Dangers of Celebrity Gossip with Ashley Choi, BM (KARD), and Peniel (BTOB) I Get Real Ep. #5
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- κ²μμΌ 2020. 07. 30.
- Alright, spill. You've probably gossiped here and there whether it was the smartest decision or not. In this week's episode, our hosts talk the art of discretion in information sharing, how to confront people who talk behind your back, and just how trustworthy all the rumors about celebrities really isn't. Don't believe everything you hear!
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Please never let this podcast series end!!! πππ
Penelope, Ashley and Big Matilda make my week 100000 times better! Thank you for making me smile and laugh this much β€β€β€β€
omg these rumors are sooo real!!!!!!!!!!! like omg.... bm peniel and ashley speaking!!! ITS DAMN FALSE LEAVEEEE THEM ALONE!!! if it was real they would prolly announce it!!!!
I was always taught Not to gossip and that itβs wrong. Itβs talking about someone else in a situation you arenβt involved in , or talking about personal information or something you heard about thatβs not any of your business. Usually itβs not good news. I wouldnβt trust someone if they gossip.
I really feel you Peniel. Every once in a while someone will mention βdid you hear __ and __ broke up?β and Iβll just be like βthey knew each other???β
Honestly I'd probably be like
Me: " oh yah i know _ what about them"
Friend: " they broke up"
Me : who broke up
Friend: __ ! And __!
Me: whose __
N I'd only do that bc I could liderelly care less
I always pretend that I knew it all along then tell him/her that actually I don't know anything after they finished telling the story. Atleast I know the whole story now. π
Why is he so adorable? γ .γ I-
Peniel is that friend > Someone: "why did the chicken cross the street?" Peniel: "wait, what chicken?"
Bia Lua LMAOOO
What street??
If jae has the "interESTingggg~", than we got BM here with his "yeah yeah yeahhhh~".
Jaeβs also got, βtrue tRuEβ π
and peniel's "whuuuaaat???" HAHA.
Hahaha yeeesss!
Also bms lowlow
IntEreStINg
bruh peniel really is me in my friend group but that's bc no one tells me anything haha
Saddening
yeah that kind of feeling when u don't really know who are they talking about
I feel ya π
When you're in a small circle, they be talking about their lives and you'd feel left out.
sometimes I really just care about my own business and donβt really care for others business because thatβs their lives lol
ashley was right, btob are literally friends with everyone in the industry. rookie groups, girl groups, senior groups, you name it. And according to btob members, Peniel has the most female friends in btob. He's close with EXID, AOA, Twice, etc, even Sejeong said that Peniel is one of her closest idol friends. He definitely has the scoop.
He's close with Jennie too.
He seems so chill and nice, definitely the type of guy I would like to have around as a friend if I had the chance
@@junpi8562 really?
@@haha3232 They followed each other on social media as trainees. And K-Blinks said they were part of the same friendship group with Chahee
it cause he's such a sweet, adorable goofy guy that u can't help but laugh with. he's so clueless and down-to-earth and sincere. stan peniel for clear skin.
plsssss make an ep talking about sasaengs, since this is a platform with more freedom you should take advantage and address their toxic culture!!!!
TRUEE!
Yes i agree! This is an important and serious topic to talk about!
Hell yes I really wanna know what they think about that
Yesssss please!!!!!!!!!
YES!
Peniel has the scoop, he just doesn't know he has the scoop!!
Has anyone here ever have someone say "Don't say anything, keep it on the down low" but the same person literally tells EVERYONE!?
"don't worry i wonβt tell anyone" except my best friends, my family, and my classmates
@@marisleong8725 Exactly!!! ππ
fairy godmother lmao FACTS π€£π€£
@@marisleong8725 suddenly crying inside huhuuu
Yo once my friend told me a secret about her and went and told that to many other people and came back and ASKED ME how so many people knew about her secret now π So damn annoying.
10:26
*Ashley to Peneil:* He's just very slow like he doesn't catch on very quickly.
*Peniel:* Gossiping about me in front of me.
HAHAHAHA i laughed way too hard on this π
Peniel knows whats going on in peoples lives but he just aint a messy dude I respect that we all need to aim to mind our business!
The amount of ship videos on KRplus is terrifying. There is no group that is exempted from this...Sometimes, rumours from fans get so hyped up that even websites publish articles about them...When I see those types of videos or articles pop up, what Peniel said is what I always worry about: that these ships or rumours may potentially ruin a friendship because I know I'd feel very awkward with a friend if I had dating rumours with him/her. People did that One Direction too. Years later, a member admitted that those romance rumours about him and another member harmed their friendship because he would stay distant from him to avoid further rumours. It's so sad that people's "entertainment" is harming friendships. Plus, I don't understand the point of doing that...What benefit do you get from speculating about someone's personal or romantic life? It feels as though people these days want to live vicariously through others. Also, what you guys said about 95% of things we hear about celebrities being untrue reminded me of a webtoon called Lost in Translation. I really hope it becomes more popular because it shows how rumours can harm celebrities and can be far from the truth.
That's what happens when your target demographic is 11-16 year old girls and boys and you get them hooked into this imaginary perfect world.
I totally agree with you - even with the Lost In Translation part!! - But at the same time I feel like their brought this to themselves by joking around with all this hard fanservice. It's sad. I don't ship anyone and I hope they learn how to manage their friendship well.
Spoke facts. These fans donot understand the limit of fun and entertainment or they are just cute together concepts. People would be terrified in real life if rumours or shipping began between real friends or two complete strangers . Those strangers cannot be outgoing anymore. They have to be restricted and act very cautiously to avoid any kind of wrong hints to those people. Best example is lizkook. Two poor souls put together all the time. Videos reach upto 10 m views. We don't see both groups being outgoing and enjoying in the award shows anymore. These shipping videos are actually doing what dispatch does and the very fans hate. But it's alright if they zoom in camera and magnify with slo-mo ,the moment of the eye with arrows and multiple anglesππππ . If dispatch can be sued ,then these so called "fancams" for shipping must be too.π€π€π’π’
@@941221Sa we also normalised intra group shipping. Even though they may be straight,we forced the idea of them being gay and ship them and cannot imagine them with others. But the same fans get butt hurt when the locals in the west call kpop gayππ€π€¦. Pick a side people.
For sure I saw a clip of a podcast about Eric Nam talking about being on Getting Married (or whatever that show is called) and feeling so cautious and afraid to talk about even though it was just a show for fun. Truly teen fans are craaazy intense and it sucks that they canβt really be as close as they might want to today or he feels this anxious to talk about it. I admite Iβve been one of those shippers at times but at the end of the day itβs their business and everything in my head is mostly fake.
Peniel: "i don't have good back either, i can't be bending that much, man"
Also peniel: always bending at least 3 times after group greating
I agree with Ashley, people usually gossip because their own life is uninteresting, so they are always curious to know what other people are up to. It's kinda sad really.
Peniel so laidback cause heβs sitting so comfortable and dressing so casually . Like just hanging out with friends hahahaha..
Peniel My role model πͺπ»ππ»ππ»
Aye same here
Peniel: They make KRplus videos on this stuff?!?!?!?!
Me: He is soooo clueless ππ
For a second i was really impressed with how their clothes hair and makeup is literally the same in every episode but then realised that they probably filmed them all on the same day π
Virginie Trepanier yes they are π. In ashley vlog, she said that sometimes sheβs gonna record for 3 episodes in a row.
Can you guys talk about how idols need to hide their dating life and how they sometimes fake their personalities when being natural and honest should be the right thing to do?
I doubt they will talk about dating life bcuz its sensitive and it can effect idol private life and about fake personality actually its not fake but just they have their own image. Fyi, company build this image on every idol. Example: chic image, mysterious image, cute image and funny image. If u really pay attention to idol u like or stan you will notice they sometimes talk like this "ahh my image" when they do something funny or things not usually they do. Its just like company marketing strategy.
It's something private why guys want to know about it??
Considering that there are consequences towards idols if their private life is exposed, and the fact that some people just don't want their private lives mixed in with their jobs which I think is very reasonable. And having a public persona is a common thing when it comes to celebrities, there's no such thing as "the right thing to do".
@@friskas9490 they mentioned a lot in the cheaters episode
I'm really curious about idols' persona, fan service, etc.
If the company forces it on them, ask them to act a certain way or if it's an exagerate version of themselves they decide to show, maybe to protect themselves or show a more entertaining side and if it's something they enjoy doing.
i love it when BM said nice words about Super Junior. I remembered when KARD was on SuJU TV and BM said he wanted to get along with Siwon and there was Heechul who loved BM's wide shoulder π
Naaah..Peniel knows a lot, he's just being respectful of others' feelings and privacy. Remember on the topic about cheating t and when he was asked about a situation about breaking it to someone that their significant other is cheating on them? He said he considers how the person might react to the news. That's just how he is. He's a nice guy and probably, just acts clueless so no one pushes further on the topic. And that's how you end gossiping, let it end with you. β‘
Being a Suju fan, it makes me happy hearing BM name them out of all the people he could think of,
they get so much online hate (speaking of gossiping),
it feels nice hearing someone that actually met them tell that they are nice to other idols.
yeah same here. Sj haters is always making a nonsense gossip/rumor about them.
Yes same here! It's so tiring hearing all the hate they get so it's nice hearing idols praise them and stuff
Suju fan here too!π Makes me feel bad whenever I see hate towards them.π
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Another elf here happy π
i love how diane's role changes with each podcast because for hdigh and the tablo podcast, she's practically a cohost at this point but here she's just the natural laugh track.
I'm so curious about her face, like, she is a mysterious person for me
@@nadie-qm8rq idk if you know at this point but she has an instagram and she's so pretty βΊοΈ
@@almariaghern1876 whatβs her ig?
BM: Its ok, one day ill be bigger than you. TELL THEM KING
also, I love ashleyΒ΄s voice so much, is so niiiiice, and peniel is always so funny ashdhgh
Personally I HATE GOSSIP, but I can't help but hear what the word on the street is. I won't talk doo doo on people but I tend to listen to the doo doo. Trying to stop bothering with gossip all together. Lol
Everyone gossips. Speaking to someone about another person when the person is absent, that's gossip. Reading news about celebs is engaging in gossip.
@@lullaby508 Yup! It's just everywhere.
personally,i do hate them,but when i heard people gossiping abt someone i'm like "damn it's fun"
I just cut those gossiping people out of my life weβre in college now, donβt have time for that shit
Me toooooo. The way I gossip with my little brothers about the tea on YT is funnnyyyyy.
Ughh social media is the worst.
"Peniel's an angel" Ohh that rumors been spreading for 8 yrs now. He rlly is an angel and a social butterfly. Soon we'll see him fly with the wings of an angel and a butterfly.
After more than a decade of being a kpop fan Iβve learned to never believe a scandal/rumour about an idol until thereβs proof or the company makes a statement. These days the younger fans jump on the hate bandwagon so quick leading to cancel culture.
Anyway love you BM, Ashley and Peniel
Yup this is good advice
EXACTLY!!
Dnt even trust the company statement
I think we all have friends like Ashley, BM and Peniel. The one who knowssss every gossips in town, the one who like "okay i knew that" and hype the things up and the last one who know no shits at all and no idea the things even existπ€£
Peniel is clearly as clueless as I am in the friends' circle cause I don't ever see clues or hints.
SAMEπππ
THANK YOU FOR THIS PODCAST. This is what all Kpop fans need to hear. I'm tired of those shipping videos and speculations. It seriously can harm friendships/relationships with members in a group OR friendships/relationships of a group with another group. This kind of insight in the idol world is much needed. Ashley, Peniel, and BM are literally telling it like it is, and I definitely think we need more shows/radios/podcasts like this for idols to have healthy and real conversations. Idols are literally people, we need to realize this.
i really love the fact shinhwa take care of peniel back at 2016;;; that's so sweettπ₯ΊβΊ
"if we cared about our own lives as much as we cared about others i feel like we would be much more successful and happy" YES.
Exactly
Ashley's right. Peniel sure knows a lot. He's just loyal and good at keeping secrets. I love him for it.
Gossip is like a food recipe, once you share it, people add other things to make it tastier...
Hahah lmao βpleaseβ lol yβall are something else. Gossip goes backkkkkkkkkk centuries and centuries
*Peniel is that one friend in every group that we all just stare, sigh and shake our heads at but honestly love and would fight anyone who even looked at them the wrong way in a second.*
Who is your profile pic ππ
@@jletia San from ATEEZ. Everyone keeps asking me who he is or telling me they like it hahaha
Mini Mochi oh shit I feel so fake for not recognizing him ππ thatβs my whole bias
Peniel is learning so much with those podcasts XD he's is always like "serious?!" "wait did it happen" "WHAAAAAT??!!" π
WHOβS BEEN WAITING FOR THE VIDEO TO SEE THEIR EXPRESSIONS?!?!πππ
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Present! ππ»ββοΈ
I was listening then ran over once BM mentioned Super Junior πππ I just love his face so much lol
Big Matilda, Penelope and Ashley are back! π
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We need a school episode!! I want to hear their school stories and advice they have β₯οΈ
32:07 "the hell just happened?" is pretty much the national anthem of penielπ€£
Ashley knows a lotttt. The speculation, the matching clothes etc of idols and the videos of the idols that the fans ship.
Apparently, "Gossip refers to talking about someone or something with another person or a group of persons. Rumor refers to spreading specific information about someone or something that has not been verified. In other words, it may be a truth or a falsehood."
Ainβt gossip just talking about other people in general. But as someone with a boring life I agree with Ashley lol itβs entertainment for my boring life
19:55 EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEXACTLY. lack of fulfillment, or lack of importance, leads people to either violate confidentiality or create falsehood. and whether what they're telling others is true or not, someone else will value that, either as information or as entertainment. that in turn will make the gossiper feel valued, and increase the likelihood of them continuing the behavior.
20:20 ashley's wisdom is attractive and so is her voice
Peniel *panicking : I don't have a good back either man, I can't be bending that much...
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can i just say? one thing i really love about this podcast is that the three of them are genuine friends. i think it's what makes this podcast so charming. they all have different personalities/perspectives, but they know how to be receptive of each other and they can tease e/o without being cruel.
I've heard gossip about me being scary as hell but when people meet/get to know me they're always like "you're not as scary as i heard".
I liked how BM randomly praised SuJu. This podcast is really interesting. Great to hear idols my age share their experiences and outlook on life
I feel like BM is so genuine
I envy his friends for having him close to them. I have no close friends like that π©
I feel
dispatch really needs to watch this lmao
Laughed so hard when BM said "I broke it?" like dude πππ
10:05 honestly, Peniel here is relatable af...
I'm always the clueless friend too ππ
I love it how Peniel is always that clueless guyπ heβs basically me around my friends
Peniel has to see BBYU couple's dating rumors lol
M Rys def expected it to come up at least once lmfao disappointed but not surprised
They're relationship are really good! I love how Peniel can be friend with anyone and still keep their secrets but feels like an innocents hahahaha
every shipper is embarrassed bc of this podcast and it really makes me happy
Rose shipping mostly lol since rose is the only bp member close to rose
"Wait, what?"
Peniel=Me
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i'm here for peniel but i have to admit that BM got my attention, i love his comment, advice and reaction. he such as a nice and thoughtful person, i hope i'm not too late for supporting himπ
Is never too late to support our π§π»ββοΈβ¨Big King Matthew πβ¨ and also to supporting KARD β€οΈ
Please support their comeback. It's said that it might be their last :(
Lucid Dreamer where did you hear that!!??? π¨
sophia lemo now thatβs an example of rumors being spread out right there π
Lucid Dreamer where did you hear that tho? Please donβt spread rumors about disbanding group. Thatβll hurt a lot of fansβ feeling. Unless you have legitimate source that you can share, just stay quite & support them.
I love that Peniel is so clueless about everything ππ he doesnt even know people make videos about idol gossip. he's just vibing, u know?
BM giving a shoutout to SuJu made my elf heart hella happy
I'm just like peniel, usually the last to know. But I'm also the best person to tell secrets to, I forget in like 5min. It's never getting spread
Their expressions is the best.
Italian Lavely and Hidden here!
I love you all so much!!!
BTW: "...with our hosts Peniel (of BTOB), BM (of KARD), and Ashley Choi" (of Ladies' Code) -.-
Regarding dating rumours, I think like 'shipping' and actually believing that two are dating is different. Like when someone 'ships' I think it's more of just them saying oh they would make a cute couple but then actually believing they are dating, that's when it can get toxic.
My heart just fly when i heard shinhwaβs name from peniel.. I always find that shinhwa are very nice , super funny and a humble seniors. To come out from penielβs mouth and him telling this on a podcast.. i must be right thenβΊοΈ love shinhwa & btob both π§‘π
meanwhile I'm that friend who's the quiet one but actually know a lot of gossip without meaning to because people just talk around me.. they gossip even when they know i'm around cos they know I'm a quiet person and probably wouldn't tell anyone
It's so sweet that Matthew gave Super Junior a shoutout! They're huge seniors but I've never seen them being anything but extremely open and welcoming. I love that that's true behind the scenes too! SJ and Kard shot an episode of Super TV I think?? and I remember Heechul, Siwon, Hyukjae and many others were SO sweet to them. Love to see how humble they are.
I wanna be friends with them all, especially Peniel. He's so chill but hilarious.
Ashley with a big sigh when peniel doesnβt know his favorite fastfood restaurant lolololllll
After only getting into the rabbit of Kpop a year ago I'm amazed and perplexed at the amount of member 'shipping'. I just don't get it, I might be old (30s) but seeing members interact just looks like close friends and a sisterhood, I don't see it as any more, but the amount of 'shipping' videos, twitter 'stan' accounts for it is just really really creepy. I'd love to know what you guys think of that, if it makes you act differently with members or act it up to help the hype.
I've just been binging i can't believe this was just uploaded
I've been waiting for this! I even turned on my notifications in this channel for this π
get so happy when a new ep comes out! love hearing their thoughts and experiences!!:) cant wait for more:)
SO MUCH LOVE FOR THIS PODCAST!!!! β€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈ
so i watched this month ago and went back as irene's issue is still fresh
edit: *currently fresh*
I love Peniel's humour... He's too funny π
one of my favorite podcasts!!
This is the first podcast that I have seen every minute of every podcast. I love it so much!!
Love these guys.
This is the only podcast I actually have notifications on!
They are such energizers. I feel so good every time I watch this
Such an amazing episode π
I loved this EP!!
18:03 sounds like rilacoco
γ±γ γ lmao i was thinking the exact same thing
Girlllll why you gossiping?
These videos are literally what keeps me happy every week
I like this the flow of this podcast. Its like listening to your friends talk about things so relatable.
These guys are so funny, is the second time I get a recommendation on KRplus from their podcast and I end up watching the whole thing
wow i love this podcast. i just can't notice the time running when i listen to them. love this.
man yall are so funny & at one point i stanned all 3 of y'all's groups i'm so happy you guys are friends and have this content i love itπ₯Ί pls stay healthy you guys thanks for everything that you do for us and everyone
I love this podcast! So chill and fun
i genuinely love the thinking process of these people π€£ this podcast is goooold
i really like this episode. It's so clear when they describe anything and make us understand what that means.
I always enjoy their episodes!!! Itβs really entertaining and you get something out of it every time. Love their chemistry too. It just works!!
Thanks for all the advice- not to mention how funny y'all are. You three are the older siblings I never had π
honestly, from the morning I've been listening to the podcasts
I swear these are so entertaining
Thank you for this educational talk show Peniel, Ashley and BM β€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈ
whenever i feel down i listen to your podcasts and that makes me feel better, so thank you ^^
I'm really excited everytime #getreal has new episode. Peniel, Ashley and BM are like a breath of fresh air β€οΈ
Ah great just made myself some tea and cookies π Perfect timing ππ
Yassshh this is what I waiting forπ₯π₯