How Do I Know Whether Iโ€™m Making the Right Decision? Ven. Pomnyunโ€™s Dharma Q&A

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  • ๊ฒŒ์‹œ์ผ 2019. 09. 09.
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    Ven. Pomnyun's Answer to "How Do I Know Whether Iโ€™m Making the Right Decision?โ€
    ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ์˜ฌ๋ฐ”๋ฅธ ๊ฒฐ์ •์„ ๋‚ด๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š”์ง€ ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ์•Œ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?
    Selection from a Dharma Q&A session at Jogyesa Temple, Seoul (June 14, 2019)
    Questioner : Iโ€™m a very decisive person in my decision making all my life, and somehow it turns out alright for me. Iโ€™m 39 years old this year and Iโ€™m just wondering whether itโ€™s my happy go lucky character that I always think itโ€™s easy when I face difficulties in life. And my friends all say that it seems like Iโ€™m having an easy life. And whenever I face difficulties I will always just go with the flow.
    And I found that like I quit my job last year and I came to Korea three months ago and I was at a work exchange in a farm. And the boss offered me an employment in that farm.
    And I have this kind of like intuition that thereโ€™s a glimpse of something like I [was] actually in a similar situation before, like it happened in a farm, that I was there before.
    But actually I was only there for the first time in my life. And this is not only happening in Korea.
    When I was in Malaysia, it also happened like always in my life, itโ€™s like I will always have something like Iโ€™ve been in that situation before. But I know very clearly that I have not been in that situation before.
    So Iโ€™m just wondering is it because that is it fate that I have to go through that kind of situation in my life.
    Actually I want to say is, Iโ€™ve always followed my heart when I make decision and it seems to turn out fine for me.
    And I saw my friends they are always making rational decisions but somehow they are quite unhappy in their lives.
    So does that mean following my heart is actually the best way when making a decision?
    ์ œ๋ชฉ : ์ œ๊ฐ€ ์˜ณ์€ ๊ฒฐ์ •์„ ๋‚ด๋ฆฐ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฑธ ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ์•Œ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋‚˜์š”?
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  • @stacysim7756
    @stacysim7756 3 ๋…„ ์ „ +1

    ์ด๋ถ„์˜ ํ†ต์—ญ์€ ๋ถˆ๊ต๊ณ„์—์„œ ์ตœ๊ณ ๋ผ ํ• ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋งค์šฐ ํ•ด๋ฐ•ํ•˜์‹œ๊ณ  ์ •ํ™•ํ•˜์…”์š”

  • @user-hj4bi8mn3k
    @user-hj4bi8mn3k 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +8

    ์šฐ๋ฆฌ ์†Œ์ค‘ํ•˜์‹  ๋ฒ•๋ฅœ์Šค๋‹˜ ๋ฉ‹์ง€์‹ญ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ๋Š˜ ์‚ถ์˜ ํ–‰๋ณตํ•˜๋ฉฐ ์ •์ง„ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ๋ชจ๋‘๊ฐ€ ์šธ ๋ถ€์ฒ˜๋‹˜ ์„ค๋ฒ• ๋ฒ•๋ฅœ์Šค๋‹˜ ์„ค๋ฒ•๋•๋ถ„์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ๊ณ ๊ฐœ์ˆ™์—ฌ ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค

  • @user-dl3zh4jk4p
    @user-dl3zh4jk4p 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +4

    ์ง€๊ธˆ ๊ฒฐ๊ณผ๊ฐ€ ๋‚˜๋น ๋„ ํ•™์Šตํ•˜๋Š” ๊ณผ์ •์ด๋‹ค. ์ฐธ์œผ๋กœ ๊ธ์ •์ ์ธ ๋ง์”€์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์–ด๋–ค ์„ ํƒ์„ ํ•˜๋“  ๊ฐ€๋ฒผ์šธ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

  • @user-ne7lq3zf3m
    @user-ne7lq3zf3m 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +20

    ํ†ต์—ญํ•˜์‹œ๋Š”๋ถ„ ๋ชฉ์†Œ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๋„˜ ์ข‹์•„์š”~^^~

  • @user-lo3hx5lj7i
    @user-lo3hx5lj7i 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +8

    ์ €๋Š” ๊ฐ์„ฑ์ ์ธ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
    ์ธ์ƒํ’ํŒŒ๋ฅผ๋งŽ์ด ๊ฒช๊ธดํ–ˆ์ง€๋งŒ ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ํ•˜์ง€๋ชปํ•œ๊ฒƒ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ํ›„ํšŒํ•˜๋Š”์ผ์€์—†์–ด์š”
    ์ง€๊ธˆ์—์™€์„œ๋ณด๋ฉด ๋‚ด์„ ํƒ์ด์˜ณ์•˜๊ณ  ์ž˜๊ฒฌ๋ŽŒ์™”๋‹ค๋Š” ์ƒ๊ฐ์ด๋“ค๊ณ  ๋‚˜์ž์‹ ์ด ๋ฟŒ๋“ฏํ•˜๊ฒŒ๋Š๊ปด์ง‘๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
    ์Šค๋‹˜๋ง์”€ ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
    ์ €๋Š” ์•ž์œผ๋กœ๋„ ๊ฐ์„ฑ์„๋”ฐ๋ผ๊ฐˆ๊ฒƒ๊ฐ™๋„ค์š”~~^^

  • @user-ph8my5vn3t
    @user-ph8my5vn3t 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +4

    ๋ฒ•๋ฅ ์Šค๋‹˜ ๋•๋ถ„์— ์‚ถ์˜ ๋ชจ๋“ ๋ถ€๋ถ„์„ ์•„๋ฆ„๋‹ต๊ฒŒ ๋ณ€ํ™”ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ €๋Š” ์ค‘๊ตญ์—์„œ ์‚ด๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ณ ๋ง™์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

  • @user-hj4bi8mn3k
    @user-hj4bi8mn3k 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +5

    ๋ถ€์ฒ˜๋‹˜ ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ๋ฒ•๋ฅœ์Šค๋‹˜ ๋„ˆ๋ฌด๋‚˜ ํ›Œ๋ฅญํ•˜์‹ญ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ๋Š˜๋†€๋ž๊ณ  ์กด๊ฒฝํ•˜๋ฉฐ ์กฐ๊ธˆ์ด๋‚˜๋งˆ ์Šค๋‹˜ ๋‹ฎ์•„๊ฐ€๋ ค ์ •์ง„ํ•ด๋ด…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ์ž˜๋‹ค๋…€์˜ค์„ธ์š” ๊ฑด๊ฐ•ํ•˜์„ธ์š”

  • @user-wj4ym4co9p
    @user-wj4ym4co9p 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +6

    ํ•ญ์ƒ ์Šค๋‹˜๊ป˜์„œ ํ•˜์‹œ๋˜ ๋ง์”€์ด ์‚ถ์—์„œ ์˜ณ๊ณ  ๊ทธ๋ฆ„์€ ์—†๋‹ค...์„ ํƒ์— ๋”ฐ๋ฅธ ์ฑ…์ž„์ด ์žˆ์„ ๋ฟ..
    ์‚ถ์€ ์„ ํƒ๊ณผ ์ฑ…์ž„์˜ ์—ฐ์†์ด๋ž€ ๋ง์”€์— ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ๊พ€๋ถ€๋ฆฌ์ง€ ์•Š์œผ๋ฉฐ ์‚ด๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์„ ํƒ์˜ ๊ณผ์ •๊ณผ ๊ฒฐ๊ณผ์— ๋”ฐ๋ฅธ ์ฑ…์ž„์†์— ๋ฐฐ์›Œ๋‚˜๊ฐ€๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.~^^

  • @user-fp1rc1zp2j
    @user-fp1rc1zp2j 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +5

    ์—ญ์‹œ ์Šค๋‹˜ ์ตœ๊ณ ์˜ˆ์š”ใ…ก๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘

  • @gudan6939
    @gudan6939 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +9

    ์„ธ๊ณ„๋กœ ๋‚˜์•„๊ฐ€์‹œ๋Š” ๋ฒ•๋ฅœ์Šค๋‹˜
    ๋ฉ‹์ง€์‹ญ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค~! ๐Ÿ˜Š
    ์ˆœ๊ฐ„์— ์ตœ์„ ์˜ ์„ ํƒ์„ ํ•˜๊ณ 
    ๋งŒ์•ฝ ์‹คํŒจํ–ˆ๋‹ค๋ฉด ๋‹ค์Œ์— ์ฐธ๊ณ ํ•ด์„œ
    ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์„ ํƒ์„ ํ•˜๋ฉด๋œ๋‹ค
    ์˜ค๋Š˜๋„ ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค

  • @junejung1854
    @junejung1854 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +4

    ์งˆ๋ฌธ์ž: ์ €๋Š” ์‚ด๋ฉด์„œ ๊ฒฐ์ •์„ ๋‚ด๋ฆด ๋•Œ ๊ต‰์žฅํžˆ ๊ฒฐ๋‹จ๋ ฅ์ด ์žˆ๊ณ , ์–ด์จŒ๋“  ๊ทธ ๊ฒฐ๊ณผ์— ๋งŒ์กฑํ•˜๋Š” ํŽธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
    ์ €๋Š” ์˜ฌํ•ด 39์‚ด์ธ๋ฐ, ์ €์˜ ์ด๋Ÿฐ ํƒœํ‰ํ•œ ์„ฑ๊ฒฉ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ์‚ด๋ฉด์„œ ์–ด๋ ค์›€์ด ๋‹ฅ์ณ๋„ ์‰ฝ๊ฒŒ ๋„˜๊ธฐ๋Š” ๊ฑด์ง€ ๊ถ๊ธˆํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
    ์ œ ์นœ๊ตฌ๋“ค์€ ํ•ญ์ƒ ์ œ๊ฐ€ ์‰ฝ๊ฒŒ ์‚ฌ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋“ ์š”. ์–ด๋ ค์›€์ด ๋‹ฅ์ณ๋„ ๋Š˜ ํ๋ฆ„์— ๋”ฐ๋ฅธ๋‹ค๊ณ  ํ•˜๊ณ ์š”.์ž‘๋…„์— ์ œ๊ฐ€ ์ง์žฅ์„ ๊ด€๋‘๊ณ  ์„ธ ๋‹ฌ ์ „์— ํ•œ๊ตญ์œผ๋กœ ์™€์„œ ๋†์žฅ์—์„œ ๊ทผ๋กœ ๊ตํ™˜(์ˆ™์‹์„ ์ œ๊ณต๋ฐ›๊ณ  ๋ฌด๊ธ‰์œผ๋กœ ํ˜น์€ ์ ์€ ๊ธ‰์—ฌ๋ฅผ ๋ฐ›๊ณ  ์ผํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ธ ๋“ฏํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค)์„ ํ–ˆ๋Š”๋ฐ ์‚ฌ์žฅ๋‹˜์ด ์ฑ„์šฉ ์ œ์•ˆ์„ ํ•˜์…จ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
    ๊ทธ๋•Œ ์–ธ๋œป ์ด๋Ÿฐ ์ƒ๊ฐ์ด ๋“ค๋”๋ผ๊ณ ์š”. ์ „์—๋„ ๋†์žฅ์—์„œ ์ด๋Ÿฐ ์ผ์ด ์žˆ์—ˆ๋˜ ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์€, ์ „์— ๊ฒช์–ด ๋ณธ ์ผ ๊ฐ™์€ ๊ฑฐ์˜ˆ์š”. ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ์ผ์€ ์‚ด๋ฉด์„œ ์ฒ˜์Œ์ด์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
    ํ•œ๊ตญ์—์„œ๋งŒ ์ด๋Ÿฐ ๊ฒŒ ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ง๋ ˆ์ด์‹œ์•„์— ์žˆ์„ ๋•Œ๋„ ์–ธ์ œ๋‚˜ ๋น„์Šทํ•œ ์ผ์„ ๊ฒช์–ด ๋ณธ ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™๋‹ค๋Š” ์ƒ๊ฐ์„ ๋งŽ์ด ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ „์— ์žˆ์—ˆ๋˜ ์ผ์ด ์•„๋‹Œ๋ฐ๋„์š”. ์•ž์œผ๋กœ๋„ ์‚ด๋ฉด์„œ ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ์ƒํ™ฉ์„ ๊ฒช๊ฒŒ ๋  ์šด๋ช…์ด๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ๊ฑธ๊นŒ์š”?
    ์ œ๊ฐ€ ๋“œ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์‹ถ์€ ๋ง์”€์€, ์ €๋Š” ๊ฒฐ์ •์„ ๋‚ด๋ฆด ๋•Œ ๋Š˜ ์ œ ๋งˆ์Œ์„ ๋”ฐ๋ผ๊ฐ€๊ณ  ๊ทธ ๊ฒฐ๊ณผ๊ฐ€ ์ €ํ•œํ…Œ ๊ดœ์ฐฎ์•˜๋˜ ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์•„์š”.
    ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ๋ฐ ์ œ ์นœ๊ตฌ๋“ค์„ ๋ณด๋ฉด ๋Š˜ ํ•ฉ๋ฆฌ์ ์ธ ๊ฒฐ์ •์„ ๋‚ด๋ฆฌ์ง€๋งŒ ์™œ ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ์ง€ ๊ต‰์žฅํžˆ ๋ถˆํ–‰ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ์‚ฝ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ์ œ ๋งˆ์Œ์„ ๋”ฐ๋ผ๊ฐ€๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ๊ฐ€์žฅ ์ข‹์€ ๊ฒฐ์ • ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์ด๋ผ๋Š” ๋œป์ผ๊นŒ์š”?

  • @user-gg7io8ws3d
    @user-gg7io8ws3d 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +5

    ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ~^โ™ก^

  • @yjs7088
    @yjs7088 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +1

    ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ฒˆ์˜ ์‹ค์ˆ˜๋ฅผ ํ•˜๋ฉด์„œ ๋‚˜๋Š” ์™œ ๊ฐ™์€ ์‹ค์ˆ˜๋ฅผ ๋ฐ˜๋ณตํ•˜๋‚˜ ํ•œ์‹ฌํ•˜๊ฒŒ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜๊ณ  ์ž์ฑ…๋งŒ ํ–ˆ๋Š”๋ฐ ์ด ๋ฒ•๋ฌธ์„ ๋“ฃ๊ณ  ๋งŽ์ด ๋„์›€์ด ๋˜์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ ์ง€๊ธˆ์€ ๋” ์ด์ƒ ์‹ค์ˆ˜๋ฅผ ๋ฐ˜๋ณตํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๊ณ  ๋งŽ์€ ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋ฐฐ์› ๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค

  • @trysoo1
    @trysoo1 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +1

    ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

  • @user-dg3zc9cx6q
    @user-dg3zc9cx6q 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +1

    ์ฆ๊ฑฐ์šด๋ช…์ ˆ ๋ผ์‹ญ์‹œ์š”~~
    ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜

  • @jik5161
    @jik5161 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +7

    Officiate a wedding '์ฃผ๋ก€๋ฅผ ์„œ๋‹ค'๋ผ๋Š” ๋œป์ด๊ตฐ์š”. ํ†ต์—ญ์‚ฌ๋ถ„๊ป˜์„œ ๊นŒ๋จน์œผ์…”์„œ(?) ๋•๋ถ„์— ๋ฐฐ์› ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ใ…Žใ…Ž
    Have you ever been asked to officiate a wedding?

  • @user-ux4tf3ve2j
    @user-ux4tf3ve2j 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +1

    4:06 ์Šค๋‹˜ ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ...

  • @user-bg5rc2bf3p
    @user-bg5rc2bf3p 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +5

    ์˜์–ด๊ณต๋ถ€ ์ค‘ ใ…‹

  • @user-js4pj7ku2w
    @user-js4pj7ku2w 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +6

    ํ•œ๊ตญ ์ž๋ง‰์ข€ ๋„ฃ์–ด์ฃผ์„ธ์š”;

  • @SK-nb2ur
    @SK-nb2ur 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +4

    ์‰ฝ๊ฒŒ ๋“ค๋ฆฌ์ง€๋งŒ, ํ†ต์—ญํ•˜์‹œ๋Š” ๋ถ„ ์˜์–ด๊ถŒ ๊ตญ๊ฐ€์—์„œ ์‚ด๊ณ  ๊ณต๋ถ€ํ•˜์‹  ๋„ค์ดํ‹ฐ๋ธŒ ์‹ค๋ ฅ์ด์˜ˆ์š” ^^.

    • @user-ws2sd8ww3v
      @user-ws2sd8ww3v 4 ๋…„ ์ „

      ์จ๋…ธ๊ธฐ ์ €๋ถ„ ์žฌ๋ฏธ๊ตํฌ ์ด์‹ฌ.

    • @SK-nb2ur
      @SK-nb2ur 4 ๋…„ ์ „

      Samantha Das
      ์•„...๋„ค ๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ตฐ์š”. ์–ด์ฉ์ง€ ^^

  • @dongnaeajae
    @dongnaeajae 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +1

    ์ •๋ง ์ฃ„์†กํ•œ๋ฐ ์งˆ๋ฌธ์ด ๋„๋Œ€์ฒด ๋ฌด์Šจ ๋ง์ธ์ง€ ๋ชจ๋ฅด๊ฒ ๋„ค์š”

  • @Lee-xb7cb
    @Lee-xb7cb 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +1

    ์˜์–ด์ž˜ํ•˜๋Š” ์งˆ๋ฌธ์ด ๊ทธ์ € ๋ถ€๋Ÿฝ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‹˜์€ ๋งŽ์€ ๊ฒƒ์„ ๊ฐ€์ง„ ๋ถ€์ž์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‹ค๋งŒ ๊ทธ์˜์–ด์‹ค๋ ฅ์œผ๋กœ ํ•œ๊ตญ์—์„œ ๋†์žฅ์—์„œ ์ผํ•œ๋‹ค๋Š”๊ฒƒ์ด ์•„์‰ฝ์ง€๋งŒ. ๊ทธ๋†์žฅ์—์„œ ์ œ๋Œ€๋กœ ๋Œ€์šฐ๋ฐ›์œผ๋ฉด์„œ ๊ธธ๋„ ์ฐพ์œผ์‹œ๊ธธ..๋ง๋ ˆ์ด์‹œ์•„ ์˜์–ด๋ฐฐ์šฐ๊ฒ ๋‹ค๊ณ  ํ•œ์ธ๋“ค ์ •๋ง ๋งŽ์ด ๊ฐ€๋Š”๋ฐ ์ฐธ ์•„์ด๋Ÿฌ๋‹ˆ๊ตฐ์š”.๋ฏธ๊ตญ์ด๋‚˜ ์บ๋‚˜๋‹ค๋กœ ๊ฐ€๋ฉด ํ›จ ์ข‹์€ ๊ธฐํšŒ๋ฅผ ๋งŒ๋‚ ํ…๋ฐ.