Popular vs Unpopular girl having school lunch I Have you ever eaten alone?

its terrible; a girl will be judged and bullied when non attractive, and be stalked and harassed when attractive

the "unpopular" girl has such an instant infectious personality - warm and bubbly. Sucks for those people in her school who missed out on having a great friend.

the interaction of "wasn't lunch the best?" and the serious "...there was an incident.." keeps making me laugh LMAO

Love the active listening and eye contact from both parties. They didn't just relay their experience, but asked appropriate, thought-provoking, and meaningful questions.

I like the fact how they both have different bad life experiences where they can't relate with each other but still can empathize with each other. This video was a very interesting one !!! Giggle

The “unpopular” girl is such a great conversationalist. I love that. I’m a big girl, and was bullied in school ‘cause of my weight as well. It has made me more of a hermit as an adult. I applaud her for speaking so freely and comfortably, and not letting her experiences dim her light. 😊💖

Since everyone’s commenting mostly lovely things about unpopular girl and they are all things I agree with - she is delightful, indeed - I’d like to show my appreciation for the popular girl as she also deserves to know how lovely she is and that she’s more than just a pretty face. I appreciate how well she listens to the unpopular girl, she listens with kindness and compassion. She is considerate in the way she offers words of comfort to her new friend, no superficial comments, clumsy words or sugarcoating but words of sincerity, openness and showing insight through her own experiences that being slim and beautiful also comes with its own set of problems. I feel that she is a gracious and warm person, it doesn’t surprise me why she’s popular. I hope I’m not mistaken in my observations of her; that what she’s shown here is not just for the camera but that this is just who she is as a person. In any case, at least in this video, both girls are wonderful individuals and beautiful in their own ways.

they both have such a genuine presence, they both seem so welcoming and i really appreciate that, its a really amazing quality

Hearing these girls talk, they're both so beautiful inside. They're sharing a meal now, yet highschool peers could never be so civilized to see past appearances. The girl on the lefts classmates missed out on a beautiful friend.

I know that the school hierarchy system in korea is quite tough so idk if this video is nice since they both seem genuine and kind but also just proves that popularity is a big deal

to me it’s adorable how they instantly clicked and how neither of them boasted about themselves and just shared their experiences

The unpopular girl is such a vibe! And actually facially really pretty and cute. She’s a great conversationalist. Such a shame for people missing out on her friendship.

it’s so sad how they both experience major harassment just in different ways, they both seem like such kind people too :(

I was never bullied in school, but I struggled making friends and was often cast to the side by my peers. I ate alone in the back of the library everyday until I had a class where we were allowed to snack on food, I’d eat my lunch as fast as I could, so I wouldn’t have to eat in the library. It didn’t bother me too much though, what made me anxious was school assemblies because everyone would group up and have fun with their friends and I’d feel so awkward sitting alone. I’m 21 now and as soon as I entered the adult world, I started garnering attention from people as my looks and confidence improved. Although now, I go out alone, as well as, to restaurants alone on my own will and I enjoy it :)

i like how when they were talking about their experience with people on the street, you can see how even though they may not seem similar to each other that they both relate to one another with their experiences with people based on their appearance. It just puts into perspective how even if you are popular or unpopular or if you're 'ugly' or 'pretty' you can still experience really shitty things.

The "unpopular" girl seems like such a nice person to have as a friend
And she seems like someone amazing to have a conversation with at school or anywhere :)

As someone who isn’t popular but not alone either. I used to believe these things don’t often happen but wow I was wrong. I’m grateful I was just a regular kid at school who didn’t have to experiences neither side of their stories.

I was really not expecting how good the energy was between them before she even sat down. I would’ve expected it to be a bit awkward to kind of rant to each other without having much common ground to relate, but it just??? Feels? So nice to see each of them getting a chance to be heard. They were so attentive to each other and 🥺

They were both so kind and considerate of each other, stalking and bullying are literally the worst things that can happen to a person, poor girls I hope this interaction helps them in someway in the future

Moral of the story - girls for girls! Both are exceptional ladies who each have different struggles of experiences. Ultimately, we should be lifting each other up always, just like these two

I eat alone most of the time, and people think I'm crying, but I'm really just tearing up because of how goddamn spicy my mom's food is.
(guys can we rlly js ignore the god in goddamn? when someone says marks for an exam paper they aren't talking about the name mark.)

I could relate to the girl on the left. I didn't have friends to have lunch together so I ate alone in the art classroom for the entire semester to pretend I have to work on my projects but was actually hiding from my classmates or people from my grade. Then I had a fake friend as a lunch partner in the last 2 years of high school. That experience was awful and I completely forgot about it until the girl on the left talked about it... It was a painful period in my life and now I like eating alone.

I can relate top both of them, for most of my teenage years I was considered ugly until the last years of high school, I was so weirded out by the sudden change of behavior of everyone around me.
Suddenly I was getting a ton of unwanted attention and everyone was weirdly nice to me, I felt overwhelmed by this kind of behavior because I generally like to be alone/left alone.
Honestly I preferred when people acted like I didn’t exist

This is actually wholesome, two ppl u don’t expect to sit together and talk, they do and they find out how relatable and similar they are 😭

As an popular guy at my school, whenever I talk to "unpopular girls" people usually glare at us in intensely.
Especially girls, it got so bad that I literally got cyberbullied. I can't imagine how the unpopular girl went through tbh.
Quite literally that time I understood how strongly people judge on our appearance. That girl I was talking to was intriguingly based/fun to talk with and our convo usually ended up in deep topics such as philosophy, consciousness, history ect. Such a W person. Hope she is doing well

I'm surprised at how sitting alone made other people talk about you negatively. Personally, i used to search for empty places to sit so i could watch whatever i wanted or just enjoy eating on my own. If anyone noticed, they didnt care. I really feel for the girl on the left, because though i experienced being alone at lunch, it was never a hurtful experience.

It's such a brave thing for her to appear on this show and talk about their experiences honestly. I have so much respect for her!!

I really like both Jiahn ad Yujin. They're both young women with very different social standing but they both speak from the heart and the mind with wisdom.
Jiahn, as a large girl myself, you have my heart. Please know you seem like a beautiful young woman on the inside and out, even if some rude people don't see that. It's obvious to me that you have a large, caring and sensitive heart, and that is a trait that few carry. To me you're beautiful.
Yujin, you too seem like a beautiful young woman in and out. You showed so much respect and understand towards Jiahn, and shared your frightening experience with such bravery. Do not be afraid to carry yourself and others with pride, and defend yourself as necessary.
Being conventionally or unconventionally pretty shouldn't be a burden to either of you. Nor should your social status. I hope if nothing else that you two become acquaintances after this, it really seemed like that was a healthy start to something that could be beneficial to both of you.
With love from the United States,
Tori

It's interesting to know how eating alone is a big deal in Korea or America. In my country, at least when I was student, it wasn't something people even thought about. Main concern was to grab food during a break, quickly find a spot and eat as fast as possible, because time of a break is pretty limited, so was a sitting area.

Being in Korean middle school after growing up in the states, I got bullied, sexually harassed, and teachers also ignored my situation. My family was poor and the middle school lunch was free, so I would eat the food for a while alone until I kept hearing all the classmates and other people looking at me weird and talking about me.
So I stopped eating in the cafeteria but rather hid in the bathroom and would eat bread or something small that I’d buy for a dollar. Most of times I starved.
Now, I have a lot of Korean friends who would bother me to go drink and eat but just thinking about my middle school years even though it’s blurry, I felt like shit the entire time. Never will let that happen if I ever see it to someone else.

It’s warming to see both of them talk freely about their experiences. Lovely people

They were talking abt bad stuff the whole time but it was so sweet to watch this

As a girl who was bullied and struggled to make friends, it hit close to home when she talked about the school staff sending kids to me so I wasn't alone. It was so awkward and I started avoiding them cause I knew they were just doing a favor
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They both have different types of bad incidents but still empathize with eachother. i can tell the popular girl really felt bad for the unpopular one even though she never experienced something like her. It's so nice to watch these videos

I never experienced any of these things at school, but I did experience seeing someone eat alone. In 6th grade, my friend and I went to lunch, and we sat with this boy, who would eat alone every day, and I wanted to be his friend. He was so sweet. Truly a rare gem these days. I would bring him candy, but he would always say he was going to give it to his brother. That make him seem even more kind. He was quiet, smart, and just a good person. My friend would ship me with him because she thought we looked cute together 😂. But I didn’t like him at the time, I just saw him as a friend. Haven’t seen him in person since. I moved away before 8th grade, and currently about to be in 10th. recently that same friend told me about him and showed me a picture, and he looks and awesome. Apparently he does so many sports, he cares about school, he’s respectful to girls, and he’s kind. When I saw the picture of him I think I fell in love… that guy is exactly what I want in a relationship. Physically and personality. I just wish I could see him again…

This is a good example of a great speaker and great listener having a conversation

Both of the girls are so polite , its amazing!!

It’s better to eat alone sometimes rather than having fake company around. I always ate alone in hs although it gave me anxiety :’( but it gave me self worth to be dependent on myself.

I had this same exact same experience when I was in middle school. I didn't have any friends to eat with at my lunch table and it made me really self conscious so I wouldn't eat any of my food. Sometimes people would even ask me to have the food on my tray. It got so lonely that I started to bring a book to read and it helped pass the time and drown out my surroundings. One day my teacher asked me if I had any friends in other classes, which I did, and she let me go sit with them. I'm really grateful for her because once I started eating lunch with my friends I actually looked forward to lunch time. This video brought back some unpleasant memories but I'm also glad to know that I'm not the only one who went through something like that.

I love that they got along and seemed to really understand and have empathy for each other's struggles. Very sweet video. 💖

Jiahn’s personality is so attractive to me, she seems so mature and intelligent. I love her for that :))

For a long time I didn't realize how privileged I was in school, everybody knew who I was and it was easy to make friends because people would simply aproach me. All the teachers knew my name and they all liked me, the principal was almost like my best friend, we still see each other sometimes and he always give me the best hugs. I was my class's leader during all my high school period (elected by my own mates). I never really realized how great school was for me until I hear reports of people having a hard time there, I would love to go back in time and look more around me and make friends with excluded people, I was so centered in my own world that I don't even remember if there were people who were being left out. I wish I could change somethings...

They are both so sweet and its cute to see how they care and empathize with each other even if their experiences are different

they both seem so lovely 😭 i hope a friendship blossomed from this

I can relate to this, I wasn't popular nor draw attention into me. But being bullied I can relate 100%. If we become insecure and having the mindset of "I don't want to be judge by others." can make you feel uncomfy. But I learnt that not everyone will come to like you. Even being popular won't mean is pleasant. Making friends, and being accept is hard, but remember: You're always gonna be your own friend.

I'm from the US and it's the same thing at lunch. There are tables for popular kids, tables for regular kids in the popularity hierarchy. and tables for the unpopular outcast kids. But one interesting observation I'd notice is a table where all the Korean immigrants who came to the US not too long ago sat in regardless if they were popular or unpopular. We had a huge Korean population in our neighborhood and schools. Overseas Koreans tend to stick together.

I love how they are so respectful to each other and nice❤❤

they’re so kind listening to each other

It is really interesting finding out the two different extremes these girls experience. At first things do sound very easy with Yujin regarding certain things, but then she does experience some really nasty things like a different kind harassment than Jiahn experiences. It's quite scary.

Thankfully, we never bully our classmates, alone or no, people doesn't care. Mostly students eat alone because they want it, no student is really alone. If you want to eat together, just walk together, we ate together in the classroom, it's so beautiful time.

Thank you for today's video... It's crazy but I've experienced both sides of the table, in primary and high school I was always surrounded by friends and never felt self conscious about eating, but when I stated to get depressed, I realised I pushed away the people around me and stated skipping lunches, I would go to the toilet, or say I already ate or will eat later... I wouldn't say I had an eating disorder, but I didn't like lunch times, so I'd always go to the library.. in college no one from high school knew me so I made new friends, I was still shy about eating but my friends made me feel at ease... Now that I'm in my final year of uni and I feel much more at ease with my own company as all my other friends have different schedules... I still don't like to eat tho in public, but atleast I'm much more happier in life and feel better in my own body... The one thing is I've never been bullied or teased, instead people have praised me for my looks and personality, but until I loved my own self, I wasn't ever going to be happy... I hope everyone, whether they are popular or unpopular feels loved and comfortable with themselves 🥰🥰🥰

I rlly love their friendship together and I hope they stay friends outside of this channel

All throughout my school life, I've never experienced being popular nor did I hang out with that crowd. One time I was accused wrongly and those bullies managed to turn my "friends" against me so I was alone during lunch time. The anxiety was too much and my "friends" were looking at me from another table, some with pity, some with disdain, the bullies looking smug. That day I locked myself in one of the cubicles in the bathroom I know a few would go to and ate my lunch there while crying. It happened one time and it was traumatizing so I can't even imagine having to experience that every single day.

This is so real. I didn’t have any friends so I used to skip lunch and hide in the bathroom stall until lunch ended so I wouldn’t have to deal with it. Also, the part where her home room teacher told kids to eat with her really resonated with me. My school counselor would try and get kids to eat with me but it hurts when you know they don’t actually want to be there. It’s so nice seeing them try to emphasize with each other even though their stories are very different. It shows that everybody can and *will* struggle. It’s just a fact of life. The best part is continuing through them.

she really has a karina from aespa vibe

This also shows how different societies are in education world. I live in Finland, and we don't strictly follow "who's rich, popular" what so ever, is just connection (network) you've w/others. I love to improve my communicate (as introverted), but end of the day I'm still alone outside school. I don't mind it since I love to be alone, and people think/taught I was lonely. No, I'm not. + They're two different things.

I really wish we mixed together better like this. If you ignore conventional looks, imagine the friends we could all have.

I love both of them omg. They’re both wonderful and I wish them happiness!

Just her talking about her experience of eating lunch alone really resonates with me and I started tearing up because it brought me back to middle and high school. I didn’t have many friends because of social anxiety and low self esteem and it was one of the hardest things to deal with at such a developmental age. I felt like such a loser because I’d either have only one friend or no one to eat lunch with. I never ate in the cafeteria during high school because I felt this overwhelming anxiety that people were judging me for eating alone or with just one person. And I hate that because of how I look and act now people don’t believe me when I say that I was unpopular and a loner in my teenage years, and it kinda invalidates my experience that I had then. If I could go back in time with the mindset I had now, I would tell myself that it won’t be forever and you can find power in independence. I would tell myself that you aren’t a loser for not fitting into the social circles that you have around you. And I feel so much especially for those that are/ were bullied because thankfully I kept my head down enough to avoid it.

i love that there’s barely a moment of silence. they are both so full of conversation and kindness and understanding it’s sweet to watch ❤

Jiahn and yujin they're so cute!! It's very interesting to watch this video they both look so beautiful and kind they seem to have a different personalities but being different is so cool because everyone is unique in their own ways 💜 thank u giggle for this amazing video 💜💜

근데 진짜 인정... 고등학교 초반까진 비만에 자존감도 낮아서 꾸밀줄도 모르고 따돌림도 자주 당하고 살았었는데, 30키로 정도 빼고 저체중까지 찍은 지금 되니까 스토킹이든 성범죄든 표적이 됨... 둘 다 겪어본 입장에서 못생기면 따돌림, 예쁘면 성범죄... 이게 맞음... 세상은 참 더러움...

I remember being friends with these two types of people, the "popular" and "unpopular". In our senior year in highschool I used to be friends with almost everyone in our class. I was friends with the "cool kids" whom most people would let them say/do anything they want. and the people being bullied. There were two girls being mocked for allegedly lying about their social status and background. I'm friends with both of them, separately. It was hard to figure for a 17 year old, so I didnt really do anything to stop it. 2 years after graduation, I apologized to the other girl. The other one we all lost contact with. It's sad to think about this hierarchy in high school.

It's interesting to see perspective from both of the girls
As for me, I think I stand in the middle ground. I wasn't bullied (anymore now) but I couldn't make any friends. Appearance wise, I'm average and sometimes receive compliments if I do dress up. However, once they know my quiet personality they immediately cast me out. It might be an exaggeration on my hand, but it's one of the reason it made me lost appetite to eat on my own. Aside from lunch, there were a few times when we'd choose groups to partner for school assignments and write them down on the board. Eventually, all girls wanted to change out from mine. I know it might be cause they want to be with their friends but it just pained me a bit.
It's somewhat my fault as well. Since growing up I'm told I'm to clingy to people I like so it gets the wrong impression. In junior high, they thought I was too distant. Now, I just sit in the corner alone writing during recess.

After this, I feel blessed for my 6 amazing food buddies that most other peers couldn’t have. We’ve all stuck together since middle school, one joining us during junior year. And we’ve never missed a day. I love them from the bottom of my heart.

Ngl the unpopular girl doesn't even look bad. She just needs to lose the extra body fat and she will be really good looking. She already has an amazing personality!

Nice and kind teachers who exists, deserve such a big clap! Teachers r very important to kids..

it's so interesting to see people actually do fear eating alone. I thought it was an exaggeration because in school i ate alone all the time and actually came to prefer it. Food and a good book really gave me the reset i needed to finish the day.

Different country really different social experience. I am from Malaysia. Where I am, there's no shunning of people choosing to eat alone. We would just brush it off as he or she is probably not very sociable and don't like to be disturbed. And we can have friends of any sizes or status, popular and non-popular kids gets to mix together to have fun and do stuff. Now after watching this video, I feel even more thankful to be where I am.

Both girls are really beautiful at heart!! ❤

Her story reminded me of middle school. I was also bullied and one day all my classmates were sitting at the same table and there was no room for me there so I had to eat alone at another table. I wasn't friends with any of them so that made me cry. I've always hated to eat alone at school and shoppings but I've come to terms with it as an adult

Jiahn is like me. I was severely bullied in school and often ate by myself. No one seemed to like me no matter how nice and accepting I was of others. I would have eaten with her every day and have been great friends with her if we were similar in age. This video is nostalgic to me in a bitter sweet way

Man from what I could see I love how they both understand each other and emphasize each other feelings 😊

its incredible seeing how their school lunch looks. it looks amazing.

Awww they’re both so cute🫶🏽

1:57 i love her laugh so much. She sounds so comforting and funny and she’s also so gorgeous in her own beauty

they are such extroverts and get along so well, i would be thrilled to have them in my friend group at school

This made me cry, as someone who has been bullied and been popular I can understand both and it just breaks my heart that no matter what you do as a woman there will always be someone that harasses you or makes fun of you. Like you can be perfect, someone will always make you feel bad. Nobody should have to go through any of this.

it’s weird how I can relate to both of them. i used to be quite popular in school until my popular best friend left. after that, i lost contact with almost all of my friends, and now almost everyone has forgotten who i am. i also ended up becoming shy and reserved. crazy how much popularity you can gain just from your friends.

I am happy in my class, we include everyone during lunch so if we happen to see anyone eating alone we will all move and sit with that person. It’s been 5 months since I entered the school and not a day miss i get to eat with half the class together.
This video is an eye opener since I can’t really relate to either side. I was never really lonely since i make friends easily but was never really popular

i loved this! this made me miss being able to talk to people who cannot relate to me or me them, but feeling eager to hear what the other's thought/seen/heard/felt

they’re so attentive and such great listeners aw

weirdly I can relate to both of them. I was told that a lot of guys had a crush on me, a lot of people said i'm pretty or some have confessed their feelings for me. so in the 2nd grade of mid school, there was a group of girls in my class that rumored bad things about me because they hate the fact that their guy friend had a crush on me, which made almost all my classmates chose to stay away from me and bullied me verbally, even my own friends. I ended up hanging out just with my friend who is an unpopular student, but she kindly always gave me a ride home with her bike. she got bullied too because she liked that guy friend. so the girls forced him to dated one of their friend (she is our classmate too). I knew the truth from himself, because he hate the idea but forced to do it and doesn't want to hurt me too. I always secretly cried at home, I didn't tell anyone so the bullying lasted for weeks, until I told the school counselor and we ended up in counseling room to sort things out and all my classmate apologized. so til today we still friends but whenever I think of what happened it always hurts me.

they both are good listeners and it's way better to watch them talking throughout the video! hope you both become a good friend✨

I've actually experienced both sides. I was super awkward and quiet from 1st to 3rd year of highschool. I became a little popular on the 4th year because I started taking my studies more seriously and made it as the first honor in class. Hence the fourth year of highschool was the best year for me.

I like both of the girls. Just because you are unpopular doesn‘t mean that you are uncool or sth like that but also if you are popular doesn’t mean that you are a bad person or sth like that. They are both cute girls🫶

that was actually so sweet ❤

Jihan is brave, cheerful and open-minded.
These are the three most important characteristics in women successful in their career.

My experience includes both sides from these girls, but more to the one on the left. I lost all of my close friends before highschool, and all through highschool i struggled with anxiety and my social skills, so it was so hard for me to find friends. I used to hide in the bathroom for the entire lunchtime, and would barely eat. I also got pitied by others alot and i had one friend who was kind of a fake friend but i just tagged along with anyway because i had no one. One day i decided to just face my fear and i remember going up to these girls in my class, and asked if i could sit with them. They said sure and so i hung out with them so i wouldnt be alone, which took so much courage.
Now im in my last year of school, and i somehow made a bunch of new friends over the holidays. We grew closer and i was so happy that people liked me for once, and i was becoming more popular and confident in myself. But after a few months, they began excluding me from things and im left out and ignored alot. So i just hang out with other kind of friends or just random people i talk to. Im definitely alot more chill and less stressed than i used to be, and i definitely dont let their opinions ruin my life any more, and i dont hide anymore, which i stopped doing for my own self worth. However i still often feel left out and like i dont belong among the friends i have and im not as popular as i was before. I know people still look at me sometimes and wonder why im alone but id much prefer it than to hang out with fake people and not feeling comfortable around them.
Maybe its to do with my self confidence that i still dont feel popular enough to be friends with them or maybe they really arent real friends, but im just trying my best to be myself and finish school on my own.

i love this series and what it shows however i mainly i love that it brought these two girls together. their friendship is soooo beautiful

I was in a similar situation to the girl in the video where I would never eat lunch most of the time (for 2 years) which I acknowledge is probably really bad. For me it was a combination of not having any friends, being incredibly anxious and hating myself which was basically an eating disorder where I felt like I needed to punish myself. I told myself it was okay because I would just study instead and get good grades but I was always hungry during class.
I've never had a problem with doing things by myself and actually liked it but it was the feeling of being the only one by myself that made me feel even more anxious and withdrawn; also something about eating in front of others makes me feel really self-conscious. Part of studying I guess was also to make myself look busy, that I had an important piece of work to complete that meant I couldn't socialise, except all of the time. A lot of the time I would even leave the building to go to the toilet stall because that was the only place I felt any privacy and I get incredibly easily overwhelmed in places with lots of people around. I feel like all loners share that experience of staying in the toilet stall. It may be a bit gross but not as much as everything else was to me. I'm kinda just glad I wasn't forced to sit with anyone because that would make me feel even more depressed and like I'm being ridiculed by someone who is only there because they were told to be. Honestly though I wanna hug anyone that's been through this kinda thing because I really do get it. Stay safe everyone ♡

this video rlly made me smile a lot, it was relaxing. Everyone knew me at school, but i wasnt popular. Almost like i was in the background, and because of this i always observed other students. I saw/heard things these girls talked about A LOT in school

funny how your looks determine how your personality is perceived from your looks and how it indicates how welcomed you are in any groups of society

I was conscious of that as well when I was eating alone in Uni. I was a new student and felt uncomfortable eating with my classmates cuz different social background and they would ask me question abt if I play piano, ride horse etc. I would eat alone to be in peace but people would come and feel bad for me and say let’s eat together. But I wasn’t a great talker so we never hang out too. Or eat regularly together.

Honestly, I've experienced both sides and could relate to them both. I was often ostracized by my peers for being too "nerdy"? Though I had friends, I always felt that I was often laughed at. I realized that I would be cutting off my life experiences and opportunities if I couldn't overcome this so I made an effort. I studied what was popular and wore trendy outfits. I encumbered my interests, I no longer talked to people regarding hypothetical situations, fantasies, philosophies, and all the things people found boring in our place at that time. And sadly, it worked. People often looked for me and hung around with me. I found myself new friends and have really benefited from the privilege of being popular and pretty but I also paid the price. That life seemed fake. Now, I just feel like I go out with a mask. But to be honest, if I were to choose which lifestyle to keep? I know I would still choose this current lifestyle. I had made true friends and enjoyed my school life. Being made fun of and overlooked made me lose my self-confidence. One thing I realized was that you just have to love yourself.

0:37 the way she smiled melted my heart 😭

Some of y’all are such hypocrites in this comment section. BOTH of these women are beautiful, inside and out. We are all human and all deserve respect. Bringing down the “popular” girl just to bring the other girl up and feel good about yourself is counterproductive. You don’t know if she’s had work done, and even if she did, it doesn’t matter. They are both flawed in their own ways, but each deserve kindness. That is what you should get from this video. Not “let’s defend the bullied girl by harassing the other woman who has done absolutely nothing wrong to her!!” This was such a personal conversation for both of them, let’s be respectful to both women. You’re making yourself look like an ass if you’re talking about their bodies in any sort of way.

I want to destroy every mean feeling in eveyone's heart. I really don't understand how people cannot see the beauty inside of people which reflects on the outside. They are both adorable beings.

I've also been bullied or treated badly by other people because of my weight or my appearance, I'm not fat but not skinny either, chubby basically. A classmate used to kind of bully me because of my weight, but he was fatter than me. My friends back then told me to defend myself and treat him the way he treated me, but I was too nice. I can relate to the girl on the left but also to the girl on the right a little bit as well. I honestly don't know why some people are judgmental and mean, and treat people bad. Nowadays, I'm trying to live healthier so I can be more healthy and lose some weight, but only because I want to. Sometimes, living in countries where beauty standards are so high, can cause damage to your mental and physical health. The two girls are so nice and so pretty, I wish them nothing but happiness. Everybody is beautiful in my opinion. To anyone who sees this, I'm sending all my love to you.

The eating with your teacher part hits me with nostalgia. I used to do that in high school, because I was separated from my from friends (we have different lunch periods).
My classmates and I were cordial but I didn't really bond with them. I always sit at the same table everyday and then one of our teachers started sitting with me. Idk if she took pity on me but she kinda made things awkward and we usually just sit there in silence, I appreciated it though.
Just to clarify, I didn't feel lonely at all. I was okay being alone during lunch because I know my friends and I can hang after school, I just didn't bother to make connections with my classmates at that time.
The teacher eventually asked me why I was always alone and if I'm being bullied, I told her no and that I have friends but they're in another section. I guess what I said resonated with her because the next school year on the first day in class, they asked if any students wanted to change sections (so they can be together with their friend group, I assumed).
One student changed sections. I stayed because some of my friends were in the same class, and all sections also have the same lunch period.