When Savannah first released this song I used to listen to her every day while stuck in a toxic marriage. Just wear my headphones and close my eyes wishing I can speak these words into the universe and just be gone anywho left this person and it's been the best 8 months. He texted me yesterday begging for us to get back together and when I said no he called me selfish and I immediately remembered this song! I said yes I'm selfish as fuck im finally back to self love and I ain't going back ! The best decision for my kids and myself. Back to listening to this song but this time with living through her words.
It's the waves crashing against the shore, the vibrant brown skin, the thick hair, the vocals, the shirt touched by the breeze and the ability to normalize the word "selfish".....yes Ma'am whew.... I've given about 5 views in the last 30 min! A new fan!
This song played a big part in me moving on after escaping an abusive narcissist. Stay in tune with your higher self. We are Kings and Queens. We deserve the treatment we demand.
Amen I finally left 10 yrs of falling in deep 😢with NPD Partner . And I'm finally being selfish and I'm 46 yrs of young 😊 Starting completely over . Can I get A Amen!!!!
As women, we are trained at a young age to always please others and put others above us. No more sisters . Selfcare my darlings. We need to continue wearing our crowns and if it tilts , we push it right back up again. This resonates so well with me. Thanks Savannah. I needed this reminder.
The sound of the ocean and birds in the background just made this a million times better. And your voice is so soothing. Love this song, just found out about it and have it on repeat.
I just finished a toxic relationship of 28 years ending in divorce. 2023 and I am just discovering this song, right on time, because the residual bullshit still remains. I wish there were an hour loop of this song. Thank you Sis!🥰
Wow proud of you! I'm going through a divorce after being in a toxic relationship for 23 years! I'm so over his narcissistic behavior! Good luck to you 🥰🙏
Ladies if you’re feeling low or in a peaceful mood I would recommend listening to this before you go to bed. This is honestly so therapeutic and helps you remember to manifest everything you want for yourself. That being said o hope we all make it 🦋❤️
This song came out October 2019. It is now August 2022 and I remember it just like it was yesterday.. I was going through a breakup of 10 years and this song, Savannah Cristina herself, Sis you gaveeee me the strength and the courage to REALLYYYYY BE DONE WITH THE TOXIC ISH! ✨👏🏾✨ Enough was Enough and I’m so glad that I stuck to my decision. I still sing this song daily and it reminds me that although I still have a busy life as a single mom, I still have to have self care and self love always! So I Thaaaank Youuuuu Queen! Keep On Shiniiing!!! 💖🌹💖🌹💖🌹💖🌹💖🌹💖
My mother sent me this song to remind me that I'm beautiful and should love myself even if theirs so many things to dislike theirs always a way! ♥ "THANK YOU MAMA I LOVE YOU"!🥰😘
Why is nobody talking about her VOCAL RANGE *edit* wow thanks for the likes! I didn’t think anyone would see this 😭 for those of y’all commenting about the auto tune and reverb or comparing her to other artists: yes, your points are somewhat valid. BUT. Impressive “range” shouldn’t imply just high notes, for those mentioning alto’s like Mariah? Not really comparable, and that’s not what I was referring to when I first posted this comment. In her runs, she effortlessly moves up and down the scale - her lows are so well controlled and her highs too. Just let the girl sing lol did y’all come here to hear HER sing or hear your favorite mainstream singer? 😭 I’m thinking she’s a mezzo soprano 👀 but yeah I just came here to address her haters cause I keep getting notifications 😓
Because shes bot hitting notes I can't... shes dooe but shes not Beyonce, Whitney, or Mariah... she has he own strengths... range is probably not one of her strongest musical assets
One thing I’ve learned these past years you have to love yourself & take what’s done to you by someone you love to heart. The hurt they inflicted was by their choice & them not caring how that hurt impacted you or what it did to you mentally. I also learn when they avoid the truth their sending you a powerful message that is they not going to change because change happens in discussion & action. Takes a real man to show you what you were missing trying to stay in a place you never belonged because they know & treat you more like you should be treated. Sad people have to let go when they really don’t want to because they keep seeing the same ol same ok from someone they truly fell in love with but did nothing to change themselves after they hurt you...
Just sitting here letting you sing my confirmations. I'm bout to break up with my boyfriend and I didn't know it till a few seconds ago. I did try my best for him. He came to me with nothing and I accepted and settled for him. Love doesn't pay the bills and I feel upset cause he knew how he was coming and didn't warn me until it was a need through the conversations. I need to be ok bring alone cause that's how I might end up. Thank you for being my voice and project my and other women's feelings.
this song reminds me each and every day that I need to focus on myself and stop letting others take advantage of me. I'm too much of a good person to be treated this way... it's time to be selfish & for do what's best for me for once!
Just remember, if we don't look out for our self, we can't be there for someone else anyway. Too many people can't stand to be alone, and they're quick to link up with others, but chances are it won't be a lasting relationship 'cause WE HAVE TO HAVE CENTERED OURSELVES FIRST. We will lack the vision to truly see another, if we haven't faced our own flaws and cultivated ourselves to the finest version that we can be. Consider this: A lump of coal in one hand, and a diamond in the other. They started as made from the same stuff. The only difference is how it focused under pressure. We all have the ability to shine, but we must be willing to put in the work and be humbled. Peace and blessings upon you 💎
God I thank you and worship you serving you and the Universe again and again. I thank you God for covering and protecting me giving me peace and strength as you comfort me. God I thank you for Mental Healing as we all worship and praise you
The Calming Kind minute thinking. Who said she was talking about black men ? Or even men at all ? You hear nigga and auto assume it’s about a Black Man...hmmm🤔Not what does that say about you?🤷🏽♀️
Just heard this song on Sirius XM and immediately came to KRplus. This song is so needed right now because 2020 has turned out to be one heck of a year and we all need self care. Thanks Savannah Cristina
I fell asleep and let my KRplus do what it wants. I woke up to this song and it was ✨EVERYTHING✨ This was Source telling me to put myself first and do more self care. And I refuse to feel bad about it 💁🏽♀️💕
I discovered her two weeks ago and I’m so mad at myself for clearly living under a ROCK. Sis you are amazing and you are an inspiration! The number of times I replayed this on Apple Music isn’t healthy and you don’t fucked up and gave us an extended version 🙌🏾😭😭😭😭
This song really makes me love myself and forget about my domestic violence background. I didn't deserve that, but I left that alone and I'm still standing. I'm a survivivor!
To me, this song maybe about a relationship but although, im in a beautiful and happy marriage. I haven't really loved ME in forever or ever. I feel like I pour so much into my son, my husband, my students but never myself. I need to lose weight, take care of my skin, hair, teeth. Just love me! This song reminds me to do that becaue Im pouring from an empty cup. SELF CARE, Self-,LOVE, Selfish!
We all ran across this song because we need healing in some way because of a man but we women are the strongest and we go through the most from being hurt, periods, and pregnancy
I’m currently out of a 20 year relationship. I loved this man with everything in me. I’m 47 and he’s 63. I thought dating someone older would be better, it’s hurts a great deal, but I’m tired of the back and fourth, his mood swings etc. I’m also doing self care. I’m so emotional and hurt. But I know all things are working for my highest good! Love and Light! ❤️
Sending you so much love beautiful♥️ Women, we can endure everything. And I actually think the generation of men below mine are smarter , more sensitive, more giving... More conscious. They came onto this planet with a whole different operating system to the older generations. So I have hope. May you find someone who loves, respects, cherishes and appreciates you as you deserve 😘😘
My anthem every day. This is always a reminder of what I need to do for my Self-love and self-care. I have a huge given heart and I tend to place ppl ahead of me. Thought that was loving me but in the end, I wasn't self-loving myself I was neglecting myself and losing myself in the process. This alone gives me the true reminder that I have to be "selfish asf" to myself. When I hear ppl saying I am more selfish and not enabling them. I will agree and tell them, "It's called Self-care, self-love for me bc I love myself and value myself to the highest more than you care for yourself. I am not your rescuer any longer bc you are stopping my self-growth and taking too much of my blessing water out of my self-love well. I value myself more for making myself rises above the ashes as a Wounded Conqueror Goddess Warrior. "
S/o to Mother Nature for not allowing the water to electrocute this talented sis while performing this dope ass song because it’s the best thing that happened to my ears. I needed this message because I’m on a 30 day “Self Love” challenge 💯🔥🙌🏾😍
Urielle Zey long backstory, but I hope this helps ... ok so for me, I’m healing my childhood wounds on a spiritual level, which coincidentally relates to the type of guys I attract. I was raised in a single parent household by my mother, so I’m low key emotionally unavailable to men, but when I do attract guys they’re often distant and don’t meet my needs. Honestly, this gave me a complex like “am I not worthy of love from men?” 🤔 So on this 30 day challenge I’m doing self love meditations, writing forgiveness mantras and gratitude lists and speaking positive affirmations to myself while looking in the mirror. GIVING MYSELF THE LOVE I DESERVE. This will help heal me, while simultaneously boosting my own confidence.
This song is helping me threw my healing process. I recently found out that I am a empath. So I consume others energy rather good or bad and it drains the life from me. My doctors told me I need rest and to learn self care. One day this song came on and I've been listening to it daily. I must learn to be selfish I don't know how to be that. But this song is giving me life💯
Being Empathic will always require self care....but trust as your intuition strengthens and you perfect the craft of protecting your energy field and peace of mind, you realize that being an empath is gift connecting you to others in a unique way...you can help others as you see fit and separate their emotions from you're own much more easily...blessings to you Love!
@@Kiekolbz indeed we are beloved,i am learning everyday about being a empath and that everyone doesn't have the gift. Now i am trying to learn how to build a shield around myself to protect my energy and learn to control my emotions i will be even more of an amazing person.🥰🥰🥰
This summed up my life in the last year! Broke up with my ex and moved to Arizona all in one month! Have everything away and I have started over and I am so happy now! 🥰 not only a new job but a better job with a better income. Everything is falling into place🙌🏾🥰
Nicky P. Girl I feel you moved to California for love but broke up with my fiancé moved back to Virginia and I’m starting over ! Just landed a new job with better benefits everything is falling into place and sometimes I get down since it’s only been 3 weeks but I’m in a happier place stumbled across this video and have it on repeat !!!!
What a game changer ❣️💯 I discovered this in hospital in 2020 and played it throughout my stay. My recovery began my True recovery from an abusive marriage and all the trauma associated with it. Now I am receiving random acts of kindness all around me from anyone and everyone. I thank him for awakening The Empress in me. Thank you Savannah for helping me embody my Bad Bytch Energy ❣️ I am truly and eternally grateful for you
God thank you for loving me more than I love myself sometimes. Thank you God for always keeping me up lifted so our energy and frequency is never shifted. God I thank you for everything you’ve done and that you are doing pursuing me and your dreams healing everyone around the world sharing God’s Devine Love
This SPEAKS to MY SOUL... WE often get caught up with some1 that ISN'T Really for US & when we REALIZE that, don't get upset... make adjustments & never compromise self love to make some1 else happy that's not ensuring your needs are met... Single women know what I mean.. THANK YOU I LUV U FOR THIS SONG #SAVANNAHCRISTINA
Literally sitting in the parking lot of my job listening to you on my break just feeling at peace. Your music has just came at the right time in my life honestly 🥰😩😍 please keep making music that speaks volumes to the soul. ♥️♥️
It's strange, for I'm in my truck at this moment. And I got the same Vibe. It literally changed my thought, mood and attitude. Loving the way the song brings back power. Mind over matter.
When she says she felt this before...I guess shes talking about how us ladies have felt let down by a man at some point in our lives but when you go on the spiritual journey you start to realise by putting the blame on the men letting us down we dont acknowledge the lack of self love that led us to 'rely' on a man to fill that peice of our hearts we thought he could fill 🤷♀️ self love, self care, selfish is the way 🙌🙏 then I pray once we are healed, the right healed man will come and find us for the beautiful gem that you are. Peace to whoever needed to see this today ✌
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Who's here in 2024?! 🙋♀
This just moisturized my skin, oiled my scalp & grew my hair 3 inches 🥰🥰🥰
I felt your comment ❤️❤️
Facts sis 😂😂💪💪
Hahaha Funny shit 😂
Yes queen 👑
@RosalindHolloway 👐👐👐
This shit hit different when u going through it.
In tears fr
Yesssssss …. It’s on repeat
Especially when the weather ain't good.
It do it do..
It hits differently when you went through it and made it to the other side. Self love and selfishness is how I’m moving now.
When Savannah first released this song I used to listen to her every day while stuck in a toxic marriage. Just wear my headphones and close my eyes wishing I can speak these words into the universe and just be gone anywho left this person and it's been the best 8 months. He texted me yesterday begging for us to get back together and when I said no he called me selfish and I immediately remembered this song! I said yes I'm selfish as fuck im finally back to self love and I ain't going back ! The best decision for my kids and myself. Back to listening to this song but this time with living through her words.
Woman power 4 u r worth more than diamonds! 💕
❤❤❤
Check out( perri Jones- free ) seems like it fits where you are now
Sis I agree ☝️ facts
Bless you Queen
This the type of song you gotta bring out the wine and start a bubble bath 🧼
Yes Maam
Real !
Damn the fuck straight
I got the rose petals, the candles, and chocolate ready for you.
BaeBriDoll naw Frfr
Sis went off in the calmest way possible! This is a whole mood!
Kris 😂 Absolutely 💜
Next level communication aims!
Kris just like “being on a beach” calm 🙌🏽
starryeyed Enjoy🎁👉🏽 krplus.net/bidio/YKadmJapaaeZk5Q
Kris clearly
It's the waves crashing against the shore, the vibrant brown skin, the thick hair, the vocals, the shirt touched by the breeze and the ability to normalize the word "selfish".....yes Ma'am whew.... I've given about 5 views in the last 30 min! A new fan!
Yasssss lol
Period
What you said 💕
Okayyyyyy
🙌🏾
This song played a big part in me moving on after escaping an abusive narcissist. Stay in tune with your higher self. We are Kings and Queens. We deserve the treatment we demand.
I absolutely loved what you said Queen. Many blessings to you.
💯🙌🏾
Amen I finally left 10 yrs of falling in deep 😢with NPD Partner . And I'm finally being selfish and I'm 46 yrs of young 😊 Starting completely over . Can I get A Amen!!!!
@@Kim-wt8jh Amen👏🏽👏🏽💙
“I gotta be fine by myself, alone with myself” I felt that 💕
Yessss felt that in my spirit
Chile Listennnnnn.. this shit right here got me feeling myself... can't tell me nothing right now
💯
Sammee!! I love this song , when I first heard it kept replaying it!!
Sis just doesn't understand after a hard breakup & being suicidal, she literally saved my life with this one
Gemini Luvvv I’ve been there. Self care literally saved my life
Also, he’s not worth it. You’re beautiful and blessed. Find solace in your newfound peace and strength
Keep your head up beautiful
Keep on keeping on ♥️♥️
🖤💕
Everything about this performance is RIGHT!
Words ✅
Beach and sounds✅
Her voice ✅
Her look ✅
Her energy ✅
This song was the beginning of my healing and I'm 49. Good job young lady 🙏🌹❤👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
“Self care, Self Love , Selfishhhhh” I felt that.
Me too...
Netta B. That's Where Ones Power Is!!! 💥 Self Is The Soul (God(Dess))!!!
God's Favorite Daughter 💕💕
Self-defense
Selfish..as FUK ... that moved me! ❤❤
As women, we are trained at a young age to always please others and put others above us. No more sisters . Selfcare my darlings. We need to continue wearing our crowns and if it tilts , we push it right back up again. This resonates so well with me. Thanks Savannah. I needed this reminder.
You First Ladies🙏🏽🔥🔥. She’s DOPE 🖤
ABSOLUTELY!‼️💯💕
Ty girl
Absolutely!
This is ture 😞 focus on self
This song can never get old, still love it in 2022 😍
This video popped up in my recommendations. I am so glad it did.
Amen!
STILL ❤
2023
Here 9 months into 2023
The vocal range and how she flows to each melody effortlessly is amazing
Okay, who else just discovered her and is slightly pissed about JUST DISCOVERING HERRR 😤😭 sis... perfection... period
Jus discovered what a jem🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
That would be right now
Same sis
From one lex to the next. I was and still am!!😂. lex danae' btw😏 got those same glasses 2!! Lil mama's u cute!
She is sade badu l hill in one voice im impressed
I love when a beautiful soulful women can make another queen fix her tilted crown with a beautiful song like this .... Real recognize real👑
I agree!!!
❤️❤️❤️
Well said😘
Chardai Adams yessss
🙏🏾
The sound of the ocean and birds in the background just made this a million times better. And your voice is so soothing. Love this song, just found out about it and have it on repeat.
Why is this therapy you call music not being played mainstream?! Yassss sis!!! I needed all of this!
can we just applaud how the beach sounds match her voice and vibe round of applause for the black women who self care
🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Ebony Velvetways Enjoy‼️👉🏽 krplus.net/bidio/YKadmJapaaeZk5Q
Yeeeesssss!!! I was just saying this!!!!
The birds, the vibe!!
I came here for this comment
The atmosphere is so perfect! 🧘🏾♂️😌
Yessss WokeNojoke
Yes! I could live on a body of water. Serene asf!
CLEANSING, HEALING AND THE WAVES FLOWING WITH HER VOICE IS EVERYTHING! HEAVY TUNE :)
I just finished a toxic relationship of 28 years ending in divorce. 2023 and I am just discovering this song, right on time, because the residual bullshit still remains. I wish there were an hour loop of this song. Thank you Sis!🥰
I'd play this 24 hours if I could ❤
Wow proud of you! I'm going through a divorce after being in a toxic relationship for 23 years! I'm so over his narcissistic behavior! Good luck to you 🥰🙏
Suerte dónde quiera que estés. Dios te bendiga en tu camino.
😂😂.you can go to top right corner in settings in the video and turn loop on. That's what I do to all my mental therapy songs
The amount of times I came back to this song to cool me down is unhealthy 😭😭😭😂😂
Same! Anthem for life
Same
Ditto
Okayyy😂😂
Shidddd Least you came back
Ladies if you’re feeling low or in a peaceful mood I would recommend listening to this before you go to bed. This is honestly so therapeutic and helps you remember to manifest everything you want for yourself. That being said o hope we all make it 🦋❤️
She made a hit huh lol
Syd Bey yes she did girly 😌
Thank you for this
@A-Easy 🙏🏾💚
This for KINGS to all woman ain’t Queens💯
This song came out October 2019. It is now August 2022 and I remember it just like it was yesterday.. I was going through a breakup of 10 years and this song, Savannah Cristina herself, Sis you gaveeee me the strength and the courage to REALLYYYYY BE DONE WITH THE TOXIC ISH! ✨👏🏾✨ Enough was Enough and I’m so glad that I stuck to my decision. I still sing this song daily and it reminds me that although I still have a busy life as a single mom, I still have to have self care and self love always! So I Thaaaank Youuuuu Queen! Keep On Shiniiing!!! 💖🌹💖🌹💖🌹💖🌹💖🌹💖
My mother sent me this song to remind me that I'm beautiful and should love myself even if theirs so many things to dislike theirs always a way! ♥
"THANK YOU MAMA I LOVE YOU"!🥰😘
Not even 30 seconds into the song and I'm a fan now.
Girl me too
Felt
Yes! I’m like where have I been? Or where has she been?!
literally
I promise ya had me in tears
Why is nobody talking about her VOCAL RANGE *edit* wow thanks for the likes! I didn’t think anyone would see this 😭 for those of y’all commenting about the auto tune and reverb or comparing her to other artists: yes, your points are somewhat valid. BUT. Impressive “range” shouldn’t imply just high notes, for those mentioning alto’s like Mariah? Not really comparable, and that’s not what I was referring to when I first posted this comment. In her runs, she effortlessly moves up and down the scale - her lows are so well controlled and her highs too. Just let the girl sing lol did y’all come here to hear HER sing or hear your favorite mainstream singer? 😭 I’m thinking she’s a mezzo soprano 👀 but yeah I just came here to address her haters cause I keep getting notifications 😓
Eryssa Lora yeah the reverb will make that range just pop outtbh but she killet it 💪🏾😊
Too much fx on it.
Like seriously! She sang my panties off!!! 🤦🤦🤦🙀🙀🙀😻😻😻💘💘💘
She’s a good singer, but there was a ton of autotune on this. It was distracting. She should sing it live without autotune.
Because shes bot hitting notes I can't... shes dooe but shes not Beyonce, Whitney, or Mariah... she has he own strengths... range is probably not one of her strongest musical assets
One thing I’ve learned these past years you have to love yourself & take what’s done to you by someone you love to heart. The hurt they inflicted was by their choice & them not caring how that hurt impacted you or what it did to you mentally. I also learn when they avoid the truth their sending you a powerful message that is they not going to change because change happens in discussion & action. Takes a real man to show you what you were missing trying to stay in a place you never belonged because they know & treat you more like you should be treated. Sad people have to let go when they really don’t want to because they keep seeing the same ol same ok from someone they truly fell in love with but did nothing to change themselves after they hurt you...
PERFECTLY 🥰 STATED !!
This brought tears to my eyes. Self care is beautiful
The ocean in the back is so wonderful
You just pulled me out of a state of depression and restored my Queendom 🙏
So proud of you Queen!
@@shante2chaney Thank you so much!!!! 🤗
heart
Okkk me tooooooo i cant stop listening to THIS
@@terrismith613 yeees!!! This song is everything I had been needing 😭
*Fixes crown 👑*
Who else feels this song in they soul !
That I'm doing riiiiiiiiiiight" note get me every time.
You've brought so much peace to my mental since you popped up on my recommended. Nothing but peaceful vibes listening to you. Ugh. Love.
Yesss so ture 💯💯💯
SAME
I think this is my new favorite artist.
Your voice, and I love black women who rock all natural, it drives me crazy.
Steven Culler I’m a white boy and I agree 😩
Yesss 🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪
@@CarsaPirieScott 😂
Now now. .Settle down gentleman
@Her Right There ?
Still listening in '23
Any other dudes here? Am i allowed?
Wonder why you even heeeerrree lol we ALL here cause she doing it right
she is too smooth to skip...
Yes, men need self care too 🤎💯
Healing doesn't have a gender bro, balance it out
😂😂 it's a safe space here, bro.
Listen, this is a whole journey in a song. She’s a beautiful writer.
💯💯💯💯💯
Hope Jackson
Agree!
Yes! Love her... she’s on a level of her own 🙌
Hope Jackson ohh I was there vividly I’ve been and Am here ❤️
She’s genius. Pouring her soul into her music.
Even in a relationship, self love and self care is very important, especially for your man/women too 🖤
Just sitting here letting you sing my confirmations. I'm bout to break up with my boyfriend and I didn't know it till a few seconds ago. I did try my best for him. He came to me with nothing and I accepted and settled for him. Love doesn't pay the bills and I feel upset cause he knew how he was coming and didn't warn me until it was a need through the conversations. I need to be ok bring alone cause that's how I might end up. Thank you for being my voice and project my and other women's feelings.
I hope you are doing well and did not go back to him. Live your life sis!
I had no idea who you were when you popped up. KRplus's recommendations are finally making sense. This track is straight🔥.
Same reaction!!! I was like 👏👏 nice recommendation
Omg Riiiight!!!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙃🙃🙃
This is beautiful
me too i stumbled across it been in love every since self care is needed
Exactly
this song reminds me each and every day that I need to focus on myself and stop letting others take advantage of me. I'm too much of a good person to be treated this way... it's time to be selfish & for do what's best for me for once!
Just remember, if we don't look out for our self, we can't be there for someone else anyway.
Too many people can't stand to be alone, and they're quick to link up with others, but chances are it won't be a lasting relationship 'cause WE HAVE TO HAVE CENTERED OURSELVES FIRST. We will lack the vision to truly see another, if we haven't faced our own flaws and cultivated ourselves to the finest version that we can be.
Consider this:
A lump of coal in one hand, and a diamond in the other. They started as made from the same stuff. The only difference is how it focused under pressure.
We all have the ability to shine, but we must be willing to put in the work and be humbled.
Peace and blessings upon you 💎
Shellsvaldez please listen to this ❤️ just a reminder 🎶: krplus.net/bidio/aZlri3yqhoiZoag
Yep, and became one of those assholes) Nice.
😊💛
Be strong and welcome to your new journey of strength
She is ABSOLUTELY GORGEOUS ❤🥰😍
God I thank you and worship you serving you and the Universe again and again. I thank you God for covering and protecting me giving me peace and strength as you comfort me. God I thank you for Mental Healing as we all worship and praise you
Black woman's 2020 and forever anthem!
Do you.
@The Calming Kind whats your problem? Leave the video then.
The Calming Kind You must be the president of the pick me club 😂
MoreMe LessYou I said the same thing
The Calming Kind minute thinking. Who said she was talking about black men ? Or even men at all ? You hear nigga and auto assume it’s about a Black Man...hmmm🤔Not what does that say about you?🤷🏽♀️
Lyrics=dope
Backdrop=dope
Voice=dope
Classic if y’all agree
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Body=dope
Agreed 💅🏿
Nice & smooth...old school feel...
This should be nominated a woman’s anthem!! PERIOD
Period!!!
ABSOLUTELY!! 💯
Just heard this song on Sirius XM and immediately came to KRplus. This song is so needed right now because 2020 has turned out to be one heck of a year and we all need self care. Thanks Savannah Cristina
“You play with the piece of me I try not to reason with” ...THE DEPTH OF THIS FEELING LAWD
Tearra Gunter yep, shadow self
Jessa Glover girl!!!!! Yes let’s get into the metaphysical depth of our growth
Vibes for the rest of the year. Starting 2020 with a bang.
Yes, dust free 2020. ❤❤❤
❤️❤️❤️
And and idc who it is!! You will get put last...I'm first this time!
Mercy Nerestant feels so good girl♥️
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I fell asleep and let my KRplus do what it wants. I woke up to this song and it was ✨EVERYTHING✨ This was Source telling me to put myself first and do more self care. And I refuse to feel bad about it 💁🏽♀️💕
I discovered her two weeks ago and I’m so mad at myself for clearly living under a ROCK. Sis you are amazing and you are an inspiration! The number of times I replayed this on Apple Music isn’t healthy and you don’t fucked up and gave us an extended version 🙌🏾😭😭😭😭
When she said “& I want you to know that I did try my best with you” I FELT THAT! 🔥 ❤️
Beautiful ❤️
This song really makes me love myself and forget about my domestic violence background. I didn't deserve that, but I left that alone and I'm still standing. I'm a survivivor!
I’m glad you are one
Yes yo gooooo gallll
Yes you are
Yes! Thank u all! I'm selfish as fuck right now.....
❤❤❤🌼🌼🌼
Her music saved my life low key! She got me through the toughest time of my life 🙏🏿💯🤙🏿🙌🏿❤️
To me, this song maybe about a relationship but although, im in a beautiful and happy marriage. I haven't really loved ME in forever or ever. I feel like I pour so much into my son, my husband, my students but never myself. I need to lose weight, take care of my skin, hair, teeth. Just love me! This song reminds me to do that becaue Im pouring from an empty cup. SELF CARE, Self-,LOVE, Selfish!
My soul and a song just crossed paths , that's an elevated feeling
We all ran across this song because we need healing in some way because of a man but we women are the strongest and we go through the most from being hurt, periods, and pregnancy
Andrea Oglesby I hope my song motivates your soul to heal EVEN more 🎶🙏🏽🎶: krplus.net/bidio/aZlri3yqhoiZoag
I’m currently out of a 20 year relationship. I loved this man with everything in me. I’m 47 and he’s 63. I thought dating someone older would be better, it’s hurts a great deal, but I’m tired of the back and fourth, his mood swings etc. I’m also doing self care. I’m so emotional and hurt. But I know all things are working for my highest good! Love and Light! ❤️
Im so sorry queen. It will all wotk out in time. ❤️
U got this sis. Do what makes u happy.
Sending you so much love beautiful♥️ Women, we can endure everything. And I actually think the generation of men below mine are smarter , more sensitive, more giving... More conscious. They came onto this planet with a whole different operating system to the older generations. So I have hope. May you find someone who loves, respects, cherishes and appreciates you as you deserve 😘😘
Karen Hardy Hey Ms. Hardy❤️ How you feel about this?👉🏽 krplus.net/bidio/aZlri3yqhoiZoag
May God grant you every desire in your heart including true love. You deserve it.
My anthem every day. This is always a reminder of what I need to do for my Self-love and self-care. I have a huge given heart and I tend to place ppl ahead of me. Thought that was loving me but in the end, I wasn't self-loving myself I was neglecting myself and losing myself in the process. This alone gives me the true reminder that I have to be "selfish asf" to myself. When I hear ppl saying I am more selfish and not enabling them. I will agree and tell them, "It's called Self-care, self-love for me bc I love myself and value myself to the highest more than you care for yourself. I am not your rescuer any longer bc you are stopping my self-growth and taking too much of my blessing water out of my self-love well. I value myself more for making myself rises above the ashes as a Wounded Conqueror Goddess Warrior. "
It’s 2024… and I still can’t get over this shot 🎥 . It was and still is perfect. Much Love on the creativity 🙏🏽💪🏽
S/o to Mother Nature for not allowing the water to electrocute this talented sis while performing this dope ass song because it’s the best thing that happened to my ears. I needed this message because I’m on a 30 day “Self Love” challenge 💯🔥🙌🏾😍
Y ONLY 30 DAYS
Royce Cooper I’m honestly doing it for the rest of my life, but they say if you consecutively do something for 21-30 days it becomes a natural habit.
Appetite 4 Chic Can you elaborate please ? What this challenge is about 🤔
Urielle Zey long backstory, but I hope this helps ...
ok so for me, I’m healing my childhood wounds on a spiritual level, which coincidentally relates to the type of guys I attract. I was raised in a single parent household by my mother, so I’m low key emotionally unavailable to men, but when I do attract guys they’re often distant and don’t meet my needs. Honestly, this gave me a complex like “am I not worthy of love from men?” 🤔
So on this 30 day challenge I’m doing self love meditations, writing forgiveness mantras and gratitude lists and speaking positive affirmations to myself while looking in the mirror. GIVING MYSELF THE LOVE I DESERVE. This will help heal me, while simultaneously boosting my own confidence.
Appetite 4 Chic Thank you for your response! I’m sending you all the light and good energy on this journey of self love 😘
This song is helping me threw my healing process. I recently found out that I am a empath. So I consume others energy rather good or bad and it drains the life from me. My doctors told me I need rest and to learn self care. One day this song came on and I've been listening to it daily. I must learn to be selfish I don't know how to be that. But this song is giving me life💯
Being Empathic will always require self care....but trust as your intuition strengthens and you perfect the craft of protecting your energy field and peace of mind, you realize that being an empath is gift connecting you to others in a unique way...you can help others as you see fit and separate their emotions from you're own much more easily...blessings to you Love!
@@aishahunt thank you for this en lighting information. blessings be upon you
Boundaries mama! We’re setting boundaries this 2020 to protect our energy because it’s precious ❤️
@@Kiekolbz indeed we are beloved,i am learning everyday about being a empath and that everyone doesn't have the gift. Now i am trying to learn how to build a shield around myself to protect my energy and learn to control my emotions i will be even more of an amazing person.🥰🥰🥰
Yes honey.. I'm the same way!
Lord she so beautiful with a beautiful voice, and shes natural
Her melodious voice warms my heart🇯🇲
Just seen the short version on IG so came here to show some love here as well. Great song awesome back drop. 🎙️🎶🌊
Where...i couldn't find it 😯
same!!!
SAME!!!
Me too!🙌
Alex Santiago you n me both !!!
Ending 2019 Anthem for me!!!💯💯💯💯
Trishette Lee definitely ❤️
Yes! stay dust free 2020.
Nature was so in accordance with everything 😍😍😍
The most perfect song i ever heard .
Who wish they could love this video instead of liking it?
Soraeya Malia❤️
“Don’t care who you’re with or what you’re doing”
This!
She's absolutely stunning
Holy Father I thank you God I worship and adore you I thank you for your Devine Love healing the Universe
I’ve listened to this song about 20 times already. You outdid yourself.
Black girl magic. Her soul is dope asf 💕
Omg same
jenee lean 💞👏🏽 She’s singing for all of us. It’s time for self care... self love... and b selfish as fuck right now.
cu3rpona28 facts
Me too!
At 27, I'm finally discovering that it's ok to be selfish. Like I wish you the best baby, but without me.
So much better sooner than later luv..
Qiana Burnett yes girl I agree with you 100%
Qiana Burnett ❤️❤️❤️💯
Almost 34 here had to learn the hard way but its amazing ❤ ❤
It took me to age 41
Self care and Self love= peace and happiness. Take care of your self physically mentally and spiritually.🌻✨🌻
Soul music🎉❤
This summed up my life in the last year! Broke up with my ex and moved to Arizona all in one month! Have everything away and I have started over and I am so happy now! 🥰 not only a new job but a better job with a better income. Everything is falling into place🙌🏾🥰
Nicky P. Happy for u
Nicky P. Girl I feel you moved to California for love but broke up with my fiancé moved back to Virginia and I’m starting over ! Just landed a new job with better benefits everything is falling into place and sometimes I get down since it’s only been 3 weeks but I’m in a happier place stumbled across this video and have it on repeat !!!!
We’ll all make it thru❤️
Beautiful. Dust free 2020 ❤
I can’t express how much this song has helped me during my healing period and has been added to my daily tranquility playlist. Thank you ☺️
What a game changer ❣️💯 I discovered this in hospital in 2020 and played it throughout my stay. My recovery began my True recovery from an abusive marriage and all the trauma associated with it. Now I am receiving random acts of kindness all around me from anyone and everyone. I thank him for awakening The Empress in me. Thank you Savannah for helping me embody my Bad Bytch Energy ❣️ I am truly and eternally grateful for you
God thank you for loving me more than I love myself sometimes. Thank you God for always keeping me up lifted so our energy and frequency is never shifted. God I thank you for everything you’ve done and that you are doing pursuing me and your dreams healing everyone around the world sharing God’s Devine Love
This SPEAKS to MY SOUL...
WE often get caught up with some1 that ISN'T Really for US & when we REALIZE that, don't get upset... make adjustments & never compromise self love to make some1 else happy that's not ensuring your needs are met...
Single women know what I mean..
THANK YOU I LUV U FOR THIS SONG #SAVANNAHCRISTINA
💯💯💯💯
You hit it on the head. EXACTLY.
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Preach sis
💯💯💯💯 No cap
Literally sitting in the parking lot of my job listening to you on my break just feeling at peace. Your music has just came at the right time in my life honestly 🥰😩😍 please keep making music that speaks volumes to the soul. ♥️♥️
Hilly Alanis same lol it’s 5am and I’m on my break in my car
It's strange, for I'm in my truck at this moment. And I got the same Vibe. It literally changed my thought, mood and attitude. Loving the way the song brings back power. Mind over matter.
Tired Siren hahaha at a hospital
Tired Siren they better stop doing that shit fuck around and get carjacked ...
@@branbranshenanigans1693 lmaoo what!??
Forever in my Playlist
This is never get old. My emotional Song
It's about time someone wrote a song giving me the permission to love myself before anyone else and be selfish with no apology!! Thank you ❤❤❤
KM 333 enjoy ❤️👉🏽 krplus.net/bidio/qtKbepSTnImoiGk
This reminds me when I discovered SZA , H.E.R and DVSN before they became big. Can she just be our little secret for a while longer
dvsn, dont know her , will check her out
@@StorytellerJobe krplus.net/bidio/aMmxlnl0m6e4gGk
No secrets please... you gotta share her!
I Agree 💯
omfg I really felt that
Sis this song has healed me on some many levels. Sent me on my self love journey. Thanks again sis!
This song hittin’ so good this Valentine’s Day 🥰
It’s not selfish. It’s taking care of the gift you’ve been given: a spirit in a body...
Nicole Pleasant-Immanuel clicks fingers
That's deep. For Real.. Thank you. I just wanted to say that.. God bless..🤗
🙏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾
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Self-centered...self-central😁
When she says she felt this before...I guess shes talking about how us ladies have felt let down by a man at some point in our lives but when you go on the spiritual journey you start to realise by putting the blame on the men letting us down we dont acknowledge the lack of self love that led us to 'rely' on a man to fill that peice of our hearts we thought he could fill 🤷♀️ self love, self care, selfish is the way 🙌🙏 then I pray once we are healed, the right healed man will come and find us for the beautiful gem that you are. Peace to whoever needed to see this today ✌
This was a needed read
Thanks!🤔😇🙄
@@briteal5336 what's with the shady emojis lol. I was saying what u wrote was much needed.
LoveFood&Magic I love ❤️ u for this sus thank u blessing on ur journey 💫✨💕🙏🏽
It meant thinking.
Going through the worse break up ever and everytime i play this i heal a little more.
Sunday Yoga/Stretch Session complete. About to turn the game on and meal prep for Monday. This song is mandatory to set up a positive week.
A Man recently told Me that I was "single by choice..." That was possibly the best compliment a Man has EVER given Me❤
Can't accept just anything Ladies. Lvl up!
I've heard that about myself. It was liberating.
You’re such a gift.
Soul food...literally!!!
This song lives rent free.