Oliver Hudson on 'Trauma' He Felt Having Goldie Hawn as a Mom
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- 게시일 2024. 03. 25.
- Oliver Hudson opens up about being raised by his mother, Goldie Hawn, on his 'Sibling Revelry' podcast. The actor reflects on his childhood and talks about the complexities of his relationship with his mom, including the occasional neglect despite Goldie's role as his and sister Kate Hudson's primary caregiver. Oliver says, 'My mother was the one that I had almost the most trauma about interestingly enough because she was my primary caregiver and I was with her all of the time. I felt unprotected at times.'
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Trauma is about perception. He cannot choose his family, and his pain is still valid, rich and famous or not.
I love how he calls Kurt his dad or pa when he on tv during interviews! It just shows how much he loves him, and doesn’t care that he wasn’t his biological father.
Oh, give me strength...
He paid to go to a course designed to ferret out out any forgotten or imagined grievances from childhood - And, surprise, they found some! He had a loving caregiving mother who was with him all the time. Wanted for nothing growing up.... How many middle-aged men WISH for that as a problem!!
We either do exactly what our parents did or we turn into better parents in spite of what we went through. My childhood wasn't that great. Between work, new boyfriends and her drug and major alcohol addiction there wasn't much left for me but I was never without. Now that I'm a mom I am very present, very loving but still strict I make sure I'm there for every holiday like my mom wasn't. Teaching him life lesson and showing him compassion and love are the best ways to raise your children ❤❤❤
Great job ‘breaking the cycle.’👍
Divorce hurts kids. Absent parents hurts kids. These are facts.
I agree, and this man’s dad was not a good one but now we’re finding out. Neither was the mom …touché.
Dude should be grateful that he never had to worry about where the next meal would be coming from. Not to invalidate his feelings but he needs to get some perspective outside his own and try to have more empathy for what others have to go through.
Soo glad he is working on his healing. It will help him soo much in all of his relationships.
Being a single mom with two little kids to support is very difficult , being an actress and a single mom is 10 times more difficult ,but like all good moms ,Goldie Hawn did her best under her circumstances ,showbussines is a crazy world !
um, being a rich and successful, beautiful actress is 10x harder than being just a single mom…? 🤔
I don't think so. She was never stuck on an overpass , broke, in the rain and a broken down car and no one to call.
Imagine what Kate's kid would feel navigating 3 dads
I learned it’s the ones you actually care about and love that can hurt you the most. It takes a lot to figure that out if there’s someone who is more of a monster. It’s like you can’t compute that others have hurt you when a really bad one you hate is obviously so much more horrifying. But if you truly hate them they can’t hurt you like the ones you love and/or care about. But from Oliver’s experience and so many others, they don’t need to be monsters to do the most hurt. The best thing we can do for ourselves is forgive so it’s nice to hear this from Oliver. Forgiveness is just that though…it doesn’t mean accepting them or allowing them back. That’s a different choice to make. It’s also important to realize we have all the information needed to make those choices. ❤
Well, one thing to note: Single and divorced mothers should not date fluidly. If the child doesn't like the new man, heed the warning.
"date fluidly" sounds like a new term for slut shaming. Hawn divorced Hudson in 1982 and began her relationship with Russel the following year, so she couldn't have been that "fluid".
@@thebigl156 It is! Of COURSE it is. And her son said "lots of men". Not me. He, would know.
@@neckhammockothermusthaves7476 He never said lots of men. He said “boyfriends”.
So she’s just supposed to raise a kid herself or not even meet someone? I grew up with a split family and although I loathed my stepdad, I don’t hate the relationship he had with my mother because after my biological father cheated on my mother, she needed someone.. taken from her home country and forced out of financial stability
ABSOLUTELY!!! Lots of men and wasn’t around for her children.
Good lord, the word "trauma" gets thrown around for just about anything these days.
agreed🙄
Nepo baby needs to learn the definition of trauma..
He is just spoiled
Woa…you don’t know everything about his life. I doubt he’d ever say all the horrible things he went through. He was in the public eye since born. Neglect alone cause lots of trauma for a child. Yes, there are much worse stories told. But that doesn’t mean others who’ve suffered less haven’t suffered. Again, you don’t know all there is about this person. If only unbelievable trauma is ever discussed how does humanity ever get better. The ignorant, negative opinions/judgements in the mob mentality social media world are beyond boring and pathetic. Get some professional help if you are looking for attention or have been through anything horrible. No one deserves that kind of nasty attitude for being strong and courageous to openly discuss any of their trauma to the public. Oliver is helping to educate people on how children can be traumatized in ways you clearly don’t have any compassion or empathy for. Should we all do the same for you?
@@Confidentk9sCanot exactly. Nothing he described here is traumatic. Respectfully. No tornado took his house away. We do have to define things to stay within the realm of sanity from time to time. When you make everything subjective that’s not good.
What about the trauma she will be feeling after hearing his opinion now
He's handsome isn't he wow Goldie Hudson she's beautiful actress
Goldie Hawn his mom,Kate Hudson ,his sister !
He looks like his mom, the lips and the whole head & body movements, exactly the same.
@@SimpleLifeAlways81 you are implying he is feminine. Girl that is no bueno
@@PHlophemost boys/men especially the good looking ones do look more like their mom's
C'mon you had it made bro
Right? Having Goldie as a mom and Kate as a sister...who could complain about that.
What mother IS there all the time. Its nothing new or different from anyone else in the world except it seems as though you acknowledge that she loved you.
Can't we come out with some NEW term for childhood trauma that doesn't evolve violence?
Because this doesn't fall under my definition of trauma! 🤣
Seriously?
FYI…Violence is not the only thing that causes trauma. Growing up in the public eye and neglect is well known to cause trauma each on their own.
Tell your story if you have a problem with this one.
The ignorance and hate is not making me proud to be Canadian.
So she should've not worked at her profession, and stayed single and lonely in the prime of her life? The connections that sustain that man's existence are a result of his mother's work. There wouldn't be a video about him for me to comment on if it wasn't for Goldie Hawn being a Hollywood icon.
I ALWAYS felt that Goldie Hawn was not right in letting the children “interact” with their real father. I read what their dad wrote and he said she would “make excuses” for the kids not to be with him and he was fighting a losing battle. I feel that Angela Jolie is basically doing the same thing. TEAM OLIVER💯
😳 Him and his sister always complain about their parents but they had everything. This dude does nothin at all and never had any job whatsoever but he makes money from bashing his parents while using the last name “Hudson”. Try living like the rest of us.
He's clueless as to how privileged he comes across. Sharing this with his family and close friends is one thing, but giving a head shrinker a plug at his mother's expense is sort of pathetic.
Some things should remain private out of respect. There was no need for all of us to know.
I would not call it a trauma, hut i do agree it must have been challenging.....he just didnt use the right words
your mum is your mum end of story.
He looks a lot like his birth father. I almost disrespected his birth father until I heard this story, but I'm glad that I heard, from his words, what his perspective was growing up.
Lynda he looks like both parents . Kate and him sxy , like they are not pretty or anything. They've got something else extra.
THAT DOSEN’T MAKE SENSE TO ME ANYWAY 😳
Oh poor thing, he felt neglected by his famous rich mother, though I highly doubt it’s the extreme kind of neglect kids feel in foster homes or in regular households. I would understand if his parent was someone like Tom cruise, like THAT would be ‘traumatic’ but give me a break. 🥴he still had good parents, he most likely never went without, anything he needed and wanted. Cry me a river dude. 🙄🙄
and?? emotional and physical well being are two different things
This perspective entirely lacks empathy. I'd expect this from a selfish 11 year old or a sociopath. The fact is, based on our own individual frames of reference, trauma is trauma. Dismissing one person's feelings about their own lives because you perceive others to have had it worse is very undeveloped & immature thinking. You have had traumas & there are people who've had it way worse than you, but that doesn't mean your traumas aren't bad for YOU. you also deserve understanding & compassion. By this logic, the only person you'd ever deem acceptable to have a negative emotion is the one person in all of history you perceive as having had life the absolute worst. Everyone else has to suck it up because one probably woman had it the worst in 1642 or something.
He never said he didn’t have great parents, he’s just being honest about his perspective and feelings. Just because something isn’t extreme doesn’t mean it didn’t affect the particular person it happened to. This isn’t trauma olympics, everyone has things that they feel affected by. Oliver is simply talking about it on his podcast where he and his sister talk about families and growing up. So I don’t get what the problem is, the point of the podcast is to talk about people’s lives and their feelings. It’s not like he went to a newspaper to whine about it.
Omg
😮
Regardless, he was pretty lucky.
By all means air family stuff for attention and then get upset when they don't like the response.
Where was dad
I’ll happily trade parents with him.
Everyones a victim these days.
Omg, the media again has taken something so out of context to create a story. Zero conscious or principles.
It's not what Oliver meant
She looks like she partied way too hard!
Drunk driving kills. Could YOU be next? Stay sober on the road, guys. Thanks.
Boo hoo
Who cares
Geez, what a serious whiner.🙄
@@user-zr4vv3ps4e He whines about both parents, maybe he needs to point the finger at himself, or, he could pull up his big boy pants and get on with life.
We all have crummy childhoods, you have to be stronger than that.
She chose fame and men over her kids .