Transforming my nightmare cupboard into the cupboard of my dreams!

Remi, I hope you know how special you are. I’m a 56-year old wife and mom in the USA, and you inspire me, and I admire you so much.

You darlin might be one of those most beautiful humans i have ever come across. You were sent here to change the world. Those boys are so blessed to have you as their Mama.

Remi, how did you get to be so wise at such a young age. I don’t think you realize what a beacon of light you are to so many people, me included. At 65 you inspire me so much after the passing of my husband. Just remember, you are loved. ❤

The amazing thing that I don't know if you know... You actively clean, declutter, and beautify the environment around you and the ones you love but, you also do the exact same for us. You clean out the self doubts, the anxieties, the self dislike over our shortcomings related to what we had always been told are mental or physical faults. You declutter the stress, the mental or emotional exhaustion when we want to start doing better but we don't know where to really start. You beautify how we see ourselves and how we choose to go forward handling things around us and the environment our beloved families grow in 💙

"My anxiety has no power" - amazing words! Thank you for sharing Remi. Best wishes to you and your lovely family.

For someone so young. You are so wise. What a beautiful soul you have. Love from Australia.

Love, I purged for an entire week. I realized that my grandmother whom I grew up with in my younger years and how she had put on me her obsession with keeping things because she lived through the Great Depression. I decided it’s time to let things go. I started with apartment closets in bedrooms and deep cleaning them then moved onto the next room. I started on Sunday and dropped off the final donations on Saturday. I gave away 24 bags of everything from crafting supplies to clothes. I decided to make decisions and let go. Now I’m working on keeping a clean house one room a day so that I don’t feel exhausted by doing the entire apartment at once. Cleaning up little bits has been a blessing for me and you. You can do it. Everyday is a battle to clean and reclaim your space will help your mental energy to strengthen.

On your way to a million+ subscribers, Remi! And we're all here rooting for you. ❤
I swear, HGTV would be remissed not to offer you your own show!

I love the fact you're so realistic. Thank you x

Thank you for being genuine and realistic. It is so refreshing to see ‘normal’ house decluttering

I love how you clean your makeup brushes. Love the stories you share. You're right, most of us hold onto so many things we really never use or need. I keep telling family to please stop buying me Christmas gifts and birthday presents that I truly don't need. I'm almost 63 and don't need anything except the people around me that I love.

I like watching organizing videos, but I have never enjoyed listening to anyone as much as you. Your honesty and generosity are so impressive, you’re also very brave, you have reason to be proud of yourself.

Though I'm nearly old enough to be your granny, I am so inspired by your videos, your cleaning methods, and your positive attitude. There are so many similarities in our personalities, as well as in our personal struggles. Thank you for helping me to better understand myself.

The last thing I look for is a channel with an already perfect house with a pretend mess or clutter. I want the real life of people who are trying every day to make things better for themselves and for others. I enjoy decluttering and particularly, organizing. Cleaning, not as much, but it gets done eventually. This cupboard looks fantastic and very cute idea. Everyone needs their own space, big or small, just for a moment or two to collect ones thoughts or just enjoy a little peace. You are definitely on the right track, and I wish you continued success and look forward to your next video.

Thank you, Remi. There was so much in this video that I needed to hear, need to think about myself, and I didn't even realize it. You're an amazing young lady and it's a true blessing to have someone share some of the real life moments and anxieties. And I adore that little cupboard and how you made that space into something very special that can bring you a joy break. It's just lovely, as are you! Thanks again ❤

Your voiceover is so comforting, like therapy. It is all reals, things we all feel. And you speak so well. I just love it. And I love what you did with the closet! It looks amazing! Thank you, Remi, another wonderful video.

I think this is your best video ever! Your comments were so uplifting, you stuck to it and did a huge declutter, and you made a space for yourself that just cries out. "Remi"! Good for you! You inspire us.

You're an absolute beautiful soul and an absolute shining light in these times. Bless you lovely Lady xxx From a 61 year old woman in South Australia

Hi Remi. Love your channel. Personally I think you should be a motivational speaker. watching and listening to you is so enjoyable. Love from Canada 🇨🇦

We really need a thumbs up button that we can press multiple times, as we all get so much more from your story than one thumbs up can acknowledge.

Ahhhhhh!!! So excited for this video. Thanks for all the hard work Remi.

When I look for cleaning motivation, I turn to your channel because you're the most realistic cleaning motivation channel I've come across. So, thank you!

Why do fairy lights make everything look so much better? I totally loved the idea of making a board with pictures of what you are grateful for and choosing a different word to focus on each day. I think I’m going to make one myself so thank you for the idea! Finally, your list of things to be grateful for: your parents still being alive, running water, having food and so much more, made me tear up. It made me realize how many simple and yet absolutely essential things I have to be grateful for. Just to be alive on this spinning blue planet out in space is a gift so thank you, just for being you. YOU and these videos are an act of service for this world. Thank you.❤

WOW !!!! You are AMAZING. Thank you for this wonderful, wonderful video. You have such a wise head on your shoulders. I'll be 81 soon and you are teaching me things. Thank you for you, dear. Love, Dorothy.

I've been declittering for nearly 8 years. Every cupboard, drawer and wardrobe was packed full of stuff, it meant I couldn't put anything away! I'm finally feeling things are getting more sorted. Loving your videos xx ❤

I always watch all of your videos from beginning to end. Because you hold my interest and I love that you talk through them. You have some words of wisdom! Love that you made a little space just for you.

The bit at the end about living in gratitude and being present in the moment, really spoke to me. I’ve been really struggling with mental health a lot lately. Thank you so much for reminding me what’s important the cupboard looks amazing and you did a great job. I’m proud of you.

This video is breathtaking, not just for the remarkable transformation of this cupboard, but the wisdom and compassion behind it, and the very beautiful way you express your challenges, fears, hopes, and dreams. You are so gifted in so many ways, inspiring, and remarkable. You deserve all the good things, dear Remi.

"I am a gross old toad" had me dying. Remi you are a wonderful mum, amazing content creator and listening to you is super soothing, your words hit and I love that even with the most daunting of messes that we all have in our houses, you find a way to simplify and get through it, not rushing to get it all done in one day, normalising that things take time and you don't have to be spending all of your time in one area of your life to make things work. I don't know if you realise just how relatable you are, even for me as a clean freak, I still get overwhelmed by the upcoming tasks and I still have that one cupboard that is my hideaway of junk.

You speak my thoughts out loud I swear. Things I can't get straight in my head, you piece together like a puzzle and make it clear in my mind for me. So many feelings.

Your channel is the only one I'm subscribed to. Your empathy and self knowledge is so very inspiring. I don't know what your degree is in or your job, but I hope it is in some sort of social service because you need to share your gifts. Thanks from a 64 year old in the USA.

Omg take a bow 🙇‍♀️ that is a beautiful space that you have. I love the cards you made. I try to be grateful every day. Covid made me realise how lucky we are to live out in countryside, have our house, food, heating, car, work, when so many others are in small apartments or worse homeless in a hotel room. Thanks for the reminder of all we do have. Have a great week. Mary, Joes wife 🙇‍♀️👏💪👍🙏💐

What an ABSOLUTE TREAT that cupboard is now!! I cannot get enough of your transformations, encouragement, therapy sessions...your channel has changed how I look at my home AND my life! I want to send you my before and afters every time I clean a section of my mess and have you tell me how proud you are of me! 😂

When you’re talking about procrastination and anxiety, you are describing ME! Pushing through it, trying to get better bit by bit. ❤❤

I am 72 yrs of age, and since I was about 69, I started to leave messes wherever I go. Too much stuff, too much craft and art supplies, too much of keepsakes and mementos etc. I now live in a small apartment of only 800 sq. ft. and it is bulging at the seams! Your vids are so important to me and your understanding of yourself is awesome. I always learn and take away a word of wisdom from your vids. You are doing excellent, young lady, and I thank you so much for your inspiration. Luv to you and family, MO from Vancouver Island, BC Canada

The end of this video as you spoke about all the little and big things we tend to take for granted, but with some intention can remember to be grateful for.. so inspiring ✨️ what a wonderful way to start the day. Thank you!

Oh Remi. Your last words about gratitude are beautiful, really beautiful. You're an amazing human ❤️ x

Amazing use of space after a full declutter. When I was young girl we had a small cupboard in the kitchen mum never used , I remember she painted inside of it and set up a place where I would play with my Barbie dolls , furniture and lot . It brought back memories, I’ve done it now for my child she uses it for toy animals , Lego . Let the imagination run , your a great person it shows in your videos and your voice . Keep doing what your doing .

I love that cupboard. Every day I tell myself, today I choose to be happy.
Sometimes, it's not easy,but I'm getting there 😊

Remi, I can't believe someone else just verbalized what I feel all the time. That life is too good to be true, and it's only a matter of time before something bad happens. Thank you for making me feel like I'm not crazy and not alone.

Loved today's video. When you talked about gratitude, you brought me to tears. Thank you for your kind heart and attitude.

Hi Remi I am going through the same journey as you. I am trying to declutter and simplify my life. You are doing it in your 30's and I am in my 60's. You are inspiring me. You are a great mom and don't let anyone tell you different.

A great job Remi, it looks very nice. It is so rewarding to read-do a space regardless of the size, I love it!

I love how you make things that are so over whelming seem achievable . Thank you.

Remi, I hope you know how much joy you bring to viewers. You are such a lovely young woman. I get so excited when you post new content. You keep it real. ❤️ Cheers from California!

Remi, have you ever heard of a “WAR ROOM? It’s a space in your house dedicated to Gratitude, Reflection, Prayer etc…I converted a “junk” closet into a War Room to “Reflect, Pray, Dedicate and just Appreciate my life. Life is a series of small battles everyday, dedicating a space and moments of time helps not only to overcome obstacles but to experience joy. Love how you tackle your challenges!!❤️

Thank you so much for acknowledging that you can get anxious and feel bad when things are going well - I struggle with that too, when things are feeling 'too good to be true' and I often feel guilty because it feels like I'm not properly appreciating those good things in my life. Having someone else acknowledge that it's something that they struggle with is so validating - and I can't tell you how much your channel validates so many people who are on their own journeys. Thank you, thank you for sharing yourself with all of us - you are making the world a kinder place xxx

I could cry for you when you opened the cupboard. You have changed, I don't think you can continue to be messy now that you know how wonderful spaces like this can be.

“Make a plan and keep plotting on.” So true Remi. One step at a time and we get there🤩

Hi Remi, this was so comforting, right at this moment. I, like yourself suffer with anxiety, although mine is a social anxiety, to do with going out alone or mixing with others. I also tend to want to do all or nothing, I don’t seem to have a happy medium and always feel that I should do more. I also find it very difficult to part with things just in case I’ll need them one day and never get round to using them. This is due to having so little as a child and never being accepted by other children because of how I looked etc. I’m now nearly 70, and still have these problems, however just to say that you make me feel so much better and think differently. I tackle many more jobs that used to terrify me and I’m so happy that there is such an awareness in the younger generation about mindfulness and anxiety, hopefully one day it won’t ruin any other lives. Sorry to ramble on, just trying to say thankyou for making me feel more normal and strong. Take care and keep up the good work 🥰🥰🥰

I am so happy.... I've been checking back al most everyday looking for a new Remi... A Day without Remi is a day without sunshine. And imagine my great joy to find it was the Nightmare cabinet. Well done you.

I really enjoy your videos and eagerly await the next one! The cupboard looks amazing and I love your photo board and cards . The way you speak about your family, the way you feel, how you do things is lovely to hear and very relaxing. Brilliant content as always thank you xx

I’ve tackled a few very full closets in my time and the easiest way to start is to take everything out first! You do need to decide how you want to use the space, then decide what you need or want, get rid of what you don’t, then organize it! I was always amazed at how much stuff could be in there! You are doing great!

I hope that at least once in a while you're going to sit in that cozy little nook and have gratitude towards the person who created it for you (that is, you!)

First, I am so impressed by your cupboard transformation. Second, you are right about being grateful for food, water, roofs over our heads. Things we take for granted until we don't have them.

Thank you for being so real and genuine. You're so relatable. That closet turned out awesome by the way. I'm proud of you for tackling all of that. I love to listen to your videos and have them play in the background while I try and get my crazy, chaotic life in some semblance of order 😂

I love watching you do this kind of thing Remi. I have been decluttering since lockdown. I decided that I was not going to leave my kids the huge task of emptying a house of all my stuff after I'm gone. This is what happened to me. My parents were wonderful and definitely not haorders - but they did keep things for sentimental and 'just in case' reasons. It took me over a year to empty their home...mine should be much easier...

I adore your cupboard! I would climb in there with a book for a bit of "me time"!

Thanks to this video, I got up out of my chair, and did a whole load of washing up, that had been sitting there for weeks! My dishwasher broke about 3 weeks ago now, and I can not afford a new one. I have very dry skin, so have to wear cotton lined washing up gloves, as the washing up liquid makes my fingers crack and bleed - even the Ecover washing up liquid. Which is why I put everything into the dishwasher - but I can not do that any more now! I live on my own, with my rescue greyhound Madge, and do not have a good opinion of myself, but I do love it when the house is tidy, and the washing up is done! I just do not enjoy having to do it! You are special Remi, which is why you have 152k subscribers. I am a 66 year young woman, and you inspire me too, and I admire you so much. You are sooo loved on here. Please keep on doing what you do, as you rock young lady! Love and Blessings from Jilly & Madge, from a wet and very windy West Devon, England. xxx

Remi, what an amazing and encouraging video - you did a terrific job and I know how hard a job like that can be....I have procrastinated for years over similar clear outs. It looks amazing and I love your family photos, magical fairy lights and things you are thankful for. It's been a great story to listen to, thanks for encouraging us all to be mindful of life. ❤ x

This is so beautiful and awesome...I love it! You are such a grateful, good person! God bless you now and always!! ❤😊🎉🎉

Thank you! What a great way to end my day(grandma from Puerto), and learn a lesson from the young people in this world. You are a blessing to your children ❤❤❤.

You are absolutely gorgeous hun,could listen to you all day, what a great job on your cupboard, & all that clutter gone.👍💐💜

You are an old soul in a young person.
Your videos are calming and beautiful and wise.
Thank you x

You just don’t know how therapeutic I find this or how it made me to feel to hear someone voice what I’ve been going through for the last 7-10 yrs. I appreciate you, the short videos, and the longer ones.🙏🏾

OMG YOU DID SO WELL WITH THIS CUPBOARD!!!!
Congrats Remi! You rock

What a transformation! You should feel very proud of this project and it's helped all of us to see it develop. Thank you for sharing - be blessed and enjoy your lovely new space!!! ❤

Today, I was feeling some of the things you talked about in this video. I need to make an important phone call, and I'm struggling to get it done. I feel overwhelmed and crippling anxiety over it. I feel silly, but this has brought me to tears.
I was diagnosed with treatment resistant depression years ago. To the point I had to quit my job or get fired. This was devastating to me! I was on disability for 5 years, but I'm back in the workforce to the best of my ability. I'm proud of that. I struggle every single day to make there, get myself out the door, but I'm winning that fight every time I do.
So, yeah, I can relate to many, many things you talk about in these videos. So, thank you for the time and effort that you put into these videos. ❤ Hugs from Jen in Wisconsin,USA

You really are an inspiring person. I am so glad you have a channel where like people can see there IS a light at the end of the tunnel. Keep up with your wonderful messages of hope

Fabulous job, Remi! Remi, your consciousness, self-awareness, and emotional and intellectual intelligence at your age is astounding. I really admire you! 🌞🇨🇦

I really, really am so glad I watched this video, not only do I love a great before & after, but your words, your thoughts …they just are so inspiring, so balanced, and it was just what I needed at the time, so thank you so much, I love your channel, keep up the good work you’re doing

You are wise beyond your years. I love to listen to you. At 57 I’m learning right along with you 😊. I love your gift to yourself.

I’m a 26 year old mum to three young children who feels like I am going crazy everyday. Thank you for being real and making me feel more in place. I look forward to your videos every week ❤

Amazing transformation! I love the fairy lights and the books and the special little place for Onions ashes. Your gratitude for all we have echoes my own sentiments exactly. Bless you Remi. You are an inspiration , a lovely woman and wonderful mum ❤🇨🇦

Remi, you are an inspiration. You motivate me! Thank you!

Remi, you are so genuine and such a lovely person to watch. I love how honest and real you are. Your words are helping so many people go through times which can be difficult to manage. Your words bring hope and light into our lives and I just want you to know what a lovely, relatable person you are. Thank you for making these videos and for brightening up our lives. ❤x

You are a wise , intelligent, intuitive, and very loving human being ! Thank you for being " you " , and always thanking God for such special people as yourself on this planet ..😊

Wow! Look at what you accomplished! & created!
Love how that little space is yours. Adorable. I love the fairy lights. Have a great week! You’re doing amazing work, the changes you’re making in your home and life will carry on through friends, family. Thank you for doing all of the things & showing us. 💖

Bravo girl , beautiful. Love your natural, honest, realistic approach and most of all the inspiration you share with us

So brave to open that door !!! I would have closed it again and I do ! Amazing clean Grace and Gratitude 🙏🙏💐 are needed world wide . Thank you for you 🫶

That's an incredible transformation. I want a cupboard just like that!
It's been amazing getting to know you, Remi. I found your channel a year ago, when I was off work to care for my 15yr old daughter. She has autism, executive dysfunction, chronic pain and developed debilitating FND in 2023. You have taught me a lot about how she functions and given me hope for her future. Thank you.

My go to affirmations: "We're all just walking each other home". "Let whatever you do today be enough". "Things are not falling apart, just falling into place." I am 67. For the last decade I have known that our young people are coming to change our planet for the greatest good. Awesome job Remi!

I absolutely loved this video. I wish I had a friend like you. You are so encouraging that you have encouraged me to do work that I've put off. Thank you for being you. You are a blessing.

Remi this has got to be one of your best videos ❤ so full of love and heart. Thank you for your lovely words and always reminding me what truly matters ❤

❤ When you said that you like to stay inside in your PJs all the time and I couldn't agree more! I have been working from home for four years now, and I rarely leave the house. Every once in awhile, my husband will shake his keys at me and ask if I want to go for a ride in the truck like I'm a Labrador. 😂

You are a beautiful human being. Keep shining your light. Loving your authenticity and vulnerability.

Awe, Remi, you are an amazing woman, mom, and partner. What a great idea about the cards, I've been going through depression for the past year, and my life was turned upside down. Now I'm getting up and doing things around the house. I want to make a box for myself because I'm resting my granddaughter, and she deserves a healthy Nana. Thank you for your videos. Your little chat helped me so much. The cupboard looks awesome. It's amazing what you can find 😊. I was waiting for this video, I was always checking to see if you have posted it, and I come home today and there it was, so happy you got ur lil happy place it looks AMAZING 👏😍 ❤. THANKS Again for ur videos. Can't wait for ur next one. ❤😊 from Manitoba Canada 🇨🇦

I have found your make a list and break things down idea really helpful. I am very all or nothing too I can wake up full of ideas and what I want to do and end up doing nothing. Then I can have days where i wake up with no enthusiasm and end up doing loads. Thank you for allowing us to feel okay when we're overwhelmed and unmotivated, that's it okay to have mess, disorganisation and chaos and showing that it can be easily dealt with step by step. The only race we're in is with ourselves and we have to understand our ideas of perfection is an individual opinion. Keep doing your amazing videos and love to all of you xxx

Remi, YOU are amazing! The “She Space “ is beautiful. Loved the video too. It doesn’t matter how long it takes to put a video together….. don’t stop putting them up!! 😉

I don’t know how I found you, but so grateful that I did! You are a shining star! I enjoy your chats and cleans! Thank you for being you!❤

You and I are in the same "season"... Although I'm a 45 single mom to a 20 yr old daughter and a 12 year old son. Everything from the smells to romanticism in our daily lives. I wasnt always depressed and anxious and overwhelmed. I was a house cleaner. I love cleaning. But in the paat 4 years I've lost 4 very important people to me. Not to mention a son and a sister when I was 18. These days I deal with it all and listening to you and watching you has been so enjoyable. It's like I'm listening to a friend. Someone I can relate to on almost every level. Thank you so much!

I love your cupboard. I was reminded of Narnia and entering the wardrobe to a magical place. 🙂

It looks stunning😍 Loved your thoughts at the end of the voiceover about gratitude! Brilliant video as always🫶🏻

As a yarn addict, I spent way too much time admiring your knitted blanket at the end of the bed. :)

I have a really hard time stopping in the middle of a project, if I can't get it all done in the amount of time "I" think it's supposed to take, so a lot of things don't get done. I wish I was less like that. I relate to you in so many ways. You're awesome!!! Thank you for sharing with us. I love the declutter and remake of the cupboards, it's adorable!!

Damn, I think Remi is healing a person like myself dealing w depression and anxiety and trauma.. I love her accent and what she talks about, it's hitting really hard and.. Just thank you Remi! 😊

Oh Remi! It’s exquisite!💕💕💕 I feel so privileged to be a small part in watching you grow as a wonderful and caring human being….I realize you open your self up to haters, but also to beautiful people…. I have learned sooo much about myself listening to you. The world would be a much better place with an army of Remi’s in it! Keep up the Great work…We are All cheering you on!💕🇨🇦

Brava. All that I saw is that you conquered that space your way. You help people with your videos. I continue to enjoy your content.

Omg, the end before and after shots are just so, so satisfying.

The health anxiety lives with me too❤. Big hug. When we have loved so deeply and lost, it becomes a huge burden. Don't beat yourself up about it. We are all a sum part of our experiences. It helps me to know that other mothers out there are in the same boat and we are all just doing our best. Thank you for sharing your heart with us all. I love your new space, and I hope that you get to use it often!!