@@Majestic469 What the mom SHOULD be teaching her child: -Honor/obey/respect your parents -Be responsible for your own safety What she instead taught her child: -Mom needs the police to do her job -The government actually cares about your safety (they don't)
Mom made an impact! This kid will remember that incident for life, and respect for authority is a major parenting factor that is missing in today's society.
She's three; they'll be lucky if she remembers it next month. Parents bailed here; they did not teach their child to demonstrate good behaviour and obedience, by nurturing it in her all the way along. Parents get a huge failing grade.
@@vapingcatnightcore1110 What the mom SHOULD be teaching her child: -Honor/obey/respect your parents -Be responsible for your own safety What she instead taught her child: -Mom needs the police to do her job -The government actually cares about your safety (they don't)
@bugger imposing your will on another human being is an act of violence. Seatbelt laws should not be mandatory and if your kids don’t want to wear them then just don’t drive. If they take their belt off after your driving then just find a way to keep the buckled in until you get back home safe and later make it to wear the seatbelt cannot be detached after driving. No need for the cops.
Keeping children off drugs is a little more pressing than helping a mom win an argument with a toddler. It's not a police matter. The real problem is that this mother doesn't know how to get basic control over her little girl. A cop scaring her into wearing seatbelt won't fix that. She needs to spend her own money on books or parenting classes, rather than directing tax payer resources towards winning am arguement.
Young Professional I completely agree with you. It is better that she learns when she's young and if she's not willing to listen to mom... Plus, the mother made an appointment with them so it wasn't costing anyone any money.
This is not a good safe, at least in the psychological sense, a good disciplinary method for a kid that young. You have no idea what you're talking about shut the f****** up.
Don't have the police parent for you lady!!!!!!! There are other non scarring ways that you can teach your kid a lesson!!!!!!!!!! Especially a toddler!!!!!!!!!! A toddler!!!!! get that?????!!!!!!!!! A toddler!!!!!! Try looking at it from a toddler's point of view, instead of the point of you you're looking at it through, which is that of a fully grown fully mature adults point of view, although with this lady her maturity and adulthood certainly comes into question. Not a suitable non-scarring way to discipline a kid this young. This is a toddler, a three-year-old not a 12 to 17 year old. I remember how frightening it was a couple of times when my mom called the police on me to quote unquote, and that is a huge quote-unquote, called the police on me when I was young. People, please don't tell me that this is non-scarring because I lived through it. Keep being ruled over your emotions you quote unquote parents. Because it's worth so well in the past before.
If mother doesn't have enough authority with the three years old to buckle up, then she has failed as parent. Imagine if you have to call police to teach the child simple thing?! I think this is very stupid idea
I agree cause that’s just wasting a cop time cause they have other important things to do instead of telling a 3year old to buckle the seat belt even tho that’s a mother’s job
To those criticizing the mom for what she did..... First, she did not call the emergency #. She called the non-emergency #. Second, the officer who went was most likely one who was not in the middle of anything except maybe driving up and down streets. Third, the mom most likely stopped the car and told the child to buckle up with no action from the child. Finally, this is about the safety of the child. THAT is why the mom called the police.
I do not believe that. The reason why is because I had the same conflict with my strong-willed child when they were younger. I had done everything I could think of to do but that child outright defied me no matter what about the issue. So, I had called the police. The only reason was because it was a safety issue. That was the one and only time it was necessary too. After that no more seatbelt defiance.
If you can't gain basic control over your kid's behavior in unsafe situations, the problem is way bigger than seatbelt safety. And winning a seatbelt argument with the help of police, won't fix it. Kids like to cross streets, run around in parking lots, climb things, taste things, and that's just the early years. What about when they're teenagers? Can a parent call the cops every single day to make sure their kids stay away from sex, drugs, and criminal behavior? Perhaps it'd be more realistic for parents to educate themselves on how to get their children to listen in important situations. I respect the mom for not being on a tyrannical power trip (which seems to be a tempting option for many parents), but she needs to read some books, or pay for a parenting class.
I think EVERY parent can learn from reading and/or participating in a class or two or three. Some parents think they know it all and are quick to judge other parents.
So, mom was unable to exert authority over her 3- year old daughter??? I hope mom will consider counseling for parenting skills, with emphasis on how to establish consistent boundaries. Otherwise, cute little daughter will be a cute little monster at age 6, a not-so-cute little nightmare for any teacher at age 7 and unmanageable during middle school.
There's nothing wrong with what she did.. She called non emergency, and they did this after setting an appointment.. I think that was cute.. Now granted, all my mom had to do was give..... The look!! That look was of death! 🤣 I would have felt safer with the officer..
thank you for clearing that up I was going into a rant thinking she called the police after the child only did it once and I wasn't even thinking about the officer coming in on taxpayer dollars but that she needs the police to parent her children because she's not an authority figure and is probably embarrassing the s*** out of her too which I'm okay with because psychological torment over spanking is so much more effective it gets to the brain and stays there for a long time but I still think this is a little excessive and even if you did call for a non-emergency appointment for a one-on-one with the police officer for him to explain the situation to her child I think it's silly on her part
Swnsasy _ So true, that mum _Look_ was like a thousand threats delivered in an instant. Dad's was worse, that was the _look_ backed up with the ''pointing finger'', that would send shivers and also stop any carry on instantly. The only words spoken from either of these were usually my apologies!
Anthony Butler Omgosh give me a break.. Stop over thinking something so small. The officers made the appt and felt it was something to do because it is apart of their job description. Protect & Serve, did you forget that? You've never seen a video where a cop is on duty and pulls over a little kid on his/her bike and writes them a ticket? Jesus you guys act like a cop is only good for shoot em up and writing tickets. I work with great officers that take time out of their day to help at risk teens and there is nothing wrong with that. Thank goodness you aren't a cop! You would be horrible at it...
I did that. My son kept unbuckling his seat belt. There were some police parked a few cars away and I asked one of them to please come and talk to my 3 year old. They were very good and he never did it again.
Why don't she parent her own kids instead of the cop doing it? The cops are supposed to catch bad guys not help you parent your child lady. This was not cool in my opinion.
Sometimes the kid doesn't listen to the parent or the one they are riding with. One time I was asked to drop my little brother off at the soccer field when I was about to go home and My little brother unbuckled his seat belt on the highway ( I was driving my 92 ford truck) and so I pulled over and tried to explain to him about why he needs to wear his seatbelt, I told him if he doesn't there is no airbag to save him and he will go flying through the windshield if someone was going to rear ended us. Since my Truck wasn't manufactured with airbags because back then it wasn't required when it was made. And it took a lot of struggle to get it on him. So after I dropped him off I called my dad and he wasn't pleased because of how my little brother acted.
The most stupid lesson for 3 years old!! Three-year-old child and mom called the cop to teach a basic thing, why?! So that mom can have more time to go and do some more make-ups for her man?!! These basic things and with such-aged children supposed to be handled by their parents and not by cops who get paid for more responsive duties! Have a life!
UnSq You sure are an ass it’s called having a authority figure to help out since when kids are young usually they look o to police officers it’s called teaching a kid a lesson when they young so they won’t ever do it again it wasn’t a emergency called but a apportionment to teach....
Well teach your own damn child. So unnecessary to call the cops, just do your own parenting. Read a book on how to teach your child about safety. Explain it clearly. No need for a call to the cops. They didn't fine her for taking up time of the police important work?
There's a difference between calling the police officer standing on the sidewalk for a quick talk and having an appointment to call a police man over to explain things to a toddler which she won't grasp
Or maybe have a positive influence on the kid today so that 13 years from now you don't have problems with that same kid in the future. This cop knows that getting involved in a positive way with the community will make his job easier.
Lol learn math first hahah, if cops get 22.50 for hour then for 25 mins it is 9.37+ dispatchers 2 mins lets round up to 0.25 cent and it is under $10 . Everybody pay taxes so don’t worry about government’s $10 . Joke is on you lol copes does not get 200 or something for 25 minutes . 😂
2018...... Video any stupid thing and 10000's watch it..... And discuss it...... Fml...... I deleted all social media... Now you tube is down spiralling
1st world problems in America are just heart breaking. I hope everything works out great for this family and the child learned her lesson. God bless the good U, S, and A.
Actually when my son was 3 he stuck tweezers in an electrical socket. He was in the bathroom and the electricity shut off in that room and maybe another room at the same time. In a very old house that would've been extremely dangerous. In most homes home there is an automatic shutoff. Thank God , it's not as dangerous as it once was. ETA: I just did some research. It's still considered hazardous so best to put safety caps on the sockets if you have small children in your home.
If that's what if takes yes, we need more parents like her. Parents now a days allow kids to listen to music that encourages adultery, lying, profanity, disrespect, and many other things. They allow children to watch movies they are not supposed to at their age and because of all that, kids grow up thinking that that is ok. They look at it as something normal. So these kids grow up into adults that do not benefit our community and are the problematic ones.
now every time she does wrong shes gonna expect a cop to show up,,,when she gets older shes gonna really love cops...parent ur own kid,,,wtf,,,we don't need the government to intervene in everything,,smh
...which is why you teach the lessons early. So they learn. So, they are less likely to put themselves in a risky situation later, when there's no one there to redirect them. It's called early prevention. Costs less than dealing with cleanup later from a lesson never taught or never learned. Smh.
CBS, thank you for airing this!!! Such a good example, encouraging, good example, shows kindness of police.... how authority can be GOOD and not EVIL (As God intended for our care). THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU! Blessings to all
If you can't get your child to WEAR A SEAT BELT....How do you expect to get them to do anything in life. I was an independent Mother(dislike the word single) of two children for many many years,my kids listened to ME. Never had to call ANYONE for backup. Seriously.
I would let her get arrested too, rolling her eyes like that. Let her stay in one of those holding cells with the piece of metal as a bed for a few hours. Talking doesn't work on kids, you gotta act.
This is a good idea. Its scary, my mom did it for me. She found out i was bullying someone in middle school and called the school cop and asked him to scare me good to get me to stop. It worked, i never bullied anyone again.
Should of detained the child for disturbing the peace. I doubt the kid gets any form of punishment for her behavior. 12 hours of no toys or sugary snacks might change the child's behavior.
That's like saying it's not your kid's teacher's job to parent your kid. It's fine for other trusted adults to reinforce the difference between right and wrong to a child. Actually all kids are taught some morals from other adults unless you're homeschooled.
Thatsswell2012 He meant that its her job to show her authority if the mom couldnt manage a buckle just imagine how she cant enforce even more serious things
my daughter's 4 year old unfastened her seat belt rt at the moment my daughter slammed into the car in front of her totaling her car.The mircle is her 4 year old was not hurt nor my daughter but it served as a very strong lesson to never unfastened your seat belt!!
Mom: She promised to not ever unbuckle her seatbelt again.... Kid: Damn right I won't. So I don't have to talk to you stupid people. Also, shouldn't she be in a carseat anyways?? Is that what she unbuckled?
all yes cause the cops always worry about ur persona safety over there own, tell that sentiment to all the parents with kids that have mental health issues that asked for help and instead got there kid back in a coffin.
so let me get this straight the child had unbuckled her seatbelt and you call the cops on her because you didn't want to explain the situation okay I get if you're not wanting to go in great detail about the situation but you need to reword it to give a clearer picture of what happened because what I'm hearing sounds awful and your child is going to resent you at an earlier age and is going to be scared of the police not to mention she's not going to see you as an authority figure and neither would I if you always have to call the police on your child for misbehaving
What a WASTE of police resources. It's not their job to teach and discipline a 3 yr old on seatbelts.. What upsets me is they never came out when my bag got stolen or when my friend was stabbed... I'm personally disgusted by this
Depends on the neighborhood. We are grateful that the police have so little to do where we live. Also, the mom called the non emergency number and made an appointment. Schools do similar things all the time- having police officers and firemen come in to talk about safety.
When police get involved in the community it fosters respect and people trust them more. If your kids only interact with the police when there is a crisis they are always going to be wary of them.
MJ D yeah she should have given that three year old a good beating on the side of the road so that next time she would know better than to try and disobey...
That is the responsibility of a parent, not the police. So what, she needs to call the police in the supermarket to teach her child it is not OK to take stuff. Do your own parenting and read a book on how to teach your child to wear a seat belt when they don't want to. No need to beat a child.
Mom made an impact! The kid will remember this incident for life, and respect for authority is a major factor in patenting, which is missing in today's society!
Innocent Spectator No she didn't. She made the impact that "mom's word" isn't worth anything. That a police officer has to be there to prove it is true.
My son was not listening to me, being a single working mom in a foreign country he was giving me a run literally for my money. At night he went to the local mall and I was sure he was there but had the police go there and pick him up and boy it was a real show and do you think he has done that since...NOT. Being a parent is not easy whether it a 2 parent home and or a single parent home there are challenges that come with both and it is nice to have that extra outside support if it is available. Good on you mom... a pat on your back.
This is for the readers who automatically think the child needs punishment or spanking. My grandson was very resistant to wearing a seat restraint. He was borderline autistic but mostly had sensory issues. One year everytime he went out he would strip down and get in the dogs waterbucket. One year he kept taking his clothes off. One year he wore two or three layers of clothes. He went througha spell of wanting to break thinks. The occupational therapist had us keep him a stash of twigs, popsicle sticks to satisfy thae cracking feeling and sound. He is finishing second grade, loves routine, reads above grade level, can add up a restaurant receipt faster than I can. He wears t-shirts and soft athletic pants, never jeans. I've listed examples so instead of thinking a child automatically needs a spanking for not staying in a seat belt, think about other possibilities, especially if it is repetitive. One thing I did when he was older was to carefully select a youtube video of someone being throw out of a wrecking car. It was a police car going over and the backseat occupant disappeared through the rear window. He is such a concrete thinker the visual helped him see what could happen.
A black 3-year-old would have been treated like a dangerous criminal, approached with a gun, handcuffed and put in the back of the cruiser and be intimidated.
John Lamphier if she is not listening, she can’t tie her with seatbelt . Can you get simple point how about if she will jump out of the car? May be she tried otherwise no parent will do such thing
Better she waste 15 minutes of taxpayers money now than a whole lifetime of medical care money to care for a paraplegic at age 4 for the rest of her life!
The Blonde Solution youre either slow or dont gave kids nor been around them. It's a child's job to push the envelope to see how far they can get with a parent. She's for she's at that stage of learning what's acceptable and what's not. Most kids that age try and defy their parents. There's not a parent around that was not tell you that their kids have not tried to push the envelope. On another note kids think you're just saying things cuz your mom and its mom's job to constantly keep saying no. Mom is always the bad guy that's why children using love daddy more cuz Daddy lets them get away with things. Did you always listen to your parent? She did what she thought was right so she wouldn't have to constantly tell her daughter as she was driving to put her seatbelt on once and it wasn't just mom being MOM!!!!!!
When I was 5...before seatbelt laws were enforced and before I even knew what a seatbelt was...I was in the front seat of my Grandmother's car when she had to slam on her brakes. My face hit the dash, I busted my lip and no one ever had to convince me to buckle up from that day.
Kawaii Potatoes, it is passing off parenting to someone else. The child needs to obey the parents and having someone else coming in weakens your authority. Lots of parents have forgotten to use a look or a tone of voice or a stance to convey the seriousness of the conversation.
No Kawaii, it wasn't a good thing to do. I don't know any parent who has this problem. Why? Because they nurtured good behaviour in their children from the word go. This child has not been taught to respect her parent's instructions and that is the fault of the mother. What a joy this kid will be when she hits puberty. SMH
I agree kids should learn to respect parents first,havi g 3 kids now grown,I just had to look or speak in a certain way that they immediately know they are doing something wrong.Now my children would laugh and say 'remember when mom used to say or do this or that'.It helped them to instilled the same with my grandkids.
Lol all the people in the comments jealous that this mom found a creative and probably more impactful way to discipline her child than whooping her ass like how they were beat as kids 🙄
J Munjalll Go ahead waste tax payer dollars to be creative with your child stfu if she couldnt enforce something as easy as a buckle just image the serious things she cant handle either
No Footy Skater Bruh ... if you think your tax dollars aren’t being wasted on stupid shit by the government anyways then I don’t even know what to say /: Sorry to let you know but money is going down the drain to the point where it doesn’t even matter anymore and that isn’t gonna change anyyyyytime soon
J Munjalll I know that but just because its already being wasted doesnt mean we should flush it ALL to shit just because its not being spent well to vegin with people like her arent helping😂😂
She made an appointment to teach her child the safety of wearing a seat belt, 1. million people die in car-related incidents a year.. tbh she wasn't being a bad mum at all.
Whitney Pyant you don't call cops on a little kid ...Cops don't need to explain the parent should ! If you can't control your 3 yr old shouldn't be a mother ...Mother is stupid as hell ...When that child gets older she have to call cops again ..Parents need to be parents no expect someone else raise their kids ..Mom needs to get to teaching !
Penny Burris What? With that logic then we should not allow our children to learn anything from anyone other than there parents. What about teacher or doctors should we not let them teach our children either. She didn't called the cops on her kid, she made an appointment and ask if they could explain to her 3 year old why it is important to wear your seatbelt. Police, Firemen etc. come into the schools regularly to teach kid about dangers of drugs, stranger danger, bike safety, how is what this Mother do any different. Sometimes being a good Mom is admitting when you need help with a situation, we have to stop trying to be Know it all Super Moms.
Those who say that the mom should’ve hurt her child are completely wrong, in one of my child care classes hurting your child makes the kid grow up to fear you something you absolutely DON’T want, it’s better to at least put the child in time out. Or be like this amazing mom and do something creative and different.
Erin Jackson um sometimes I never fall and sometimes I put my legs on the seat hands besides I have a big body I'm taller than my parents and sister and I'm 14
It doesn't mater how old u r or even how tall, fat, or muscular you are. If you get into a roll over (like my dad did last week) that's not enough to save u. The seat belt had saved my dad's life and they can crash into u from ANY direction when their drunk XD also Why do you keep bringing up your age? age doesn't determine weather it safe or not without the seat belt, not wearing the seat belt doesn't make u cool
I see what your saying but you can also be jostled to the side u can go flying in any direction no matter how hard the impact and like I said that's not enough to protect you in a roll over
My son is a police sergeant and he would have no problem responding to a parent's call to talk to their kids about buckling up. When he was a youngster himself seat belts were not mandatory but they were definitely a smart thing to use. I told my kids if they don't buckle up the outing is immediately cancelled... if we're already on the road and they unbuckle that's enough to turn around and go home. He and his sister managed to learn pretty quick that it was better to buckle up and remain buckled if they wanted to go out to McD's or for some away-from-the-house fun! With my three younger ones my mother-in-law used to provide day-care for them and her thing was "If you don't buckle up the car won't go." ~and~ "I can't start the car until that flashing light goes out... and it won't go out until everyone's buckled up!" My own favourite 'threat' with them was "Don't make me pull over!... because if I do you'll be walking home!" ...and that worked every time!!
I think this mom is awesome. Think I might do this with my kids one day for safety training who to call in an emergency where to go and such so that way they feel comfortable with talking to police officers and how to answer hard questions. This will also be helpful so if my child heaven forbid got lost or needed help or was up to something they shouldn't they can Know who the kid is and such.
Teaching your child about car safety or safety in general isn’t abuse .. get them started young .. hearing it from others then just mom and dad is not bad at all so stop accusing her for trying to keep her child safe
I agree this is terrible parenting. You can't run to the authorities every time your kids don't follow the rules. I would have just pulled over to a side road and wait till she was ready. I always tell my toddler "Mom and dad want you to have fun. But safety is more important. If you are being unsafe, then all the fun stops". Should have just pulled over to the side of the road and just waited for the kid to understand this is not acceptable
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Can’t control your kid a 3 yrs old. Imagine when she’s a teenager.
Albert Quiroz Cash me ousside how bout dat...
Controlling your kid will not teach them to be responsible for themselves.
@@Majestic469 What the mom SHOULD be teaching her child:
-Honor/obey/respect your parents
-Be responsible for your own safety
What she instead taught her child:
-Mom needs the police to do her job
-The government actually cares about your safety (they don't)
I think she did a great job at teaching her kids about safety and respecting authority.. we desperately need more parents who care this much!!
Keep going with your know it all parenting . Self righteous.
Your kids turned out angels because of your thoughtless
My parents would have said : "DON'T MAKE ME PULL OVER!" And you knew better what was coming.
Indeed!!! One look and it was enough for me to know that my parents were the authority!!. no need for cops
Cbanecks Ban yes so true
You are right about that
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Right, if anything they'd be calling the cops so they could report a 'accident' that ended badly
That little girl was rolling her eyes at the officer, she didn't learn anything other than...I can make it on tv.
KL Wight maybe because it’s ridiculous to call the damn police on a 3 year old. 🙄
Katie Denmark 2 years later 🙄 🤣😂🤣😂
@@kpopmrs5297 oh the irony..
@@offimoo9995 huh? Make sense when you reply
That 3 year old was just giving side eye to that cop.
Hahaha
YES! And with plenty of attitude too.
HAHA! Too funny. And you're totally right.
Erika Miller i know i was she sassy!!!
0:37 - 0:46
PERFECT! Exactly what kids this age should be taught....how to respect authority. PS, She's adorable!
Mom made an impact! This kid will remember that incident for life, and respect for authority is a major parenting factor that is missing in today's society.
Innocent Spectator .... Respect should instead be taught when someone EARNS it.
She's three; they'll be lucky if she remembers it next month. Parents bailed here; they did not teach their child to demonstrate good behaviour and obedience, by nurturing it in her all the way along. Parents get a huge failing grade.
That kid didn't care one bit.
Umm I don't think the lesson is respect it's safety bruh
@@vapingcatnightcore1110 What the mom SHOULD be teaching her child:
-Honor/obey/respect your parents
-Be responsible for your own safety
What she instead taught her child:
-Mom needs the police to do her job
-The government actually cares about your safety (they don't)
The police are usually more than happy and pretty good at helping parents help their children to understand why we have these laws.
@bugger imposing your will on another human being is an act of violence. Seatbelt laws should not be mandatory and if your kids don’t want to wear them then just don’t drive. If they take their belt off after your driving then just find a way to keep the buckled in until you get back home safe and later make it to wear the seatbelt cannot be detached after driving. No need for the cops.
Well Police do DARE and counseling youth imo is not a waste of tax payer dollars. Cops should have a healthy relationship in the community.
Keeping children off drugs is a little more pressing than helping a mom win an argument with a toddler. It's not a police matter. The real problem is that this mother doesn't know how to get basic control over her little girl. A cop scaring her into wearing seatbelt won't fix that. She needs to spend her own money on books or parenting classes, rather than directing tax payer resources towards winning am arguement.
Young Professional I completely agree with you. It is better that she learns when she's young and if she's not willing to listen to mom... Plus, the mother made an appointment with them so it wasn't costing anyone any money.
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This is not a good safe, at least in the psychological sense, a good disciplinary method for a kid that young. You have no idea what you're talking about shut the f****** up.
Don't have the police parent for you lady!!!!!!! There are other non scarring ways that you can teach your kid a lesson!!!!!!!!!! Especially a toddler!!!!!!!!!! A toddler!!!!! get that?????!!!!!!!!! A toddler!!!!!! Try looking at it from a toddler's point of view, instead of the point of you you're looking at it through, which is that of a fully grown fully mature adults point of view, although with this lady her maturity and adulthood certainly comes into question. Not a suitable non-scarring way to discipline a kid this young. This is a toddler, a three-year-old not a 12 to 17 year old. I remember how frightening it was a couple of times when my mom called the police on me to quote unquote, and that is a huge quote-unquote, called the police on me when I was young. People, please don't tell me that this is non-scarring because I lived through it. Keep being ruled over your emotions you quote unquote parents. Because it's worth so well in the past before.
If mother doesn't have enough authority with the three years old to buckle up, then she has failed as parent. Imagine if you have to call police to teach the child simple thing?! I think this is very stupid idea
Dean Massrer How many kids have u raised?
I agree cause that’s just wasting a cop time cause they have other important things to do instead of telling a 3year old to buckle the seat belt even tho that’s a mother’s job
@@user-zx5xw4yw2e just because someone is a parent doesn't automatically mean they'll agree with this.
True!
lmao. I know a parent who can't coax their seven year old into buckling up.
To those criticizing the mom for what she did.....
First, she did not call the emergency #. She called the non-emergency #.
Second, the officer who went was most likely one who was not in the middle of anything except maybe driving up and down streets.
Third, the mom most likely stopped the car and told the child to buckle up with no action from the child.
Finally, this is about the safety of the child. THAT is why the mom called the police.
USA Resident still she's the mom is going to call them for everything
I do not believe that. The reason why is because I had the same conflict with my strong-willed child when they were younger. I had done everything I could think of to do but that child outright defied me no matter what about the issue. So, I had called the police. The only reason was because it was a safety issue. That was the one and only time it was necessary too. After that no more seatbelt defiance.
USA Resident Amen I agree
If you can't gain basic control over your kid's behavior in unsafe situations, the problem is way bigger than seatbelt safety. And winning a seatbelt argument with the help of police, won't fix it. Kids like to cross streets, run around in parking lots, climb things, taste things, and that's just the early years. What about when they're teenagers? Can a parent call the cops every single day to make sure their kids stay away from sex, drugs, and criminal behavior? Perhaps it'd be more realistic for parents to educate themselves on how to get their children to listen in important situations. I respect the mom for not being on a tyrannical power trip (which seems to be a tempting option for many parents), but she needs to read some books, or pay for a parenting class.
I think EVERY parent can learn from reading and/or participating in a class or two or three. Some parents think they know it all and are quick to judge other parents.
So, mom was unable to exert authority over her 3- year old daughter??? I hope mom will consider counseling for parenting skills, with emphasis on how to establish consistent boundaries. Otherwise, cute little daughter will be a cute little monster at age 6, a not-so-cute little nightmare for any teacher at age 7 and unmanageable during middle school.
There's nothing wrong with what she did.. She called non emergency, and they did this after setting an appointment.. I think that was cute.. Now granted, all my mom had to do was give..... The look!! That look was of death! 🤣 I would have felt safer with the officer..
You got that right
thank you for clearing that up I was going into a rant thinking she called the police after the child only did it once and I wasn't even thinking about the officer coming in on taxpayer dollars but that she needs the police to parent her children because she's not an authority figure and is probably embarrassing the s*** out of her too which I'm okay with because psychological torment over spanking is so much more effective it gets to the brain and stays there for a long time but I still think this is a little excessive and even if you did call for a non-emergency appointment for a one-on-one with the police officer for him to explain the situation to her child I think it's silly on her part
Swnsasy _ So true, that mum _Look_ was like a thousand threats delivered in an instant. Dad's was worse, that was the _look_ backed up with the ''pointing finger'', that would send shivers and also stop any carry on instantly. The only words spoken from either of these were usually my apologies!
Anthony Butler Omgosh give me a break.. Stop over thinking something so small. The officers made the appt and felt it was something to do because it is apart of their job description. Protect & Serve, did you forget that? You've never seen a video where a cop is on duty and pulls over a little kid on his/her bike and writes them a ticket? Jesus you guys act like a cop is only good for shoot em up and writing tickets. I work with great officers that take time out of their day to help at risk teens and there is nothing wrong with that. Thank goodness you aren't a cop! You would be horrible at it...
Weasel LOL! You got that right.. I just shivered again thinking about mine, God rest her soul...
She is a good mom. Good thing she did that. I’m impressed
I did that. My son kept unbuckling his seat belt. There were some police parked a few cars away and I asked one of them to please come and talk to my 3 year old. They were very good and he never did it again.
Why don't she parent her own kids instead of the cop doing it? The cops are supposed to catch bad guys not help you parent your child lady. This was not cool in my opinion.
+rodney1279...the child doesn't need a safety class by the police officer. Instead, the mother is the one in need of some parenting class.
I agree. That was no excuse.
Sometimes the kid doesn't listen to the parent or the one they are riding with. One time I was asked to drop my little brother off at the soccer field when I was about to go home and My little brother unbuckled his seat belt on the highway ( I was driving my 92 ford truck) and so I pulled over and tried to explain to him about why he needs to wear his seatbelt, I told him if he doesn't there is no airbag to save him and he will go flying through the windshield if someone was going to rear ended us. Since my Truck wasn't manufactured with airbags because back then it wasn't required when it was made. And it took a lot of struggle to get it on him. So after I dropped him off I called my dad and he wasn't pleased because of how my little brother acted.
Don t you think cops have some more important stuff to do than educating your kids ?
Payrot Anchor she called non emergency and set an appointment if you watch the video 🤦🏽♀️
I love the little girls reaction,she is like whatever the police is talking and she is flicking her hair.
Not to mention f-ing smirking behind his back the little bitch!
Poisen Ivy you just called a little girl a bitch
Poisen Ivy Does your Mommy or Daddy know you're on KRplus honey? Go here instead:
krplus.net/uytkids/
Manda Panda I guess Poison Ivy should have said "pre-bitch". I suppose that would be the " politically correct" term?
U ar stupid
EXCELLENT lesson for 3 year old.
Terry Hyde yeah. Its perfect because now the police can be forced to parent and discipline kids so that parents dont have to. Great logic
@@subzerofromny735 Agreed with you 100%!!
The most stupid lesson for 3 years old!! Three-year-old child and mom called the cop to teach a basic thing, why?! So that mom can have more time to go and do some more make-ups for her man?!! These basic things and with such-aged children supposed to be handled by their parents and not by cops who get paid for more responsive duties! Have a life!
God bless, these officers.
Community Resource Officers are needed in more areas. Even if this guy was not a CRO it is needed.
Way to go, Mom!!!
Her mom didn’t call the police ON her! She did it to help her daughter.
UnSq You sure are an ass it’s called having a authority figure to help out since when kids are young usually they look o to police officers it’s called teaching a kid a lesson when they young so they won’t ever do it again it wasn’t a emergency called but a apportionment to teach....
Well teach your own damn child. So unnecessary to call the cops, just do your own parenting. Read a book on how to teach your child about safety. Explain it clearly. No need for a call to the cops. They didn't fine her for taking up time of the police important work?
HollowValkyrie what lesson? That they’re automatically criminals at the age of 3?
The 3. year probably doesn't know what the cop was even saying
There's a difference between calling the police officer standing on the sidewalk for a quick talk and having an appointment to call a police man over to explain things to a toddler which she won't grasp
Bill the mother.
25min x $22.50hr police officer salary + dispatcher salary $12.00hr = $275 Bill.
Or maybe have a positive influence on the kid today so that 13 years from now you don't have problems with that same kid in the future. This cop knows that getting involved in a positive way with the community will make his job easier.
Lol learn math first hahah, if cops get 22.50 for hour then for 25 mins it is 9.37+ dispatchers 2 mins lets round up to 0.25 cent and it is under $10 . Everybody pay taxes so don’t worry about government’s $10 . Joke is on you lol copes does not get 200 or something for 25 minutes . 😂
"copes"
Hahaha english is a language girl not a qualification 😛 but math is 😛😛😛.
Worst parent
My nephews wouldn’t buckle up so I just slammed on the brakes! They learned!! Ha
That officer handled that situation perfectly.
2018......
Video any stupid thing and 10000's watch it..... And discuss it......
Fml...... I deleted all social media... Now you tube is down spiralling
1st world problems in America are just heart breaking. I hope everything works out great for this family and the child learned her lesson. God bless the good U, S, and A.
LMFAO
That shows mom can't control her daughter, need help from some one else to do her job.
Maria Casas yap true
IF YOU CANT CONVINCE YOUR OWN CHILD TO WEAR SEATBELT, DONT HAVE MORE CHILDREN PLS
I admire this mum very much... no compromising the life of her child ....
nothing gets a child attention better than a Twist of the ear
😆 I remember those days
The kid doesn't care still !
Calling the cops on a 3-year old and that 3-year old is your own daughter? DAMNIT MAN!!!!
Can a 3 year old really appreciate and comprehend the severity of not wearing a seat belt? Even by a police man?
What's she gonna do when the kid sticks her finger in a socket? Call the electric company?
😂😂😂👍
Actually when my son was 3 he stuck tweezers in an electrical socket. He was in the bathroom and the electricity shut off in that room and maybe another room at the same time. In a very old house that would've been extremely dangerous. In most homes home there is an automatic shutoff. Thank God , it's not as dangerous as it once was. ETA: I just did some research. It's still considered hazardous so best to put safety caps on the sockets if you have small children in your home.
I don’t think she did anything wrong... but this comment made me laugh.
If that's what if takes yes, we need more parents like her. Parents now a days allow kids to listen to music that encourages adultery, lying, profanity, disrespect, and many other things. They allow children to watch movies they are not supposed to at their age and because of all that, kids grow up thinking that that is ok. They look at it as something normal. So these kids grow up into adults that do not benefit our community and are the problematic ones.
Stick a lightbulb in her mouth and there you have it a little table lamp
now every time she does wrong shes gonna expect a cop to show up,,,when she gets older shes gonna really love cops...parent ur own kid,,,wtf,,,we don't need the government to intervene in everything,,smh
...which is why you teach the lessons early. So they learn. So, they are less likely to put themselves in a risky situation later, when there's no one there to redirect them. It's called early prevention. Costs less than dealing with cleanup later from a lesson never taught or never learned. Smh.
Tim McGuire Exactly! Well said
CBS, thank you for airing this!!! Such a good example, encouraging, good example, shows kindness of police.... how authority can be GOOD and not EVIL (As God intended for our care). THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU! Blessings to all
If you can't get your child to WEAR A SEAT BELT....How do you expect to get them to do anything in life.
I was an independent Mother(dislike the word single) of two children for many many years,my kids listened to ME. Never had to call ANYONE for backup. Seriously.
my mom and dad would have said "put on your seat belt or we will not go eny where"
Dalia Maldonado it's *any* sweetie. pero está bien.😊
Fancy Fantasy It’s a *typo*, sweetie.
lol Gotch. 😊
Dalia Maldonado same
It's "I understand". :)
I would let her get arrested too, rolling her eyes like that. Let her stay in one of those holding cells with the piece of metal as a bed for a few hours. Talking doesn't work on kids, you gotta act.
Well if I was a police officer I would just arrest the mom
Note to all the couple out there about to having kids : if u can't tells/make your 3 years kids to put on the seat belt ..don't plan to have any kids.
This is a good idea. Its scary, my mom did it for me. She found out i was bullying someone in middle school and called the school cop and asked him to scare me good to get me to stop. It worked, i never bullied anyone again.
Ridiculous. If you cannot nurture good behaviour in your child at that age, the police are really going to love you when she's 16.
Should of detained the child for disturbing the peace. I doubt the kid gets any form of punishment for her behavior. 12 hours of no toys or sugary snacks might change the child's behavior.
Amazed the cop didn’t fear for his life! WOW!
My mom would I have " don't make me pull over" or " I gonna turn this fucking car around " and you knew you better sit down and put your seat belt on
Its her job to parent the child not the cops
sam anderson the mom is look the cop didn’t shot her!!
Yup.. bad parenting if she had to call cop
She did the right thing!!!!!!
That's like saying it's not your kid's teacher's job to parent your kid. It's fine for other trusted adults to reinforce the difference between right and wrong to a child. Actually all kids are taught some morals from other adults unless you're homeschooled.
Thatsswell2012 He meant that its her job to show her authority if the mom couldnt manage a buckle just imagine how she cant enforce even more serious things
my daughter's 4 year old unfastened her seat belt rt at the moment my daughter slammed into the car in front of her totaling her car.The mircle is her 4 year old was not hurt nor my daughter but it served as a very strong lesson to never unfastened your seat belt!!
Mom would have slapped me on face. 3 years old needs discipline
Mom: She promised to not ever unbuckle her seatbelt again....
Kid: Damn right I won't. So I don't have to talk to you stupid people.
Also, shouldn't she be in a carseat anyways?? Is that what she unbuckled?
This is just pathetic.
that mom didn't do the right thing. she made her child very vulnerable.
As someone whose worked in childcare for a decade... top priority is your child’s safety. This mom is a wonderful parent.
I don't think it was that serious do not call the cops on your child
all yes cause the cops always worry about ur persona safety over there own, tell that sentiment to all the parents with kids that have mental health issues that asked for help and instead got there kid back in a coffin.
so let me get this straight the child had unbuckled her seatbelt and you call the cops on her because you didn't want to explain the situation okay I get if you're not wanting to go in great detail about the situation but you need to reword it to give a clearer picture of what happened because what I'm hearing sounds awful and your child is going to resent you at an earlier age and is going to be scared of the police not to mention she's not going to see you as an authority figure and neither would I if you always have to call the police on your child for misbehaving
teach your kids why not the cops your the mom!💢💢💢
What a WASTE of police resources. It's not their job to teach and discipline a 3 yr old on seatbelts.. What upsets me is they never came out when my bag got stolen or when my friend was stabbed... I'm personally disgusted by this
Thats why father is important in family unit.
I feel like that's a waste of time and resources, just parent your kids. Somewhere out there someone actually needs help...
Gina Nguyen she made an appointment with them..nobody needed help lol
Catherine Wilson The point is she made a officer do the parenting because she was too easy going and could not enforce a buckle
No Footy Skater it takes a village
Depends on the neighborhood. We are grateful that the police have so little to do where we live. Also, the mom called the non emergency number and made an appointment. Schools do similar things all the time- having police officers and firemen come in to talk about safety.
No Footy Skater I certainly think she is the one parenting and it was a creative way to do it.
This is ridiculous. Parent your own children, police who do their job well have better things to do.
When police get involved in the community it fosters respect and people trust them more. If your kids only interact with the police when there is a crisis they are always going to be wary of them.
Very good ..That cop was great..and she did the right thing.
It’s not a cops job to parent YOUR child!! Get a grip lady
That’s a camera person behind the policeman. Was that all staged?
Pity the child doesn't have parents to force her to behave. She should have been charged with wasting police time
MJ D yeah she should have given that three year old a good beating on the side of the road so that next time she would know better than to try and disobey...
It was a non-emergency number
That is the responsibility of a parent, not the police. So what, she needs to call the police in the supermarket to teach her child it is not OK to take stuff. Do your own parenting and read a book on how to teach your child to wear a seat belt when they don't want to. No need to beat a child.
So I guess schools should be too?
Mom made an impact! The kid will remember this incident for life, and respect for authority is a major factor in patenting, which is missing in today's society!
Innocent Spectator No she didn't. She made the impact that "mom's word" isn't worth anything. That a police officer has to be there to prove it is true.
My son was not listening to me, being a single working mom in a foreign country he was giving me a run literally for my money. At night he went to the local mall and I was sure he was there but had the police go there and pick him up and boy it was a real show and do you think he has done that since...NOT. Being a parent is not easy whether it a 2 parent home and or a single parent home there are challenges that come with both and it is nice to have that extra outside support if it is available.
Good on you mom... a pat on your back.
That mom should be slapped
Dragon1 Indo1 For?
Right. You should be raising her and telling her thoses things not a cop
On that ass
This is for the readers who automatically think the child needs punishment or spanking. My grandson was very resistant to wearing a seat restraint. He was borderline autistic but mostly had sensory issues. One year everytime he went out he would strip down and get in the dogs waterbucket. One year he kept taking his clothes off. One year he wore two or three layers of clothes. He went througha spell of wanting to break thinks. The occupational therapist had us keep him a stash of twigs, popsicle sticks to satisfy thae cracking feeling and sound. He is finishing second grade, loves routine, reads above grade level, can add up a restaurant receipt faster than I can. He wears t-shirts and soft athletic pants, never jeans. I've listed examples so instead of thinking a child automatically needs a spanking for not staying in a seat belt, think about other possibilities, especially if it is repetitive. One thing I did when he was older was to carefully select a youtube video of someone being throw out of a wrecking car. It was a police car going over and the backseat occupant disappeared through the rear window. He is such a concrete thinker the visual helped him see what could happen.
A black 3-year-old would have been treated like a dangerous criminal, approached with a gun, handcuffed and put in the back of the cruiser and be intimidated.
That little girl was listening... good for mom.. cops are here to protect and serve not just arrest.. cure story!
Man people need to stop acting innocent ✋ kids do not listen she's a great mom!
ridiculous. take authority over your kid. if she doesn't get it, isn't the point. you`re the mother.
John Lamphier if she is not listening, she can’t tie her with seatbelt . Can you get simple point how about if she will jump out of the car? May be she tried otherwise no parent will do such thing
Stop wasting tax payers money !
Better she waste 15 minutes of taxpayers money now than a whole lifetime of medical care money to care for a paraplegic at age 4 for the rest of her life!
Kayla Bell
Well then the problem is why doesnt a 4 yr old respect the parent!
Kayla Bell
It wasnt meant as a question...it was an exclamation statement with an open ending to induce a reply...but not yours...
Kayla Bell
Whatever...
The Blonde Solution youre either slow or dont gave kids nor been around them. It's a child's job to push the envelope to see how far they can get with a parent. She's for she's at that stage of learning what's acceptable and what's not. Most kids that age try and defy their parents. There's not a parent around that was not tell you that their kids have not tried to push the envelope. On another note kids think you're just saying things cuz your mom and its mom's job to constantly keep saying no. Mom is always the bad guy that's why children using love daddy more cuz Daddy lets them get away with things. Did you always listen to your parent? She did what she thought was right so she wouldn't have to constantly tell her daughter as she was driving to put her seatbelt on once and it wasn't just mom being MOM!!!!!!
I Don’t Negotiate With 3 Year Olds! 😠
When I was 5...before seatbelt laws were enforced and before I even knew what a seatbelt was...I was in the front seat of my Grandmother's car when she had to slam on her brakes. My face hit the dash, I busted my lip and no one ever had to convince me to buckle up from that day.
that's publix service ;)
Great job by both parent and cop.
Control you own kids! Calling the police. Damn lazy.
She scheduled an appointment to teach her kid the importance of wearing a seat belt, how is that lazy? It was a good thing to do.
Kawaii Potatoes, it is passing off parenting to someone else. The child needs to obey the parents and having someone else coming in weakens your authority. Lots of parents have forgotten to use a look or a tone of voice or a stance to convey the seriousness of the conversation.
No Kawaii, it wasn't a good thing to do. I don't know any parent who has this problem. Why? Because they nurtured good behaviour in their children from the word go. This child has not been taught to respect her parent's instructions and that is the fault of the mother. What a joy this kid will be when she hits puberty. SMH
Paul Lopez not really
I agree kids should learn to respect parents first,havi g 3 kids now grown,I just had to look or speak in a certain way that they immediately know they are doing something wrong.Now my children would laugh and say 'remember when mom used to say or do this or that'.It helped them to instilled the same with my grandkids.
Good for the Mother and daughter!
This is so ridiculous that a mother has to call the police because she can’t control her 3 year old. She should feel really embarrassed
Lol all the people in the comments jealous that this mom found a creative and probably more impactful way to discipline her child than whooping her ass like how they were beat as kids 🙄
J Munjalll creative and impactful.... 🤔 the classic american thinking.
Believe me... Ass whoopins are pretty up there on the scale in terms of impactful. 😕
J Munjalll Go ahead waste tax payer dollars to be creative with your child stfu if she couldnt enforce something as easy as a buckle just image the serious things she cant handle either
No Footy Skater Bruh ... if you think your tax dollars aren’t being wasted on stupid shit by the government anyways then I don’t even know what to say /: Sorry to let you know but money is going down the drain to the point where it doesn’t even matter anymore and that isn’t gonna change anyyyyytime soon
J Munjalll I know that but just because its already being wasted doesnt mean we should flush it ALL to shit just because its not being spent well to vegin with people like her arent helping😂😂
I thought this is abuse of the 911 system? Wtf?
she called the non emergency line it says it at 2:03
mourn-a-lisa listen to it again
she didn't call 911
3 years old and already not caring about what mom says. nice parenting.
That three year old didn’t care.
where is the father ?
Parent should of handled that but you call for cop to handle your kid ..Please your are awful parents handle your own kids for real !
She made an appointment to teach her child the safety of wearing a seat belt, 1. million people die in car-related incidents a year.. tbh she wasn't being a bad mum at all.
Kawaii Potatoes your child spent get a choice put seat belt on ..really like I said be a parent
Penny Burris kids can be stubborn at that age and it was non emergency line
Whitney Pyant you don't call cops on a little kid ...Cops don't need to explain the parent should ! If you can't control your 3 yr old shouldn't be a mother ...Mother is stupid as hell ...When that child gets older she have to call cops again ..Parents need to be parents no expect someone else raise their kids ..Mom needs to get to teaching !
Penny Burris
What? With that logic then we should not allow our children to learn anything from anyone other than there parents. What about teacher or doctors should we not let them teach our children either. She didn't called the cops on her kid, she made an appointment and ask if they could explain to her 3 year old why it is important to wear your seatbelt. Police, Firemen etc. come into the schools regularly to teach kid about dangers of drugs, stranger danger, bike safety, how is what this Mother do any different. Sometimes being a good Mom is admitting when you need help with a situation, we have to stop trying to be Know it all Super Moms.
Great idea to help her to understand the importance of safety and respect...
Those who say that the mom should’ve hurt her child are completely wrong, in one of my child care classes hurting your child makes the kid grow up to fear you something you absolutely DON’T want, it’s better to at least put the child in time out. Or be like this amazing mom and do something creative and different.
But if she was black. 💀
You are what's wrong with America
Um I never buckle up by seatbelt for 10 years, I was born in 2003. Maybe because my parents are slow drivera
Erin Jackson um sometimes I never fall and sometimes I put my legs on the seat hands besides I have a big body I'm taller than my parents and sister and I'm 14
It doesn't mater how old u r or even how tall, fat, or muscular you are. If you get into a roll over (like my dad did last week) that's not enough to save u. The seat belt had saved my dad's life and they can crash into u from ANY direction when their drunk XD also Why do you keep bringing up your age? age doesn't determine weather it safe or not without the seat belt, not wearing the seat belt doesn't make u cool
yeah, the front seats are closer to me, close enought o touch my feet, close enough to block any damage, and also close enought to be a good seat
I see what your saying but you can also be jostled to the side u can go flying in any direction no matter how hard the impact and like I said that's not enough to protect you in a roll over
PiggyLover I’m overweight
Man she's going to be a little nightmare
The lesson will forever etched in the mind of the kid
My son is a police sergeant and he would have no problem responding to a parent's call to talk to their kids about buckling up. When he was a youngster himself seat belts were not mandatory but they were definitely a smart thing to use. I told my kids if they don't buckle up the outing is immediately cancelled... if we're already on the road and they unbuckle that's enough to turn around and go home. He and his sister managed to learn pretty quick that it was better to buckle up and remain buckled if they wanted to go out to McD's or for some away-from-the-house fun! With my three younger ones my mother-in-law used to provide day-care for them and her thing was "If you don't buckle up the car won't go." ~and~ "I can't start the car until that flashing light goes out... and it won't go out until everyone's buckled up!" My own favourite 'threat' with them was "Don't make me pull over!... because if I do you'll be walking home!" ...and that worked every time!!
The flip of her hair said it all..
She is a great mom.
I think this mom is awesome. Think I might do this with my kids one day for safety training who to call in an emergency where to go and such so that way they feel comfortable with talking to police officers and how to answer hard questions. This will also be helpful so if my child heaven forbid got lost or needed help or was up to something they shouldn't they can Know who the kid is and such.
Smart Mother
Good thing mom made appointment not just called 912
What a waste of time for the police. They have a very busy job and cannot be wasting time for this type of bs
My mom woulda slammed on the breaks and made me smack my head.
Teaching your child about car safety or safety in general isn’t abuse .. get them started young .. hearing it from others then just mom and dad is not bad at all so stop accusing her for trying to keep her child safe
So, the lesson here is to call the police non-emergency number if you desperately need a police officer response.
The girl wouldn’t even remember that incident anymore. Just a waste of taxpayer money..
I agree this is terrible parenting. You can't run to the authorities every time your kids don't follow the rules. I would have just pulled over to a side road and wait till she was ready. I always tell my toddler "Mom and dad want you to have fun. But safety is more important. If you are being unsafe, then all the fun stops". Should have just pulled over to the side of the road and just waited for the kid to understand this is not acceptable
This mother is crazy! How traumatizing for a three year old.