When you laugh at an inside joke that you're not a part of
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- 게시일 2020. 04. 29.
- Um, explain your laughter.
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He knew that it was too cruel to have a real human as an actor for this one
HE* there was just him
Oh my bad
Somehow didn't realize XD
This feels more cruel somehow
For real
What I’m also thinking. That would be obliteration
Never felt so bad for a lunch bag.
Bastard deserved it
Seriously. I genuinely felt bad for him. :| Guess I have some trauma to work through or something.
Yeah, this whole situation activated some fears I didn't know I had. I just kinda laugh whenever other people laugh, I never found irl people's jokes funny "naturally", only "manually"
I see what you did there
Never feel bad for a lunch bag. That douchebag deserved all the hate he got
Hate this type of situation, really makes your skin feel paper thin.
bro chill
Ba Dum Ting
*Laughs*
I'm glad I chose wisely when to laugh when I was an introvert. I'd probably pass out from holding my breath.
Stop
This is how people with anxiety think the world works
It doesn't?
They are right
@@WoWhunter007 It doesn't?
It actually happened to me once, but of course not to the same extent. Someone said an inside joke and everyone started laughing, including me even though I didn't get it. One girl suddenly stopped and asked me "why are you laughing? You can't possibly know what it's about". I struggled for a bit, but my friend followed up with "he's laughing out of politeness!" and fortunately everyone accepted this explanation. It was stressful, though. I'm grateful to my friend for saving me there. Soon after that, I came up with a go-to response for such situations "because laughing is contagious and I'm pretty empathetic".
Heh snowflakes
correct response if you're in this situation: "I was just laughing to be polite"
or it that it sounded funny
That comes from hundreds of conversations played in our heads
"Laughter is contagious" ’nuff said
"Well, you don't have to laugh in order to be polite."
@@Nikolajnen that’s hardly insulting to you so good
This is how socially awkward people imagine things will play out, but never do.
But... they always do.😞
Nah, I personally fuck it up even worse. Moved 6 times and gone to 6 schools, only two gave good memories
But I mean that's how I feel most of the time it just seems like I'm always out of the loop but I make up for it by being the funny one in my friend group.
@@LeMeowAu same except for seven schools because the middle elementary and middle school were close to each other
Absofuckinglutely lol
Anxiety sucks. Also never being invited to shit also sucks.
for those seconds that everyone looked at the camera without knowing there was another character/paper thing, that was uncomfortable. very good stuff
Fourth wall spook
I could feel my skin crawl with anxiety
Man it would of been so much better if it was just the POV
Narrative tricks do be like dat
My grades:
Oh the anxiety inducing relatable memories this video brings
What
@@RunkleDunkle no
Yeah they called me plastic😑 even if I was just trying to get along😑
Your friends probably suck then
Ikr
"why u laughing"
"Oh I thought it was a poor attempt at a joke and I laughed to be polite and not to hurt your feelings"
"I apologize for what I can only assume was my misdemeanor as my understanding of the social norm dictates that I should laugh at your poor excuse of a joke in order not to be ill-mannered towards you"
@@darwin3684Run on sentence
Yes
@@juuleusog your not tupposed to see it typed anyway dumbass thats what quotations are for
@@valentinborisov6605 "9.5/10" I SAW IT EDIT IT AND PUT IT BACK TO HOW IT WAS
3 clones playing poker verbally abuse a paper bag into suicidal thoughts
Next star wars
This comment is an allegory for life
@@MastaGambit Lol after reading this I somehow overthinked enough about this to see a reason even to why its specifically a paper bag
"I got six inside jokes right here for y'all."
**pulls out revolver**
😂😂😂
Truly the killing joke.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
lmao I'm dying
@@LumboDumbo smooth 👌
“You didn’t invite me.” You see? It’s really all due to their need to ostracize him while also keeping him close as a punching bag whenever they need to feel superior.
Relatable. Except my guys actually do invite me, I'm just too unmotivated to go in fear of making things awkward. I hate social anxiety man
@Thominus Rex Not sure if you're being satire or not
@Thominus Rex That's like telling a homeless guy to just "get a house lol"
Fuck pathetic losers like that. Especially if theyre "grown up" and still acting like middle school children. Its rather sad.
Just because you weren't invited on a trip between people who have probably been friends longer doesn't mean they keep him around to feel superior.
This is a moment where you try to fit in and you get called out for it. The people calling you out are assholes. Your just trying to fit in and be part of the group.
You're stupid if you do it like that. If you do you're just fake
@@tomlxyz or your just caught up in the moment and you want to feel like your part of the group. Its just being human and there is no malicious intent behind it.
@@tomlxyz remember this comment when it happens to you
@@macejaso No no no! Please keep laughing, please! I’m just curious what’s so fucking funny. No but Fox is right
Its fine if you actually start laughing simply from other peoples enjoyment, but to try to insert yourself and force laugh isnt that fun to be around
*frantically googles who captain steve is while laughing and insisting i know*
Lmaaoo 😂😂
Doomed 😂
I have a Peruvian friend who laughs at his own jokes all the time. Even in jokes he'll laugh at. Often his jokes are barely funny if they are funny at all. But his laughter is so contagious other people can't help but laugh. And that fuels him to laugh more, and often repeat his joke. His joke really could be meaningless to everyone else but him, yet since it made him laugh everyone else is laughing. It's quite fun really.
This is really sweet!
Love that.
Awwe 🥺✨
He sounds like a really cool and fun, quirky fella
Sounds like a friend I have, legit all she has to do is say some sort of word and she’ll laugh at it for minutes and gets other people to laugh even though she literally said one word
"It just, uh, seemed like something funny to say, I guess"
This is too spot-on for comedy.
This isn't even comedy anymore. This is real life
Nobody gonna talk about how good the editing is
I was looking for a comment like this. How did he pull of all the clones of him sitting in the same shot with their reflections moving on the table with them? You kind of come to expect this sort of thing to be possible with editing, but how ?
@@Clinkydaggers Three separate instances of the video were recorded with the exact same lighting. Then these videos are stitched together. The background is *super* dark, so if there were any clouds overcast or a car passing by or filmed during dawn/dusk, it would mess with the stitching. This technique is one that has been used for a long time, even during the very early years of film but it was far more tedious back then since it was on film and not digital.
I don't remember the first video I watched regarding the specifics, but there are plenty of tutorials talking about it.
Yeah, spent a hot minute looking for the video I watched but I can't seem to find it. I feel like it's either some random recommended video I watched 4 years ago or a Captain Disillusion video. Most likely a Captain video.
@@therealdoc Thanks for the detailed reply! I suspected something like that, but I am still amazed by how seamless everything looks.
No. I’m not. Good day, sir.
You did, so case closed.
This is low key a good example of what it’s like to live with anxiety
This video gave me anxiety
@@ZFla-Xee lol same
Not really
@@eyeconqueror1185 as someone with severe anxiety/social anxiety, it is.
that guy puts the upp in puppet as in upp i shouldnta said that
How do you live with yourself
This is when you flip the table and slap the shit out of everyone.
This does seem like one of those situations where if someone tried to call you out for not getting the joke social norms dictates you have full right to punch them until their nose breaks
@@acidpain6059 exactly
Sounds reasonable to me😂
I actually did that a few years ago but I felt like shit because I didn't wanted to hurt anybody
@@acidpain6059 KRplus incel in the flesh.
I'm sure the judge would relate to you grievously harming someone because they made you feel bad for a second
I love how they explain it to him it is honestly much worse when people don't do that. Actually now you could all laugh about the guy and then move on or something.
It was rude and polite at the same time lol
Any "friends" that go out of their way to highlight your exclusion from the group by asking you why your laughing just to embarrass you are a buncha douchebags 😆
@@thisiswhathappenslarry Nah it depends. If it is clear that you are no valid part of the group you are lost on them anyways. If you are just an oddball but they do like you they can still integrate you to a point where these kinds of jokes are very fertile. Not everybody is the same and it depends on the special kind of trust and empathy that you have for that person. Now if you demonstrate that kind of empathy with the right people there might be some very silly resolving situations.
But perhaps it's counterintuitive...
@@75hilmar anyone that deliberately does things to embarrass others(whether they know them or not) for their own sadistic pleasure is a pathetic bitch 😂 its just the truth.
@@thisiswhathappenslarry Listen I don't want to argue with you. I can see your point but I really don't always think that human relationships are so clear and simple.
This is where a well placed drink comes in handy. Take a sip that's conveniently just long enough to last until everyone is done laughing, then set it down and smile politely if anyone is looking your way. The key is to be subtle and not overuse this technique
HE’S. A. PAPER. BAG. You saw what his own tears did to his skin. You know that a sip of a drink would just wet right through him. How dare you set him up for even more harassment from his so-called friends!
Or if they catch you laughing, take a veeeerry long, unnecessarilly loud slurp of your drink while everybody stares at you, and when you finish, take a deep satisfied sigh and say "Shall we continue?"
I think simply because I know I’m trying to pull something, I’d just laugh and gurgle while in that drink. I would say I’m a relatively good actor, but when it comes to actually do something I just start laughing (even when no one else is laughing) so I can barely actually pull anything off
ah the jesse pinkman method
Excruciatingly relatable
It's painful in the way that pulling your nails out is painful.
Check to see if you are friends with the right people
You ain’t hanging with the right neoprene m8
You have bad friends
I know your pain
The expression "oopsie poopsie I'm going under" is inherently comedic when one imagines it coming from a "captain" presumably of a ship. Most inside jokes have inherent comedic value even without overt context so long as sufficient inferable context is provided as with the captain steve reference.
You'd be a great lawyer for paper man.
@@varden3270 Agreed
in addition to that, lack of context can make some jokes even funnier, just because of how absurd they can sound without it.
Y’all should be nicer to him, he doesn’t have very thick skin like the rest of you.
Some would say.... paper thin
i actually had a smile creeping on me at the start of the video from seeing them laugh but then they all turned around and stared towards me angrily i feel traumatized
It's crazy how many people can relate to this specific situation.
Yeah..its sad theres that many douchebags out there that treat their "friends" like shit.
Was not expecting that level of aggression
The worst part is when the "inside joke" is still funny without context. There were 2 or 3 times someone said something funny, I laugh and someone interrupts with "why are you laughing? it's an inside joke." those memories haunt me.
If it is funny without the additional context then it is not an inside joke, those guys were just assholes that wanted to ostracize you from whatever they were talking.
@@nik021298 Exactly! If something is an inside joke, then anyone outside of that is just going to end up being confused.
I've never had anybody be like this to me. I've laughed at some inside jokes I thought were just jokes, and people have laughed at my friends and my inside jokes without realizing. I like to just explain the context and bring them in on the joke. It's more fun when people actually get the joke.
In middle school I had three friends like this. I always felt so left out when they wouldn’t explain the “inside jokes” then in high school I realized they were all just South Park jokes. Imagine gatekeeping South Park of all things, and when you were 12.
@@dharmallars SP is for adults only.
when someone makes an “inside joke” that sounds generic as fuck.
God those are the worst, like it's a basic-ass joke but because the last time they said it was at that party 2 months ago that you weren't at it somehow counts as 'an inside joke'?
"you kinda had to be there heh heh"
I legit felt bad for the happy meal box
This is my worst nightmare
The only way to get out of this situation is to scare them with schizophrenia
bruhhh I'm dying
I actually laughed out loud lmaoo
😂 teach em a lesson..dont fuck with crazy
"I wasn't laughing at you, I was laughing at what the voices in my head said"
@@rainsara2795 something i would def say to make someone feel awkward or uncomfortable after theyve attempted to make me feel uncomfortable with their rudeness😂 crazy always trumps rude
There is no win state when a group of friends laugh at an inside joke.
I almost called a friend by their significant other's pet name because they'd been calling each other that and I was on autopilot.
OH SH
This is what happened to me, never related to a skit this much before
Dang, did they ask you why are you laughing at the joke
It happens to the best of us
@@mirianakoleva7870 i've literally had that happen when i was younger. i believe the words were "ew, why are you laughing? you werent even there...". Dear god Im so happy to be an adult, I don't know who the fuck established that being a kid is the "simpler, better times"
Same here,it feels cold and strange
Bro you need to hang out with better people
I hate it whenever people laugh amongst themselves and then you ask what's so funny and they just say "nothing" or say "it's just an inside joke"
Those are rude people without manners. Not friends at all.
I mean it is an inside joke, what would be so rude about saying "it's just an inside joke?"
@@thisiswhathappenslarry good to know. Thanks
I usually explain the joke, but lots of inside jokes aren't nearly as funny when you're explaining them as they were when it happened. That's probably why a lot of people say "oh, it's just an inside joke." It's either inappropriate to explain, or the explanation isn't what's funny and it's a 100% "I guess you'd have to be there" situation.
This just triggered my complex PTSD and social anxiety, never talking to more than one person at the same time ever again.
Well, technically that _was_ the same person!
I've struggled with social anxiety most of my life, and this video had me tense up more than any horror movie I have seen in the past decade
Just like horror movies it's very unlikely to play out in real life aswell so dw:)
He's a lunch bag because sometimes friends make you feel small
I like how a leather jacket is hanging on his chair, as if he wore that when he came to visit.
The fact it's the little dude actually makes this feel so much meaner
"I didn't know i needed context"
Wow... All those relatable memories just gave me a heart attack
The acting and editing is so good that I forget that all the characters are the same person
The first time I watched, I didn't even notice.
The four people who disliked laughed without the context.
This video actually brought tears in my eyes, I felt so bad for the paper muppet :(
I'm actually really impressed by the detail put into that paper bag's outfit
I’m going to start laughing at inside jokes that I don’t know on purpose just to ruin them for others.
I love the use of puppet here. This is flappin' great, awesome work!
Edited himself into the shot three times but the fourth guy is a decorated lunch bag. These sorts of details are what make me keep on watching.
This is the kind of stuff that happens when your friend brings you along to hang out with their other friends that you don't know.
have you ever laughed in a movie theater because everyone else was laughing
I once laughed really hard at a really REALLY inappropriate moment in a movie theater; I don't remember the movie but I remember the scene. My laughter wasn't contagious but the box was open and I couldn't stop even though I realized I was the only one laughing and it was super humiliating, since the scene was kind of horrific and could be triggering to a lot of people. Saving grace was it was a dark so hopefully people didn't see me but damn it was bad (both the scene and me laughing). Morale is, depending on the situation not all laughter is contagious
There’s literally no worse feeling than somebody saying “You weren’t even there for that”. Luckily after high school most people realize that it really isn’t important
Lmao I feel so BAD for the paper guy 🤣 AHHHHH
I got this treatment for laughing at a meme my friends were referencing and thought only they knew about. It was a really popular meme at the time as well. Really bizarre.
It's bizarre to have this kinda confrontation with "friends"
Dump those turds..those arent friends..friends dont go out of their way to make you feel bad, uncomfortable nor excluded.
Pro tip: If your friends do this to you, they're not your friends.
Love that he quoted me begging for someone to kill me
A realistic version in a group of friends you're trying to fit in with would be:
Youre already a little awkward trying to be a part of the group, and then you try to relate a little, and then once you put the effort in you get either called out, or get "THE stare"
I love how basically all the context was in the joke already.
Plot twist: He laughed because he had a very good hand
i feel so bad for the paper guy, seemed like a good fella
I can remember when this happened to me like it was yesterday I still feel like I'm going to die from the embarrassment
"Richard! Richard, look at me please." painful desperation
If you're friends do this to you, those aren't your friends.
For jokes like these it doesn’t matter da context it just sounds funny.
When you laugh to fit in but the the people you're hanging out with reject you because of it
Not friends at all🤢🤢
that was so painfully accurate i think i just got social anxiety
To get out of this situation, I usually just quote the office.
I love how you make 4 distinct personas with just 1 actor. Especially the one with the hat.
They're talking like they're gonna put him through a shredder.
...okay, I didn’t expect the fourth person to be a paper bag.
When all three of them look at the camera, I felt like the paper bag bruh
Why they do my boy like that lol.
doesn't seem like captain steve was very good at poker if he had such a tell.
Richard, Richard look at me please, Richard.. why won’t you look at me
When this was too much to put a real person through so you gotta use the paper bag.
man, that got rough
I'm afraid to laugh at this video for fear of me missing some of the context.
The right response is "your weird laughs just made me laugh"
See it's slightly mean as a way of getting back at them for trying to exclude you and it gets you out of the you didn't really get the joke situation
I've had this happened before, everyone was laughing loudly and I was laughing awkwardly, then they look at me and said "What?" that one word pains me to the core.
Laughter is your bodies defense for an awkward situation or feeling
I cant even laugh at this. Just watching it unfold gives me too much anxiety
I recommend the subtle but noted “heh” chuckle to yourself, combined with a slight shaking of the head, and lastly a return to a neutral expression.
Works in many cases where you recognize something is a joke and have the urge to laugh, but realize you don’t actually understand it enough to have the opinion it’s funny.
This reads like the thoughts of a sociopath.
Don't spend so much time thinking about how to act, just be yourself. It requires way too much thought to "act" certain ways, so much so that you'll forget to be yourself in the meantime.
If you're 'not yourself,' you will never find people who like you for who you are - and those are the people who matter the most.
@@seventeen9718 and what if extensive forethought is included in the way “you” specifically act?
Twist ending:
One of the two friends after the bag leaves "So, uh who is that captain guy you were talking about?"
Joel: "Oh, no one. I just made it up because it sounded like a funny thing to say."
Well, he has the context NOW, he can laugh again
I've never felt more sorry for a paper bag.
This is a more passive aggressive version of the "You Think I'm Funny" scene from Goodfellas.
But then you have to explain you’re laughing because you’re just happy your friends are happy.
Me: **"Then don't make the joke when I'm here you pieces of-"**
Thanks a lot now I'm having an anxiety attack about a situation I wasn't even apart of
I love the detail of the paper bag guy having a human sized leather jacket draped on his chair. Clearly symbolizing how he doesn't quite fit in with this tough crowd. You are brilliant, Mr. Haver!
I'm going to share this with my friends so we can call back to it as an inside joke in social situations.
That poor pink bag
this is mad creative and unfortunately relatable, i love this channel so glad i came across it
Clearly this man knows the humor in the reference and wanted to share a good moment with his bros /10
I didn't know I needed context "sobs*
💀💀💀
I feel socially awkward just watching this.
My friends are the opposite, they expect me to laugh at an inside joke I’m not apart of lol
It may not be how it actually went but it is exactly how it feels
This is exactly how I first got anxiety.