It’s crazy how women are the ones having the most sex in the world with an alarming rise in STD’s, but wherever there’s a topic about a man being in a relationship but cheating ONE TIME, now all of a sudden women are so focused on health concerns. News flash, these women out here are fucking! The married ones and all, trust me I know. You act like a man can’t cheat and not bring you anything back and you not ever know anything about it
It takes a different type of woman to value money over emotions and that type of woman is strategic and selfish and will always look out for herself over having a partner mindset because she knows she can’t rely on you mentally and emotionally. You wilding online and she probably got another ninja on the side that’s why she not tripping don’t get it confused. As a man you have to lead by example and give a woman what you want in return
Any women that thinks she gonna find a man that doesn’t cheat doesn’t understand male nature at all and is just gonna end up having more bodies as time go on yall been brainwashed to think monogamy for a man is normal it’s not only America & Europe preach monogamy every other country it’s normal to have multiple women or wives
Man bro facts, we men won’t ever accept a woman cheating and the bad energy spirits to that will drain u in mistrust …it’s a cold Gane the Most High will sent the vetted woman that respects real men in there purpose and power 🙏🏾✌🏾
If you wana cheat and you love yo girl and got emotions for her just tell you you feel like cheating and for some reason you get this urge to cheat and you unsure abt it and ask her what she think and for her advice. From my experience if she really fk wit you she will offer to do something with another girl wit you she just gon respect the honesty no matter how fkd up it may sound she gon be willing to bend
Stop it , It’s not cheating you let a female know upfront this is what you do an she can either deal with or leave . If you paying 100% an taking care of her YOU HAVE A RIGHT TO CHEAT
As a man. You’re right. If a man stayed with a dog azz woman. He’d call that man a punk, a B-word and some more. He wouldn’t be like, see that’s why god don’t want you to lead is cause you’re emotional. He just talks out his ass.
Facts! Cause That’s The Only Reason She There She Don’t Love Him She Love His Money.. She’ll Move On If Another Man Offered Her Stability, She Not Loyal
10:04 Your thinking determines your behavior. Your behavior determines your habits. Your behavior and habits determine your character. Your character determines your destiny. 💯
ADULTERY is in the bible, DO NOT let this mans ideology lead any of you from a righteous way of pursuing a godly relationship. DO NOT defile yourself with this dangerous rhetoric.
I would be all for that if marriage was still treated as sacred as it should be. You could do everything the godly way but if your woman wants to up and leave she can do that. Her friends will support it, her family will support it, even these evangelists who do this prosperity preaching will support it because her “happiness” is paramount. Basically what I’m saying is, marriage is supposed to be godly but if the woman feels otherwise then those rules can be negotiated and you as a man just have to eat it and pick up the pieces yourself
@@icouldntthinkofanotherhandle very true statement. My own personal opinion is it would be better to be single and become one with the almighty, than to be entrapped by the snares of this world. She can leave, but its easier to let her fall, than to seek her love. Job was stripped of EVERYTHING, but his faith never wavered. I find comfort with god ONLY and not the company of another person.
@@icouldntthinkofanotherhandle STOP IT WOMEN AREN'T JUST UP AND LEAVING GOOD MEN SMH..all i did was cheat a few times give her a few stds i got to outside kids and she saw me texting ponks lol .....i just blacked her eyes and knocked out her teeth ion know why she leaving me and her folks pushing it to maneeee....gtfoh
@@ApostleChris0 as a pastor you full of it because you are agreeing with him when you know why women leave and pastors aren't immune to scandal smh this is why people leaving the church in droves
@@valeriecoleman6480 i do not know why women leave and im still young. So do not be quick to think you are the beholder of judgement upon a man whom is still learning. I agreed with him because it is true that in todays society marriage is seen as a temporary deal until one of the spouses becomes “unhappy”, when in fact marriage is a lifetime commitment.
That’s simple. You get married to who you think is the love of your life. You put 3 babies in her. Now she doesn’t want to work anymore because she’s a full time mother. It gets to a point where she doesn’t even want to have sex as much which is depriving you of your needs, but you love the fuck out your family and would never want to be without your children. You mean to tell me I can’t get a little side P every now and then? Not even just once or twice throughout our whole 20+ year relationship. Now I agree I don’t know why these men are still legally marrying these women these days, it’s not like women won’t give you everything they have to offer without a ring. But that’s why, I don’t think men foresee themselves in a predicament like that down the line
Alot of ppl get married over " Money " be no real love in between lol..Why u think alot of folks make grimey plans to kill there spouse/husband in insurance scams ,it's spooky fr..
And it’s not cause men don’t protect themselves and bring diseases home to their girlfriends and wife…..let’s no go down the down low episodes where the men in the 90s and two thousands had HIV rates up and passing it to us black females
@@GeorgiaFinest37yall fucking too. I can’t even count how many women I’ve told I was about to go get a condom and they asked “do you need one?” Like yes shordy I do. It be the ones I see on social media posting the most good girl shit too, the ones that talk just like you.
Yeah, he’s basically saying as long as you making money and providing you can step out on your woman. Nah…don’t believe this crap. Stay solid and take care of your woman if she’s loyal and committed to the relationship.
No cap they do and even tho street Starz is the closest thing even he told them they fucking up I hope they listen cause C.W. be dropping gems and knowledge and in 5 or 6 years he literally has been the most hated watched and trending but he giving away free game we all could use to change the mindset of our youth cause ain't gone be too many youths in the next 10 years 💯
black culture?? You sound ridiculous! Black people don't have a culture, they made one up! Africans have culture, Italians have culture l, Mexicans have culture
I don’t think people are pushing “cheating” to be acceptable. I think men want to go back to the days where women just understood that men sometimes want more than one woman even when they’re with one woman. We used to understand that before colonization. After colonization, BW bought into the idea of monogamy when ironically, the WW have never been able to keep their men from wanting more than one woman either. It’s only looked at as cheating because this is something that women just CAN’T fathom and comprehend. Either that or they don’t want to. Women say a man getting side P one time is cheating, women say liking pics and flirting is cheating, women say even thinking about another woman is cheating. They only write it off as that because they know they can’t do it either
I’m sure the people who were high school sweethearts and were married for 20 and 30 years probably never even thought that they’d cheat. That doesn’t necessarily mean the whole family should be split up just because a man does it once
@@gdot5438 keep watching them Disney movies. I wouldn’t commit to anyone who thinks like you anyway so I’d never have to worry about my woman saying that
30:41 "Tell me a lie and make me believe it" That makes damn good sense. Let me add on something for the mature folks reading these comments. "Don't do things that you have to lie about and don't get involved with people you feel like you have to lie to" With this mindset I have always come out on top.
People teach what they're taught. He just said most have not seen real love. Aka himself, therefore he speaks what he has seen and is now spewing it and unfortunately the broken ones will eat it.
The woke vs the blind. The blind agrees with Charleston but those who are conscious know better fasho. The blind will always lead the blind. Loyalty is so big but folks don’t stand on it. If I Iove you I shouldn’t cheat, lie, etc. a woman will literally do anything for a good honest man & vice versa. I’ll never tell you to stay with someone that broke the loyalty, I’ll never understand why women stay with men who cheat & beat on them. I’ve cheated & each time I did I lied, damaged a person, etc. that shit wasn’t fun dealing with. I never understood why they wanted me to stay when it was obvious I didn’t love them. Even with marriage…why take someone back who cheated & more after saying vows, etc. I just don’t agree.
I like CW but honestly if he talks long enough he'll contradict himself. I take it as a grain of salt, it's just entertainment with a sprinkle of good game.
@@JeremythemarketerI don’t contradict myself. Because I don’t lie. You letting us know that you are a liar. You say things you truly don’t mean. You the guy that like to switch up your story.
@qbrown8753 contradictions and lies are two separate words for a reason. I'll let you figure out why, once again if I could pick through hours of you expressing your views there will be some inconsistencies/contradictions. Especially in free form conversation. You're not the exception. With that said a person's core beliefs/principles should remain consistent Mr Whites have
U don’t get hurt. U leave her. A good woman doesn’t cheat back and she also doesn’t leave. I’m not saying stay through anything but if women believe all men cheat then what’s the purpose of being cheated on by different men?
That right there should let you know that men and women are different. I’ve never heard a man stepping out or thinking about sexing another woman just because his woman did it first. Only women do it out of spite, just to make you feel how they felt. If we were the same then women would just go with their move like how the man does. If I cheat on a woman she gon have to accept it or just break up with me cuz in not finna live my life being apologetic and wondering if she gon get back. I’ll just stay single or get another woman, it’s not hard
@@RicoFrGaming if being a good woman requires having no backbone & putting up with cheating then i want to be a bad woman...smh yall think women are dogs haha
Why you gotta do it in spite? If it was really in you, you would just go with your move the way men do. If I cheat, you either accepting that I did it and I’ll be more cognizant moving forward or breaking up with me cuz ain’t no way I’ll let a woman make me continue our relationship with me being apologetic all the time and worried if she’s gonna get back at me. If I can cheat I can get another woman too, but I’ll only be forced to do that if you can’t accept it
@@user-qc4zo2qf9tI’m not saying be stupid, if your man steps out and that’s something that you two can work out and move past then do that. I’m all for people staying together and working out their relationships. But in not gonna lie if it was me, the only thing I would be concerned with is if she’s gonna stay in the relationship, not stay FAITHFUL. Ain’t no way imma live apologetic and watching over my shoulder forever. If I can step out I can get another woman to be in a relationship with. As my woman, the choice is yours if you can handle it or not. I’m always prepared to take a L and start over as a man I’m never scared to lose a woman cuz as I’ve gotten older I really do realize they come and go. That’s the difference
@@icouldntthinkofanotherhandlewho da fuk going to accept you cheating in the first place just like you can go find someone else she can too….dont worry cause in the US 61% women in the US file for divorce and is initiating it….that tells me anit nobody looking to get married and be bothered down with children
A man/husband should not cheat on their wife/Woman that’s ridiculous this is why some women rather be independent or would cheat as well because of this nonsense mentality.
C.W B SKOOLN THESE GROWN MEN TRYN ASK HIM SO CALL REAL QUESTIONS AND HE GIVING THEM THE REALEST ANSWERS...AND THEN THEY GET THE THINKING FOR THE FIRST TIME....KEEP IT UP CW❤❤❤
C.W. stays spitting gems and facts and no matter how much you hate him he is the definition on a black man that has seen it all been thru it all and still cares enough to wanna give some amazing advice to others 🙏 ❤️ that alone should be praised
Only men would agree to this bs…..that’s why women in the US is initialing divorce at a fast rate 61%….. and it’s gonna increase yall keep listening to this man on relationship advise and you will never marry or stay married you betta be listening to your significant other
@@GeorgiaFinest37you say that like women walk away because they’re smart. Women don’t leave one man and go to another and stay with him the rest of their life they keep bouncing around because the grass don’t be greener like they thought. And What makes you think in the future that men will still be marrying y’all at the same rate? We finally see that we can get the same thing marriage or not and that marriage doesn’t even benefit the man. Like I know for a fact I don’t have to marry you ladies to get what you have to offer so what’s the point?
Love Charleston real copper toned talk for alot of us confused men been torn between white/blackarse world I can relate keep on keeping on Charleston N,z native🙏💯
Facts tbh this isn’t a good look some things in life just don’t need to be said fr he really making it worse when you think about it …..all women are not naive and should just get their feelings dismissed like that especially if she actually holding you down ….obviously if you’re a high value guy women are going to shower you relationship or not and ima leave it at that. In life it’s not about what you do it’s how you do it… nobody is going to be ok with you PURPOSELY disrespectful them nobody all cw basically saying is women should just accept the truth and lay down bout it …women already don’t even want to marry us anymore let’s not keep scaring them away 😂
From 24:00 to 25:40 That whole conversation i can truly tell you that women never looked at that situation like Charles just explained. The dad is the hero and i hope all woman listen over and over and comprehen what has been said.
Any human CAN cheat regardless of gender. But that right there should tell you something, you know women can’t get away with it so why even bother? And I’m not saying a woman should be with a man that consistently cheats on her, but I think you ladies would have much more luck if y’all collectively understood that the men that Y’ALL want is very capable of cheating. If you ladies understood that as opposed to shaming men for something you don’t understand, I think y’all would be a lot happier in relationships. The man may not even do it if he knows that you understand it. But it all else fails you just to keep bouncing from man to man that doesn’t cheat and never will? The one you end up with probably couldn’t cheat even if he really wanted to
@@icouldntthinkofanotherhandlewomen cheat all the time and don’t get caught. This is a conversation because this man is wreckless. His wife probably got someone coming through while he is on the road that knows his place ands keeps his mouth shut…
@@adriannorwood8237 that’s very true cuz I’ve been cheated on and the guy girls cheated with. That’s why I took my feelings out of it and I understand what it is. Just don’t let me find out, if I have no inkling to even question it, then what can I say? But women usually don’t know how to cheat without somehow showing signs of lost respect as well. Me being the guy girls would cheat with, I always saw how they started to demean their man and have less contempt for him. She wasn’t the same woman she was to him when she wasn’t doing dirt herself, she stopped tripping about stuff, she stopped caring as much about the way she talked to him, and she stopped wanting to give it to him as much, that shit became a chore for her
Some men cheat and some men don’t..I agree with most of what CW said but for the most part being a successful man running two companies and a 7 figure earner…I did some cheating and had multiple women but at the age of 28 I know the type of man that I am so I get women throwing themselves at me often but I ignore it or push them away..I got a damn good woman and prayed for it so no need to cheat it’s a mind game if you can master your mind enough then you wouldn’t fall for temptation.. just like some people snitch in streets and some don’t
Charles, you set the bar on this you spoke the realist shit ever. I gotta respect the realness first before the lies. Now, it becomes a choice. Much respect to you.
Charleston is a very wise and sophisticated man! Wisdom comes with life experience and acceptance. Know who you are. Love the life you live. Live the life you love. Love you all day Charleston! Facade Free!
U may have heard this message from many forms of messsangers, but the truth is always the same in the message! We gotta take heed and govern ourselves accordingly as men
A long time ago - he actually said he didn’t cheat on his wife a year ago or so. Not every man makes money. There are plenty of men who cheat - and have nothing. Women know when to stay and when to leave. Kobe was a no brainer..::
If a man repeatedly ruins opportunities for your growth. Constant unfaithful “ controlling, hid you from the world emotionally mentally and physically abusive feels justified bc he PAYS FOR EVERYTHING while being adamant about to not working for years. RUNNNNNNNNN! It your unhappy maybe seek a UNBIASED professional. Sometimes it’s healthy to walk
@@UnderGroundSkoopTV women saw Disney movies at 8 years old and haven’t got out of that mindset since they think life is supposed to be a fairy tale for them. Betty Wright made a song called No Pain in ‘87 but yet, women think they don’t have to go through SHIT to have something worth having in life
Technically speaking and sticking just to your choice of words, yes, the love for a mother is different from the love for another girl. After all, they are separate individuals, so obviously, it won’t be the same. Can you expound on what you are saying?
@@andrereid4937the love I have for my mom is not the same love I have for my two girlfriends or my wife and my other woman. I don’t have two girlfriends but that’s the expounding that you asked for
@@andrereid4937 The love you have for your homeboy is a brotherly love. (Philia) You don’t want to marry your brother. That’s different from the way you love God (Agape) or the way you love your girl (Eros) which is a sexual way. You understand?
I got a question. We all know who Lebron and Savannah James is. If he cheated yesterday for the very first time ever and we all found out today, would that automatically mean he doesn’t respect her? We all say he loves and respect her now but if it comes out that he did that one time, does all of that go away at that point right then and there? They’ve been together since high school and he made an honest woman out of her. If he made it all the way to 60 years old and just so happen to get a little gawk gawk from someone else, does he automatically not love and respect her anymore?
no respect for himself either ..they love to mention traditional men but real good men wouldn't be caught hanging with men who cheat they wouldn't want that to tarnish their reputation or risk loosing their families
@@icouldntthinkofanotherhandle kinda like Bill Cosby's wife I know it had to be hard to put on a smile knowing your husband was a sex crazed fool and look what happened to him ..his wife made him look good and made him real like lebrons wife...men don't make women honest it's the other way around..and From what I am hearing about lebron he exploits women it's his business soo he's baby diddy around there
@@valeriecoleman6480 thank you for telling us what real good men do… random lady. Us men would have never known without you. Lady you shouldn’t speak on what a real man does because you’ll never know
Real talk "real men aren't liked" and shouldn't care to be liked. Your women and children don't have to like you - but respect should be demanded and earned - but, with zero expectation you'll get your flowers/trophies/badges before you croak. The best and greatest of men earn their respect once they are no longer among the living
It’s called cheating because it’s not agreed upon it’s wrong period. When did it become expectable to emotionally abuse your women because you have money and a lack of self control. If he constantly cheats he does not respect you because he knows you’ve made it acceptable.
That’s cap. I’ve seen plenty of women get with men who told them what it was when they first met. But as soon as they’ve had enough and realize they can’t handle it, now he’s a “cheater” like no shordy you knew what you signed up for. There’s no reason to bash the man now. Y’all just hate it because you can’t do it. If you cared to understand what it is then you’ll be better off
@@icouldntthinkofanotherhandle I’m going to need you to look up the definition of cheating then come back and discuss. If it’s agreed upon then I’m not talking about that. When men cheat you are lying and being deceptive and destroying the trust in your relationship. I don’t know a couple who believes cheating will build trust and make your relationship stronger your the delusional one. You think you can be dishonest to the main one who’s going to be there with you through thick and thin and that’s ok for some reason but will respect the average Jo off the street, you men have it backwards
@@kiandra711 I’m not talking about a man who isn’t honest with himself and can’t let the woman know what it is straight up. What I’m saying is women will still call it cheating when they get to the point that they can’t handle it anymore, even when they knew what it was from the jump. The men that lie about it are just scared to take a L and probably don’t think they can get another woman. And you ladies only have that view of it because you don’t care to understand the man’s disposition in those situations. The same as why you ladies write off everything else you don’t like and use shaming words. Like calling men sassy for doing something you don’t like when that’s not what sassy means. Calling men controlling because you don’t want to hold your self to a certain standard in a relationship. And saying men are vile and disgusting for sometimes wanting another woman when men have been like that since the beginning of time. Y’all the ones that need to look up the definitions of the words you use. It’s all write offs to make you feel better about your situation. That’s like me wifing a porn star but later on calling her a hoe for not wanting to conduct herself in the way I think a wife should act. That’s just me writing it off and shaming her and not holding myself accountable for the situation I put myself in not understanding her as the woman I chose. Humans not just men or women write shit off as something else to make themselves feel better and not have to look in the mirror
This works for women who dont care about their man. The soul ties, the embarrassment, the possibility of kids and diseases its not worth it, when you can be honest.
I remember my grandmother telling me before she past….” “Son A women that’s looking for a perfect man , she will be searching forever. Your grandfather had the basics to survive , now look at us 50yrs later “
Cheating is a deal breaker for me. I don’t care what CW says. Know what you’re going to tolerate and what you’re not going to tolerate. People cheat cause they know their partner is going to forgive them. ✌🏽
@@MindYourClaims and I don’t even mean that to sound callous or anything. But imagine if all the men who are in sexless marriages right now and the ones who are just staying in their loveless marriage to continue raising their children in their home and not lose everything they worked hard for decided to up and walk away. I think they should because ladies will walk away at the slightest inconvenience with no grace being extended and no thought of reconciliation whatsoever while men put up with so much that a woman wouldn’t. It’s not fair. Men will make it work much longer for the sake of the family than women will. I think the man’s happiness matters as well if nobody else thinks so. I feel for the men who feel as if they’re trapped in a legal marriage because their woman disregards his natural biological needs as a man for the physical touch from his woman. Even long tenured and experienced divorce attorneys say that men shouldn’t get married anymore because that happens more often than people talk about. A woman shouldn’t be provided for while the man’s physical needs are disregarded and he can lose EVERYTHING if he tries to outsource that one desire elsewhere because he’s not getting it from his wife
@@MindYourClaims you’re a woman with great understanding for the man’s plight without getting your emotions wrapped up into this topic, which is rare. A guy would be lucky to have your and I stamp that
I fw charleston, but cheating on the lady you call your "Wife" intentionally is crazy. Im flawed to when it comes to this love shi, but i'll let my "Wife" go before I continuously put her through the hurt of heartbreak. Thats jus me tho.💯🤷🏾♂️
I used to think like that about women until I realized that I would have got more respect if they knew that I WOULD step out if I wanted to. You put a woman on a pedestal because you love her and she’s liable to abuse that shit. If you let her know that she’s not the only one that could be wetting your D up then she all of a sudden craves you like crazy. Cheating is for her to act right. “You gotta smell fish on me so you know I can still catch fish cuz if I lose my ability to catch fish then you won’t find me sexy anymore”
You got no choice but to leave me cuz ain’t no way ima keep apologizing about it and let you do it back to me. If a man can cheat on you he can replace you as well. You’re the one that’s gonna have to keep bouncing from man to man hoping that he doesn’t do you the way I did you
@@valeriecoleman6480 men cheat all the time and women still never end up replacing them. It’s not like women leave one man and go to another man and stay with him the rest of their life. They usually end up bouncing around with multiple man because no one else can compare
I someone grandpa did this and they granny still stay with him for 62 years because all of the bills was paid and kept hustling, she knew what she was doing and didn’t say a word.
he telling the truth bout how many black folk act. he speaks shock value with humor and truth. listen to how he break it down vs being stuck on oh he say cheat. woman dint like discussing why men cheat. argumentative rationing out sex no peace at home etc .. change that shit. I stead yall get triggered and defensive. he waa spot on bout the sexual stuff black women wouldn't do in the 90s... same way black men weren't eating ass and cat like that. sane way black women weren't shaved bald like that. now ery chick at the wax place... anyway listen to what he saying
I respect CW, but I disagree with him here. HIV is a high cost if caught from your spouse or any type STD. It's never worth it to stay. There are a lot of reckless men and women. It's not wise to continue in a marriage to someone who seeks to harm you and your body without recourse. God gave us sense, but never said to stay in marriage for hopes you may profit from the marriage. To keep things in perspective, a spouse can be a liability if he's a foolish man. A fool will continue in his foolish ways if he doesn't recognize his foolish behavior. Which becomes detrimental to himself and his home.
It's my first time dating a blk man, and I trust him less than anyone else, and I feel it's rooted but just more capable of infidelity and nothing about past trauma. I just study people just like Charleston 6 blk men just seem more sneaky to me
Letting your partner cheat on you and possibly put your heath at risk because they have money is by far crazy as hell..
It’s crazy how women are the ones having the most sex in the world with an alarming rise in STD’s, but wherever there’s a topic about a man being in a relationship but cheating ONE TIME, now all of a sudden women are so focused on health concerns. News flash, these women out here are fucking! The married ones and all, trust me I know. You act like a man can’t cheat and not bring you anything back and you not ever know anything about it
Look beyond a simple lifestyle having money make things different and complicated
I’m with you on this hunny, I ain’t doing it!
Facts
It’s crazy but u know it’s true got to pray that rubber work rather u a broke mf or not
"Real men aint liked he's missed after he gone" facts
My Mom Told Me It's His Fault The First Time He Cheats But Your Fault The Next Time For Taking Him Back.
bullshit
@reronal4940 you slow as hell
Any woman that’s allowing you to cheat on her doesn’t really love you and is liable to back door you
It takes a different type of woman to value money over emotions and that type of woman is strategic and selfish and will always look out for herself over having a partner mindset because she knows she can’t rely on you mentally and emotionally. You wilding online and she probably got another ninja on the side that’s why she not tripping don’t get it confused. As a man you have to lead by example and give a woman what you want in return
Facts!!!
Any women that thinks she gonna find a man that doesn’t cheat doesn’t understand male nature at all and is just gonna end up having more bodies as time go on yall been brainwashed to think monogamy for a man is normal it’s not only America & Europe preach monogamy every other country it’s normal to have multiple women or wives
Man bro facts, we men won’t ever accept a woman cheating and the bad energy spirits to that will drain u in mistrust …it’s a cold Gane the Most High will sent the vetted woman that respects real men in there purpose and power 🙏🏾✌🏾
Some women love you enough to help remove those demons from your spirit some women do it for God not money
Fellas don’t cheat. It ain’t worth it. Be loyal and honest. If that cheating itch creep up on you & you can’t fight it…just leave the relationship.✌🏾
it’s not about leaving the relationship
lol it’s not that easy fam . We’re all humans filled with emotions
If you wana cheat and you love yo girl and got emotions for her just tell you you feel like cheating and for some reason you get this urge to cheat and you unsure abt it and ask her what she think and for her advice. From my experience if she really fk wit you she will offer to do something with another girl wit you she just gon respect the honesty no matter how fkd up it may sound she gon be willing to bend
Excellent advice!! Therapy helps too..
Stop it , It’s not cheating you let a female know upfront this is what you do an she can either deal with or leave . If you paying 100% an taking care of her YOU HAVE A RIGHT TO CHEAT
There is no amount of money worth your self respect, dignity, and worth. 💋❤️
As a man. You’re right. If a man stayed with a dog azz woman. He’d call that man a punk, a B-word and some more. He wouldn’t be like, see that’s why god don’t want you to lead is cause you’re emotional. He just talks out his ass.
“How you manage ? By keep getting money , once you stop making money YOU ASS IN TROUBLE BOY” that’s some real shii 💯💯
Time stap it
He said it in the first minute
Facts! Cause That’s The Only Reason She There She Don’t Love Him She Love His Money.. She’ll Move On If Another Man Offered Her Stability, She Not Loyal
10:04 Your thinking determines your behavior. Your behavior determines your habits. Your behavior and habits determine your character. Your character determines your destiny. 💯
ADULTERY is in the bible, DO NOT let this mans ideology lead any of you from a righteous way of pursuing a godly relationship. DO NOT defile yourself with this dangerous rhetoric.
I would be all for that if marriage was still treated as sacred as it should be. You could do everything the godly way but if your woman wants to up and leave she can do that. Her friends will support it, her family will support it, even these evangelists who do this prosperity preaching will support it because her “happiness” is paramount. Basically what I’m saying is, marriage is supposed to be godly but if the woman feels otherwise then those rules can be negotiated and you as a man just have to eat it and pick up the pieces yourself
@@icouldntthinkofanotherhandle very true statement. My own personal opinion is it would be better to be single and become one with the almighty, than to be entrapped by the snares of this world. She can leave, but its easier to let her fall, than to seek her love. Job was stripped of EVERYTHING, but his faith never wavered. I find comfort with god ONLY and not the company of another person.
@@icouldntthinkofanotherhandle STOP IT WOMEN AREN'T JUST UP AND LEAVING GOOD MEN SMH..all i did was cheat a few times give her a few stds i got to outside kids and she saw me texting ponks lol .....i just blacked her eyes and knocked out her teeth ion know why she leaving me and her folks pushing it to maneeee....gtfoh
@@ApostleChris0 as a pastor you full of it because you are agreeing with him when you know why women leave and pastors aren't immune to scandal smh this is why people leaving the church in droves
@@valeriecoleman6480 i do not know why women leave and im still young. So do not be quick to think you are the beholder of judgement upon a man whom is still learning. I agreed with him because it is true that in todays society marriage is seen as a temporary deal until one of the spouses becomes “unhappy”, when in fact marriage is a lifetime commitment.
I never understood the point of getting married, yet still cheating. What’s the point in making that commitment then?
That’s simple. You get married to who you think is the love of your life. You put 3 babies in her. Now she doesn’t want to work anymore because she’s a full time mother. It gets to a point where she doesn’t even want to have sex as much which is depriving you of your needs, but you love the fuck out your family and would never want to be without your children. You mean to tell me I can’t get a little side P every now and then? Not even just once or twice throughout our whole 20+ year relationship. Now I agree I don’t know why these men are still legally marrying these women these days, it’s not like women won’t give you everything they have to offer without a ring. But that’s why, I don’t think men foresee themselves in a predicament like that down the line
It's a business and a tax break
Alot of ppl get married over " Money " be no real love in between lol..Why u think alot of folks make grimey plans to kill there spouse/husband in insurance scams ,it's spooky fr..
Most blk ppl think marriage is solely about love, most other cultures view marriage as a business transaction, wealth builder and/or legacy.
@@TheObsidianLogic WELL THAT'S OIT THE WINDOW ATP LOL
I never thought I would see the day where cheating is ok and normal in relationships. 😂 this is crazy.
And it’s not cause men don’t protect themselves and bring diseases home to their girlfriends and wife…..let’s no go down the down low episodes where the men in the 90s and two thousands had HIV rates up and passing it to us black females
@@GeorgiaFinest37yall fucking too. I can’t even count how many women I’ve told I was about to go get a condom and they asked “do you need one?” Like yes shordy I do. It be the ones I see on social media posting the most good girl shit too, the ones that talk just like you.
ITS BEEN LIKE THIS 🤣🤦🏽♂️
Yeah, he’s basically saying as long as you making money and providing you can step out on your woman. Nah…don’t believe this crap. Stay solid and take care of your woman if she’s loyal and committed to the relationship.
you make your own wealth and do that, but dont live through others mens way of life if it isnt hurting u@@finnessejets4231
Shawn and Charleston need a weekly or bi-weekly podcast. Nobody in black culture does better interviews
Respectfully Real Street Stars do
No cap they do and even tho street Starz is the closest thing even he told them they fucking up I hope they listen cause C.W. be dropping gems and knowledge and in 5 or 6 years he literally has been the most hated watched and trending but he giving away free game we all could use to change the mindset of our youth cause ain't gone be too many youths in the next 10 years 💯
@@MrKilla560no they don’t…just look at the numbers!! Numbers don’t lie
Definitely
black culture?? You sound ridiculous! Black people don't have a culture, they made one up! Africans have culture, Italians have culture l, Mexicans have culture
This push for cheating to be acceptable behavior blows my mind…. It’s excuses for heartless /reckless /selfish behavior
I don’t think people are pushing “cheating” to be acceptable. I think men want to go back to the days where women just understood that men sometimes want more than one woman even when they’re with one woman. We used to understand that before colonization. After colonization, BW bought into the idea of monogamy when ironically, the WW have never been able to keep their men from wanting more than one woman either. It’s only looked at as cheating because this is something that women just CAN’T fathom and comprehend. Either that or they don’t want to. Women say a man getting side P one time is cheating, women say liking pics and flirting is cheating, women say even thinking about another woman is cheating. They only write it off as that because they know they can’t do it either
Ion think its about that i think its pushing the narrative that its ok for men to be men again especially the black man
@@taycojohnson2513exactly because women want men to not be what a man is so bad
yeah ill behaving with it being considered ok bc it’s “natural”
It’s insane but as long as men know that their woman will be cheating too and won’t know what the real father of their kids are then have at it.
Why even be in a relationship if you gon cheat jut a waste of a persons time just be single
I’m sure the people who were high school sweethearts and were married for 20 and 30 years probably never even thought that they’d cheat. That doesn’t necessarily mean the whole family should be split up just because a man does it once
@@icouldntthinkofanotherhandleyou sound dumb 😂
@@gdot5438 you saying that doesn’t bother me nor does it make me want to think otherwise
@@gdot5438 keep watching them Disney movies. I wouldn’t commit to anyone who thinks like you anyway so I’d never have to worry about my woman saying that
@@icouldntthinkofanotherhandle yet you replied twice ✌🏾🤣
When you humble more... you will fumble less.. less is more.💪🏿🏆
He dont need to talk about relationships..he is flawed in this area
@sabrinacampbell329 You don’t need to comment on said video ..your weave is flawed
Yup
He’s speaking the truth.
Bruh I can listen to Charleston interviews all day. Dude really be speaking facts
How
Please this man is doing the devils work.
30:41 "Tell me a lie and make me believe it" That makes damn good sense. Let me add on something for the mature folks reading these comments.
"Don't do things that you have to lie about and don't get involved with people you feel like you have to lie to" With this mindset I have always come out on top.
Ain't nothing funny about our EVIL WAYS until someone try them on us
People teach what they're taught.
He just said most have not seen real love. Aka himself, therefore he speaks what he has seen and is now spewing it and unfortunately the broken ones will eat it.
The woke vs the blind. The blind agrees with Charleston but those who are conscious know better fasho. The blind will always lead the blind. Loyalty is so big but folks don’t stand on it. If I Iove you I shouldn’t cheat, lie, etc. a woman will literally do anything for a good honest man & vice versa. I’ll never tell you to stay with someone that broke the loyalty, I’ll never understand why women stay with men who cheat & beat on them. I’ve cheated & each time I did I lied, damaged a person, etc. that shit wasn’t fun dealing with. I never understood why they wanted me to stay when it was obvious I didn’t love them. Even with marriage…why take someone back who cheated & more after saying vows, etc. I just don’t agree.
Yea
Thank You
I like CW but honestly if he talks long enough he'll contradict himself. I take it as a grain of salt, it's just entertainment with a sprinkle of good game.
If any human talks long enough there will be contradictions. Just be glad there isn't hours of audio of you for people to pick apart...
@@Jeremythemarketer if you can contradict yourself 10,15 minutes into a Convo that ain't good.
@Rambunctious216 Meh, see original response. Point me to a video of you talking for 15 minutes 😁
@@JeremythemarketerI don’t contradict myself. Because I don’t lie. You letting us know that you are a liar. You say things you truly don’t mean. You the guy that like to switch up your story.
@qbrown8753 contradictions and lies are two separate words for a reason. I'll let you figure out why, once again if I could pick through hours of you expressing your views there will be some inconsistencies/contradictions. Especially in free form conversation.
You're not the exception. With that said a person's core beliefs/principles should remain consistent Mr Whites have
Man we doomed😂relationships and loyalty dead u just gotta laugh to keep from cryin
Omm you do dis shit bitter sweet I swea
Once you cheat ..dont get hurt when she do 😅
U don’t get hurt. U leave her. A good woman doesn’t cheat back and she also doesn’t leave. I’m not saying stay through anything but if women believe all men cheat then what’s the purpose of being cheated on by different men?
That right there should let you know that men and women are different. I’ve never heard a man stepping out or thinking about sexing another woman just because his woman did it first. Only women do it out of spite, just to make you feel how they felt. If we were the same then women would just go with their move like how the man does. If I cheat on a woman she gon have to accept it or just break up with me cuz in not finna live my life being apologetic and wondering if she gon get back. I’ll just stay single or get another woman, it’s not hard
That’s how gay men and women think
@@RicoFrGaming if being a good woman requires having no backbone & putting up with cheating then i want to be a bad woman...smh yall think women are dogs haha
@@RicoFrGamingwoman and logic dont go togheter bro
I appreciate listening to Charleston talk his talk 😆😆 i pay attention to the fruitful parts and leave the rest that i dont agree with or accept 🤷🏾♀️
As long as he doesn't leave his woman when she cheats, he would not be double standard---an awesome situation!
Why you gotta do it in spite? If it was really in you, you would just go with your move the way men do. If I cheat, you either accepting that I did it and I’ll be more cognizant moving forward or breaking up with me cuz ain’t no way I’ll let a woman make me continue our relationship with me being apologetic all the time and worried if she’s gonna get back at me. If I can cheat I can get another woman too, but I’ll only be forced to do that if you can’t accept it
@@icouldntthinkofanotherhandlei hope women are not staying faithful to cheating men..
@@user-qc4zo2qf9tI’m not saying be stupid, if your man steps out and that’s something that you two can work out and move past then do that. I’m all for people staying together and working out their relationships. But in not gonna lie if it was me, the only thing I would be concerned with is if she’s gonna stay in the relationship, not stay FAITHFUL. Ain’t no way imma live apologetic and watching over my shoulder forever. If I can step out I can get another woman to be in a relationship with. As my woman, the choice is yours if you can handle it or not. I’m always prepared to take a L and start over as a man I’m never scared to lose a woman cuz as I’ve gotten older I really do realize they come and go. That’s the difference
@@icouldntthinkofanotherhandlewhy even cheat in the first place if worried about a woman cheating back? Lol. Senseless.
@@icouldntthinkofanotherhandlewho da fuk going to accept you cheating in the first place just like you can go find someone else she can too….dont worry cause in the US 61% women in the US file for divorce and is initiating it….that tells me anit nobody looking to get married and be bothered down with children
Say what you want about Charleston but he speaks the truth everytime.
No he don't
@@karmenwashington2760yes he does
@@karmenwashington2760hater
@@karmenwashington2760yea he do
He doesn’t at all. He takes everything God says is wrong and says it’s right.
2:00 - Wow… he hit the nail on the head! That was a crap-ton of wisdom in just two minutes flat!
Respect!
A man/husband should not cheat on their wife/Woman that’s ridiculous this is why some women rather be independent or would cheat as well because of this nonsense mentality.
This was a riveting video i laughed I cried plus the multi generational platform discussion is compelling to say the least
Great Interview ✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿
C.W B SKOOLN THESE GROWN MEN TRYN ASK HIM SO CALL REAL QUESTIONS AND HE GIVING THEM THE REALEST ANSWERS...AND THEN THEY GET THE THINKING FOR THE FIRST TIME....KEEP IT UP CW❤❤❤
C.W. stays spitting gems and facts and no matter how much you hate him he is the definition on a black man that has seen it all been thru it all and still cares enough to wanna give some amazing advice to others 🙏 ❤️ that alone should be praised
Cheating is part of relationships in the same way that snitching is part of the streets. It is what it is. Don’t let that go ova your head 😂
Exactly
facts
Barzzzz!
Only men would agree to this bs…..that’s why women in the US is initialing divorce at a fast rate 61%….. and it’s gonna increase yall keep listening to this man on relationship advise and you will never marry or stay married you betta be listening to your significant other
@@GeorgiaFinest37you say that like women walk away because they’re smart. Women don’t leave one man and go to another and stay with him the rest of their life they keep bouncing around because the grass don’t be greener like they thought. And What makes you think in the future that men will still be marrying y’all at the same rate? We finally see that we can get the same thing marriage or not and that marriage doesn’t even benefit the man. Like I know for a fact I don’t have to marry you ladies to get what you have to offer so what’s the point?
Love Charleston real copper toned talk for alot of us confused men been torn between white/blackarse world I can relate keep on keeping on Charleston N,z native🙏💯
Folks Yall Got Da Best Duo interview 💯💯💯
I like the vibes with all of you bless, 💯
You should never say it's ok to cheat , when you cheats, your heart is not completely on one person.
Men don't cheat for love. There's no heart involed.
Facts tbh this isn’t a good look some things in life just don’t need to be said fr he really making it worse when you think about it …..all women are not naive and should just get their feelings dismissed like that especially if she actually holding you down ….obviously if you’re a high value guy women are going to shower you relationship or not and ima leave it at that. In life it’s not about what you do it’s how you do it… nobody is going to be ok with you PURPOSELY disrespectful them nobody all cw basically saying is women should just accept the truth and lay down bout it …women already don’t even want to marry us anymore let’s not keep scaring them away 😂
A woman leaving a man that cheats one time is the equivalent to a man quitting the NFL because he gets tackled and pancaked too hard. Just weak!
Sex is and a man's D@$^ is one department. The heart is another.
This why I am single , retired, wealthy. Love my peace. Walking STD.
Well said Charleston 💯
He spoke a lot of truth 💯
From 24:00 to 25:40 That whole conversation i can truly tell you that women never looked at that situation like Charles just explained. The dad is the hero and i hope all woman listen over and over and comprehen what has been said.
Some people feel they can cheat because they take care of the house a woman could never get away with it😂😂
Any human CAN cheat regardless of gender. But that right there should tell you something, you know women can’t get away with it so why even bother? And I’m not saying a woman should be with a man that consistently cheats on her, but I think you ladies would have much more luck if y’all collectively understood that the men that Y’ALL want is very capable of cheating. If you ladies understood that as opposed to shaming men for something you don’t understand, I think y’all would be a lot happier in relationships. The man may not even do it if he knows that you understand it. But it all else fails you just to keep bouncing from man to man that doesn’t cheat and never will? The one you end up with probably couldn’t cheat even if he really wanted to
@@icouldntthinkofanotherhandle That's deep
@@icouldntthinkofanotherhandlewomen cheat all the time and don’t get caught. This is a conversation because this man is wreckless. His wife probably got someone coming through while he is on the road that knows his place ands keeps his mouth shut…
@@adriannorwood8237 that’s very true cuz I’ve been cheated on and the guy girls cheated with. That’s why I took my feelings out of it and I understand what it is. Just don’t let me find out, if I have no inkling to even question it, then what can I say? But women usually don’t know how to cheat without somehow showing signs of lost respect as well. Me being the guy girls would cheat with, I always saw how they started to demean their man and have less contempt for him. She wasn’t the same woman she was to him when she wasn’t doing dirt herself, she stopped tripping about stuff, she stopped caring as much about the way she talked to him, and she stopped wanting to give it to him as much, that shit became a chore for her
Yall don’t gotta worry about providing or protecting like men do the least yall can do is keep yall legs closed not a hard job
Idk why But The videos don’t hit the same Now that you’re on Camera Shawn
It was something Unique about U being in the background Askin the questions
Loyalty is a personal characteristic..
“You lying to me, I ain’t thinking bout her till I’m riding home”😂😂😂😂😂😂
Some men cheat and some men don’t..I agree with most of what CW said but for the most part being a successful man running two companies and a 7 figure earner…I did some cheating and had multiple women but at the age of 28 I know the type of man that I am so I get women throwing themselves at me often but I ignore it or push them away..I got a damn good woman and prayed for it so no need to cheat it’s a mind game if you can master your mind enough then you wouldn’t fall for temptation.. just like some people snitch in streets and some don’t
This! ❤
You respect your woman 🎉not too many of you in the comments
This was a really good convo
My son in my head, spoke nothing but, truth!
FACTS 👍🏾💯
Charles, you set the bar on this you spoke the realist shit ever. I gotta respect the realness first before the lies. Now, it becomes a choice. Much respect to you.
Charleston is a very wise and sophisticated man! Wisdom comes with life experience and acceptance. Know who you are. Love the life you live. Live the life you love. Love you all day Charleston! Facade Free!
Straight facts
U may have heard this message from many forms of messsangers, but the truth is always the same in the message! We gotta take heed and govern ourselves accordingly as men
This is absolutely correct. Loyal to my emotions and logic come into play after the fact.
That’s why us as men have to disregard your emotions because you’re fickle
Not fickle just running off emotions. Women are running shyt and where are the majority of our men?
@@demetriajackson784what are women running?
A long time ago - he actually said he didn’t cheat on his wife a year ago or so. Not every man makes money. There are plenty of men who cheat - and have nothing. Women know when to stay and when to leave. Kobe was a no brainer..::
Kobe wife waited 10 years and was about to divorce him..pretty sure she filed all the paperwork
They had already been together for some time anyway.
If a man repeatedly ruins opportunities for your growth. Constant unfaithful “ controlling, hid you from the world emotionally mentally and physically abusive feels justified bc he PAYS FOR EVERYTHING while being adamant about to not working for years. RUNNNNNNNNN! It your unhappy maybe seek a UNBIASED professional. Sometimes it’s healthy to walk
Only you women look at it like that. That’s why men shouldn’t care about what you think. You think what you feel is reality when it’s not
“Hiding you from the world” lol yall need to cut it out this aint a damn disney movie
@@UnderGroundSkoopTV women saw Disney movies at 8 years old and haven’t got out of that mindset since they think life is supposed to be a fairy tale for them. Betty Wright made a song called No Pain in ‘87 but yet, women think they don’t have to go through SHIT to have something worth having in life
Im OG dude you lil brothers just got to listen to charles OG on point
Yall on to some good 💚💚💚 On point Charleston..... same time 👌💯
This is so deep... so real. In every level
That's you in your profile picture
There are different types of love. The love you have for your mother isn’t the same love you have for your girl.
Technically speaking and sticking just to your choice of words, yes, the love for a mother is different from the love for another girl. After all, they are separate individuals, so obviously, it won’t be the same. Can you expound on what you are saying?
@@andrereid4937the love I have for my mom is not the same love I have for my two girlfriends or my wife and my other woman. I don’t have two girlfriends but that’s the expounding that you asked for
@@andrereid4937 The love you have for your homeboy is a brotherly love. (Philia) You don’t want to marry your brother. That’s different from the way you love God (Agape) or the way you love your girl (Eros) which is a sexual way. You understand?
Much love to y'all kings ❤❤❤❤ good ass interview
The first few minutes of what he said was very true
You love her but you cheat because you don't respect her, because you know that will hurt her yet you still do it🤦🏾♂️ NO RESPECT FOR YOUR WIFE 🥲
I got a question. We all know who Lebron and Savannah James is. If he cheated yesterday for the very first time ever and we all found out today, would that automatically mean he doesn’t respect her? We all say he loves and respect her now but if it comes out that he did that one time, does all of that go away at that point right then and there? They’ve been together since high school and he made an honest woman out of her. If he made it all the way to 60 years old and just so happen to get a little gawk gawk from someone else, does he automatically not love and respect her anymore?
@@icouldntthinkofanotherhandlecw is a agent yall lame af and can’t control your nut this comment section is weird af
no respect for himself either ..they love to mention traditional men but real good men wouldn't be caught hanging with men who cheat they wouldn't want that to tarnish their reputation or risk loosing their families
@@icouldntthinkofanotherhandle kinda like Bill Cosby's wife I know it had to be hard to put on a smile knowing your husband was a sex crazed fool and look what happened to him ..his wife made him look good and made him real like lebrons wife...men don't make women honest it's the other way around..and From what I am hearing about lebron he exploits women it's his business soo he's baby diddy around there
@@valeriecoleman6480 thank you for telling us what real good men do… random lady. Us men would have never known without you. Lady you shouldn’t speak on what a real man does because you’ll never know
Real talk "real men aren't liked" and shouldn't care to be liked. Your women and children don't have to like you - but respect should be demanded and earned - but, with zero expectation you'll get your flowers/trophies/badges before you croak. The best and greatest of men earn their respect once they are no longer among the living
he tellin a whole lot of truth
This is a crazy interview 😂
This is a prime example of men being men I love it 💯💪🏾👏🏾
It’s called cheating because it’s not agreed upon it’s wrong period. When did it become expectable to emotionally abuse your women because you have money and a lack of self control. If he constantly cheats he does not respect you because he knows you’ve made it acceptable.
That’s cap. I’ve seen plenty of women get with men who told them what it was when they first met. But as soon as they’ve had enough and realize they can’t handle it, now he’s a “cheater” like no shordy you knew what you signed up for. There’s no reason to bash the man now. Y’all just hate it because you can’t do it. If you cared to understand what it is then you’ll be better off
@@icouldntthinkofanotherhandle I’m going to need you to look up the definition of cheating then come back and discuss. If it’s agreed upon then I’m not talking about that. When men cheat you are lying and being deceptive and destroying the trust in your relationship. I don’t know a couple who believes cheating will build trust and make your relationship stronger your the delusional one. You think you can be dishonest to the main one who’s going to be there with you through thick and thin and that’s ok for some reason but will respect the average Jo off the street, you men have it backwards
@@kiandra711 I’m not talking about a man who isn’t honest with himself and can’t let the woman know what it is straight up. What I’m saying is women will still call it cheating when they get to the point that they can’t handle it anymore, even when they knew what it was from the jump. The men that lie about it are just scared to take a L and probably don’t think they can get another woman. And you ladies only have that view of it because you don’t care to understand the man’s disposition in those situations. The same as why you ladies write off everything else you don’t like and use shaming words. Like calling men sassy for doing something you don’t like when that’s not what sassy means. Calling men controlling because you don’t want to hold your self to a certain standard in a relationship. And saying men are vile and disgusting for sometimes wanting another woman when men have been like that since the beginning of time. Y’all the ones that need to look up the definitions of the words you use. It’s all write offs to make you feel better about your situation. That’s like me wifing a porn star but later on calling her a hoe for not wanting to conduct herself in the way I think a wife should act. That’s just me writing it off and shaming her and not holding myself accountable for the situation I put myself in not understanding her as the woman I chose. Humans not just men or women write shit off as something else to make themselves feel better and not have to look in the mirror
It’s not cheating.
You don’t understand men nature
@@icouldntthinkofanotherhandlesheesh do you have anything to do ?
Shoutout Shawn for doing his thang
42:47 Reading is critical to making good choices and decisions. 💯
Let's not normalize cheating🙄😭🤷♂️
I think we should normalize understanding who men are and not calling everything cheating
This works for women who dont care about their man. The soul ties, the embarrassment, the possibility of kids and diseases its not worth it, when you can be honest.
As men we think this coo til a better man come along. Then we recant. Everyone situation aint the same..
35:35 "You F*d up when you get on social media!".. FACTS!!
He come from dysfunctional love so he’s flawed in this area. We all flawed and this one of his
He is speaking straight facts too
@@dark12ainno
I remember my grandmother telling me before she past….”
“Son A women that’s looking for a perfect man , she will be searching forever. Your grandfather had the basics to survive , now look at us 50yrs later “
Modern women today view your grandmother as a slave held hostage LOL!!!!
@@safetyscrewmarketthey’ll be alone when they’re older. That’s what they want anyway
Preach!!!!!!
Facts 💯 💯 💯
Cheating is a deal breaker for me. I don’t care what CW says. Know what you’re going to tolerate and what you’re not going to tolerate. People cheat cause they know their partner is going to forgive them. ✌🏽
You say that as if a man will forever be thrown off if you decide to leave. If he can step out he can get another you
@@icouldntthinkofanotherhandlethank you! When women say cheating is a deal breaker, that man will not be bothered and move on
@@MindYourClaims and I don’t even mean that to sound callous or anything. But imagine if all the men who are in sexless marriages right now and the ones who are just staying in their loveless marriage to continue raising their children in their home and not lose everything they worked hard for decided to up and walk away. I think they should because ladies will walk away at the slightest inconvenience with no grace being extended and no thought of reconciliation whatsoever while men put up with so much that a woman wouldn’t. It’s not fair. Men will make it work much longer for the sake of the family than women will. I think the man’s happiness matters as well if nobody else thinks so. I feel for the men who feel as if they’re trapped in a legal marriage because their woman disregards his natural biological needs as a man for the physical touch from his woman. Even long tenured and experienced divorce attorneys say that men shouldn’t get married anymore because that happens more often than people talk about. A woman shouldn’t be provided for while the man’s physical needs are disregarded and he can lose EVERYTHING if he tries to outsource that one desire elsewhere because he’s not getting it from his wife
@@icouldntthinkofanotherhandle well said. I definitely agree
@@MindYourClaims you’re a woman with great understanding for the man’s plight without getting your emotions wrapped up into this topic, which is rare. A guy would be lucky to have your and I stamp that
I fw charleston, but cheating on the lady you call your "Wife" intentionally is crazy. Im flawed to when it comes to this love shi, but i'll let my "Wife" go before I continuously put her through the hurt of heartbreak. Thats jus me tho.💯🤷🏾♂️
🙏🙏🙏
Real shit. Dem wedding vows are life long promises, don't marry if you won't live by them
One of these days he going to meet his match and leave his wife
I used to think like that about women until I realized that I would have got more respect if they knew that I WOULD step out if I wanted to. You put a woman on a pedestal because you love her and she’s liable to abuse that shit. If you let her know that she’s not the only one that could be wetting your D up then she all of a sudden craves you like crazy. Cheating is for her to act right. “You gotta smell fish on me so you know I can still catch fish cuz if I lose my ability to catch fish then you won’t find me sexy anymore”
Finally a real man in the comments, thanks bro 🙏🏾
I love that Michael Jordan poster behind my guy remember that in Chicago in the 90s that's dope I need that poster bro.
facts homie
Once you cheat its over with if it was me you wouldn't tolerate it🤷🏾♀️
You got no choice but to leave me cuz ain’t no way ima keep apologizing about it and let you do it back to me. If a man can cheat on you he can replace you as well. You’re the one that’s gonna have to keep bouncing from man to man hoping that he doesn’t do you the way I did you
@@icouldntthinkofanotherhandleReal Spill Homie 💯💪🏾
@@icouldntthinkofanotherhandlefacts
@@icouldntthinkofanotherhandle AND IF A MAN CHEATS HE CAN BE REPLACED AS WELL
@@valeriecoleman6480 men cheat all the time and women still never end up replacing them. It’s not like women leave one man and go to another man and stay with him the rest of their life. They usually end up bouncing around with multiple man because no one else can compare
CW ALWAYSSSS speaks FACTSSSS💯💯💯 He REAL in EVERY WAY possible... Say whatchu want BUT CW be ON POINT y'all PERIODDD💯
At first Charleston starts making sense and then later what he says goes down hill lol
This mayne be straight up spittin facts.
One thing he said right is women are loyal to their emotions💯
SHAWN TURNING INTO BANDMAN KEVY 😂😂
The BBL Next he already got caught with the fake views 😆
@@TheBiggest7.62 😂😂
Wait some people value peace more than materialistic things
I someone grandpa did this and they granny still stay with him for 62 years because all of the bills was paid and kept hustling, she knew what she was doing and didn’t say a word.
We need fyb jmane x Charleston interview lehs start dere.
This guy just always speaks my language 🤩🤩🤩🤩
This dude will say anything for money. Crazy that people take him seriously.
Unfortunaltely, there is a lot of truth to what he says.
😂😂exactly
he telling the truth bout how many black folk act. he speaks shock value with humor and truth. listen to how he break it down vs being stuck on oh he say cheat. woman dint like discussing why men cheat. argumentative rationing out sex no peace at home etc .. change that shit. I stead yall get triggered and defensive. he waa spot on bout the sexual stuff black women wouldn't do in the 90s... same way black men weren't eating ass and cat like that. sane way black women weren't shaved bald like that. now ery chick at the wax place... anyway listen to what he saying
Truth
Big 💯💪🏾
I'm 6 minutes in and he ain't lied yet😂😂
I respect CW, but I disagree with him here. HIV is a high cost if caught from your spouse or any type STD. It's never worth it to stay. There are a lot of reckless men and women. It's not wise to continue in a marriage to someone who seeks to harm you and your body without recourse. God gave us sense, but never said to stay in marriage for hopes you may profit from the marriage.
To keep things in perspective, a spouse can be a liability if he's a foolish man. A fool will continue in his foolish ways if he doesn't recognize his foolish behavior. Which becomes detrimental to himself and his home.
I've learned so much from these men
Damn he described my relationship with my girl when he was talking bout black girls not trusting you and having u under their wing 😂
lol fr doe
Same wit my bm 😂
I swear bro it’s so crazy cuz I’m laying inna bed watching this and my shorty next to me hearing all this 💀
Lol it be like that. That should be a conversation yall have together. You'll learn something new
It's my first time dating a blk man, and I trust him less than anyone else, and I feel it's rooted but just more capable of infidelity and nothing about past trauma. I just study people just like Charleston 6 blk men just seem more sneaky to me
This is some barbershop conversation 😂
Let women tell it, we’re not real men for having conversations like this