My Abusive (ex) Boyfriend's "Girlfriend"

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  • 게시일 2018. 12. 15.
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  • @illymation
    @illymation  3 년 전 +8885

    Here’s proof of my story since y’all wanna doxx me over this shit. twitter.com/illymation/status/1279990200806961153?s=21

    • @Leaf557
      @Leaf557 3 년 전 +760

      Children should not be going through this AND fellow teens AND all

    • @peachygirl2374
      @peachygirl2374 3 년 전 +604

      People who pick apart others stories have their own troubles to worry about. I'm so sorry this has happened as some one who suffered mental abuse I know how hard it is to tell your story and have people who have nothing to do with it say that it's untrue :( I haven't seen this episode yet but I'm really glad I stumbled on your videos

    • @meanybeany412
      @meanybeany412 3 년 전 +44

      Hi

    • @lightthegreat9315
      @lightthegreat9315 3 년 전 +42

      yeet

    • @lightthegreat9315
      @lightthegreat9315 3 년 전 +71

      trying to lighten the mood. I feel sorry 4 u.

  • @illymation
    @illymation  3 년 전 +12096

    Popping in to say, Holly and Kitt and Wolfie and I are still wonderful friends to this day. We’re closer than ever- I swear they’re my found family! When it’s safe to travel (it’s currently Quarantine 2020) I’ll be visiting Kitt in Canada and vlogging a little update video :)

  • @Katimorton
    @Katimorton 5 년 전 +3586

    Thanks for sharing your story. I really appreciate how open and honest you are.

    • @thatcertaintouch
      @thatcertaintouch 5 년 전 +9

      The fact that Kati Morton saw this vid >>>> Would love some more videos about this Kati!!!

    • @chrismoore8189
      @chrismoore8189 5 년 전

      666

    • @jodieaustin4245
      @jodieaustin4245 5 년 전 +3

      Yess Kati, coming in with the support

    • @CarlsCozyCorner
      @CarlsCozyCorner 5 년 전 +3

      I'm now terrified of guys 15 and up
      Nothing's happened to me but what if it does? What if I can't tell people being genuine from being minipulative.. What if I can't trust anybody older than me anymore?

    • @sarahhall2391
      @sarahhall2391 5 년 전

      @Eos Zelich yes she is

  • @--weirdoforever83--
    @--weirdoforever83-- 8 개월 전 +665

    I like to imagine multiple strangers on the internet desperately trying to find all of Harris's information and tracking him down.

  • @angelothepan
    @angelothepan 8 개월 전 +372

    This really saved me illy. Thank you. I was online and this guy messaged me, he said not to tell anyone. He wanted me to send him photos if myself. I was 13. It went on for a month before i came across this series from you. And i thought to myself "Wait..this is what Harris did to her. What if this happened to someone i knew. Wait..****** is doing this to me.." i then texted the guy "Please stop texting me. This isn't okay, if you contact me or my family I will report you to the police. Leave me alone and do not ever even try to get me into your life again". And i blocked him on everything and i was free. Thank you illy..thank you for saving me
    Please keep doing what you do❤❤❤

    • @sillyestel
      @sillyestel 6 개월 전 +14

      I'm glad your doing better now! ❤️

    • @jackoshea7297
      @jackoshea7297 4 개월 전 +5

      Unfathomably joy pilled comment

    • @hellkat200
      @hellkat200 3 개월 전 +5

      Good for you! I’m so glad you’re in a better place now!

  • @thejuicyphantom2382
    @thejuicyphantom2382 5 년 전 +5103

    This guy could still be out there abusing another girl.

  • @MirandaTheShinigami
    @MirandaTheShinigami 5 년 전 +6750

    THIS is what women supporting each other is.

    • @user-gm8mg7eq7m
      @user-gm8mg7eq7m 5 년 전 +82

      Guest1milplayz it matter because it shows that theirs people who have each other’s back and it does matter btw so if you don’t like that deal with it

    • @dudeman7738
      @dudeman7738 5 년 전 +13

      @@user-gm8mg7eq7m You actually think someone cares about you because of what gender you are?

    • @user-gm8mg7eq7m
      @user-gm8mg7eq7m 5 년 전 +58

      Chris Davis I’m not talking about a gender caring about me makes it important but about it matter that people are giving you support

    • @maarten9272
      @maarten9272 5 년 전 +64

      @@dudeman7738 What is your point buddy? People can support each other.

    • @bentoaddict
      @bentoaddict 5 년 전 +8

      @Guest1milplayz You sound like a depressed teenager who is in need of support...

  • @faerykaye
    @faerykaye 년 전 +258

    Two victims who barely knew each other coming together and talking and acting like old friends.

  • @anokartist2352
    @anokartist2352 8 개월 전 +263

    I just noticed that they were in the autism video, it's good to see that you guys still remained friends. People brought together over a common hatred/bad blood over a person can make the best friendships.

    • @selenahopeofficial
      @selenahopeofficial 6 개월 전 +2

      I didn't notice. Where were they?

    • @velikan420
      @velikan420 4 개월 전 +4

      Nothing unites people like a common enemy.

    • @anokartist2352
      @anokartist2352 4 개월 전 +10

      @@selenahopeofficial she's the girl mentioned that helped ilisa with her self diagnosis

  • @yuutsunoumi
    @yuutsunoumi 4 년 전 +8584

    Harris? More like HARASS.

  • @aeoli4921
    @aeoli4921 3 년 전 +5697

    Next episode:
    *We drove by Harris’s house with ak47’s*

  • @OrangeSpaceNewt
    @OrangeSpaceNewt 년 전 +446

    You know... My abuser showed me the first part of your story with your ex. He must have thought he was a "good guy" because he thought I wouldn't make the connection that my abuser and Haris were similar in demanding things with a victim complex. It took a few more years before I cut him out of my life completely after that. I didn't cut him out before because he'd always play the victim and claim that "I wanted him to do it" in our cuddles. Meanwhile I was just treating him like I would a lady friend because ladies are more affectionate in friendships than boys are.
    I had mental issues and PTSD that I was refusing to acknowledge. It took too long that what he was doing in our cuddles was wrong. Sometimes I wonder if I actually wanted to cuddle him.
    Due to my non-acknowledged mental issues and PTSD I let him go past my boundaries. I dissociated.
    I told him that what he's doing is wrong and how dare he crossed my boundaries. At the time I didn't know that I had mantal issues, so I didn't have an explanation of why he should back off.
    He demanded an explanation and even dropped hints that he could hurt himself by telling me that he knew where his dad's gun was. He'd purposely drive close to the seawall edge that was bordered by a flimsy cable line just to see my reaction. He knew I was afraid of water even if I didn't tell him. He knew. He knew he knew.
    He still doesn't know about my confirmed PTSD symptoms. But I had a feeling that he did even if he didn't know the proper term for it.
    He knew I couldn't trust men because of the evil men that were in my life in the past.
    He knew that I valued my family more than I valued him.
    He knew I could snap him like a twig if I so badly wanted to.
    So he played victim.
    Cue 7 years of wasted time.
    But what wasn't a waste for the last of those 3 years in the 7 years was when he mistakenly introduced me to my future wife.
    We cut him out completely and I'm still trying to accept that it happened. I want to forget my time with him, but it happened when I was trying to figure out my identity and what it was going to be for the rest of my life.
    He wasted my time, that's for sure.
    But he didn't waste that I had reasons to cut him out.

    • @Hanschans74
      @Hanschans74 년 전 +26

      Im so happy that you managed to get out of such a horrible situation and that you cut him off

    • @user-tb2xb5cc1q
      @user-tb2xb5cc1q 10 개월 전 +14

      Im so happy for you... i wish i was that brave...

    • @megs1518
      @megs1518 8 개월 전 +12

      @@user-tb2xb5cc1q you can be!!!! sending love and light and courage to you!

    • @I_Ate_Chocolate
      @I_Ate_Chocolate 7 개월 전

      ​@@user-tb2xb5cc1q Know that if you are going through anything you can always search up videos like this or just on Google ways that might be able to help your situation
      I know it might seem stupid but find EVERY source you can to get you out of a situation that might be dangerous, there is always a way to get you out safely you would just have to find it
      I believe in you!
      (Of course all of this is assuming that you're going through that kind of situation now but better safe than sorry if I can help someone then it'll be worth it in exchange for maybe being embarrassed that I kind of assumed a lot)

  • @JohnFiala
    @JohnFiala 년 전 +913

    “Nothing unites two women more than a shared hatred of a man.” -(I don’t remember where I heard that)
    Also I love kitt and holly’s dynamic ☺️🥺

  • @rosethealpacaqueen4052
    @rosethealpacaqueen4052 4 년 전 +29936

    I imagine Harris watching this and having a temper tantrum

  • @learningwithlaila
    @learningwithlaila 2 년 전 +6395

    Harris: I’m pathetic
    Everyone: yes, yes you are.

    • @superpaul968
      @superpaul968 2 년 전 +16

      John Doyle would definitely agree!

    • @lenous_
      @lenous_ 2 년 전 +8

      just pathetic? he is pathetic disgusting a predetor and he still plays dumb and may even be abusing another girl right now as we talk

    • @darckense1
      @darckense1 2 년 전 +24

      You’re goddamn right

    • @grim_reapepper
      @grim_reapepper 년 전 +16

      phineas and ferb be like: write that down

    • @learningwithlaila
      @learningwithlaila 년 전 +5

      @@grim_reapepper I came up with the quote first 🙄 /j

  • @yourlocalbela7220
    @yourlocalbela7220 6 개월 전 +28

    i remember watching this series when i was younger. months or years later, a strange guy dmed me on facebook asking me to be his girlfriend when he was 21 and I was 9. because of your video, i knew what to do; i blocked him. because of your video, you saved me from going through the same situation.

    • @someoneontheinternet072
      @someoneontheinternet072 5 개월 전 +6

      Hey… idk you and you don’t know me, but I’m honestly proud of you for doing this. You did the right thing.

    • @garethbaus5471
      @garethbaus5471 개월 전

      You were 9?! That guy should be reported to the police if you can find the right information.

  • @lizzy8538
    @lizzy8538 년 전 +28

    “Age is just a number”
    So is 911

  • @sarahmcdonald7280
    @sarahmcdonald7280 4 년 전 +19515

    Next episode: We 👏 shipped 👏 Haris 👏 to 👏 a 👏 deserted 👏 island 👏 to 👏 die 👏 alone 👏

    • @buggybite2033
      @buggybite2033 4 년 전 +294

      Or we sent Harris to the trash island his home

    • @gobbledygook9751
      @gobbledygook9751 4 년 전 +234

      With Apolo from lore Olympus

    • @lucid_nightshade
      @lucid_nightshade 4 년 전 +543

      What did that deserted island do to deserve that :d

    • @pauldowns32
      @pauldowns32 4 년 전 +51

      YAYAYAYAY

    • @coolgaming3000
      @coolgaming3000 4 년 전 +173

      Damn why you putting him on an island with a bunch of innocent animals he is going to abuse him but idk if he bullies that raccoon he keeps demanding me for money

  • @geteca2405
    @geteca2405 3 년 전 +3983

    Me to Harris: *your kneecap privileges have been revoked*

    • @roberthrenko5466
      @roberthrenko5466 3 년 전 +53

      *harris wobbly knees*

    • @rebeccacoleman7681
      @rebeccacoleman7681 3 년 전 +3

      Jr Telleshj

    • @saneperson2
      @saneperson2 3 년 전 +45

      Or his life privileges should be revoked?

    • @sle3pish_710
      @sle3pish_710 3 년 전 +20

      Get Kermit to stomp his knees backwards.

    • @hexapositive6697
      @hexapositive6697 3 년 전 +30

      @@saneperson2 first his finger and toe priveleges, and then his shin and forearm privelges, and then his arm and leg priveleges, and then his eye priveleges, and his ear priveleges and finally his torso privelges

  • @chii-plays
    @chii-plays 2 년 전 +211

    this series very helped me illy
    i was sexually abused by my 14 year old cousin and i was 10 ... thats all i what to say about it. Thank you illy.

  • @MaddisonAcidd
    @MaddisonAcidd 년 전 +62

    The scary thing is he could still be abusing other girls, or even stalking you without you knowing-

  • @okhoward1942
    @okhoward1942 5 년 전 +3262

    Also, women supporting women is one of my favorite things in the whole world

    • @joshuagriffiths9156
      @joshuagriffiths9156 5 년 전 +8

      Don’t care

    • @Pellaeon159
      @Pellaeon159 5 년 전 +23

      That doesnt even make sense. Women support women milions of times a day across the world today and across history. You sound like if its some cutting edge inovation and a rare sight to behold.

    • @nicholasamariles8608
      @nicholasamariles8608 5 년 전 +6

      KNOW ONE CARES BBBBBBBIIIIIIIIIIIIITTTTTTTTTTTCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

    • @Ari-ob9nj
      @Ari-ob9nj 5 년 전 +47

      Why is everyone so mean. Yes, women supporting women will always be beautiful.

    • @svimarie6844
      @svimarie6844 5 년 전 +7

      Joshua Griffiths Obviously you said since you replied.

  • @anora5927
    @anora5927 3 년 전 +11783

    Me: *realizes that Haris could be abusing another girl right now*
    Me: "hackers, do your thing and find him, lets take him down"

    • @ibtyx1
      @ibtyx1 3 년 전 +422

      Anora seriously needs more likes, I’ve got a hacker friend if ya want

    • @ibtyx1
      @ibtyx1 3 년 전 +369

      I can’t get in contact with him the easiest yet because I go and visit him but now Corona is here and I can’t travel across seas, now my only way of contact is through roblox chat lol

    • @Husslz
      @Husslz 3 년 전 +226

      @@ibtyx1 please tell him to take Harris down

    • @gabrielangelos2821
      @gabrielangelos2821 3 년 전 +281

      i could do it, but i need and email addres or profile so i can get the ip and use it to get his location when he decides to use his computer then confirm that is him and then just call vladimir

    • @ssarodriguez923
      @ssarodriguez923 3 년 전 +144

      *anon has entered the chat*

  • @PersianLime31
    @PersianLime31 2 년 전 +71

    Fun fact: the slash and comas were morse code and translating it would give you:HSE#5
    If u fix the scrambles and then translate it into leet you get something like haris

    • @mushboi6965
      @mushboi6965 2 년 전 +10

      Oh my god, thats...so creepy

    • @mariamalkasian2086
      @mariamalkasian2086 2 년 전 +7

      I thought it might have been morse code but i was to lazy to actually check

    • @PersianLime31
      @PersianLime31 2 년 전 +4

      @Maria Malkasisn
      Np because the game theorist are always here to over analyze everything!

    • @mariamalkasian2086
      @mariamalkasian2086 2 년 전 +1

      @@PersianLime31 haha thanks lmao

  • @rosebon9875
    @rosebon9875 9 개월 전 +36

    This is so sad bc I feel like he found his perfect target. Someone who struggled mentally & was venerable to these kinds of things & he knew it. Problem is no one else would understand bc they weren’t the target he was looking for.

  • @madisongraham8457
    @madisongraham8457 5 년 전 +3028

    Next episode: Reuniting with Harris and destroying his entire being

  • @zuzu9742
    @zuzu9742 4 년 전 +18991

    No one:
    The comment section: *"1 like = 1 punch for Harris 😩✌️"*

    • @supern0va_003
      @supern0va_003 4 년 전 +269

      @RAGE INTERNET!!! I can see where you would draw that conclusion, but having people that are very close to me having gone through something fairly similar, I do think that some people are like that for no reason whatsoever. I wish you the best in life. 🙂

    • @zuzu9742
      @zuzu9742 4 년 전 +29

      Wtf are y'all talking about

    • @dianejohnson6987
      @dianejohnson6987 4 년 전 +204

      RAGE INTERNET!!! Nobody gives a shit what “he has gone through” now you just sound like you are giving sympathy for him! It doesn’t matter what he has gone through, what he did to Illy and maybe what he is still doing to girls is disgusting, appalling, and all out fucking wrong. PERIOD! He deserves to be beaten, to be locked up, to be thrown away like garbage because that’s all he is. Straight garbage.

    • @dianejohnson6987
      @dianejohnson6987 4 년 전 +78

      im high man i haven’t any idea but what I think is happening is RAGE INTERNET! Thinks that what Harris is doing just MiGhT bE oK depending on WhAt He HaS gOnE tHrOuGh. THAT DOESNT MATTER. HE SHOULD STILL BE BETTER THAN THE PEICE OF SHIT HE IS NO MATTER WHAT

    • @roromi9843
      @roromi9843 4 년 전 +45

      harris is a shitty person but these people aren't doing shit either. they're just using a serious situation that happens to many people (some of which don't even tell a soul) for youtube likes, instead of sharing and spreading awareness.

  • @EthanEvans-nx7dn
    @EthanEvans-nx7dn 8 개월 전 +13

    It genuinely breaks my heart to see pictures of Illy from the past and see how drained she looks... I know that feeling all too well and im glad you made it out okay.

  • @Abbyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyurfav

    I’m glad you’ve decided to use Harris’s name in these videos, after all off the absolut Bullshit he did to you, he doesn’t deserve the privacy you give to all of the other people you mention on this channel.

    • @jennifershepherd2921
      @jennifershepherd2921 3 개월 전 +3

      Yeah we need to find out his last name so we can stalk him and have revenge

    • @nicolefloof
      @nicolefloof 2 개월 전 +2

      @@jennifershepherd2921had the same thought😅

  • @AlexsCorner
    @AlexsCorner 5 년 전 +8454

    God, he sounds like a freak. "It's in my nature?" Bish GET OUTTA HERE

  • @yeehaw4682
    @yeehaw4682 5 년 전 +3752

    I hope every time Haris buys an ice cream cone
    *HE DROPS IT ON THE FLOOR*

    • @tanu5353
      @tanu5353 5 년 전 +124

      The Hello Fellow thats fucking overkill

    • @thedon5157
      @thedon5157 5 년 전 +117

      woooaah too extreme budddyyy

    • @ywl7854
      @ywl7854 5 년 전 +117

      dude, that's just evil. I LOVE IT!

    • @pedromgpt
      @pedromgpt 5 년 전 +57

      Easy there tiger,too extreme.

    • @michaelswart77
      @michaelswart77 5 년 전 +35

      Emo, we need something more evil than a broken neck, like fellows EXTREME idea!

  • @yeetchungus8996
    @yeetchungus8996 년 전 +53

    This needs to be on TLC or something. I feel like people should know about your story. Especially teenage girls. This is so drama and heartbreaking.

  • @jordanmacleod3688
    @jordanmacleod3688 2 년 전 +48

    I’m just scared for whoever is his target now, he’s clearly got a pattern of behaviour. I hope you are able to help others with this series

  • @dolphinberry9247
    @dolphinberry9247 4 년 전 +5182

    I’m really happy to hear that Holly and Kit are engaged now :)

  • @madethiswheniwas1360
    @madethiswheniwas1360 5 년 전 +846

    "I'm nervous."
    "Why are you nervous?"
    "I'm nervous because like...... WhY arE YoU nERvoUs?!?"
    Lol so relatable

    • @Lea-dc7jm
      @Lea-dc7jm 5 년 전 +6

      Joey The Logboy that was so cute my heart meltet, she’s soooo lovely

    • @asielmilian38
      @asielmilian38 5 년 전 +1

      Lea She is pretty cool but she reminds me of someone I don't like.

  • @CuteKyuubi
    @CuteKyuubi 년 전 +18

    Victim blaming is probably the dumbest reaction you can have towards someone who is or has been in a situation like this

  • @Homie_1111
    @Homie_1111 5 개월 전 +6

    That hug at the end speaks miles. I've been through some crap in relationships but damn. Much love to all.

  • @elizabethmackay972
    @elizabethmackay972 5 년 전 +3234

    I think what makes this so great is she's outed Haris to millions of people and he's sure to know about it by now, and the guy is probably shitting himself every time she makes a video telling the world what a monster he is.

    • @maximsavage
      @maximsavage 5 년 전 +123

      @@esmel.4312 He lacks the human attributes of empathy and sympathy. Like all monsters, his body is human, but he is monstrous nonetheless.

    • @meaballmeat
      @meaballmeat 5 년 전 +10

      Ok I get it Harris was a awful guy but you don't have to say you want to kill him while he sleeps or something along the lines like that

    • @two-player-gays237
      @two-player-gays237 5 년 전 +15

      @@meaballmeat no one ever said that.....

    • @stevenjames8618
      @stevenjames8618 5 년 전 +24

      The second someone finds and releases this dudes stuff. He’s going to just be destroyed.

    • @arsantiqua8741
      @arsantiqua8741 5 년 전 +6

      He'll be twisting in torment in Sheol.

  • @finn.harper.27.7
    @finn.harper.27.7 5 개월 전 +12

    I love how women can connect over a hatred for a vile man. I speak from experience. Illy, your seriously inspirational.

  • @eyelessoddity622
    @eyelessoddity622 11 개월 전 +10

    I remember watching this series a few years ago and feeling really sympathetic. When you look at stories of abuse you never think that it could happen to you, but I didn't know I'd be stuck in a similar situation only a couple years after I saw these. Of course at the time I didn't think my issues were that big of a deal, and I didn't think my relationship was all that bad, but especially after breaking up and rewatching this series I realize how wrong my ex was. We've been broken up for about a year now and it's like a huge weight off my chest, but I also wish I could've seen what was happening sooner. It's reassuring to hear someone's story when it's so similar to your own

  • @miasmacaron
    @miasmacaron 5 년 전 +1765

    I live for this kind of content. Women standing together and salting about a garbage boi.

    • @KapitalPixelated
      @KapitalPixelated 5 년 전 +1

      Let me guess. any pomegranate to your people? Lol

    • @jeremiah4627
      @jeremiah4627 5 년 전 +35

      How about saying "people" instead of women. Nothing against word choice but it has the same strong impact and wont tick people off

    • @scrufs
      @scrufs 5 년 전 +24

      Jeremiah
      I mean, in this video there's literally two women and a garbage boi, so I understand why OP said that lol

    • @jeremiah4627
      @jeremiah4627 5 년 전 +3

      Yeah it was just a suggestion.

    • @sinhalite
      @sinhalite 5 년 전 +7

      this screams man hater

  • @v1ncebuthesjesus135
    @v1ncebuthesjesus135 2 년 전 +2448

    “Age is just a number.”
    So is an execution date.

  • @bluebaby4120
    @bluebaby4120 2 년 전 +113

    I've gotten a little older since the last time I watched this series and wanted to say;
    Due to helping other friends through trauma and situations like this and helping them stop anything that starts, after seeing how many people are like this each time I hear one of the abusers say "if they don't keep talking I'll kill myself" "if they don't keep talking and answering I'm going to jump off a bridge" half of my brain is immediately sympathetic and supportive towards my friend, but the other half just has the immediate reaction of "do it then".
    I'd never say it of course, and I deeply apologize for saying I wish the death of another human but when it comes to people I care about and love like family having to deal with these awful creeps... I can't help but want them to rot in the most slow, painful way humanly imaginable.
    Edit: Spelling errors

    • @celestialstar6450
      @celestialstar6450 년 전 +3

      Don’t be sorry for calling their bluff (when it comes to them harming themselves, at least)

    • @lambentlamprey
      @lambentlamprey 6 개월 전 +1

      Don't feel bad. When I watched the first video, 0:57 in there's a screenshot of this scumbag doing that and my immediate respone in my head was 'Go on then." 😏
      I'm fortunate enough not to have experienced this kind of thing myself, but that tactic is a common one. You're human, it's ok to react negatively to someone being a piece of shit.

  • @pluto._.personmaps8315
    @pluto._.personmaps8315 11 개월 전 +13

    i wish i could give you a big hug illy, your story has helped so many people and i look up to you so much youre amazing

  • @nylononmyco3102
    @nylononmyco3102 5 년 전 +594

    “I’m nervous because....”
    “WhY aRe yOU neRvOus?!?!”

  • @protectkidsnotguns
    @protectkidsnotguns 5 년 전 +980

    *_shane dawson has entered the chat_*

    • @rinliker2375
      @rinliker2375 5 년 전 +11

      Che eto *the DARK side of jake PAUL has left the chat*

    • @Higongeous
      @Higongeous 5 년 전 +8

      Che eto *shane dawson has left the chat*

    • @mrsmarlowe
      @mrsmarlowe 5 년 전 +1

      YASS

  • @emilyrasputin
    @emilyrasputin 22 일 전 +3

    I think this series is really important for survivors and people who haven't gone through it alike. I can relate to a lot of this. Also, you three totally seem like people I'd have been friends with growing up (and now)
    Edit: oh my god I had that *exact* Pikachu shirt from your selfie as a teenager too

  • @ava_taylors_version09
    @ava_taylors_version09 2 년 전 +56

    Here’s my story:
    When I was 6 or 7, I moved into an apartment complex. I met this girl who I ended up becoming SUPER close friends with. One day, we were walking over to do laundry and she pushed me into a bathroom. (Before I tell the rest I should mention she was only a year older than me) she told me she wanted to try something and told me to lay on the ground. I didn’t know what to do. She started talking telling me she wanted to “prepare” me for something. And then she told me to be quiet and you can imagine what happened. I told her to stop and I didn’t like what she was doing, but she told me she wouldn’t be my friend anymore and would punch me if I didn’t shut up. I can still vividly remember that day. It happened lots of other times. I can still hear the hum of the lights in the bathroom and I can still hear what her voice sounded like, and what she looked like. And I can remember when I woke up in her bedroom one morning and something didn’t feel right. I remember when she got dressed and made me watch. I remember how I thought it was normal.
    Please, please speak up.

  • @pastelwasteland1204
    @pastelwasteland1204 2 년 전 +9959

    Hey whoever commented “next episode: we jumped haris” like two years ago you’re valid and I love you

    • @egginapocket
      @egginapocket 2 년 전 +89

      Lmao

    • @Nockenz
      @Nockenz 2 년 전 +256

      “(NOT CLICKBAIT) (IN THE HOOD) (2017 VINE COMPILATION)”

    • @Jakemcoy
      @Jakemcoy 2 년 전 +93

      Then we should them our knife collection we even showed him how it worked

    • @Mr_D0T_
      @Mr_D0T_ 2 년 전 +81

      Everyone find him and
      Execute order 66
      Do you have guns and or girl costumes

    • @amdyblade2245
      @amdyblade2245 2 년 전 +30

      @@Mr_D0T_ I’d bring my good lightsaber!

  • @andriab8517
    @andriab8517 4 년 전 +2835

    My stalker story:
    So in my 1st year of college, this guy names James once interjected himself into a conversation about the controversy regarding the Starbucks holiday cups. It was friendly, no biggie, the more the merrier, it was normal. Then he would come find me and study with me in the library. We would talk every so often and then we went for a quick walk in between classes and I showed him my favorite spot. Well, he surprise kissed me and I was super uncomfortable. I told him I wasn't interested but at that point he had my Snapchat. He would follow me around campus and take photos of me around the campus and send them to me. After a month, I caught him doing it and I got in his face. He was basically a twig like Harris. I threatened to break his neck and smear his face on the pavement if he ever contacts me again.
    Aggressive, I know. But entirely necessary.

    • @AnkoTime
      @AnkoTime 4 년 전 +222

      Threatening someone like that is entirely justified.

    • @foekaiser3938
      @foekaiser3938 4 년 전 +83

      @@drmosaratak Only if he comes within a half mile of them. When that happens, GO FOR THE EYES!

    • @drmosaratak
      @drmosaratak 4 년 전 +46

      Foe Kaiser , YEP , Or TORTURE , RIP out his nails , Gouge out his eyes , etc

    • @psychoticsilver
      @psychoticsilver 4 년 전 +43

      see that threat sounds like something i would do to someone like that, so props to you. i hope he gets a kick in the balls for that shit-ass behaviour

    • @asterthomas556
      @asterthomas556 4 년 전 +20

      GO OFF SIS

  • @PrinceAlli_
    @PrinceAlli_ 년 전 +5

    Holly is like rocking the aesthetic I wish I could have, ily having the animating skills, Kitt looking fly.

  • @hello425
    @hello425 년 전 +2

    This actually made me really happy to see you two get together and talk through this because you can understand how each other feel and it could make you feel less alone

  • @cubixmem
    @cubixmem 5 년 전 +1996

    This animation looks realistic damn

  • @RibbonRoulette
    @RibbonRoulette 5 년 전 +685

    For anyone reading: If this video made you feel like you might be in an abusive relationship, but you're doubting it because "its not as bad as this," LISTEN to your gut. Abuse comes in many forms and severity. Take care of yourself before it gets worse. Don't put up with someone who isn't good to you. Stay strong.

  • @RandomBirdOnion
    @RandomBirdOnion 11 개월 전 +9

    Seeing Holly and her girlfriend still be together after so long gives me hope about me and mine, they seem so dope

  • @john-wiggains
    @john-wiggains 6 개월 전 +3

    I’m proud of you for talking about all of this. And doing it in a way that is accessible to everyone that needs it.

  • @archean432
    @archean432 5 년 전 +374

    I wonder if Harris watches these videos about him and is all like "I knoooow, I suuuuck, I'm a terrible persoooon, it's just my natuuuure."

    • @lovewillsetyoufree
      @lovewillsetyoufree 5 년 전 +9

      Bet he does tbh

    • @Ceo_OfRarepairs
      @Ceo_OfRarepairs 5 년 전 +16

      He probably watches them and says to himself "it's their fault" Bc bitches are like that

    • @janelbbuck
      @janelbbuck 5 년 전 +9

      He’s probably thinking something typical shitty person like “URGH damn, it’s their fault I’m like thiiiisss. The world is shiiiiit and doesn’t deserve meeeee.”

    • @Cordial_Lump
      @Cordial_Lump 5 년 전 +3

      He's probably a redpiller 🤮

  • @anemptyteacup4000
    @anemptyteacup4000 5 년 전 +2692

    *PROTECT THESE GIRLS.*

    • @gajeelredfox2423
      @gajeelredfox2423 5 년 전 +27

      I don't think this one needs protection, with her vids she destroyed him more than I could have done with my fists 😂

    • @cristinasimao7405
      @cristinasimao7405 5 년 전 +2

      *SAY IT LOUDERRRRRRRRR*

    • @johnnysuhhandinmarriagepls1828
      @johnnysuhhandinmarriagepls1828 5 년 전 +2

      Brad DeVoir *tRigGErEd*

    • @ameliak4197
      @ameliak4197 5 년 전 +1

      @Brad DeVoir but the original commenter meant protect these amazing girls from that awful man

    • @dirtymonk748
      @dirtymonk748 5 년 전 +1

      *suspicious reloading sounds of many guns*

  • @MissMadorian
    @MissMadorian 19 시간 전

    I got emotional watching these three video's. Been through a similar relationship, and even while I was older. Like I "should have known better" by then but those people that abuse are just from another world or something. You don't expect it. So seeing these video's, it's such a good thing. People young and old should know about these things and how to deal with it. Makes me wish I had a chance to learn about these things.
    Also, I'm amazed by your courage and how strong you are to be able to share a story like this. Thank you

  • @sethstuffanimates8419
    @sethstuffanimates8419 2 년 전 +12

    Folks, we gotta stop calling Haris names and berating him.
    That ain’t enough
    We have to up our game, we gotta find him, and berate and call him names DIRECTLY

  • @moodyartwork_ally7868
    @moodyartwork_ally7868 3 년 전 +13669

    Hey Illy, I don’t know if you saw this, but you SAVED me from something like this. The person told me not to tell my family or friends, and my mind clicked to this, and I immediately blocked him on insta and logged off. Thank you for sharing your story! Luv’ ya!

    • @FelicianoCookie
      @FelicianoCookie 3 년 전 +549

      I was much older, but I had an online stalker that begged me not to block him. He had other girls who blocked him (he was creepy and he had mental problems) and you could tell he was getting desperate...I had to set my status to invisible on all the platforms we were friends. I finally had enough of the torment he was putting me through and I blocked him (he unanimously sent me a f*** you message after), it was soooo freeing. I am so glad that you got through yours too♡

    • @coralcartoonz2696
      @coralcartoonz2696 3 년 전 +131

      I’m happy for you!

    • @originalname8325
      @originalname8325 3 년 전 +85

      Be careful.

    • @shadowqueen5673
      @shadowqueen5673 3 년 전 +98

      Glad you were saved from that nightmare it’s horrible to see it happen to people

    • @ubbles5174
      @ubbles5174 3 년 전 +44

      I'm so glad!! I will give a virtual hug!!! :3

  • @Joe-hi1zw
    @Joe-hi1zw 5 년 전 +3791

    Guys, sharing this man's first name isn't encroaching on his privacy *at all.* Raping someone is encroaching on privacy, saying a first name is not. If people are close to Harris and could figure out who they mean, so be it. They deserve to know what he's like. As if this guy deserves any privacy anyway smh

    • @TheGreenTaco999
      @TheGreenTaco999 5 년 전 +35

      because punishment without trial is something I guess you support, lol

    • @ShumaiAxeman
      @ShumaiAxeman 5 년 전 +67

      Frankly I'd say he deserves to be hospitalized, but you dont beat a mad dog. You just put it down.

    • @ryankoo4922
      @ryankoo4922 5 년 전 +21

      @@instakittylover3706 innocent until proven guilty

    • @tiffany9196
      @tiffany9196 5 년 전 +25

      insta musiclover69 that’s a little too far...

    • @asterbluejay1471
      @asterbluejay1471 5 년 전 +7

      Tru tru

  • @ironnie8316
    @ironnie8316 년 전 +1

    It’s nice to know someone could go through simular things as you. I’ve personally experienced this myself and I glad you could make it! I hope everything stays well, stay safe. ☺️

  • @horribleartist3999
    @horribleartist3999 2 년 전 +3

    The hug in the beginning looked like a reunion hug, like when you meet someone that you haven't seen in a while.

  • @figsworld7336
    @figsworld7336 5 년 전 +976

    *“ALRIGHT WHOS HERE FOR THE CHAOS!”*
    IM. HERE. FOR. THE. CHAOSSS.

  • @glitchyjelly9889
    @glitchyjelly9889 5 년 전 +1589

    *Next video: torturing haris with sprite cranberry part 1*

  • @59spooky70
    @59spooky70 년 전 +1

    I’m so happy for you. Talking to someone with a similar experience is really helpful. I’m glad you found the confidence to speak to her Illy

  • @ssaritaa.ms.
    @ssaritaa.ms. 년 전 +12

    I love that Harris was very poorly animated to show how much he was despised during the whole series.

  • @emmav9121
    @emmav9121 4 년 전 +839

    *talking about their cute relationship*
    “this is illy’s first crepe”
    “she liked it”

    • @flarp_
      @flarp_ 3 년 전 +3

      hi im emma I cannot like. It’s at 669. So I shall say nice and say good day to you mrs.

  • @json5467
    @json5467 5 년 전 +1586

    if illy releases harris' full name and address this guy will not survive the next 24 hours.

    • @ashetoashesjc6879
      @ashetoashesjc6879 5 년 전 +130

      I give him 1 hour tops

    • @silasandersongraves1600
      @silasandersongraves1600 5 년 전 +133

      @@ashetoashesjc6879 that's nothing he has 10 minutes max

    • @laylabuckingham9839
      @laylabuckingham9839 5 년 전 +91

      Lmao then she would be the one actually in trouble with the police

    • @DerDrBach
      @DerDrBach 5 년 전 +17

      He'll be hunted down

    • @MXCN_El1011
      @MXCN_El1011 5 년 전 +93

      you could just make his life hell forever. saran wrap his car everyday. replace every item in his fridge with a Sprite Cranberry.

  • @alexxw1697
    @alexxw1697 년 전 +2

    girl, i just want to say, you are so amazingly inspirational to everyone, especially those who know about abuse from experience

  • @Simplykiebby
    @Simplykiebby 2 년 전 +4

    It’s been a year later. Illy, you are so sweet and amazing. Thanks for sharing this story. Holly is awesome too. I hope you both found your healing and continue drawing beautifully

  • @roxy2836
    @roxy2836 5 년 전 +883

    I hope haris sees this series.

    • @starscream1984
      @starscream1984 5 년 전 +99

      That'd be pretty dangerous for illy, her friends, her family, and her boyfriend. It's best if he never sees this.

    • @weenies
      @weenies 5 년 전 +37

      Elliot's Sloppy Comics but now she’s got a whole army to defend her

    • @alinam9666
      @alinam9666 5 년 전 +16

      Ash C yeah but still, Haris is a real bean bag

    • @lexyshannon9428
      @lexyshannon9428 5 년 전 +42

      as much as I'd love to see his soul be crushed by this series, he'd likely just get super weird about her again and try to reconnect with or threaten her if he saw this😥 (or maybe just not say anything so that nobody would recognize him)

    • @saht2104
      @saht2104 5 년 전

      I don't he might get crazy and go after them

  • @krisifixation4668
    @krisifixation4668 4 년 전 +6783

    Holly looks at Illy like a loving older sister and it melts my heart.
    EDIT: Woah. Didn't realize I would ever get this many likes. Thank you so much!

  • @eic0rdless642
    @eic0rdless642 년 전 +2

    illy, I’m so happy I found this series. I was in the 1st stage of this happening before I saw this video and went “this isn’t normal. This needs to end.” luckily I got a restraining order and later found out he is now getting therapy and is being kept in a facility. I really look up to you for posting this. If it wasn’t for this series I never would have realised that it was toxic and horrid to my health. I’m praying you are well and have recovered. :)

  • @youandmeagainsttheworldmla4886

    Illy, you are so courageous and beautiful! I hope the trauma of your past hasn’t effected you in your personal life too much as an adult. We appreciate you making these difficult videos and I hope you continue to do EXACTLY what you’re doing now! ❤️

  • @bouncemore2724
    @bouncemore2724 5 년 전 +722

    Haris probably took a shower of shame after he JUST GOT EXPOSED IN 3 VIDEOS.

    • @InkyDave1928
      @InkyDave1928 4 년 전 +19

      I liked because he doesn't deserve a sixty nine

    • @poultryjester2135
      @poultryjester2135 4 년 전 +15

      Nah, nah, he got his ass crucified by his town after they watched the first video.

    • @HowHorror
      @HowHorror 4 년 전 +1

      Ok

    • @imafurryreddit6899
      @imafurryreddit6899 4 년 전

      Oooooooooooohhhhhhhhhhhh

    • @timstern5549
      @timstern5549 4 년 전 +1

      More like he litterally jumped off the face of the earth and landed in the sun and also got dam scoop by baby from fnaf sister location.

  • @sarahmansueto7090
    @sarahmansueto7090 5 년 전 +1162

    Next video:Hitting Harris with a broom
    Edit: OMG GUYS 1K THANK YOU SO MUCH

  • @ieatfairies
    @ieatfairies 7 개월 전 +19

    Watching this video series has made me realize I was a victim, and I wanted to thank you for helping me get to that realization. ❤
    (My situation is over and it’s been over for a few years now, I just want to be specific and clarify that I am safe)

  • @fandomwriter8789
    @fandomwriter8789 2 년 전 +2

    Illy is truly too sweet for this world. She was so genuine that she couldn’t bear handling someone else being hurt even if they deserved it. Illy has grown so much since she started this channel and I am so inspired by her.

  • @lilcrabbybabby
    @lilcrabbybabby 5 년 전 +428

    I'll say it every time I hear a story like this: dear underage girls, that 20-something boy does NOT care about you, he does not love you, he wants someone that's easy to control and too naive to know when their being abused. I know how alluring and interesting it seems to date an older guy when your that young, but it's not worth it.

    • @fvckinkys9439
      @fvckinkys9439 5 년 전 +11

      Abby Nicole not everyone is like that. Sadly, a lot of older guys pray on weak minds. Age does not define strength or weakness.

    • @ClaireWhiteheadIrl
      @ClaireWhiteheadIrl 5 년 전 +54

      Only as I grow older do I realise how easy to manipulate young girls are. I look back now and I realise how many girls I was aware of who were getting attention from older guys and were complete putty in their hands. Sending photos, doing sexual things because they felt they had to keep up with an older guy and trusted that he knew more about whats normal in a relationship.
      Seriously, stay away form older guys as long as you can. If you meet someone who's awesome when your 25, thats fine, but when you are young and inexperienced you are vunerable and there are so many creeps who want to be with you for that exact reason. They want a girl who won't argue or question then. They seek younger girls because they don't want to deal with women their own age.

    • @deedeedan8681
      @deedeedan8681 5 년 전 +28

      Also for freshmen/sophomores, seniors that are interested in you aren't that cool, 9 times out of ten there's something wrong with them and that's the whole reason they can't find someone their age. You'll also see how creepy their interest in you was when you become a senior and realize freshmen look suuuuper young

    • @deedeedan8681
      @deedeedan8681 5 년 전 +18

      @@fvckinkys9439 the not everyone argument is unnecessary and entirely unhelpful in this situation. You're helping predators find their prey

    • @baileyscherdorf206
      @baileyscherdorf206 5 년 전 +25

      The reason this 20 something year old is dating an underage girl isn't because she's mature, it's because other girls his age don't want to date him. Please keep yourselves safe everyone~

  • @piggiepiggie3647
    @piggiepiggie3647 5 년 전 +476

    *I’M BACK FOR THE CHAOS*

  • @nellie3140
    @nellie3140 년 전 +3

    hi ily! ur an amazing person and i’m so sorry you had to go through this- you didn’t deserve any of it and i hope your getting better from that. i hope he gets put in jail or worse but if not at least you’re safe and hopefully millions of others from hearing your story

  • @annafirayner2666

    Thank you. It’s so important to share and to not afraid to talk. So many girls are going through this and keeping silence losing self confidence. Thank you. I will show it to my daughter who is shy and gentle person..

  • @malanilindsay4791
    @malanilindsay4791 5 년 전 +1745

    Next video: *Hitting haris with a tv antenna*
    ALL THE LIKES THAT FAST?! THANK YOUU!

    • @LyricalMiracle9608
      @LyricalMiracle9608 5 년 전 +102

      Why do that when you can just hit him with the entire TV? 👌🏼

    • @JuliaNightmare
      @JuliaNightmare 5 년 전 +49

      @@LyricalMiracle9608 tv antenna can be more stabby\pokey

    • @Swissbiscuit12
      @Swissbiscuit12 5 년 전 +50

      Why use an intena when you can use a sword?

    • @weebleflufflycakes7238
      @weebleflufflycakes7238 5 년 전 +59

      Next video: *Holly holds Harris down while I punch*

    • @JuliaNightmare
      @JuliaNightmare 5 년 전 +13

      @@Swissbiscuit12 duller, more satisfying to inflict pain with a duller weapon. (I swear, I'm no creep, I just read and write a lot)

  • @handfulofbabycarrots9312

    It's really creepy to think that he is most defiantly here. Watching all these videos. Please, be careful. We all love you so much.

    • @lokklet374
      @lokklet374 4 년 전 +42

      This is a sweet comment. With the waves of people begging for likes this is a nice change of pace

    • @korvaenaamah187
      @korvaenaamah187 4 년 전 +4

      Kiss,kiss!😙😙

    • @daiiran
      @daiiran 4 년 전 +3

      Baby carrots

    • @teamleo1673
      @teamleo1673 4 년 전 +8

      Yes. He probably has a comment or multiple on these videos, even if Illy already deleted them.

    • @JunnyBoy22
      @JunnyBoy22 4 년 전 +5

      A good, not begging for likes comment

  • @katiestone6568
    @katiestone6568 년 전

    This series has brought me comfort. I went through a similar experience, though it was just the emotional abuse, and from a close personal friend. It helps me feel better about the steps I took, seeing how this isn't a me thing. This happens to others, and I was valid in cutting her off. Thank you.

  • @abbyanderson3679

    I'm so sorry that you had to go through this. And thank you for sharing your story to prevent this from happening to anyone else. ❤️

  • @Roadkill.puppet
    @Roadkill.puppet 4 년 전 +2234

    I was sexually abused by my older brother and he is now in jail awaiting trial and I have a small time gap to get over it just enough to face him again.
    It hurts cause I trusted him.
    Thank you for reading and even caring in the first place
    Edit: thanks everyone for the love and support it means a lot to me :'>

    • @chuu4eva
      @chuu4eva 3 년 전 +115

      I’m so sorry that happened to you. I love you so so much you’re so strong. :(

    • @goopy95
      @goopy95 3 년 전 +89

      I hope everything goes okay and I hope he faces his punishment

    • @Lucy-vn4iv
      @Lucy-vn4iv 3 년 전 +76

      Did he face his punishment? It must of been horrible, I’m so sorry

    • @T0B3573R
      @T0B3573R 3 년 전 +53

      I was physically abused by my brother. I'm sorry.

    • @zeemopotato1148
      @zeemopotato1148 3 년 전 +16

      Ooof poor u ;-;

  • @meatcat7070
    @meatcat7070 5 년 전 +2052

    Illymation: *Talks about very serious problems*
    Me: Yeah, but look at the dog.

  • @dei_zysdeiz7379
    @dei_zysdeiz7379 2 년 전 +2

    I've watched you for years now and only now that I am rewatching this story I realised that I was very close to this kind of situation and I'm very thankful to you for helping me understand

  • @onedumblesbian10yago91

    I am so proud of both of you for going through what you have gone through!

  • @jalexoneschanel1356
    @jalexoneschanel1356 5 년 전 +1693

    Harris made 1.2k accounts to dislike this video

    • @harisjamil8418
      @harisjamil8418 5 년 전 +20

      I'm not one of them

    • @cierrabalch3332
      @cierrabalch3332 5 년 전 +3

      That's not nice

    • @MetaKnight68
      @MetaKnight68 5 년 전 +44

      Problem is, that's something he might actually do

    • @grimmisascorchmain9486
      @grimmisascorchmain9486 5 년 전 +6

      Now that's devotion

    • @elizabethbennet4791
      @elizabethbennet4791 5 년 전 +9

      harris is a real success story. bet he literally has nothing better to do than to blow up little girls phones with 500+ messages a day like a subtard. imagine being that empty and weak, like you're nothing at all.

  • @kattkaufman6132
    @kattkaufman6132 5 년 전 +400

    The 16 dislikes are from Harris’s fake accounts

  • @thehanahakiwolf
    @thehanahakiwolf 년 전 +21

    Imagine if Harris showed up on the news like under arrest, justice would finally be served

    • @thereza3
      @thereza3 6 개월 전 +3

      arrest isnt enough i need that mans head

  • @slushiixoxo
    @slushiixoxo 4 개월 전 +1

    illys story is very touching. i feel like illys been through EVERYTHING and yet shes still happy and smiley. be like illy. i love her c:

  • @moodythetall
    @moodythetall 3 년 전 +12215

    Guys stop with the hate comments towards Haris.
    *I can’t like them all.*

    • @buhzs9663
      @buhzs9663 3 년 전 +195

      Same

    • @taramishra2967
      @taramishra2967 3 년 전 +681

      I was about to reply with a "wtf do u not get that illy was abused and he is a complete *******" But then I read the end part and was like, well I think so too, virtual high five whoever you are!

    • @buhzs9663
      @buhzs9663 3 년 전 +93

      @@taramishra2967 lmao

    • @maria-cz1pf
      @maria-cz1pf 3 년 전 +25

      @@jellymellyshark 😂 lol

    • @olive1945
      @olive1945 3 년 전 +24

      I dislike all these video because of haris

  • @awfuledgyusernamethatsalso4695

    D R A G H I M

  • @Lesbean1e
    @Lesbean1e 개월 전 +2

    i love how this is like a tiny vlog, a trauma-inducing vlog but a vlog nonetheless.
    ok but actually this is so sad and its ridiculous that people dont take this seriously. i applaud voth of you for being able to share your stories and help so many people

  • @shadowsystemsaregood
    @shadowsystemsaregood 3 개월 전 +4

    as a guy, we don’t accept harris or anybody like him, also wanted to say that I love your content, i’ve been subscribed for a while and these videos brighten my day