Relationship Q&A | Dry Spells + Couples Therapy + Jealousy

Happy post Valentine's Day! 💘 Ben & I are back for our annual relationship Q&A! We cover a lot of juicy q's in this one. Also we'd love to know what new personality trait you discovered last year.

"You were supposed to be my fling" 🤣 loved the realness. Homegirl wasn't gonna sugarcoat it.

I love how you two look at each other when you're listening to the other person answer the question. You can tell there is so much love and respect!!! I LOVE YALL

Jenn is the big sister we all need

1:56 When she calls herself out on the baggy shirt 😂 we stan some wholesome self-awareness🤓

Living for Jen's haircut 🙌

Oh my gosh, I remember this video last year when Jenn started the video saying "Hey y'all, it's your girl Ben!" hehe-

this Q&A was spicy!! so many qs i was like “omg i can’t believe they’re answering this!” loved it!!!

I love the openness and honesty 🥺❤️

I really appreciate your honesty regarding why you guys decided to try couples therapy. I feel like there's a stigma around it, like you're failing or something, but it's definitely quite the opposite! Love your love. Thank you.

Who's here after watching the pregnancy announcement? ALSO their outfits have a subtle yin yang vibe, love it 💕

One second in and she's already giving us full virgo energy

seriously waiting for ben and jenn to start a podcast together 😅💖

I really appreciate the transparency about having rough patches in a marriage. Makes the idea of therapy and needing help seem normal and acceptable :”)

My husband and I recently introduced date night at home and it's changed the game. We're in lockdown but rather than use that as an excuse we still make an effort, including getting dressed up. I realised that being in lockdown it's easy to conflate always being around each other with spending quality time together. We're also working through a rough patch and it's done a lot for bringing us together and rekindling that intimacy

Love how vocal Ben was in this Q&A. It's very obvious that he feels incredibly strongly about keeping your relationship healthy and strong💛

When Jenn said "compatible expectations," my mind was BLOWN. Such a great way to put it - relationships work if we agree with what to expect!
Also, Ben's joke about Jenn's top - " lint rolling it til there's nothing left - got me laughing throughout the whole video LMAO

It’s the bread and popcorn analogy for me 😂 Love you two so much!

Jenn, “You’re supposed to be my fling!” 😂🤣 💛

Thanks for being the calmest form of entertainment during these strange times. I always appreciate your videos

I love how open are they! And Ben's nontoxic masculinity energy - amazing! I need more couples like that.

Y’all are so refreshingly honest, and open. It’s truly great to see

Could watch these weekly tbh! So great to hear you discuss things so openly and maturely ❤️

the way you guys look at each other, when one is talking. i love it! so much respect for one another 💕

This videos brings me so much joy. Seeing you two so open and vulnerable with wonderful advice really makes me proud I found your channel over ten years ago!

Aww thank you for being so mature and real about this sensitive topic, especially sharing it with the unknown public!

Living for the realness and openness of your relationship ❤️

This is amazing! Love the communication you two have together! So happy for you xo

awwww this is so cute! love these q&a’s. very honest and easy to listen to. would love to hear more from ben!

let's be real y'all. the real sponsor isn't betterhelp, but the amazing lint roller.
all jokes aside, love the honesty that both of you harbor together. thank you for always valuing authenticity and sheer human-ness.

I love the realness of this and really enjoyed hearing your authentic responses ❤️

What a wholesome love you have! Thanks for sharing! I see the love you have for each other and it just warms my heart!

my favorite couple on the Internet! ❤️ I love how honest and positive you guys are!

I adore this 🥰 the honesty in the vid is relatable- would love to see more this sorta content!

Your haircut is so whimsical!! Love the vid!

This made me smile so much. Thank you for your vulnerability and insights!!

I love how u guys look at each other when you talk. These are good questions and relatable for long term relationship. Thanks for sharing!

I just love the way your content has been more vulnerable and honest. And as someone who is recently married / in a long term relationship girrrrl these question really resonate!

I love their relationship

I love how they interact with each other 🥺

Love all this genuine and realness!!

I fully enjoyed this video . . . I like how Ben answered the questions . . . Very thorough and thoughtful

I loved this candid talk and really made me look at my own relationship, in a good way.
Thank you both for this! Hope you do this again!

I love the way you both look at each other. I can see perfect happiness in your eye 🥰🥰🥰

Your answers to the last question show that you complement each other so well! 💛💛

Thank you for being real the both of you. Such a lovely video ✨

Love that both of you are so eloquent and charismatic :)

Hey Jenn! Just wanted to know that you were one of the reasons why I started seeing a psychologist last year. Sometimes you just need one friend to start and you realise whatever it is they’re doing could work for you too! I’m so much happier as a result - so thank you 🥰 ps. 5 of my friends have started therapy after hearing about my experiences! This is your butterfly effect!

I'm seriously obsessed with your new haircut! Always love listening to you talk and sharing a part of your life with us 😍

Thank you for sharing those beatiful things. You two make my day.
Hope that when I am ready I will find someone who are patient and generous enough to go through with me in every difficult moments of life☺☺

Jenn with this video you made my overthinking around several relationship matters go away, now that I feel it's all relatable to many couples I feel great. The whole video was very interesting and everything that was brought up was so natural and humane. Thank you!

The whole video was so raw and JENN-uine😉 Love that Ben and Jenn weren’t afraid to answer those questions nor hesitant.
Love from Scotland🧡

와 진짜 언니 볼때마다 너무 멋있어요ㅠㅠ 멀리서 응원합니다!!

Can totally relate to Jenn's " Let's get to the point" lol boyfriend does same thing Ben does and it irks me sometimes but I do admire how warm and thorough he is. One year strong!

Omg I love you both so much. Jen, I LOVE YOUR WRIST TATTOO!! I have been wanting to get one just like it.
Also, thank you guys for these videos, hearing and seeing healthy relationships definitely helps when you've never really been exposed to it to begin with.

You are such beautiful people and couple. You speak words filled with light and honesty. All the best!

I love that you guys are so honest and open to share ur relationship; the struggles and lessons as I also can relate. Quarantine def has taught me to b more acceptance and to trust our source. And practicing to b grateful also to put more pure intentions into my life has brought me more blessings

What a great video. Thanks for being open and tons of kudos for continuing to work on your relationship! I’ve been with my hubby for over ten years, we also did long distance for a long time and it is work but so worth it when you know they’re the right person!

Such a good video! I feel like all couples should watch this.

They are my favorite couple! It’s kind of nice to see what a healthy relationship/marriage should be like 🤍

Two beautiful inspiring souls💙
Theraphy def changed my life as well and I am so grateful to have you guys as a company on KRplus. :)
Cheers for the enrichment life for you all!

Thank you for being so real about this process

Love watching these videos and absorbing realistic tips for my own relationship ♥️ so helpful and you keep it fun and light, with more serious topics 🙌🏼

For me this past year I’ve developed a greater sense of my personality overall. I went back to therapy in august of last year and I’ve gained so many insights on why I behave certain ways, why my thought patterns are the way they are, and learning how to lean more on my healthy part instead of my unhealthy part. I really appreciate how open you are about therapy so more people can see that it’s nothing to be ashamed of ♥️ it’s helped me more than I can say

The way you both communicate is just so inspiring and one can learn so much from it. Not just only for a relationship but also friendship. Learned a lot. Thank you for sharing ♥️

thank you for this video!!! long term relationships and living together can be hard, and the fact so many people don't talk about the rough patches and dry spells can make it hard and make it feel as though you're failing. Appreciate the honesty and the lovely video- you're a fab couple

Loved this Q&A. I’m quite new to your channel so it was great to find out more about you, your personality, your couple.. It looks like you’re in a very strong and healthy relationship. 🙌🏼 It’s really great to see that you’re both very open and willing to put in the work needed to make your relationship last and blossom.

can we appreciate that they actually talked about some very important/juicy relationship topics? Thanks for sharing BenJenn!

Ahh, the bread and popcorn analogy 🤩 On point!
I love how you both are always so honest during these very vulnerable Q&A videos.

thank you for being so open. i always learn a lot from you

So great to see you guys open up & answer such personal questions. 🤩Love you guys ♥️

You both are amazing people and a great couple 💖💖!
Thank you for sharing your experience, I am sure it adds so much value to your audience 💛💛

Jenn is so poised and grown. Loving this type of content and everything you've done over the past year! :)

I loved how real this was once again! The answers are so mature and beautiful. I always looked up to a relationship like yours and thank god I have. I started couple therapy since I heard it from you and i can't wait to see long term results (now it's too early). Thank you both for the great advice 💖💖

This is so good. Thank you so much for posting this. I was worried about my relationship due to an extended dry spell and I cannot tell you the weight it lifted hearing it being normalized by you both. We are still so in love and now I am confident this is just a temporary phase that will pass. Sending love!

im just amazed at how well both of you speak. and you both speak about each other with so much love and passion

the way you guys listen to each other speak!!! I love all of this. super positive and helpful! I just turned 4 w my boyfriend 🤍

wow this is a HEALTHY couple thank you guys this is extremely helpful 🥺

I love how they find positive things to say even when they’re talking about each other’s least favorite qualities❤️ They’re so respectful❤️

I’ve always loved you both! Happy you both are still doing well and being strong despite the challenges and differences! Only means your love for each other conquers all! ❤️❤️

Over the past year through quarantine I’ve developed the art of letting go. So many things were uncertain and out of control and I was such a control freak and a planner that initially it was so hard for me, but as time went on, I began to see the beauty in not always have a plan or knowing where things will go and just trusting the process and focusing on what I can actually stay in control of which is myself and what I put out into the world around me.

the question abt getting insecure/lonely in a LDR really hit home but in a good way. It gave alot of insight but it also allows me to look at my own LDR. I just really appreciate you guys being honest and transparent about that part of your relationship

7:26 this moment and jenn’s reaction is so wholesome

I can’t explain how much I love this!!!!

Love how honest you both are also congratulations on the baby! 💖

The way you two look at each other, LOVE IT.
I realize that you might’ve have your struggles but it truly looks like you were made for each other

Thank you both for being so open 💕

I love how well spoken Ben is!

I've been watching your channel for years and years now and you two are an inspiration, a complete power couple but still human, still down to earth. I can't express enough how much this amazing candid relationship advice means to me. It's a breath of fresh air to hear people around my age approach a serious relationship with such honesty and love and understanding.
I really hope to be in such a strong solid relationship someday. ❤️

I love It. You guys really are an example as a couple on how your love endures no matter situations and differences. God bless you and continue keeping you such united and lovely you are. Marriage is a challenge and as a family also It is an important society's foundation.

This was awesome, thank you so much for this video, you have a great chemistry

I’ve been following Jenn and Ben ever since their earlier days and they are literally my favourite couple. The way they understand each other, have boundaries, their openness about their vulnerabilities etc. really give me perspective as to what a healthy relationship should look like.

Hey Jenn :) random but your videos helped me through a really dark time. Thank you the authentic videos and for just being you! ❤️

I love the moment where they talk about how their connection blossomed into something they didn’t originally expect! I can definitely relate. My fiancé and I didn’t expect to be together long-term - I was deep into planning my undergrad thesis, and he just got out of a relationship - but here we are. ❤️

I literally can't help smiling from sttart to end i love you two i love how you two look like when you are with each other

Thanks, Jenn, for sharing that you both went to couples therapy to help save your marriage. It feels like such a relief to know that even couples like yourself that are so in love go through serious problems too. When I have problems with my bf, I feel like maybe it's a sign that we're not meant for each other. Because we don't often hear of happy couples having real issues. So thank you again for being real and honest. It helps a lot! ❤️❤️

I love that this is an annual thing, literally my fave couple to keep up with hehehe

literally relationship goals!!! ❤️

OMG. This was just GREAT! love it! if this was a series it be amazinnngg.

I feel that I've gotten a lot more introspective over the quarantine! Being stuck at home, cut off (physically) from friends, and pretty much forced to sit with my thoughts and feelings more than I ever have pre-pandemic really had me confronting a lot of things about myself that I've never been this fully aware of ❤️