Finding Real Friends as Adults w/ Ashley Choi, BM (KARD), and Peniel (BTOB) I GET REAL Ep. #6
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- κ²μμΌ 2020. 08. 06.
- We've talked a lot about love and heartache on the show so far but what about non-romantic relationships? Friends can sometimes be as close to us as family. Our hosts talk about blocking out fake friends, finding real ones, and the tough roadblocks in maintaining friendships as we get older and more busy.
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DIVE Studios Podcasts i hope get real would invite jae joining them for onceπ
I have lost ALOT of friends.. I don't know why people prefer friends to "save face" and not tell them the truth? I guess in a way I could sugarcoat stuff, but I'd rather tell it straight to their face. And because of that I hv lost a lot of friends.. Maybe I am the problem? But at the end of the day.. People who don't value you.. No need to waste Ur time. It's the art of growing up.. Real friends r hard to find.. Keep the ones who accept you not just for the good.. But for the bad tooβ€οΈ
I love this guys , for real , and i actually love you 3 a lot ! (If only the words weren't censored π)
I love how Peniel censors himself with "mother lover" "flunk you" "shitake mushrooms". I will steal those words
Me too haha, he's so creative
ikr! im like how did he come up with thoseπ
Wait until they turn all his censored words into a poster
Donβt forget the shizzle mizzles
I stan HAHHAHAHA
As an introvert, I like having friends but actually maintaining the friendship is tiring lol
edit: wow had no idea so many people felt this way too
All my friends are low maintenance n as an introvert i like that a lot
YES Iβve lost so many friends from being so introverted like Iβve had my friends block me and delete me everywhere because maintaining friendships is so difficult when you like your own company and especially when it comes to hanging out, I donβt have the energy for it, I have nothing against them, I love them, but sometimes I donβt wanna talk or hangout for a good 2 weeks and itβs nothing personal. it sucks :(
Omg thank you for this comment. I relate so much.
I was contemplating whether it was an introvert thing or not... like I love my own company. Iβm good by myself. I love my friends too but I donβt feel the need to communicate with anyone sometimes.
Most of my friends donβt really understand it tho.
THIS
We are not alone.π
Ashleyβs life always has some of the juiciest stories on the podcast
I think sheβs better at describing things. (maybe because Iβm a chick and I understand her better).
For real ππ
Yup
True.. I am jealous with her life...
And it's so fun seeing these two react to her so dramatically ππ
Penielβs βWHO YOU HONKING AT??β π€£π€£
Cmon now π€£
what' the honking supposed to mean tho?
@@VanLe-co3td It's probably just traffic
βthere are 7 days in a week thereβs time for everythingβ - Peniel
it says a lot about him, like heβs an idol and he still thinks that if someone wants he/she could still make time for everything
Its really not that easy. Just cause he can make time for things doesnβt mean everyone can. Donβt judge people. You donβt at all know their situation. I am very impulsive so most of the things i want and need to be done I canβt get done because of my disorder. Donβt be so narrow minded.
Haha BM is so mosey when somebody has a juicy story to tell... heβs like βOh really?! What?!! Talk about it πππβ
BM and peniel do know some tea in this industry. I just wish I could know moreππππ
17:49 M&P: [being all serious]
ashley: there was a time when i got cut off completely from a friend
M&P: OHHUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU!!!!!!!!!!!! WADJU DOOOO?!?!?!?
diane: [laughs histerically]
That was so freaking funny lmao!!
I read this as they said it xD
Came from the podcast just to see their expressions AHHA
I love when diane laughs πππ
lol guys are literally so dramatic haha
BM and Peniel are soooo sassy π
i was scrolling and thought this said sexy, but both are true
@@mercuryshinki7652 ππ
@@mercuryshinki7652 yep!.. Sexy and Sassy
Peniel at the center makes sense he comes off as the mature voice of reason out of the three
Agreed. He's always like the brodge between the three, and there are times when he's like the one who concluded the topic and giving advice about that topic. I really love that bout him
I mean 'bridge'
@@zharyshine1035 no but 'brodge' is better it's bridge but also bro
@@something6510 lol i just realizedπ
β@@something6510 I am now using this term in my daily life.
Im introvert but when Im with someone whoβs more introverted than me, then iβll suddenly become a lil bit more extrovert to u know, not killing the atmosphere and make it awkward. BUT when im around extrovert person, iβll let them do all the talk and iβll just listen and go along with themπ
this is just me actuallyπ
I feel called outt.. lmao
sameee, i get youuuu
Meeeee toooo omgg!
felt
Nobody:
Peniel: I nEveR wEnT tO ColLegE
You know what time it is?
It's "Maltilda and Peniella teasing Asheley" time
*Penelope
Ashley: **talks**
Peniel and BM: OH SPILL THE TEA!!!!
Penelopeβs reinvented curse words:
Schnizel mizzle
Flunk that guy
Motherlover
What the flunk
Shitake mushrooms
Heβs a dingdong
What's the meaning of schnizel mizzle
I like big tiddie gang president's curious face when he was asking Peniel who he cut off from his life were lol
his name is bm get it right
@@riearene5230 I know. And i also know that he is the big tiddie gang president lol
@@mrys3167 then stream their upcoming single when it drops, you better
@@mrys3167 then stream their upcoming single when it drops, you better
@@riearene5230 i will. I am a fan of Kard. What is ur point btw? No hatin gurl lol
The cactus at the back looks like itβs ready to fight hahaha
I love this trio π»
I cant unsee that now lol
Awee its cute
Its beefing with Peniel
OMG THE TINY ARMS ππππ
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Take a shot of water everytime Peniel says βlikeβ, youβll stay very hydrated :)
I'll be bloated lmao
Will Yakult do?
I wish youtube comments had retweet buttons for this very reason
Oh man i need to do that cz ya girl never drinks unless... Oh no i don't drink
Take a shot of alcohol and you'd-
Peniel saying to Ashley "who do you think we're talking about" is like scolding a sibling being slow hahaha
I love Diane laughing in the background, so wholesome
Same ππ
Who is diane ??
@@hanaeelbouti5230 Diane is the girl whoβs laughing in the back. She helps run the podcast and helps the idols with ideas.
@@hanaeelbouti5230 basically inshort Diane is the producer for Dive studios ( KPDB show and get real)
βWHO YOU HONKING ATβ freakin Peniel π
Fr were trying to listen to an important conversationππ
Me: litterally losing all my friends during quarentine
Also me: who needs friends when i have ashley,penelope, and big matilda
Lmao xD
Me i haven't really talked in 2020 bc of quarentine
I need penelope, ashley, and big matilda in my lifee πππ€£π€£
Right? I would kill for friends like them β€οΈ
Ashley looks like a mermaid :3
Ikr her seafoam green hair looksβ¨β¨
Your comment reminds me of 'Mermaid' which is a song by Cube Entertainment rap line including Peniel, of course. .and yeah, I agree with you..but idk why my screen is showing a different color, not green but cyan...
@@wenawena709 i just don't know how to describe colours lol. Yes, there is a bit of cyan in there too :3 (if u understand what i mean)
Ashley 5:46: βIt was when my friends from New York came, and she brought her baby. Yes?β
BM: YE-πγ π
Its amazing how this podcasts gets real not just because of their topics but also how they think and talk. Like BM forgetting what he was about to say, their stories, and how they react about what the other person was talking about hahahah. Like it makes me realize that dude these people who are so cool and does amazing stuff also experiences sht like normal people do. I mean I know that theyre just people like us but I unconsciously think differently. Im sorry. I hope to get more of these so I kinda know what to expect when I grow up alittle more #GETREAL
I totally get what you mean. It's like how are they so talented but still be dorks like all of us plebs
Right? I really like how relatable it is.
loooool matthew was ready to get pissed when peniel was using him as example and he didn't know if it was real or not i died
Why are they so relatable everytime tho.
P.S. don't cut the curse Pd-nims!
BM and Peniel are so messy π they keep trying to get Ashley caught up.
Not @ BM whispering on a global podcast.π "She blocked you."
Peniel wearing Big Tiddie Gang merch is so cuuuuuute πππΊ
If that scenario wasnβt hypothetical, BM was about to verbally eviscerate that guy on the podcast. You can see the gears turning haha
Laughed so hard when BM and Peniel were doing the Regular Show "oooooh" and "aaaah" when Ashley was telling her story of a friend cutting her off. π€£ I love this trio.
βShnizzle mizzleβ Peniel Iβd like to keep my lungsπ
Is this what having guy friends feel like? 17:51 lol their reactions are SO EXTRA π especially BM's "she blocked you?" at 19:08
This exactly how it is lol and sometimes the guys hype u up over these things more than your girlsππ
Depends on the guy, of course, but from my experience, most of the guy friends I've had were "extra," haha. They can be more hype and dramatic than girls, and it's hysterical.
Guy friends are always extra. You can just be yourself rather than when youβre with girl friends. π
@@bielars3433 yall need different girl friends then if you cant be yourself around them lolπ
Peniel 42:21: "I kept running into the cactus, freakin cactus"
Me: π€£π€£
Hahahaaha
I love how the guys always encouraging Ashley to be Savage and Spill things she's actually seems sweet but not very fake with people but she seems easily hurt by others I couldn't be her close friend I'm too protective I'd be punching people everyday π I've had many male friends since I was little it would be very easy to be friends with BM and Penile they remind me of guys I grew up with
DoMiNiQuE *Peniel...i think your autocorrect is betraying you. π
@@btobsslowblueocean3121 ahahaha
penile
PENILEEEU I FUCKINHRBH CRYINGGGCH
I'll leave my typo here for your enjoyment π
Sometimes you gotta cut off toxic friendship when u have friends who doesn't like u being happy, and they manipulate, and lie, and just disrespect u..
Somehow I don't think Peniel will be infatuated and blinded.
same
@@shanialindsay7420 He seems too put together and adult-ish lol
Penielβs look when he said βthere was a babyβ πππππ
what ashley knows about penelope and big mathilda ?!?!OMG HAHAHA I saw that comment in the other episodes too I laughed at that
K-American group are my faves
41:25 bm meant to say "vicariously" but ended up saying "bi-curiously" and it doesn't look like anyone in the comments section noticedπ€£
Ashley: spilling hot tea
BM: uh huh, UH HUH, ok, uh huh Ok
He's so cute sometimes π₯Ίπ
Why does Ashley look like she was about to cry when Peniel and BM were talking about that bad vibes guy? :( Her face looks so sad after she kinda shifted to asking BM if he did not have to cut off a friend like that?
She has a cute concerned face when she's listening carefully or asking serious questions and it's absolutely adorable.
I need more than once a week of "Pajamas Party of Ashley, Penelope, and Big Mathilda" Best of the best podcast i've ever knownπ
I've probably had the worst day of my life today (tested positive for covid19) but I saw that this got posted and i honestly already feel better (emotionally haha) Thank you for always making me smile. :) (EDIT: thank you so much for the kind words and well wishes π₯Ί)
Aluz,take good care of yourself,take your vitamins and follow your doctor's advice.I hope you recover super quickly.
get well soon!
I hope you recover soonππ
Get well soon!
Get well soon β€οΈ
I honestly wanna see them talk about race and dating and stuff would be funππΎββοΈbtw LOOVVVEEEDD this episode, the way Peniel talks, his views on life and the way he lives it just makes him more attractive than he already is oh my gosh like can I be his friendπ
Interesting topic! Love it x
I love how much Korean American idols stand for eachother and are such great friends tooπ€§π€§. I feel like all the Divers + Sammy from The Rose are just so real and I feel much closer to them than a lot of other Kpop artists. I love you guys so muchβ€β€β€
True that
I had to cut my friend off this year even though we were a good friends for almost six years . She was a hypocrite and she talked to me only if she needed me . I really don't like those kinds of people and it's makes me sad to think back of all the moments we shared together but I never regretted my decision ever.
Good for you π
I was in the same situation, sucks to have to go through that but at the end of the day it's the best thing for you
Donβt you always get something out of friendships and relationships tho? Iβm not saying that the purpose of relationships are to βuseβ others but I think we always get something out of it whether we want something from someone or just truly enjoy their presence. Youβre still receiving joy from someone.
@@NoNo-zw2bz I don't know who you're saying this to but
But to answer your question yes you can joy and like the feeling of them when they are around but it's different when they only talk to you when they something or when it's convenient for them but when you know need them they are nowhere to be found and that's the part that sucks, that was kinda the situation I was in so this my perspective
Same. I had to do the same this year and I've never been happier in a long time. We'd been best friends for a long time but I had to do it for my own sanity.
BM and Peniel freaking out about Ashleyβs friend cutting her off is just so funny lmaoo
i have the fattest crush on peniel π€
Sameeedtt. If only i can marry him lolol
damn me too, i need him in my lifeπ©
Big fat sssssaaaaaammmmmeeeee like I cannot describe how fat and juicy that Same is
Sameeee
@@shrekscumslut1341 bruh chill ???
I just.. i just want my friends to react the same way Peniel and BM do whenever I tell them anything π
i'm absolutely living for ashley's hair, i CANNOT stop looking at her
They know they getting censored, flunk that guy hahah
Bro peniel swearing is hilarious though he's been doing that for btob it's still hilarious hahahahahahaha
I finally checked out Sammy from The Rose and man his cover of LANY ILYSB was "ENCHANTING" π
Check out the Rose too!!! Their songs are amazing...!
@@anjalimediboina5867 i spent the day listening to them and I'm definitely a fan now.
Period stan the rose sound
The Rose is amazing and have saved many lives with their music
@@strawberrypocky179 I'm not gonna lie I've been listening them on repeat for the past few days.
Ashley/Peniel: says something
BM: *yeyeyeyeyeyeyeye*
The fact that BM and Peneil are ALWAYS ready to throw hands over Ashley makes my heart warm. Like, they are probably the big brothers she never wanted but they are the ones she is stuck with now
I swear to god diane's laugh is one of the best things at dive.
When I was in highschool my mom's illness got worst. I also was babysitting. Often my friends wanted me to hang but I declined. As a result, alot of those friendships drifted apart, the second half of my senior year. A part of me was mad because they didn't understand the responsibility I had as a caretaker. However, I also understand because there were times I could have done better. Anyways, it's been yearsss and we're all adults now. My mother passed away a few years ago so those memories i had with her are more significant than any friendship. But I'm thankful to still have my best friends (going on 10+ years).
Dude, this podcast has been such a need in this quarantine. It's like I'm with friends again :')
It's really okay to cuf off some (toxic) friends from your life it's like choosing peace of mind over some craps.
And sometime people calls you fake friend for not being able to be there when they need you but dude you can't be there for them ALL THE TIME. You have your own life to live, you have work and stuff. You don't breathe for your friends.
Trueee!!! But that's the thing, sometimes we get scared of losing more friends .. they would say bad things about you to other people to make it seem like you are the toxic/problematic one. Ughhhh
@@sarafaizal1788 if they go around and talk shits about you they are worth losing. We don't need such big ass problems in our lives.
@@mariechinks Omg yess!! there's this group of girls would go around telling lies to whole school about me. I don't care much cause after that my life is happy so yeaah. I just smile and wave
i like how Peniel is so talkative and you could see him having a good time and just relax
BM's "what they do?! Talk about itππ" and Peniel's "WHO YOU HONKING AT???" Killed me omfgπ€£π€£π€£
Oh God an advertisement popped out right when Peniel said βtransitionβ ooof
I love how Ashley is cute and quiet when listening to Matilda and Penelope but when she talks they become the best hype crew HAHAHAHAHA
They're not lying when they said GET REAL IS THE BEST PODCAST IN THE WORLD!!!!
More episodes pleaseeee! β€β€β€
Okay now I really wanna know who that 'him' is whose friend circle changes every 3 months lmao
Me tooπ
They're legit talking about "him" in a official-worldwide KRplus video lolπ€£
Same tho like Iβm tryna go through all these eng speaking idols but Iβm jus like- none of them seem this way
I could be wrong tho
Bro I wanna figure this out soooo bad
Same ππ
Ashley is right, no matter how many times you say to your friends that their boo is "meh", if your friend is blinded by love, they will not listen! π
i love Ashley's new hair color π
Omg and the two little braid in the frontπ
@@unicats6785 yess !!! she looks really pretty π€©
I also love Ashley's new hair color it is so beautiful πππ
okay, I'm the only one watching this that doesn't have any friend at all? π
Nope, not the only one
Like me too π
I like Matthew's vibe soo much. he's chill, very nice. I feel like I feel safe when I hang out w/him. the same with peniel.
as a btob fan for 4years, i never see this side of peniel hahahaha he more likely quiet and sweet when with btob but on dive studio he's like savage and sassy sksksksksks
Master Peniel giving life lessons on friendship is something we all need-
PERIOD.
Also honestly, I'm in medical profession and it's tough for me to reconnect with people or for that matter hangout with my best friend. I always feel bad that my work holds me back from them and also I don't want them to get the wrong notion that I'm ignoring them or such. So that fan mail part is honestly so relatable.
45:24 Peniel impersonating Ashley's expression IS THE CUTEST THING EVER
As a person who studied pre-med for two years and is now studying for entrance exams for medical universities like bro fr i have no time to hang out tho i want to so like stuff like this makes me day. Like even a random text is like so nice cause yk they still care tho you can't really hit them up.
He didn't lie when he said the best podcast in the world
Im waiting for the episode when it REALLY gets real, and thereβs tears and hotter than hot tea spilled
The hype level of Peniel and BM everytime Ashley tells a story is a mood ππ
THE LADY IN THE BACKGROUND LAUGHS SO FUNNY ππ
I had a βfriendβ that got mad at me and stopped being my friend because I didnβt say bye to them...... I was in a rush lmaoooo
This was my senior in high school too ππ
Whaaaaat. Are you serious.
lmao pls tell me you're joking
@@nedasharhan5089 what kind of high school do u go
@@archiejain3783 I went to a school in New York
The censorship of Peniel π Flunk, shitake mushrooms ππ
Bm's, ashley's and peniel's vibes are so positive and just uplifting, their podcasts are always so interesting and gets you hooked and they give such good advices?? I love it
ashley is so pretty here ππ₯Ί
i seriously live for matilda and penelope's reaction to ashley's stories ahahahahahha
I really love their topic. I can relate. Also pls talk about saesang
Something about Matthew saying "boo thang" is real cute ^^
BM censored
Me: *pauses video and checks Apple Podcast to see if uncensored*
m sadly it's censored :/
I did the same thing with Spotify haha
So I was not the only one to check on Spotify... I wanted to know too.
I'm pretty sure he said porn star lol
@@purplemanatee thank you. That makes sense
I love Diane's laugh in the background ππ
βIs this hypothetical...?β LOL I know that mood. He was about to go off!
bruh, the lighting on Ashley's hair on her closeup cam
The realest of friendships don't need contact or communication everyday. If friends make time to spend with you knowing they are busy they tend to be real. You make time for the things and people you really want.
Never been early like this in my life!
Sammy is literally everywhere! I wish The Rose the best.
Peniel - "i feel like... Yes, next question"
I wanna be friends with those people
Penelope and Big Matilda were dying to say some bad words π
This is the most positive comments section ive witnessed. And hilarious too.
I love how mature peniel is! I would love to have a convo with him lol
Tried to count how many times Peniel said "like" and I failed. Gosh! That's too many.
Ashley's hair is so pretty T^T