Selena Gomez Talks Relationship With Justin Bieber | On Air with Ryan Seacrest

"She lost him but she found herself, and somehow, that was everything."
- Taylor Swift

You could tell the hurt in her voice, poor thing. Shes truly amazing.

Who’s here after Selena’s “ loose you to love me ” ?

you can tell she was holding back tears from the start. I would've broke down 5 minutes into the interview.

i don't think people realize how hard it is to get over a FIRST love.

What is with all the hate?
Selena is great.
She's an inspiration.

she sounds ready to cry.

Who is here after her new interview with ryan? She seems so happy in the new one. You can literally see the difference between these two.

Have you noticed Selena hasn't said Justin's name once she referred to Justin as 'he' or 'him'

I wouldn't consider myself a Selenator (and I'm definitely not a Belieber), but gosh it must be hard to grow up in the spotlight. Yes, you can make so many opinions about them and how they're stupid, immature, etc. But who wasn't a stupid teenager at some point in life? I never supported their relationship (seemed so unhealthy for both of them), but I have to say Selena is incredibly strong to keep her head up through all of this, even when people are continuously sending her death threats.

Who’s here after her releasing Lose You To Love Me? 🙊

her voice is so soothing

Ryan is one of the very few interviewers who don't harass the artists in my opinion.

She is exausted ... i can see it , she is very different now .

Looking into her eyes you can see the pain she felt and how much she cried

She looks so tired & broken :/

She is such a positive person ;!

at the end, when she started about talking how she will always support him, my heart broke into 1000 pieces. I could relate to what she said so much. I wish I could hate the person that hurt me, but I think I'll never be able to hate her. I'm still upset when she's upset. She's everything I ever wanted, I wish she was still mine. I feel so sorry for her.

i feel bad for her. hes asking her such personal questions that is no ones business. like yea we are curious but don't put her on the spot. she handled it really well tho

what. a. queen. i love her so much awh omg.

" And now the chapter is closed and done, And now it's goodbye, it's goodbye for us ". That word still hurts me so bad, but i wish happiness always follow them🥺🥺🥺

it's crazy that when I saw selena gomez 's face I thought of a young innocent naive girl but when she opened her mouth whoaaa.. she's a mature fierce grown woman. I can tell in her voice alone how much she's matured and her eyes carry so many sleepless nights and untold stories. its hard to explain. At some point I questioned her maturity without actually listening to her but now I can see why Justin fell hard for her. she's amazing.

for a girl who has been in the lime light since she was 15, she sure is concerned with how people "judge" her. poor thing, i can see the tiredness in her eyes and hurt in her voice. her relationship (this goes for every girl) was HER relationship and no one elses. it doesn't matter what others think!! keep your head up Selena.

I support him. I get upset when he's upset. I'm happy when he's happy. I don't want anything ever to happen to him... bad... it hurts me.
I love her...

You can really see the difference between this interview and her recent interviews in 2016 and I'm so proud of her because she was in such a dark place in this interview and she's learned from her mistakes and grown and she's eventually become so much happier.

Who’s watching this in 2023? after the mean girls drama that has been blow up on tiktok

“I’m going to stop when I need to stop, I’m going to feel when I need to feel” this is why I love her, she clearly prioritises her mental well-being and encourages others to do the same

Who is here after her new song came out lose you to love me

Her face, and her voice scream sadness. Im no a fan of hers, also not a hater. But this broke my heart.

I am 28 and i love her, she is a women who loves someone that broke her heart, does not matter how old you are or how famous you are it HURTS

I LOVE HER

She's a genuine Empath... an Earth Angel. She's a great impact on our younger generation. God bless her, for her honesty. 🙏

So much respect for her. I had this same feeling when I was 16. And it hurts? When you feel like you lost someone that you spent so much time on, it hurts like crazy. These people saying its puppy love is crazy. She's 22 years old. She's gonna have relationships, but this one obviously meant a lot to her. She's allowed to cry and be upset and feel down. Let her have her time. Stop nagging and picking at her about the way she looks or what she's saying. She's working too please all of you. She's handling herself so well and I respect her so much more now.

I turned 22 years old this year as well, and I'm too busy figuring out my life that I can't afford to fall in love.

she was so sad here,it s really hard to watch,it makes me cry. I am so happy that she s happier and more confident now... I love her so much

I could listen to Selena talk all day, she has a way with words that manages to express the stuff you could never put into words yourself. She's so intelligent and I either feel super emotional or super inspired whenever I listen to her speak, I hope she's proud of herself x

She looks so mature oh my gosh. I for one loved the song so much, though I've never been in a similar situation the song spoke to me.

I never realized how the bad the breakup actually was.

7:09 that is love, the true one. No matter what happens in life between two people, at the end of all you’ll always want the best for the one you love.

who's here after Justin's engagement??😭😭

After this, I'm looking at Selena in a way different point of view. I've never been a huge fan of her, but I've always been a Belieber and I honestly thought he should've broken up and left her long time ago. I also didn't understand why she'd go back to him, knowing what's going to happen. But I get it know. They've had this on and off relationship for about 4 years now. He's her first love and she's his first love. I've gone through something like this, and it's really hard. I understand The Heart Wants What It wants, and the meaning of the song. She's always listened to her parents, friends, and fans about the problem she's having with Justin, but she's never listened to her heart. I really hope her and Justin get back together though. They're meant for each other. I don't think either of them deserve the hate they get. Selena usually gets hate simply because some people doesn't like her (Or it could be something else a bit more valid) Now I know a lot of people doesn't like Justin for his behavior, the actions he's made.. etc. But admit it, 30% of the people who dislikes him, simply just hate on him because it's a trend. All I'm trying to say is, don't interfere their relationship in a negative way. It's bad enough they're in the eyes of the entertainment world, leave them to be, and let them deal with their relationship.

This is what fame does to people. Its so easy to get lost about reality.
She has every right to express her feelings but I can just imagine what people who are extremely disadvantaged in life and are listening to this interview are thinking. It just shows how everything in life is RELATIVE. She's a beautiful, talented, young woman. Her pain would be bliss for others.
I'm not hating on her here or calling her ungrateful. I just want to show how people view pain in the scope of their own reality.

Watching this before the 2015 interview makes me happy, She's over him and over all the bitches that hurter her. PEACE

from 7:00 to 8:00 - true emotions, true love....justin u r lucky boy

I'm glad she did this interview so young ladies who follow her might understand that this is something every single person goes through and although it feels like the end of the world when it happens, you will get through it and life does go on. There are far too many young girls cutting themselves, and taking handfuls of pills because the guy they love has broken their heart. It's important for someone they idolize to say that there is a light at the end of the tunnel.

It's crazy to watch and feel this with her as another Cancer. You feel everything so emotionally as a cancer. It's really amazing watching this and emotionally understanding everything she talks about, how she's changed and her feelings towards what she's learned from her experiences with loving others and herself.

She's just as beautiful inside as she is out.

6 years later, she's now having the fun she desired, better late than never baby
I'm so proud but also a little sad

She's so down to earth and beautiful inside and out. It takes a lot for someone to come out and say something like that to a friend worse yet the whole media. Definitely inspiring, love her !

I just want to hug her.

She sounded like she wanted to cry

I respect how brave she was to come out with a song with such exposure and raw emotion. When you have felt that pain, when you have been torn and destroyed this way it’s all you feel 24/7 and she let it out on the track and it’s beautiful.

from "he's like a little brother to me. we're just friends." to this whole drama...

I used to hate Jelena ........but now I think Selena is the perfect girl for justin......this made me cry😭.....if she alway be like this I would support Jelena forever....I promise....but if she break his heart idk what I will do.....ok!idk what I'm saying

She's one artist that I have a lot of respect for

You can hear the pain in her voice and see at the end where she started tearing up. He was truly her soulmate. A heartbreak is so painful and changes your entire being of life.... So sad... I hope you are able to move on, close this chapter, and find happiness.

Too many negative comments on this, she's inspirational, she's so strong I admire her for being honest and open and keeping the best interests at heart, positive things in the front of her mind, all that matters is that she's happy, she's trying to express herself, people should let her do that

Selena is the most beautiful and talented girl...so far I have seen comments like she is to young to be giving advice or stop crying over Justin bieber. Honestly break-ups are never easy. She loved or loves Justin and when you feel that way about someone it may never go away after you two split. She is sad, and as fans we need to be there for her. We shouldn't be worried about how she feels towards Justin or who she is crying for. We should care for her and help her through this difficult time. All in all Selena is amazing and should be happy...sorry if some people don't like handling the truth

Has anyone noticed that she doesn't like saying his name 😢 I feel like she doesn't like talking about him but I can respect that. I love her lots🤗 and I hope she has an amazing life ahead. And for anyone one who is reading this I also hope you all have an amazing life ahead 🤗😊😄

I've seen this video like 20 times literally, everything that she says is so true and so honest. Her feelings, her experience with her proffesional life and the music business, her love for Justin... everything is just perfect, emotionally heartbroken. I love this Selena, she's a gorgeous person.

It's crazy how people are still hating on this. ''She acts like they've been married' It's called true love. They had true love. This girl has been broken by a boy and she opened her heart to the world. She showed her pain. She got trough all this pain with the social media beside her, making it even worse. ''He wrote a album about you'' So? He could wrote 1000 albums, that doesn't change the fact that he hurted her. Don't get me wrong, I love Justin but wroting an album doesn't make the broken heart heal. Please stop hating. She's just sharing it with us. I love you Selena, stay strong. Thank you for letting us in.

Everyone saying she needs to get over Justin just needs to be quiet. It's extremely hard to get over someone and everyone grieves differently and gets over things in different amounts of time so don't go telling her she needs to get over it because we're all different.

she seems perfectly fine but then agian she seems completely broken 💔

I feel bad I feel like he hurt her but she still loves him she reminds me of me

I can relate to what she was going through. I was in a relationship with a man who I had fallen completely in love with. I would have done almost anything for him. And he destroyed me. Love is a crazy emotion that can consume us. It can make us act like lunatics and turn us into someone who is not our true self. I am glad she expressed herself as an artist. I think it is sad that so many people want to judge her for doing it. It's what artists do sometimes. And it doesn't matter how young or old you are. Love can affect you positively or negatively at any point in your life.

Selena Gomez is one of the few young talented celebrities that holds herself right and is truly honest with herself . And very successful

We all love her because she shows her genuine feelings. I’ve felt exactly like this and to see a celebrity going through it is very helpful. I’m just sad she has felt the way I have, but that’s the human connection, to know you’re not the only one.

In a couple of hours, Justin and Hailey will be married. And here i am watching this video of how much Selena have loved him and despite the pain he caused her, she still loves him. 💔

Mad props on how sincere she was throughout the interview. It felt so raw and genuine, I feel for her because she still seems so heartbroken about ending it with jb. I really hope she finds someone who treats her better.

Her voice is so soothing
AHHH I love her😍😻🤓

she is so amazing. i'm so glad that she is on this planet. she helps so many people. god bless her. if anyone is depressed please shine a light on them in the midst of darkness. 🙏🏻🌍

I love her voice 😍😍💖👅

Why is everybody hating on her?! She's a strong woman. She may have gotten hurt a lot, but she will always love Justin, no matter what. I will always be here for Selena & Justin every single day. And they mean a lot to me. I would cry if I lost one of them. That's how much they mean to me. So stop wasting people's time and get tf outta here! Selena cares for her fans and her fans don't care about her. ;// you're not a true Selenator then. Even tho Justin & Selena aren't together, I will always support them throughout this day. ❤️ Belieber since 2011. Selenator since 2009.

recently she said that she was having identity issues (on ellen).... like, she appears different form her old self. not bubbly or happy. maybe she needs to get away and get help (mentally). she needs to let go of bieber. :(. also I thought she left hollywood records for interscope?!

I love the fact that they both love and respect each other :) This an example of "true love never dies"

i really appreciate for her to share this with us, so people, like us, dealing with heartbreak can now see this and know it’s okay to feel the way we do.

You can tell on how she answers. You can tell that she is still hurting at this moment during the interview. I can actually feel that because ive been hurt before and when someone asks you about him you cant help but just say what is safe to say even if you wanna tell everybody how you've been hurt by that person.

I cried when I saw the video!!!!

Omg at the end she said I don’t want any things happened to him is hurt me....n than she almost cried 🙁is touching my heart god bless both

Who is here 2016 omg love Selena and justin😭😻

It really inspires me how strong she is. I mean, I've been through a lot in the past year as well but differently, I mean I had confidence issues and I would cry when I'm alone. So seeing how strong Selena is really makes me want to be stronger, she's an amazing human being and I wish people would see that.

"I support him I think I always will" Selena I feel you when u say like that 🙂

Her voice is so amazing. I deeply love her voice ❤️

This video helps me so much when I'm feeling low. Because it's what I'm going through. Respect, Selena.

“Is this the chapter closing?” I can’t believe it’s 2019 and she’s still feeling this and finally letting go. I can relate so much 😞♥️
EDIT: I know this video is old. I just came from watching her most recent interview with Ryan and now she’s saying she closed the chapter. In 2019.

It gives me so much strenght and hope to see that other people feel heartbreak too an that I'm not alone. Especially watching her video, because I could relate 100% to what she says in the beginning.

Back here after watching the recent interview with Ryan for "lose you to love me" and I'm crying so hard. I'm so proud and happy for her💓 she's grown and she's really given herself time to heal. She's so tired here and I'm so thankful that she's free now and is actually happy, love you sel🥺❤️

I just don't understand why people judge her. These r her feelings and emotions and nothing for you to tamper with. Just coz they broke up doesn't mean they hate each other.

I respect and support everything Selena said in this video. A lot of you are judging her because she's wasting her time on Justin and obsessing over him but she fell in love with him and she obviously feels so deeply for him so a lot of you should respect that and if it's who she wants then you have to be supportive. She has obviously been through a lot the past two years and all she needs is love and support from her fans

Selena is very beautiful women, She is very talented. All she needs is someone to love her hold her tight and don't let go. She is emotionally broken and is coming clean from hiding it for so long what she has felt for the last year. She is cool and a wonderful human being.I may not know her, but I can feel the pain she is feeling😢😢😢😢, The music video made me cry so much.
Stay strong Selena and love yourself like we love you,💖 . You are the insertion and the fact that you try to not act crazy and do the wrong thing for the girls that look up to you is very kind and amazing. We love you Sel

She’s my queen and role model for life. No matter what I’m going through in my life, I will always look up to her through it bc she helps me 💚

Love where she’s at now, her happiness shines through now and at the end you’ll come out stronger through all the ups and downs ❤️

She's wonderful. Such a sensitive, beautiful soul.

I'm going through the same exact thing and it's so hard. Stay strong Selena ❤

Watching this interview and then one of her actual ones, i fee so proud and happy for her. She's been throug a lot but she is so strong, and honest, and kind, and amazing. She's a true inspiration.

I believe justin broke her badly, but also, I strongly believe that these heartaches Selena has been going through are from THOSE people ( Selena s fan and so justins and their friends in the industry) around them always put negativity to their relationship and always put the blame on justin I'm a both fan of these two amazing people not as jelena but individually

That’s kind of sad that she almost said the same thing about lose u to love me..
He’s still hurting her...

i have massive respect for her, because it can be really hard to share some really personal things with the whole world and some deep feelings. and i like that she wants to help girls that struggle with the same problem.

Y’all she looks so much better and healthier now in 2019 it’s crazy

Who’s here after her most recent interview with Ryan for the release of her newest songs “Loose You to Love Me” and “Look at Her Now”? 🥰