ•๋ฅœ์Šค๋‹˜ ๊ฑด๊ฐ•ํ•˜์„ธ์š”~
    ์ฆ‰๋ฌธ์ฆ‰์„ค์—์„œ ๋˜ ๋ต™์œผ๋ฉด ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค

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    @user-uj2im3sg4r 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +4

    ์กด๊ฒฝํ•˜๋Š”๋ฒ•๋ฅœ์Šค๋‹˜๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค

  • @MrOhmusm
    @MrOhmusm 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +4

    ์ ›์€ ์•„์นจ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค^^
    ์˜ค๋Š˜๋„ ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค~โ™ฅ

  • @user-nf9lo4kn1w
    @user-nf9lo4kn1w 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +1

    ์Šค๋‹˜ ์ถ”์šด๋‚ ์‹œ์— ํ–ฅ์ƒ ๊ฑด๊ฐ•ํ•˜์‹œ๊ณ  ์กฐ์€ ๋ฒ•๋ฌธ๋“ค์—ฌ์ฃผ์„ธ์š” ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค

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    @user-yl5wm1xs2k 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +3

    ์˜ค๋Š˜ ์ฒœ์•ˆ์—์„œ ์กด๊ฒฝํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฒ•๋ฅœ์Šค๋‹˜์„ ๋ต™๊ฒŒ ๋˜์„œ ์˜๊ด‘์ด์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค~!! ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค~^^

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    ์Šค๋‹˜ ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.~~~โ™ก๐Ÿ˜Š

  • @bbangddoong
    @bbangddoong 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +2

    ์ถœ๊ทผ๊ธธ์— ์•„์ฃผ ๋ฐ˜๊ฐ‘๊ณ  ๊ณต๊ฐ๋˜๋Š” ๋‚ด์šฉ์ด๋„ค์š” ^^

  • @user-wu4uw5zg3v
    @user-wu4uw5zg3v 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +2

    ์ฆ‰๋ฌธ์ฆ‰์„ค์—์„œ๋Š” ๋ต ์ˆ˜ ์—†์—ˆ๋˜ ๋ฒ•๋ฅ ์Šค๋‹˜์— ๋ชจ์Šต์ด๋กœ๊ตฐ์š” ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ํ•ญ์ƒ ๋”ฐ๋œปํ•˜์‹œ๊ตฌ์š”

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    ์‚ฌ๋žŒ ์‚ฌ๋Š” ๊ณณ์€ ๋‹ค ๋˜‘๊ฐ™์€๊ฐ€ ๋ด์š”^^

  • @user-vf9ej6do5j
    @user-vf9ej6do5j 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +1

    ๋ˆ„๊ตฌ๋ƒ
    ํŽธ์•ˆํ•˜๊ฒŒ ํ˜๋ ค๋ณด๋‚ด์š”.
    ๋ฌผ์ด ํ˜๋Ÿฌ๊ฐ€๋Š”๊ฒƒ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ~
    ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ์žก๊ณ  ์žˆ์ง€์•Š์œผ๋ฉด
    ์ €์ ˆ๋กœ ํ˜๋Ÿฌ๊ฐ‘๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
    ๋งค์ผ๋งค์ผ ๋ƒ‡๋ฌผ์ด ํ๋ฅด๋Š”๊ฒƒ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ
    ๋‚˜๋ฅผ ์‹ค์ œ์ ์œผ๋กœ ๊ดด๋กญํžˆ๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด๋ผ๋ฉด
    ๊ทธ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์„ ๋“ฑ๋– ๋ฐ€์–ด ๋ณด๋‚ด๋ฉด ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
    ๊ทธ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์€
    ๊ทธ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์„ ๋ณผ๋•Œ๋งˆ๋‹ค
    ๊ทธ์‚ฌ๋žŒ ์‚ฌ์ง„์„ ๋ณด๊ณ  ๋ผ๋„
    ๊ฐ์‚ฌ์˜ ๊ธฐ๋„๋ฅผ ์˜ฌ๋ฆฌ๋Š”๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
    ๊ทธ์‚ฌ๋žŒ ์ž˜๋˜๊ฒŒ ํ•ด์ฃผ์„ธ์š”~
    ๊ทธ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ์ง€๊ธˆ๋ณด๋‹ค
    ๋ˆ๊ณผ๋ช…์˜ˆ๊ฐ€ ํ›จ์”ฌ ์ž˜๋˜์–ด์„œ
    ๋นจ๋ฆฌ ๋ฐ”๋‹ค๋กœ ํ˜๋Ÿฌ๊ฐˆ ์ˆ˜์žˆ๋„๋ก
    ํ•ด์ฃผ์„ธ์š”~
    ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋ฉด
    ๊ทธ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์€ ์ž˜๋˜์–ด์„œ
    ๋‚˜์™€๊ฐ™์ด ํ•จ๊ป˜ํ•˜๋Š” ์ธ์—ฐ์ด
    ๋๋‚˜๊ฒŒ ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
    ๊ทธ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์„ ๋ฏธ์›Œํ•˜๋ฉด
    ๊ณ„์† ๊ทธ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๊ณผ ํ•จ๊ป˜ํ•˜๋Š”
    ์ธ์—ฐ์ด ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
    ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๋ฅผ ๋ฏธ์›Œํ•˜๋ฉด
    ๋‚˜์—๊ฒŒ๋„ ์ข‹์€์ผ์ด ์•ˆ์ƒ๊ธฐ๊ณ 
    ๊ทธ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์—๊ฒŒ๋„ ์ข‹์€์ผ์ด ์•ˆ์ƒ๊ธฐ๋‹ˆ
    ๋‘˜๋‹ค ๊ทธ ์ƒํƒœ๋กœ ์ธ์—ฐ์ด ๊ณ„์†๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.