Loneliness

Nice!

omg second

Hi!

nice

Good theme

same here

Relatable. Most of my conversations nowadays are smalltalk, which I don't mind but I personally crave to have much deeper conversations and hang out with like minded people.

@@Lilflip20128 I wish for the same thing

can you stop with memes?

Yep

That hits deep

Happens to me all the time...

Can relate

dudecool79 you think your getting better but then the thoughts come back.

:/

😂😂😂😂😂

😮 high iq time

No shit Sherlock

I have people around me who keep asking me if I'm okay. But I'm afraid of speaking to them because I'm afraid they'll judge me and then I'll judge myself. So, I have created my own loneliness.

water is wet type beat

There's me

Literally me

I hate seeing groups of adult friends. I know I shouldn't but my dumbass is like "don't show off your friendship".

​@@Itsant33😂 dw its normal to want something others have, especially something nice as friendship, ik how u feel

thats me i get so jealous when i see my few and only friends with their girlfriends and boyfriends and huge group of friends while i sit alone during all my classes and do the work with only myself while they and everyone is having a good time working and talking

A very good looking whale bruh I tried to talk to someone new in irl, ten minutes they just got up and walked away I WAS LEFT ON READ IRL

Same...

@@housecat1674 damn. that sucks. I know it dont feel like it... but that was not you. that was them. I had 2 experiences where I tried. one was great. one was not, and I let it ruin me.
*1 - in hs in florida we had a nice outdoors campus (art school). during lunch, I saw an obviously (facial/body expression) lonely boy sitting against a pillar looking down at the grass. I said "Hey man what's up? you new? want to go for a walk?" and he did. we had fun that one time. we never hung out with each other after that day, but he had made friends and always smiled and said hello to me in the halls. (I was art, he was music - no shared classes)
*2 - another time in hs, after school by the bus loading area, there was a nervous looking, very quiet kid with glasses. I thought the other time was good.. I made someone happy and I felt good. so I stood right in front of him, waved and said "hello!" and he just stared at me. I repeated my word... and he blinked. I felt so sad. like I was bothering him. I said sorry and slunk away. I never fucking did that again. it was stupid of ME. in hindsight, i shouldn't have ever let myself feel shame for reaching out.
* years later, I saw the boy from story 1. he was so happy to see me, and told me and the friends he was with, that I'd never know how much I changed his hs experience just from that one day. he made a lot of friends. I wish I could have been his friend, but it didn't happen - we were really different and lived far from each other.
what I'm trying to say, is we'll never be able to reach someone who isn't ready or willing to be reached. but this reaching out and trying again is a real thing that can have such an impact...
well I lied. I did reach out again. i met my last significant other inside of an abandoned building.. and I saw him a few weeks later walking in the streets where I lived. I pulled over and said "hey. wanna go for a drive?" he did. then i killed him... not. but we did joke about how i could have... we've been together 8 years. o.o

wanderingintime bro thank you so much wtf out of all the people I talked to about it your KRplus comment was the wisest and made me feel the most better, what a great start to my day! Also for a second I believed the killing joke lolll

@@housecat1674 hey that makes me happy to know. keep having a good day!

Why are you doing this to me.

I saw it as the good part of loneliness but ok. . . ​ Toby_ Belle has a point.

Záncibar well the OGC did say that it was the worst part for them....

Same with video games I can’t find anyone that play bf1 or bf4 because everyone is playing fortnite and I can’t have so I can’t reach out to anyone

Damn :(

Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Germany. Really need

Yes, dr.porass. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.

I wish they were readily available in my place.
Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac.
He's constantly talking about killing someone.
He's violent. Anyone reading this
Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.

Is he on instagram?

Yes, he is dr.porass.

I felt the same honestly

Same here

Nu ești singur, nici nu vei fi vreodată, atâta timp cât nu vrei. 🇷🇴

I used to get a few, to places that caused me anxiety. Now the have stopped coming, I'm fine with that :)

This is what I said too

I was once in class, and i stood behind a curtain to see og anyone would remember i Was there. And yes it was after a break so the teacher knew i was at school that day, and we had the same teacher Before, and after the break. No one, not even my best friend remembered me. So when i came out from hiding, i asked why they didnt say anything. They all didnt know i was at school that day. Yes this is a true story, and they actually didnt know i was at school. If you have any questions, i would gladly reply.

High five! 🖐

I have 0 friends

@@abcdefglol3188 +1.

@@abcdefglol3188 +2

@@abcdefglol3188 +3

@@abcdefglol3188 hello?

God that’s how I feel thank you for typing this

I don't know you, but I relate so much. I tried the converse after being left out by my "friends". Making plans and my "friends" just ignored me. I guess they just want to go away and d1e.

You put my feelings into words...

"You have to be the one to make things happen" might be good advice practically, but it never addresses the shitty feeling of not being wanted in the first place. ❤

It is mostly because of our social status is low many people in adulthood just want to increase their status

I saw this comment while watching that part

Hmm, yes. The floor here is made out of floor.

@@shinjilovrrr the chhair is made out of chair

@@ima13yroldpplessfortnutboi79 yeah, this is big brain time. Also, your name in chat

Every minute 60 seconds pass in Africa

I am

Well yeah, it's weird to see this video with a group of people. It's better to see this by yourself because everyone is different and everyone feels lonely at different times

@@toastydoggo2313 I feel lonely most OF THE TIME

I'm not, but i was curious about the subject and how help People

Sad reality

i try following this, i do not assume hostility or judge ,i reach out all the time, i’m always ready to open up and i cat escape feeling lonely regularly ,some things trigger it more than others and i don’t know what can i do with it

​@@artemsavtsov983 same for me. It's usually the feeling that even if you opening up, no one care about it.

@@joysanni yeah, i feel like wasting time and effort now when meeting new people or reconnecting with old ones, because it may end in that way

​@@artemsavtsov983 i just feel being annoying to everyone as i forcing myself to shut up and don't talk with anyone..
Sad thing, when you can't talk with your FRIENDS, because don't want to bother them with your loneliness, and also you can't find new one as they don't seem mutual in conversation or some kind of.

How are you guys doing? ❤

i don't know you but i proud of you. i hope you feel better ^^

Well done! You're doing better than me, that's for sure

Go find them! Don't sink into the hole. There's nothing good in the hole. There are lots of people who relate to you and who could potentially be your friends. Just keep trying.

Oh thats me. Lol

Shut up dont remind me of myself

@@snowleaf2834 thassa mood.

Viridian Sky I’m in this picture and I don’t like it.

Same

Same here

Facts.

Like everybody

play games and communicate :)

i dont know why i have the urge to tell you but i felt this, and you made me feel less alone right now, so thank you. I hope you find people to connect to as well, have you tried family members? usually they arent 100% the same as us, but if you think of it they are the few ones on earth that wouldnt immediately judge or consider leaving you for good just because you have small fights or silly habits like burping in front of them (i know lol, but its kinda true isn't it?) dont even know if you'll read this, but have a nice day!

Truuueee

I really feel the same way. It's not like I decline the invention... The invention never existed.... And it's horrible
I don't even talk to people around my age. Actually it's people triple my age at this point... And even then people feel awkward just hanging out with someone as old as there own children. So I don't blane them.
But what about people my age. Why even when I inniciate plans. It's always a last minute cancel. Am... Am I just a horrible person and I can't see it

@@JesusChrist-sm4bm i bet youre not a horrible person :] you sound scared of being one, that already shows that at least you dont * plan * to become one, be proud of that! many people dont care if their actions end up hurting others.
Having said that, sometimes caring too much about being a "good" person is what makes us anxious. That leads to awkward meetings bc we fear offending others.
i suggest you dont give up on those invitations! make your mind to invite the ones who cancelled last minute again, sometimes its not personal, maybe something really came up last minute and they couldnt hang out.
you could also hang out with siblings or cousins your age if you have them and you get along with them,
if you dont tho, just ask * yourself * out :] i know its not the interactions youre seeking for, but sometimes its more than enough to just go outside, enter a store, smile to the shopkeeper, say good morning to someone waiting for their turn in a line, or just being around strangers, those small actions already make you feel more connected to other people
dont fear rejection pal :] its gonna happen a million times, you're not alone on this! it happens to you, to me, and to everyone else out there. The trick is in how you face it: i know feeling rejected sucks, but distract yourself from the feeling, focus on the nice things that * do * happen to you, like eating dessert or watching that show that you like. When you feel better again, keep trying, someday the invitations will work :]
if you feel they wont, theres always other people to talk to, i mean i know im a stranger but look! someone is interacting with you right now, i hope that makes you realize youre less alone that you think, youre not invisible :]
dont give up, you got this!

I feel the same too. I never get invitations, except for maybe general mass invitations sent out by a church or whatever that isn't directed at me. I don't think I've ever received any invitation for more than 10 years from anyone, and I feel as though people actually want to forget that I even exist. When I do reach out they are too busy, they actively reject my invitations with excuses or reasons. In fact recently I reached out to the church pastor just wanting to connect, and he made the time very short (barely enough time for me to even register the interaction at all), and basically made it feel as though he has more important people that he like to focus his energy on, and that I need to do more to somehow justify that level of time investment.

No one understand me irl but its nice seeing people that also dont have many friends and are usually lonely

you know? I wanted to comment: did anyone else cryed while watching this? Then i see your comment

But where ru from?
*_Emma🦋_*

I’m following you ;)

Don't give up. Stay strong mate 💪🏻💪🏻

@@imperiomaximus9583 And remember: dying is gay

Heyy, let's try not to die together

Exactly what I thought when watching this. I've not had any friends for such a long time, that my life span is probably already been completely fucked up by now .

So say we all

ZENO I feel called out

To those with social anxiety, that is the BEST thing.

@@fatcat1250 Feeling invisible?? I guess.

feeling invisible is what i want to be actually

Agreed

thats why i dont go out with friends no more.. at this point every word i want to say makes me think that im weird.

lmao same

youtube know me well

For real lol

Ya

Even youtube notice it

yeah, and how to overcome this problem? we open up and accepting invitations from friends but now what?

@@hendywijaya3213 this is also my question

Sounds like every family reunion I went to.

A little late but here i go:
So i had this problem back in school too.
My "friends" were nice and all.
I talked a lot with them but it never felt right.
Sometimes i didnt say what i meant other times i just couldnt speak up.
The thing is (and thats the hard part) theyre not real friends.
Trust me if they hurt you (in anyway) or you dont feel comfortable around them -> get fucking rid of them.
Real friendship is so different from that i still cant believe it.
I dont have to think what im saying. It just clicks and i just feel happy now.
Youve to try again and again and thats the hardest part of the problem.
Every relationship is like that.
Youve to sort out the troublemakers/idiots/etc. and to do that youve to just try (again and again...).
Its not going to be easy but hang in there and believe in yourself.
Your future self will thank you.
Youll think back and it will be crazy how it changed.
Hope this somehow helps.
Feeling lonely is probably one of the worst things out there but its cureable.
Meeting new people makes you vulnerable and consumes a lot of time/energy but in
the end its the only way.

@@mertboy94 thanks for the answer :')

specially when those invitations werent about you but what you have, egoistic invitations, then i prefer to be lonely thanks.

E

you guys were getting invitations in the first place ?

@@goroland6904 I have the same problem. How am I supposed to have a social life when nobody cares about me enough to invite me to anything? My ex-”friends“ were like parasites, taking and never giving. I‘ve cut them off and now I‘m alone, but it‘s still better than pretending that people care about you.

From my experience, this seems to work. I had friends before 2020 but none of them were very close, and even tho I barely have any friends now, I feel less lonely than before because I’m better at occupying myself. Not having friends but keeping myself happy is probably not a permanent solution but it’s definitely a good first step toward not being lonely, I guess it’s like fully figuring myself out before rejoining society and trying to make friends again

Yessd

Thanks ❤️

KRplus is the only one who thinks us

I don't see how this should make anyone feel less lonely. They're in the exact same spot as before, equally lonely and pathetic.
But perhaps I'm just too pessimist.

Yeah

bro stop

Just the ones who spend their time on the internet.

It's not dying. It's just going through some spiritual growing pains.

Right now it's number 9 trending

Good, this place sucks

or you could say people are taking responsibility for a wide spread problem? seeking help is after all courageous

Amen.

And being lonely is what makes you uncomfortable with yourself.

video gaming = waste of time. housework is much better (karma)
bored? anyone??
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volunteer work? go walkies?
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or a japanese maple tree?
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hey its animal friendly :)
vegan cookbooks? give it a try! its tasty
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sometimes? more often?)
higher wages 4 staff? ..much higher :)
(home care patients? they are lonely 2.. most of them!)
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donate clothing?
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clean up some plastic, broken glass or other trash?
trash = serious danger 4 animals. (pain in the stomach, injuries, die offs etc ):
its time 4 serious cleaning up operations!
(you can use hand nets, nitrile gloves. self protection!)
or use a boat? recycling bins?
(maybe... leave a slice of toast bread? in the shrubs? or on a grass area? for birds. they love it :)
(or walnuts? small pieces. on cold days. winter, autumn etc)
work at night?
(or new school projects? monthly?) volunteers? maybe ask your school teachers?
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(the plastic trash that floats in the world's oceans actually decompose and release potentially toxic substances into the water)
,,,
lets save marine life :) lets remove some plastic and trash.
many turtles are in trouble struggling with plastic :(
+ better recycling systems all around the world? (+ africa, india, etc?)
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create new ones? or new jobs?
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Poker Face-_- Hey i am a new youtuber it would mean so much if you subscribed thank you i am a fan of you

Poker Face-_- Why does it bother me that he forgot to close the quotation?

+ social anxiety + depression

I have low self esteem and loneliness so I know how it feels

Same

No Religion/spirituality + No friends + no family + low self esteem + procrastinator = Shitty times

@@jayluis189 literally me

It's because everyone feels like they have to put on an act to fit in but that means no one is genuine and we feel that in our gut so we eventually just don't bother with people more than necessary

Will we ever rewire?

@@saldownik probably not

@@saldownik it's hard to tell. But here are my two cents. It really depends on our further evolution. If the humanity will see that doing fine without much interaction and staying individualistic, then we will become more individualistic. If we'll see that it is an irrelevant way, we won't. Right now I think we'll stay the way we are now, social creatures. Even now there are a lot of cultures and societies which encourage collectivism. The western society is a different beast, we're pretty individualistic, but then again, we really we the rising loneliness problem

@@litphaniusmcmelloy4275 If we will rewire, it will be now much more likely by our design, than by an evolutionary crawl.

The true

They teach us about stuff like this all the time with those crappy posters
Also, our teachers are not our therapists
Edit: maybe I am wrong

*Hoodie*

@@xi3382
Schools: *HOLY SHIT WE HAVE A POTENTIAL SCHOOL SHOOTER SOMEONE CALL THE FBI*

@@vibing6530 He said SCHOOLS, not teachers.
The school can provide some kind of therapist...

Marceline Morales okay, so as the video itself recommends, I’m trying to lift somebody’s mood up although it’s not what I would normally do. But I can tell you that feeling left behind the group is a very familiar feeling. In fact, now that I think about it it’s been a long time since I actually cared about it because it happened so many times that it kinda became a normality for me to feel left out. Or maybe I just got used to it or I’m not trying anymore or whatever the video says. Anyways, in my case, I know that people would have accepted me if I tried a bit harder therefore I think you can choose not to be alone and maybe if you give yourself a chance( or multiple chances) you can get yourself out of that isolation bubble. And also you’re probably cool and funny and if you haven’t found the right people around you yet then just keep being yourself.
I hope it didn’t make you feel sadder, lol

Dayum

Marceline Morales LoL me always 👅

That’s what happened to me for a field trip. The field trip is tomorrow and I was put in a group full of guys who I barely know. I’m afraid of being humiliated if I go cause of the boys and other girls in a group together. So I can stay home or take my chances of humiliation. What should I do?

@@sanchez5863 If the field trip is something worth going to, then sure! Be yourself, and don't be scared. We all say things at the wrong time when we're nervous and feel out of place, so just take some breaths, and reassess where you are. I was the "lone wolf" in middle school, and a bit through high school as well. I've done TONS of really awkward things, and my heart races when just being spoken to. If people are speaking to you, listen, and I mean REALLY listen. Ask good questions, and be polite! Be calm, and when people talk to you, respond. Boys or girls, in the end, they're only your peers!

That's me pretty much..... I suck.

Been there, done that 😢

Eden Nishan ur yoongi pfp🥺

Going through this like right now. Been ignoring friends' "lets catch up..its been long" thing coz my mind says they aren't good for you😶

Right with you there

Yeah. And it’s like it would be weird if you *didn’t* feel lonely.

@@jacobgalvez4363 Exactly.

Hang in there!

Same here. I lost all my friends in 2016 and haven’t had any since.

Reki Jorve it starts to feel normal but it’s not good

real

Hello , how are you ?
I want to be your friend, if you don't mind ?

​@@JuliaFinance-bz1swme to

me too!

Congratulations!

Just add alcohol

That is quite a claim, as well as the obesity one, I thought. I would have liked to see a source for this. Till then I just take it as a filler statement more for effect.

Agreed. If loneliness were a disease, I'd been dead a long time ago.

Divine Jacob Mathew You might not have propper friends. Not the greatest thing to say here...
But I only redescovered the people I truly cared about ( and vice versa) at the age of 22.

Fuck that is relatable

Exactly

It feels like you're their strange neighbor

Exactly how I’m feeling

It's been 2 weeks since you wrote this and i wanna know how much your life has changed?

How are you? You are alright?

@@sergiu1 I'm better now

@@kausarahsan4732 not much but I have a different perspective on life now and that has made things better. I'm alone but I no longer feel lonely

@@shreevatsak343 I'm happy for you. This video changed my perspective too.

gloriousholy I know, This happens to me a lot but gosh it's a sore when it happens

@@boneshrimp6486 I've been forced to dump some friends because they drain my happiness and I have been trying to find a new crowd that makes me happy rather than miserable. Maybe it's time for you to look for better friends that bring you up.

feel this so much, but it's not just one friend for me, it's my whole friend group :,o

It's me who ignore my friends. Now none of them talk about me anymore

@@kirimaruisao4094 I feel you, I regret it so much. I wish I didn't ignore my only friend that I atleast feel comfortable to talk to. It all start when my old friend finally came to my class, shes always absence and I thought it was because I wasn't a good enough friend for her, but I want to spent more time with her(I was an idiot), so I left my other friend behind, I got carried away and didn't talk to my other friend for 2 days, now she think I hate her. I apologize to her and she won't even talk to me anymore, and my old friend keeps skipping class. I have no friends at all right now. I don't know what have my life turn into. I keep abandon my online friends (which I also feel very guilty about) to the point where I abandon my friends that I can talk always to. I just thought I wasn't good enough so I push people away, but I regret it for hurting their feelings. Although they may have forgotten about me now. I don't want friends or lover. I just want comfort. I'm so stupid, I miss everyone and I wish I'm not in this stupid phase.

Also kurzgesagt: here's your daily existential crisis video

Therapist: social interaction
Kurzgesagt: on your smartphone.

Don't use kurzgesagt as a therapist lol. it is interesting sure, but see a doctor.

Kurzgesagt knows me better than my parents it seems

@@Azakadune I would love too, but I cant stand the look of "I dont care" on their faces anymore

I know this is late but I hope you feel better!

good luck bro with your life!

Yes, that's horrible

A personal journal, then you can go back and relive those experiences as you're reading along :)

This comment is like getting stabbed in the ribcage. Hits right where it hurts

😔❤️‍🩹

Now that you know you feel lonely you can start trying to fix it. Try a teamsport or call someone else to ask how've they been. Will be a painfull journey due to the fear of rejection as described in the vid. But remember that by showing interest in someone else is a good deed worth doing even if you don't get anything back.

escapism, eh? it's like a drug

Basically me in a nutshell

Yep I always do that all the time
its now a habit

Mood

Thats why I love the internet, I’ve met so many cool ppl but there is no need to worry about them thinking my voice is trash and my face is ugly, cuz they don’t know either of them

but in usa, where are you from

Well I haven't had a single friend in like 30 years...

Ill be your friend☺️

Me with my only friend when parents think I'm 4 years old and keep trying to make me make new friends

same. hi everyone.

Damn, sounds like what I got going for me.

@@duffy6542 I got a worse kind of loneliness. It's the one where you're the one who don't care about anyone. It can be even worse than not having anyone in the first place. I have to pretend in order to keep my social bonds but, really, if 90% of people I know disappeared, I wouldn't miss them. And it's not because they're bad, in fact most are very awesome people. I just can't bring myself to care, idk why.

@@GabrielFerCav Maybe you just dont feel like you actually relate to any of them on a deeper level or you dont really care about the things that you do with them. your friends arent catering to your emotional needs in the way you desire or doing the kind of activities that bring you joy, fullfillment, or actually have real value to you. im kind of having a bit of that issue too.
It's not that my friends arent great people and I do genuiney care about their well being, but if im honest with myself for alot of them if our friendship was to end or we stopped talking it wouldnt really bother me.

ouch

It shall pass

I hope things get better for you eventually!

Travel abroad

When I was your age I feel the same as you,, Im 23 now

​@@edberaga Did things change?

@@_Infocars hm, I do have one close friend. And one is enough🥰

...And then there's a situation where there's just nobody to send it to.

you shared this video with everyone who watched it, so in a way, you aren't alone! :)

I think this problem affects a lot of people so u can share it with ur friends Im sure one or two will like it

*-P A I N-*

that’s exactly what i was gonna do-

it’s called codependency, it’s a boundary issue, i suffer from it too

ya boi same
:/

I'm the one who connects everyone while im just a broken connection line.
It's pretty painful when you see everyone around you care for each other and not you while you're the main connector, as if you're the power cable that connects cities but no one cares for your maintenance.
Being a loyal person, this is a bullet to the gut.

Dumble King I’m the same way, now I spend most of my free periods thinking about what could have been if I didn’t make so many mistakes while everyone else is having fun and joking around

same

Jesús 😭

@@kendallbr9166 yeah 🥺🥺

Hi

Lol same

Nitroh
Your not alone

I got hit with a lethal triple combo: loneliness, social anxiety, and crippling depression. So I’m watching this video and I’m like fuck, I should hit up my old friend and try to get back in it. Then depression is right behind me like that meme from icarly where Gibby beats Spencer with a stop sign. God, I guess I’ll just have to commit myself to one more day, and keep doing that.

@@bariumselenided5152 I got it triple combo that you said because I have existential crisis. Hell, this feeling is kill me mentally.

And sometimes that knife is invisible so you don’t notice, but then loneliness hits hard again.

You just said It's invisible. How would anybody notice.

@@sochimauche4747 Shoot didn't realize that 🤔🤔 thanks

100th like

this one hit different

frrr

@@malxumx9727 :')

well yes, but actually no

@@axule4373 XD

Everyone is feeling lonely, but everyone doesn’t know. People are living facades and that is a worrying thing in this modern world. Social media?

Thank u love

Thanks, "hugs back"

I thank you....

*hugs emotionally

Thank You

Can confirm it by personal experience. For me, therapy was no easy path, but it saved my life and made me grow immensely. Glad I found the courage to start and keep at it despite the difficult moments. There's light and life waiting for those who venture. The most difficult and most important part is doing the first step! It just means making a phone call or sending an e-mail, but we'll be glad we took that small, first step.

Love the Enrique iglesias pfp :)

Yeah

It's is also a sign of you denying your desire for connection lol.

yes

Haha I get invited but I make every possible excuse to not go

@@AGoogleUser-im2xw :v me too, but since I kept on declining people are avoiding to invite me now XDD

Invite them then. Eventually if they enjoyed with you company, they will invite you in the future

@@pixellee6955 I wasn't expecting actual advice, but thanks I'll do that!

Ah, that just happened to me this Thanksgiving day. I moved into a small city surrounded by relatives, so I thought I might get invited....wrong!

hot poison Maybe do yourself a favor and delete instagram pal. It offers nothing except unrealistic standards for beauty/life. I feel much better mentally since deleting it, maybe you should try it for a while and see if it improves your mindset :)

Flaya TV weell every time i delete the app i downloaded it after few days

hot poison try and resist the temptation

Chances are that you don’t talk to those friends a huge amount, what you should do is just hit them up every few days or so, send them something funny you’ve seen on Instagram, don’t go overboard to the point where it’s annoying but just have conversations with them. You’ll get closer and eventually get invites

that's just one moment of their everyday life though

maybe i dont want to be the bad guy anymore 😢

@No wow I have positivity I’m so EdGy

why does this have 666 likes

@@sharvaliladekar5857 it doesn't anymore.. that was a sign FOR YEEWWW

this one of the best recommendation i have watched, seriously.

Look in to how your brain works. You’ll discover exactly what you think and feel the way you do.
One thing you can start doing right away, is flipping the script. Those thoughts that bring you down, change it to something you’re grateful for. Change your brain, change your reality

If you feel this way then I would think it’s trying to help. Gotta shift that perspective man. 😊

@@rib_rob_personal Only an idiot would think a non-thinking algorithm is trying to help them.

With videos like, how not to talk to yourself so often, and this one, starting to wonder that myself.

there's nothing to be shame

@@JKAZ_M No need to be mean. The algorithm starts collecting information about the user and if it detects searchs related to loneliness, it's gonna recommend you videos with that type of content. It may not "think" but stills help you

Try to have a look around: in almost every big city there are "centers" talking about some topics in particular, Facebook and other networks have pages / channels focused on some topic, Telegram too has channels like that (for example, there's a Telegram's channel called Link4Universe, same name of a KRplus channel, talking about Cosmo and Astrophysics).
Nowadays, "Internet" turned tons of people into zombies who throw there their mind as trash (for a huge amount of reasons like culture, mental habit, force of will, laziness, etc), but it's not like there everywhere! This KRplus channel is an example, where contents are high-quality ones :D

Let's chat!

you could recommend a book to us :D

Yep you are so right

But right now you're sharing what you are experiencing thus we are relating to what you are saying

You need someone to talk to man? I'm here.

Relatable

yes

You should probably talk to someone.

Same I live within my head

S ame

Same

Same

So true

We can relate

Хамазаев Руслан yes,
All the time, I am my only company.

You aren't deceiving when you experience you are experiencing experience itself

I remember trying to strike up a conversation with strangers a couple times and every time I get a dirty look. I just be like damn. Only trying to say where'd you get that ice cream cone.

And we wonder how inordinary people can exist

Hey! I get what u mean...

True

Very true. I work in the construction industry. God help you if you admit loneliness or any psychological or emotional problems. You'd become the target of merciless ridicule. I work in an office. A homeless person took cigarette butts from the Smoker's Station ashtray . Our company offers counselling by a professional company for those who need it. My coworker pinned a copy of the offer of counselling to the ashtray.
"Why did you do that?" I asked.
"Because it's for losers" he replied.

but when you have bts . you not feel lonely🎶🎶🎶

@@craftyshallz7658 literally wtf

@@craftyshallz7658 didn't really understand what u just said but i'm sorry if i offended u 😅

Doesnt do shit in reality tho..
Its not easy at all.
But great video though.

💔

Yup we can't share our emotions

My last friend is moving to Spain for soccer.

​@@David-yq4rz I like soccer NOT FOUTBALL

i glady have the opportunity to tell my friends about it. but unfortunately i often keep it to myself because i believe that nobody cares about it...

we're in the same boat

What ur lying

Tbh social anxiety sucks. It drains all of my self esteem

@@kimnotloona I too suffer from it

Злой Хлебушек X_X sigh
Same