Most podcasts are not reliable especially those “alpha male” podcasts of men saying women are seeking attention with their period pain. My period pain can range from “ok this isn’t that bad” to “ OH MY GOD HELP ME I AM DYING”.
Whoever calls themself a alpha male, do not trust a word that comes out of their mouth unless it’s something objectively true but I would take anyone calling them selves a alpha male as a red flag, right there
I don’t get periods (I wasn’t born female) but a lot of my friends have them, and apparently they’re hell. He nor those podcasts have any right to talk about them as if they know what they’re like
Issue with judging period pain is that it's super subjective and severe cramps are a literal medical condition . I've known people who either barely felt anything to those who get partially crippled
Someone I know used to get cramps so bad she’d throw up out of pain. She wouldn’t be able to walk without sobbing and she says it was often where she ended up curling into a ball on the floor because of the severity of the cramps she had.
Ive heard this story before and theres a few small things changed from when i heard it a while ago, nothing too inparticular but it just show how easy these can be made up and faked
if this is real, as a conservative woman i dont agree with that boy. She had every right to call him out on his bs and honestly if he was really being disrespectful towards her and just SAYING they are together to everyone without her knowing thats NEVER okay. Whatever podcasts hes listening to its definitely not from real men saying what they need to especially to help young boys become men. I'm glad she wont have to deal with him anymore becuz i probably would've handled it differently especially if he tried kissing me or something.
She clearly the crazy one if she didn’t know they have been dating for a year but everyone else did. How is it they all just randomly started bringing it up to her the same day
Not only does this sound fake, but it sounds like what a leftist person who has only heard of what conservative people want from other leftist. Absolutely none of the conservative podcasts promote being a pussy and pretending to being in a relationship with a girl. 💯 of them say being a man is taking control of your life. Stepping up and taking accountability for your life and actions. Understanding female nature and more importantly, understanding your self worth and not settling for less. None of that that boy did. This entire story just sounds like a creative writing story from a leftist cultists who hates conservative people and just wants to consider them as subhuman devils.
The podcasts aren't the reason but rather these guys being stupid . Sure , bad behaviours can be channeled by podcasts and "a males" , but personally I think that the kind of people who fall for the skims are having other things wrong with theme and this is the icing on the cake
He didn’t deserve you Woman ARE NOT TOYS OR OBJECTS the fact that he said he deserves it? And he didn’t even tell you straight up he wanted to date is disgusting no woman should feel that way and there’s no real reason to feel bad for him tbh
Good masculinity and toxic masculinity both exist, but this guy let himself be Influenced by the worst type of masculinity ever: Men in Podcast talking about masculinity
Toxic masculinity is a lack of masulinity, masculine men don't act like him, they don't let their emotions control them so they become a childish, emotional, whining, complaining mess like this child in a man's body. Toxic masculinity doesn't exist, but self loathing, pityful, emotionally unstable, violent men do.
I thought this would be a sweet story... Now it's just plain stupid of him... I mean thats a whole *ss adult and "that" happened to him😒 What weak will and character he has to be influenced by something so stupid🥴
because the OP lost one of her best friends in such a terrible way?? she also got lied to for a YEAR and the guy said terrible things about her?? fym why?@@Alissak872
Sheikh Tate is our newest Islamic prophet so better not insult him InshaAllah. Also the guy in this story did the right thing. This girl should be a 4th wife to some local sheikh because she is ungrateful. Typical woman ☕️
Those people are idiots who are probably still in middle school and only make up 1% of his fans but normal people understand his ideas and many celebrities like the Tate brothers
I rly hope this story is fake but if not I feel real sorry for her. I also went through this in a way when basically all my old friends ghosted me bcuz I came out. One of them in particular I found out later he was a Tate fanboy... And now looking back it makes sense. From just the way he carried himself and how he talked about his only gf and the queer community. Before I came out, he was literally like a brother. Now he can't even stand being near me.
Join the club. 8 of my “friends” were asses and now bully, others I’m insecure with and trust no one. Heck I don’t even have a job, legally! Shame that the worlds come to this.
I'm sorry it happened. Unfortunately, stories like that are true. I got a similar story from a third-person perspective. I had a male friend I'd known for over 7-8 years. He used to be a quiet and rather nice guy. When we grew up and studied at universities, he got really frustrated with dating and his failures in romance. As a chronically online person, he adopted some pretty fucked-up manosphere ideas that at that time, helped him in coping and making sense of his failed attempts. There was a girl he knew from his uni, and they were good friends. They played games online together almost daily for some time, and they often spent hours just chatting via Discord. While rarely meeting IRL, their bond was quite cool - they were honest with each other, shared a sense of humour, had similar hobbies, and had a good time. And then, he started acting as if they were dating, without even asking her. She went along with that, thinking it was just a running joke, as he usually did. Yet, it wasn't, and things escalated pretty quick. He started being extremely controlling and possessive, shaming her for talking to other men, not calling him while he was online... Eventually, he dropped a bomb in the shape of his incel views and what he thinks women should be, and rightfully so, she blocked him everywhere. I think I failed him as a friend too: I should have called him out on his bs more often and tried discussing it seriously. Instead, I considered he was ironic and it was just some of his dumb imageboard memes (I did like them, despite casual racism and sexism). We're no longer friends and I cannot change anything, but please, try to learn from this story: it doesn't have to end this way, if there are people who can challenge such bs views and provide a better alternative, out of care and not out of blame.
Imagine how sad/pathetic and alone/desperate he had to feel, just start taking advice from videos online of ideals he didn't agree with before. That he couldn't work up the courage/ confidence/self-esteem to even talk to you, that he blinded him self and became delusional.
Tbh I believe in letting relationships form naturally. For me, it's because if i don't I feel obligated to change who I am, but that's not what love is. Love is getting to be with your best friend for the rest of your life. Of course, at some point the conversation should be had and the question of "are we dating? Are we in a relationship?" Should be had, but by that point it should be easy to not change who you are solely for the sake of "I'm in a relationship now".😊
@@southerncoastproductions7587 Shut up. Sorry to the original poster of the comment, “csxking”. This “southerncoastproductions” guy is just an asinine hater. Just check the “other comments on this channel” section for him. To the OP poster, I hope you have a good day. Don't listen to haters like this guy, he’s just projecting his insecurities.☺️
This story has so many problems all over the place that i wouldn't know where too begin. I guess since you have at least analyzed and learned from this experience, your leagues ahead of whatever maturity lvl this man was supposed to have. Moving away and getting a fresh start does indeed sound like a blessing now.
did he literally just saying that women don’t understand the kind of pain that men do? OK sir, you try giving birth. You try making a child with your body for nine months and having all the contraction pains and then afterwards having the period and all that you do that and let me know that we don’t understand pain.
Bruh i had a girl bestfriend we talked a lot i liked her vibe but like i started getting attracted towards her but then i bottled up my feelings and started distancing myself as i thought i had no shot but she'd still talk to me ping me and stuff one day i balled up and asked her out and now we are dating Like why tf don't people just be normal ☠️
My mother is conservative and I would consider myself one too. I have questionable and controversial opinions aswell on some things. But objectifying woman I do not stand for. It is sad that from one podcast your controversial opinion can turn into an extreme. We live in a broken world where everyone is at each other's throats. Many woman saying all men need to die well many men objectify woman as nothing but sex tools. I believe in different roles for men and woman, but I do believe we are equal in value, just with different God giving roles when married. Again, this world is broken and we are all sinners. Men and women going at each other's necks, blacks and whites at each other's necks, accusations and such. It's pathetic.
@@southerncoastproductions7587 Stop projecting your insecurities on others. It doesn't come across as smart. If you act that way to employers in the future, you won't have any.
Ngl personally I’d be arguing with this man’s every talking point 😭 I’d argue that these men aren’t role models and that he was wrong and if he changes his opinions then we’d stay friends
thats why boy best friends are a red flag for me. they always end up dating, or he f*cks up her mental state and leaves me with a broken girl or messes up my chance to get w her
@@Lustfullynova They all tripping and inventing stuff and the stuff that s real isn t actually like the story. I mean the guy contradicts himself. He says he wants to be super alpha and sh t, (which isn’t a bad thing in reality, but people don’t actually know what it means and use it everywhere for men who are sh t personally ) and in the next sentence the guy says that he didn t have the confidence to ask her out, which doesn t make any sense because one of the ,,alpha“ traits is confidence. The story above is invented and I think most down here are too
@@majobenitez i ain t even a man dawg lol 💀💀😭😭 ( it s not that deep bro and on top of that, the guy wasn t creepy at all, he was just influenced by the wrong people, if this was real )
I had a similar experience with my best friend of years as well except for the part where he thought we were dating but we had been best friends for so long and then he asked me out so we started to date it was a bit weird for me bc it was the first time i ever dated I was 16 at the time and i had been sexually harassed before and he knew it time passed and i got cheated on when I found out why i saw how my once best friend who respected women turn into one who thought he could own them I went no contact after that his ass is blocked now
Plot twist(made up): what if they actually were dating the whole time but she had some sort of brain injury to make her forget everything about their relationship and she only remembers when she was just friends with him Nvm just saw the update
I call bs karma farm. Makes no sense that the people around them not _once_ made a remake like "tell your boyfriend we are gonna be late" or stuff like that.
Yeah i don’t think it’s real either… like not once, for an entire year, people went “how’s your boyfriend?” “How’s it going with your bf?” or smth, like… Also, how convenient she is moving to another town, so no one can ask her for updates 💀 cause she won’t see him anymore…
I know how it feels when a boy dose this to you saying that you are dating bc it happened to me too but I never moved and he was never gonna do physical contact to me and my body (except for a field trip he kept banging my head with a “ quick pop poppet game” 😡 but that doesn’t really matter) and the reason why he did, it was because he was influenced by other boys AND GIRLS AND THEN I FELT BACKSTABBED BECAUSE ONE OF MY OWN FRIENDS(my bestie) told the gossip queen about what happened, and then at his after school sports they would pick on him BUT ITS ALL OK NOW bc WE BOTH KNOW WE R JUST FRIENDS
Damn, I'm really sorry that happened. I'd be happy to be your friend, even if I did fall for someone, I've been through enough Psychological trauma and therapy to stop it.
The main thing I've noticed is the psychiatrist calling it. How did they know? After all that guy's views are extremely radical. Though I don't think that was so obvious initially. Weird how the vibe changed between the story and its update.
Well that really sucks how if he could have just asked and went to you about it first the whole situation could have changed. "Life's a bitch, shit happens, gotta get over it." is what i would have told my self but I'm me and your you so just keep doing what your doing. 👍
when my brother was in 8th grade, he accidentally got a girlfriend. he had never thought of the girl like that, but one day he got a text from her saying something about a date. I don’t remember a lot of it as I was pretty young. In his senior year of high school, he ended up dating her. she cheated on him in his freshman year of college.
I think you should hear his side of the story it's just that I have experience with such Guys so if I don't know then only a psychiatrist would Ps: sorry for you😢
Fun that he said it's annoying when you act stupid. But if you show that you did know it, he be saying you're just trying to show off you're trying to do a man's job.
See this is what happens when you listen to "aLpHa pOdCaStS", now, I'm not saying someone will look at 1 alpha podcast and think, "Okay, it's okay to think that men are better than women", but I'm saying it comes from watching too many podcasts, watching too much TV, watching too much tiktok, you name it. Social media is way more damaging than you may think, your opinions, your political beliefs, your lifestyle, your tone, your attitude, all of these things can change from too much social media, and what's funny is I didn't even name half of what social media can and has caused to change about people, pretty much most things about you can change due to social media, of course with exceptions. What I'm trying to say is, don't use a significant amount of your days on social media, I'm not saying that you can't get on social media again, I'm saying try to limit the time you spend with it. Thank you if you read all of that and even if you didn't, I hope you have a nice day.
What i think is the way to deal with this is to let him go and not think about him but the good times you spent together and be happy about rhe times but forget him
Not necessarily but u gotta have some situational awareness. If u’re at a bar or club and u’re chatting then fine, but if u’re in a McDonalds at 3 am and she’s alone, probs not the best idea.
There's two different versions of this story this one and a second one where it turns out the girl actually has dementia and forgot about ever dating him
People thin like that.....? Bro your ex friend is a preditor based on the ONE oppineion stated at the end.... No one in their right minds thinks like that......
Was somewhat realiatic until I realized they were alleged friends for 5 years. If you're red or black pilled, it's very noticable, it's very unlikely that you wont notice your supposed best friend going down that road and it's not something that happens overnight. This is just a karma farm or rage bait, either way, do better....
Simple truth: they are dating. She just didn't realize that it just like what very often many women think. Also, this doesn't at all sound like the whole story. There is so many disturbed "male podcasts" that are pure misogynistic crap.
When will people stop listening to podcasts like they are the moral authority? The majority of what I have listened to aren't worth the time or emotional effort. (I listen to nature/science and motivational based podcasts now because I tried several and called it quits.)
I'm a man and I don't know squat about vehicles. Couldn't even tell you what brand a vehicle is by looking at it. Let alone how to fix anything. So yeah, a woman "acting dumb" about cars is ridiculous. Plus everything else this guy thinks about women. The whole "other people said this on the internet. So I believe them" thing.......
This kinda happened to me there was this girl that I liked a little bit but the way that we acted together people thought we were dating but the thing was she Alr had a BF but she still acted like I was he bf or someone and at one point I didn’t reall like her anymore and she still seemed to fallow me around I still acted the same way but then the BF saw it and the BF was one of my good friends but then after that everyone though we were dating and the BF didn’t believe me and is still a little mad at me this all happened a year ago
Most podcasts are not reliable especially those “alpha male” podcasts of men saying women are seeking attention with their period pain. My period pain can range from “ok this isn’t that bad” to “ OH MY GOD HELP ME I AM DYING”.
Whoever calls themself a alpha male, do not trust a word that comes out of their mouth unless it’s something objectively true but I would take anyone calling them selves a alpha male as a red flag, right there
Yeah it sucks
I don’t get periods (I wasn’t born female) but a lot of my friends have them, and apparently they’re hell. He nor those podcasts have any right to talk about them as if they know what they’re like
Issue with judging period pain is that it's super subjective and severe cramps are a literal medical condition . I've known people who either barely felt anything to those who get partially crippled
Someone I know used to get cramps so bad she’d throw up out of pain. She wouldn’t be able to walk without sobbing and she says it was often where she ended up curling into a ball on the floor because of the severity of the cramps she had.
Ive heard this story before and theres a few small things changed from when i heard it a while ago, nothing too inparticular but it just show how easy these can be made up and faked
A lot of reddit story's are fake.
Its still entertaining somehow tho lol 😅
We all know they're fake but they're still fun to watch
nope you haven't and this happens pretty much everyday
guys are delulu
@@majobenitezYEP!!!
"You know theres these podcasts"
🙎♂️🔫🙋♀️🖕💀
Fr like stop right there your done
yup
Womp womp 🙆♀️🔫🤷♂️
@@PrimcessShanissa Yes, like DUDE SHUT UP WE DONT WANNA HEAR ABOUT YOUR STUPID OPINIONS ON SHITTY PODCASTS
Sounds like a person that doesn’t deserve to be with you
Yes definitely
sounds like a sioco l
edit: English is not my first language so i can't spell
@@drawsappsycho?
@@luvu2462 yeah
Sounds more like a piece of fiction.
well... that... escalated.
Real like I tho it was gonna be a nice cool story like the other like funny and stuff but gosh damn j LOWKEY wnated to cry for her
this went from "dude wait no thats so cute" to "WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK"
yep.i tohught it was gonna be a good ending with them getting married banging everyday until they get children
right??
Real😭thought this was gonna be cute😭😭
How tf would him being her boyfriend without asking be cute
Nah this whole thing was awkward. The beginning was also a huge red flag
if this is real, as a conservative woman i dont agree with that boy. She had every right to call him out on his bs and honestly if he was really being disrespectful towards her and just SAYING they are together to everyone without her knowing thats NEVER okay. Whatever podcasts hes listening to its definitely not from real men saying what they need to especially to help young boys become men. I'm glad she wont have to deal with him anymore becuz i probably would've handled it differently especially if he tried kissing me or something.
Ya
As a guy, I agree with this statement
She clearly the crazy one if she didn’t know they have been dating for a year but everyone else did. How is it they all just randomly started bringing it up to her the same day
@@RiverRat6996 😂😂 great joke my guy
@@RiverRat6996The friends never brought it, she had to talk to all of them about it. Pay attention abit more.
OH NO NOT THE PODCASTS 😭😭😭
This story sound fake but if its real that sucks that happened
it sounds too real to me considering how bad periods can be, and how I know some people can view others.
Ya
@@annieli8893I agree
Not only does this sound fake, but it sounds like what a leftist person who has only heard of what conservative people want from other leftist.
Absolutely none of the conservative podcasts promote being a pussy and pretending to being in a relationship with a girl. 💯 of them say being a man is taking control of your life. Stepping up and taking accountability for your life and actions. Understanding female nature and more importantly, understanding your self worth and not settling for less.
None of that that boy did.
This entire story just sounds like a creative writing story from a leftist cultists who hates conservative people and just wants to consider them as subhuman devils.
@@annieli8893 you missed the point of my comment… im taling about the guys actions not if period pain was real
Was this guy's name Andrew Tate?
Lol yeah
Yes lmao
The podcasts aren't the reason but rather these guys being stupid . Sure , bad behaviours can be channeled by podcasts and "a males" , but personally I think that the kind of people who fall for the skims are having other things wrong with theme and this is the icing on the cake
Lol
Andrew loves women
He didn’t deserve you Woman ARE NOT TOYS OR OBJECTS the fact that he said he deserves it? And he didn’t even tell you straight up he wanted to date is disgusting no woman should feel that way and there’s no real reason to feel bad for him tbh
It’s fake lil bro chill out ☠️
@@NotHereFr8615 keep some things to yourself honey
“honey” 💀@@Gwenlover8815
@@NotHereFr8615 Yeah, maybe… But there are still men out there who act like this.
@@fairynikisYeah no shit, it's only gonna grow
Good masculinity and toxic masculinity both exist, but this guy let himself be Influenced by the worst type of masculinity ever: Men in Podcast talking about masculinity
Toxic masculinity is a lack of masulinity, masculine men don't act like him, they don't let their emotions control them so they become a childish, emotional, whining, complaining mess like this child in a man's body. Toxic masculinity doesn't exist, but self loathing, pityful, emotionally unstable, violent men do.
I thought this would be a sweet story... Now it's just plain stupid of him... I mean thats a whole *ss adult and "that" happened to him😒 What weak will and character he has to be influenced by something so stupid🥴
hypocrite.
@@southerncoastproductions7587what?
Kinda feel sorry for OP
Same
Kinda?
Kinda?????????
why?!?!?
because the OP lost one of her best friends in such a terrible way?? she also got lied to for a YEAR and the guy said terrible things about her?? fym why?@@Alissak872
bro became andrew tate 💀
He did not become Andrew Tate Andrew Tate is nothing like that
@@IDk1111-tb2on right, few people can be as terrible as Andrew tate
@@IDk1111-tb2on i know it was just a joke
Sheikh Tate is our newest Islamic prophet so better not insult him InshaAllah. Also the guy in this story did the right thing. This girl should be a 4th wife to some local sheikh because she is ungrateful. Typical woman ☕️
😂❤
it was Andrew Tate that turned him into this
Andrew Tate has never said anything that she mentioned stop hating
@@H.S178yet it’s his fans always spout these or these kind of things
Those people are idiots who are probably still in middle school and only make up 1% of his fans but normal people understand his ideas and many celebrities like the Tate brothers
@@REDACTED9615 I don't. Nor do any of my friends or any of my 5000 person meetup group.
He never did but yeah you heard someone say it so ig he does😐
I rly hope this story is fake but if not I feel real sorry for her. I also went through this in a way when basically all my old friends ghosted me bcuz I came out. One of them in particular I found out later he was a Tate fanboy... And now looking back it makes sense. From just the way he carried himself and how he talked about his only gf and the queer community. Before I came out, he was literally like a brother. Now he can't even stand being near me.
Stuff like this really pushes me towards the female side of my bisexuality
Join the club. 8 of my “friends” were asses and now bully, others I’m insecure with and trust no one. Heck I don’t even have a job, legally! Shame that the worlds come to this.
I'm sorry it happened. Unfortunately, stories like that are true. I got a similar story from a third-person perspective. I had a male friend I'd known for over 7-8 years. He used to be a quiet and rather nice guy. When we grew up and studied at universities, he got really frustrated with dating and his failures in romance. As a chronically online person, he adopted some pretty fucked-up manosphere ideas that at that time, helped him in coping and making sense of his failed attempts. There was a girl he knew from his uni, and they were good friends. They played games online together almost daily for some time, and they often spent hours just chatting via Discord. While rarely meeting IRL, their bond was quite cool - they were honest with each other, shared a sense of humour, had similar hobbies, and had a good time. And then, he started acting as if they were dating, without even asking her. She went along with that, thinking it was just a running joke, as he usually did. Yet, it wasn't, and things escalated pretty quick. He started being extremely controlling and possessive, shaming her for talking to other men, not calling him while he was online... Eventually, he dropped a bomb in the shape of his incel views and what he thinks women should be, and rightfully so, she blocked him everywhere.
I think I failed him as a friend too: I should have called him out on his bs more often and tried discussing it seriously. Instead, I considered he was ironic and it was just some of his dumb imageboard memes (I did like them, despite casual racism and sexism). We're no longer friends and I cannot change anything, but please, try to learn from this story: it doesn't have to end this way, if there are people who can challenge such bs views and provide a better alternative, out of care and not out of blame.
Imagine how sad/pathetic and alone/desperate he had to feel, just start taking advice from videos online of ideals he didn't agree with before. That he couldn't work up the courage/ confidence/self-esteem to even talk to you, that he blinded him self and became delusional.
As a guy im very troubled and disgusted in this guy 💀💀
Tbh I believe in letting relationships form naturally. For me, it's because if i don't I feel obligated to change who I am, but that's not what love is. Love is getting to be with your best friend for the rest of your life. Of course, at some point the conversation should be had and the question of "are we dating? Are we in a relationship?" Should be had, but by that point it should be easy to not change who you are solely for the sake of "I'm in a relationship now".😊
nobody even wants u.
@@southerncoastproductions7587 Shut up.
Sorry to the original poster of the comment, “csxking”. This “southerncoastproductions” guy is just an asinine hater. Just check the “other comments on this channel” section for him. To the OP poster, I hope you have a good day. Don't listen to haters like this guy, he’s just projecting his insecurities.☺️
form naturally, yes, but he never asked her if she was comfortable and whether she felt the same way..
This isn’t a relationship forming naturally tho 💀
This story has so many problems all over the place that i wouldn't know where too begin. I guess since you have at least analyzed and learned from this experience, your leagues ahead of whatever maturity lvl this man was supposed to have. Moving away and getting a fresh start does indeed sound like a blessing now.
did he literally just saying that women don’t understand the kind of pain that men do? OK sir, you try giving birth. You try making a child with your body for nine months and having all the contraction pains and then afterwards having the period and all that you do that and let me know that we don’t understand pain.
Nah homies tryna gaslight you into a relationship
Bruh i had a girl bestfriend we talked a lot i liked her vibe but like i started getting attracted towards her but then i bottled up my feelings and started distancing myself as i thought i had no shot but she'd still talk to me ping me and stuff one day i balled up and asked her out and now we are dating
Like why tf don't people just be normal ☠️
I did NOT expect bro to pull out the podcasts 😭😭💀💀
The bald man has got him too
Bro was probably listening to Andrew Tate
Nah fr I mean tf are those ideas the hell 😭💀
the silence in my house after the video ended was too loud
Okay so he practically SA’D her and lie to everyone they knew, and then he gaslighted her and insulted her to his face?? Wtf??
My mother is conservative and I would consider myself one too. I have questionable and controversial opinions aswell on some things. But objectifying woman I do not stand for. It is sad that from one podcast your controversial opinion can turn into an extreme. We live in a broken world where everyone is at each other's throats. Many woman saying all men need to die well many men objectify woman as nothing but sex tools. I believe in different roles for men and woman, but I do believe we are equal in value, just with different God giving roles when married. Again, this world is broken and we are all sinners. Men and women going at each other's necks, blacks and whites at each other's necks, accusations and such. It's pathetic.
Thank you for being respectful. It's okay to have controversial opinions, as long as you go about it with respect and equality. I appreciate it.
fatherless.
@@kittendoesstuff492 fatherless.
U know the story is fake right ?
@@southerncoastproductions7587 Stop projecting your insecurities on others. It doesn't come across as smart. If you act that way to employers in the future, you won't have any.
Ngl personally I’d be arguing with this man’s every talking point 😭 I’d argue that these men aren’t role models and that he was wrong and if he changes his opinions then we’d stay friends
My ex boy best friend told everyone about my sa when i broke up with him 😍
I'm sorry that's fucked up...
What does “sa” mean?
@@lapislazoolii8332sexual abuse
it stands for s**xual assult@@lapislazoolii8332
@@lapislazoolii8332s*xual assault (censored so yt hopefully doesn't delete this)
"There's this podcast..."
Me: "Oh heck no."
The fact that this happened to one of my friends too. Luckily it ended after 4 months
thats why boy best friends are a red flag for me. they always end up dating, or he f*cks up her mental state and leaves me with a broken girl or messes up my chance to get w her
I guess I'm a red flag.
@@toonier8655Find a better female
💀💀 i don’t like the energy of this comment
@@maesaliva Which comment?
@@randomhandle_ the one by jdm363
I am genuinely impressed how people can come up with these stories
…
I wanna say the same but reading the comments on here really goes to show how something like this can actually happen 😭
@@Lustfullynova They all tripping and inventing stuff and the stuff that s real isn t actually like the story. I mean the guy contradicts himself. He says he wants to be super alpha and sh t, (which isn’t a bad thing in reality, but people don’t actually know what it means and use it everywhere for men who are sh t personally ) and in the next sentence the guy says that he didn t have the confidence to ask her out, which doesn t make any sense because one of the ,,alpha“ traits is confidence. The story above is invented and I think most down here are too
you cant stand the idea that there are creppy and weird men like this because you are one
@@majobenitez i ain t even a man dawg lol 💀💀😭😭 ( it s not that deep bro and on top of that, the guy wasn t creepy at all, he was just influenced by the wrong people, if this was real )
I had a similar experience with my best friend of years as well except for the part where he thought we were dating but we had been best friends for so long and then he asked me out so we started to date it was a bit weird for me bc it was the first time i ever dated I was 16 at the time and i had been sexually harassed before and he knew it time passed and i got cheated on when I found out why i saw how my once best friend who respected women turn into one who thought he could own them I went no contact after that his ass is blocked now
Plot twist(made up): what if they actually were dating the whole time but she had some sort of brain injury to make her forget everything about their relationship and she only remembers when she was just friends with him
Nvm just saw the update
I call bs karma farm. Makes no sense that the people around them not _once_ made a remake like "tell your boyfriend we are gonna be late" or stuff like that.
R/NothingEverHappens
also why does his coach have her phone number
Yeah i don’t think it’s real either… like not once, for an entire year, people went “how’s your boyfriend?” “How’s it going with your bf?” or smth, like…
Also, how convenient she is moving to another town, so no one can ask her for updates 💀 cause she won’t see him anymore…
To be fair, bullies do say you are dating someone you are close with to embarrass you
@@ekinie3854 He could have put her number down as an emergency contact. That is the only logical reason I could really think of lol
I know how it feels when a boy dose this to you saying that you are dating bc it happened to me too but I never moved and he was never gonna do physical contact to me and my body (except for a field trip he kept banging my head with a “ quick pop poppet game” 😡 but that doesn’t really matter) and the reason why he did, it was because he was influenced by other boys AND GIRLS AND THEN I FELT BACKSTABBED BECAUSE ONE OF MY OWN FRIENDS(my bestie) told the gossip queen about what happened, and then at his after school sports they would pick on him BUT ITS ALL OK NOW bc WE BOTH KNOW WE R JUST FRIENDS
It’s scary what that “red pill sigma escaping the matrix” bullshit can do to a man 😔
And there's gonna be more type of these guys out there in the near future 😂
Checked the original post, OP was being super sexist. "Never trust a guy, he will betray you eventually" is something she said
Bro is speaking Andrew tate 😂
Damn, I'm really sorry that happened. I'd be happy to be your friend, even if I did fall for someone, I've been through enough Psychological trauma and therapy to stop it.
Bro thought he's him💀
He do not know the problem we have as a human ❤
bro found out how to get out of the friend zone
I low key would’ve been like: “And what makes you a man when you act like this?”
this is actually funny😭😭
These podcasts be Joe Rohan type shit
this is so sad
btw it made me cry
When it said he was korean I was like 'he probably hates women' and boy I was right
If these story were real she'll need a lot of luck when she said his mom was a Korean and afaik South Korean are pretty prolific at stalking
The main thing I've noticed is the psychiatrist calling it. How did they know? After all that guy's views are extremely radical. Though I don't think that was so obvious initially. Weird how the vibe changed between the story and its update.
Not the alpha male podcast💀💀💀
I’m being so serious when I say this when she said I don’t even want to know how he feels about our mutual gay friend I said what the f**k
I'm stupid can you explain
"There's these podcasts..." THEEEERRE IT IS
when i first heard this story, the girl just had dementia and forgot they were dating
This story sounds like msa
3:47 WHAT?! I’m genuinely Speechless.😠
We would have been the first person to get out the friend zone. Sadly this is a impossible feat
This is me 😅 my exact situation once I had in high school. I'm so embarrassed
Well that really sucks how if he could have just asked and went to you about it first the whole situation could have changed.
"Life's a bitch, shit happens, gotta get over it." is what i would have told my self but I'm me and your you so just keep doing what your doing.
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Can only hear this story in Shayne Topp’s voice.
when my brother was in 8th grade, he accidentally got a girlfriend. he had never thought of the girl like that, but one day he got a text from her saying something about a date. I don’t remember a lot of it as I was pretty young. In his senior year of high school, he ended up dating her. she cheated on him in his freshman year of college.
That is one danger of the friendzone.
1:57 That is the only thing i need to remember in my life
I think you should hear his side of the story it's just that I have experience with such Guys so if I don't know then only a psychiatrist would
Ps: sorry for you😢
Of course it’s because of those podcasts. With the Andrew rate and all those other people. Seriously, those things just influence men for the worse..
Fun that he said it's annoying when you act stupid. But if you show that you did know it, he be saying you're just trying to show off you're trying to do a man's job.
See this is what happens when you listen to "aLpHa pOdCaStS", now, I'm not saying someone will look at 1 alpha podcast and think, "Okay, it's okay to think that men are better than women", but I'm saying it comes from watching too many podcasts, watching too much TV, watching too much tiktok, you name it. Social media is way more damaging than you may think, your opinions, your political beliefs, your lifestyle, your tone, your attitude, all of these things can change from too much social media, and what's funny is I didn't even name half of what social media can and has caused to change about people, pretty much most things about you can change due to social media, of course with exceptions. What I'm trying to say is, don't use a significant amount of your days on social media, I'm not saying that you can't get on social media again, I'm saying try to limit the time you spend with it.
Thank you if you read all of that and even if you didn't,
I hope you have a nice day.
It’s weird my dad told everyone at a party that my mum was his girlfriend… never asked her nothing… and thus… here I am today 😅
He just thinks that he is a Apha simga Male ☝️😡
What i think is the way to deal with this is to let him go and not think about him but the good times you spent together and be happy about rhe times but forget him
So funny hows humans are at the top of thr food chain yet struggle with simple communication
It's the other way around.. the girl doesn't know they're dating
Thank you for opening my eyes i noticed now that women aren’t object (not sarcastic)
Is it wrong to call girls pretty just as a compliment
Not necessarily but u gotta have some situational awareness. If u’re at a bar or club and u’re chatting then fine, but if u’re in a McDonalds at 3 am and she’s alone, probs not the best idea.
@@Lillie_Petals._. Yeah, this makes sense.
I knew it was bad when bro kissed her and said what are we doing babe for the first time in 1 year of him thinking there in a relationship
There's two different versions of this story this one and a second one where it turns out the girl actually has dementia and forgot about ever dating him
That’s legit crazy 💀
This just sounds like time went forward
People thin like that.....? Bro your ex friend is a preditor based on the ONE oppineion stated at the end.... No one in their right minds thinks like that......
Was somewhat realiatic until I realized they were alleged friends for 5 years. If you're red or black pilled, it's very noticable, it's very unlikely that you wont notice your supposed best friend going down that road and it's not something that happens overnight. This is just a karma farm or rage bait, either way, do better....
It's sad how those sigma instagram accounts affect people who are easy to influense
Wait so he thinks they're dating and waits a whole ass year before he tries to kiss her?
What podcast is that? as a women it sounds funny asf.
I went from awww to what the fuck💀
Did he seriously say rape was not a problem?!?
Simple truth: they are dating. She just didn't realize that it just like what very often many women think. Also, this doesn't at all sound like the whole story. There is so many disturbed "male podcasts" that are pure misogynistic crap.
Bro probably watched Joe Rogan podcasts
I think he would have talked about bears and mma if he watched joe Rogan lol
When will people stop listening to podcasts like they are the moral authority? The majority of what I have listened to aren't worth the time or emotional effort. (I listen to nature/science and motivational based podcasts now because I tried several and called it quits.)
I'm a man and I don't know squat about vehicles. Couldn't even tell you what brand a vehicle is by looking at it. Let alone how to fix anything. So yeah, a woman "acting dumb" about cars is ridiculous. Plus everything else this guy thinks about women. The whole "other people said this on the internet. So I believe them" thing.......
good on her for thinking to go to a public place
Wtf…….nah you Dodge a whole canon.
This kinda happened to me there was this girl that I liked a little bit but the way that we acted together people thought we were dating but the thing was she Alr had a BF but she still acted like I was he bf or someone and at one point I didn’t reall like her anymore and she still seemed to fallow me around I still acted the same way but then the BF saw it and the BF was one of my good friends but then after that everyone though we were dating and the BF didn’t believe me and is still a little mad at me this all happened a year ago
can’t blame a podcast for a fool