When Your Friend Wants To Vent
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- 게시일 2020. 03. 03.
- When your friend wants to vent but you don’t have the emotional capacity to handle the burden that is their emotional baggage in addition to your own.
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CAST
Courtney Miller // / co_mill
Shayne Topp // / shaynetopp
Damien Haas // / damienhaas
Kimmy Jimenez // / kimmydoesstuff
CREW
Director: Ryan Finnerty
Writers: Monica Vasandani
Production Manager: Margo McHugh
Production Coordinator: Nancy Azcona
1st AD: Eddie Vigil V
DP: Jonathan Na
Cam Op: Brennan Iketani
1st AC: Jacqi Jones
DIT: Matt Duran
Art Director: Cassie Vance
Art Department Assistant: Yasmeen Mughal
Set Decorator: Tayler Nicholson
Set Dresser: Sam Valladres
Set Dresser: Stephen Smyka
Props & Stage Coordinator: David Hill
Sound Mixer: Greg Jones
Script Supervisor: Merina Seidel
Key Hair & Makeup: Morgan Marinoff
Wardrobe: Athena Lawton
Gaffer: Nick Giomuso
Best Boy Grip: Dustin Bloodgood
Key PA: Austin Barrett
Editor: Mike Small
Assistant Editor: Matt Duran
GFX: Brittany Metz
Content Manager: Kiana Parker
IT/Equipment Manager: Tim Baker
Executive Assistant: Nancy Azcona
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Shayne: "I don't have the emotional bandwidth to receive your burden"
Also Shayne: *Majored in psychology*
Graeme Edwards I mean, if you do something well DONT DO IT FOR FREE
he didn't major
Isn't Shayne a ex-felon?
hi Grae. btw thequartering is a soy boy
Kolerain Rowland you’re thinking of Courtney FREAKIN Miller
*calling the police*
911 operator: sorry we're actually at emotional capacity right now
The IRS after the pandemic.
"it's where? An elementary school? Yeah sorry don't have the capacity"
50% of the comments: *talking about “im a gewd fwiend”*
50% of the comments: *talking about how the people in the back don’t give a shit*
It's scary without a reply on a video you blew up on. I'M here for you.
Yea
I'm a gewd fweind and the people in the back don't give a shit I'm the 100%
1% me
0.1% this
“I just need to talk about it” “and I don’t wanna hear about it” a 2020 MOOD
Law Official IKR!
i love how the people in the back aren't even bothered.
Bruh I got the same name.
Actually they are called background characters ok they are from the company
I think he gets that part...
YAY
@@astxrism6822 lmao thats the point
I like that they're screaming and the people in the background just don't give a s***
They have to try really hard to keep a straight face lol. Props to them
Just another Wednesday afternoon at the coffee shop.
Kajus Babim true
hi Kajus. btw thequartering is a soy boy
JODisHere wow you’re verified
No one:
Shane: E M O T I O N A L B A N D W I D T H
Me when someone tries to vent to me after this videos: E M O T I O N A L B A N D W I D T H
*liz? are you venting to me* **voicecrack** rIgHt nOw?
Courtney's character is literally one of my friends, she just wants to vent but whenever I try to do it she goes silent or tells me she can't listen to me at that moment
hi Sara. btw thequartering is a soy boy
Same! She never respects my boundaries and I want to help her but when ever I need help she dips. 🙃
That is called a gewd friend. In some other regions they're known as bad friends.
I had a friend that did the same thing..... We aren't friends anymore. Haha it was a toxic friendship. Totally one sided.
I wouldn't say that's a 'real friend', just saying.
The “IM A GEWD FRIEND” scene brought back 2012 smosh vibes
hi JusJ. btw thequartering is a soy boy
ae lufit
I want the old smosh back
Omg totally
dagurr I genuinely disagree, but to each their own. I like Shane, but I don’t even know the the black girl’s name, she’s so forgettable.
"Sorry I'm not in the headspace to receive information that can possibly hurt me." OML SHAYNE-
Shane screaming:
The people in the background: *OoOoo look at this book*
CAN WE TALK ABOUT HOW SHAYNE'S VOICE CRACKED WHEN HE SAID "are you venting to me right now?"
"This is Shayne Topp, the actor" - Haas, Damien
Xd
Ok
the lonely star The fact that I read this exactly when he said it is amazing
*Later at yoga class
Instructor: So today were going to do the Horseman pose as we press those charges
hi Nicolo. btw thequartering is a soy boy
JODisHere nice lol I just watched your vid
IM AT CAPACITY!!!
When a friend wants to vent, I let them vent. Even if it’s about me, I let them vent. Why? Because when they vent about me I can use that as advice for self improvement.
Or as a comeback if they ever roast you
This reminded me of Insatiable: “I’m a good person, I’m a good person, I’m a good person”
Logan Crandall YYYAAASSS!!!
Gosh, I'm gonna miss that show :( It's so much smarter than people give it credit for...
😂😂
loveee that show omg
The headspace part is literally the most accurate.. 😂
hi Bailey. btw thequartering is a soy boy
"Liz are you talking about yourself?"
Liz: "Oh no, no it's the movie."
"What's the movie called? 😐"
Lmao this killed me 😂😂😂
hi Devonte. btw thequartering is a soy boy
BrOkEn
The movie's called Life
The story Courtney needed to vent:my car got a flat tire and the AAA called me mom,I got locked out of my apartment, the locksmith called the cops on me and when I got inside there was a horse in my living room and I have no idea how it got there and the cops wouldn’t help me and the guy who owned the horse accused me of selling it and horse guy is pressing charges
hahaha
Dude stop venting 😆😆
Forgot the part when her Boyfriend of 3 years said he never loved her
Damien was telling a true story at the end.
change my mind.
She should have said that she doesn't have the emotional bandwidth to hear about his awesone good newz
That's what I was thinking the whole time. Screw your promotion.
i guess, but ventors usually are just negative people. I rather hear positive news. Seems like that character had a habit of being negative venting lol
@@vickerfinal This
hi Ivan. btw thequartering is a soy boy
Wouldn’t it be "gewd" news
I’m losing it over Shayne’s facial expressions
Kimmy: just chillin
Shayne: Im A GoOD FwEINd
The way he screamed "I'm a good friend" over and over reminded me of Insatiable when she kills someone and says I'm a good person over and over. Anyone else?
I can see that now lmao
damien that last story sounded a little too like your actual life. don’t worry though, we’ve all been there.
hi Scott. btw thequartering is a soy boy
@@MrDankTM do you have anything to say that isn't the same spam about shit no one gives a shit about?
Sota Steelwing right
@@balfanghellfire so basically what your comment is?
@@jae9094 I'm genuinely asking because when you see the other comment threads, JOD is right there saying the same thing that has no relevance to the video. Only difference with me is that I'm not going through every comment doing that.
Courtney needed to vent,
Shayne reached his max capacity,
Damien came to save the day,
Courtney pulled a Shayne,
and Damien got cheated out of a tip
I think the real victim here is that tree
Ariana Avolio na uh
He got 2 cents 😂
Shane is my brain
Courtney is my heart.
They are working together to keep my feelings burying inside of me
Bad day?
Shayne honestly looks kinda cute in the sweatshirt
ɪɴᴛᴊ Shane always looks cute 🤷🏻♀️
D B true haha
He looks cute in everything
This is especially true when you are the "psychologist friend" of the group. Nobody is around for you to vent to, but you take in EVERYTHING from everyone else.
Feels.
Rachel Lindberg why is this so incredibly horribly true 😂😅🥺
Rachel Lindberg and you don’t know how to say no, and they’re like *vent to mee* but you don’t want to put them in a situation that you have felt so often so you like just like *im fine*
Soft Bean THIS RIGHT HERE !!!!
THIS COMMENT EXACTLY!!!
Courtney’s hairstyle is so damn adorable.
AND THEY LOOK SO GOOD IN PASTEL COLOURS 🥺 I’m soft 🥺🥺
Jod mwahahah btw n word
hi White. btw thequartering is a soy boy
@@MrDankTM no me
Was honestly one of the best smosh sketches I've seen in a while. Great job!
“Caring about other people brings me down” 😂😂😂
This hits right in the feels cause I just had this same interaction with a friend, basically going "It's been two months...LET IT GO!!!"
Wow, they sound like a great friend and emotional support.
@@whateverworksmate.721 I can't tell who said it though.
hi Venom. btw thequartering is a soy boy
@@MrDankTM why are you writing that everywhere?
@@vincentvangogh1937 on second thought, me neither
You see that he is “a gewd fwoond”
hi Galaxy. btw thequartering is a soy boy
@@MrDankTM heck
hot yoga instructor: and release all of those sounds that are trapped in your mind.
damien, shayne, and courtney: aaaAaaaAAaAaaauGh
How can people not want to hear other’s feelings
Depressed friends dumping their emotional baggage on you over and over again. If you have too much empathy you can't just objectively listen to their feelings, it's gonna take you down with them. And honestly I don't have the eMoTiOnAl BaNdWiTh for that so I made sure they had other friends to support them and stopped talking to them.
antimoni dude you sound like you’re going through it...do you need to rant
@@dontgetjazzywithit I'm in a way better headspace now that I've gotten myself out of that situation but thank you for the offer! 💞
antimoni this
It's not that they don't want to hear it it's likely that just like you they're having rough patches and don't need the additional stress of dealing with added baggage. It's simply about respecting boundaries.
Look at Kimmie just sitting in the background looking all cute and adorable.
YEEEEEEESSSSSSS!!!!!!!!
Simp.
Nice
she can't help but look all cute and adorable
Shayne:I’m a good friend
Courtney:Ok
Shayne:I’magoodfrind
I’m about to vent....
“You” Season 2 was great
Wrong... predictable.
@@vekali6140 who the fuck thinks a show about a yandere would be good? What the fuck?!
I actually have that action figure Damien was talking about with the head that changes between the turtle and the action figure.
The price on the bill confuses me.
Price: $12.96
Tax:$100.00
Total: $112.98
Why is the tax so expensive and where did the extra 2 cents come from?
Sweden be like 🤗
😂😂
Not to mention the total says 12.96 but the price of the two Lattes should total to 13.98. This is hurting me more and more the more I look at it
I'm pretty sure it was meant that way
look i don't know if you're joking, but r/woooosh
0:58
I don't think I have ever heard Shayne talk with that exact, smooth voice.
Wow
Jodishere mwahaha
hi Juhl. btw thequartering is a soy boy
JODisHere what?
@@itmeyaboitheline3419 you won't understand who jod is
I love how everyone in the background just does not care what is going on.
Must just be a regular day at Smosh.
I never related to something more in my life 😂 okay, let me things straight, I’ll listen to my friends vent but if they do it everyday and the only thing they talk about is there problem, you’ll have to set some boundaries cause I don’t want to be hearing complaints every time we meet. Sure you can just listen but if you are just pretending then what’s the point, it’s just like hearing a new buzz in your ear
*I'm A gOoD fRiEnD*
2 seconds later: _I'll see you at hot yoga at 8😂_
shayne's face when he said "what's the movie called" cracked me up LOL
This whole thing just reminded me of toxic relationships :p
what kind of friend says " I DoNt HaVe ThE eMoTiOnAl BaNdWiTh" to listen to your problems
I have friends that say that because they also have mental health issues and if they arent having a good brain day they say no when I ask if I can vent. Its perfectly fine but not in this scenario lol
Bad ones.
The type that doesn’t have the emotional capacity to listen to other people’s problems, especially if those people are the type that keeps on having shitty day after shitty day after shitty day.
And no I don’t want to listen to how your grandma died after only knowing you for 2 days.
a gewd frrrrriiiiiiiieeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeennnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn. a gewd frewwwwnnnn says that shisth athspiatsoipthso htsoi htpsoi h
headq100 Hwat
Is there gonna be "I'M A GOOOOD FRIEENNNDDD" merch.
Only if it also has Shayne’s scrunched up face
Shane’s acting is so good he’s been the best part of so many of these videos
John Spreag SHAYNE
@@harshavardhann5906 oof, poor dude. People never get his name right, do they?
whatever works No they don’t 🤣
@@harshavardhann5906 Well its spelt shayne not shane so yeah they do
@@whateverworksmate.721 People who are fans get his name right all the time.
Has this ever happened to you where people are talking and you completely lose yourself and you forget where you are and you just leave. Why did this get over 150 Likes?
Abdulaziz Aljaser I don’t really know
Omggg all the timee and i feel really shitty because then the person thinks i'm being an asshole 😭😭😭😭
Momena Majeed true
I felt this video so hard, especially the not taking no for an answer and feeling as though your friendship is being taking advantage of. Especially when you’re going though your own shit and people continue to dump their problems on you but never ask how you are, or when you try to vent to them and they turn it around back to their own problems
*_“I just don’t have the emotional bandwidth”_*
Me: *vents*
My friend:
This is why I don't have friends
Nerd self: notices her massive book and zooms to read it. Says “beginner’s guide to chaos theory” XD
Shayne’s reaction voice from 2:17-2:20 😂😂
I don't like watching Shayne and Courtney fight, even if it is fake.
Your comment is dumb but i got 69th like so its okay
Edit: unliked because it has over 100 likes
What
@@coltonbates629 You encompass everything wrong with youtube
@@snowbringercult Yea but 69th like tho
The Athiest Messiah I got 169
Damien: they didnt pay
Shaynes voice got so high when he said ( are you venting me right now??! )😂😂😂😜
The 'coffeeshop' storefront shot in the beginning is actually a Dutch weed dispensary. (In the Netherlands weed dispensaries are called coffeeshops)
I knew this was Dutch! Also "staatsloterijfiets" dead giveaway.
"I'm calling my priest"
Look I know Damien is over sharing and your at capacity but I wouldn't necessarily call him possessed
Honestly, I’m always the friend who needs to vent 😂
Idk but i never had a problem with someone coming and venting, it makes them feel much better when I didn't even do anything
i’ll listen to you!
Im the one vented to
What's bad about that? I don't really get the message of this video but since when have people turned their backs on friends in need?? My and my friends always talk about stuff and we never say we don't want to hear it because care about each other wtf is this video
Just A Human A joke. This video is a joke. Made for comedy purposes. It’s acting, meaning it’s not real
@3:14 BLOOPER!! kimmy and the others are missing in the back, then reappears a couple seconds later
I love how the people in the background just don’t give a shit
3:21 pause and read ... For two coffees it cost him $112 lol
Well you gotta pay taxes
Francis Martin Manalili indeed, this is California we’re talking about
This comment is meant for people who need to vent out some steam. BRING ON THE VENT IN THE REPLIES.
I'm going to vent that this video is NOT how you should deal with friendships. You should be open to listening to your friends go through difficult times.
I'm too lazy to bus to the cheaper nail salon, so I'll just walk to the more expensive one. But I'm trying to save money. So I really shouldn't spend it on pretty nails. But will I? Hell yeah bois 😂😂
@@uhejnjd Yesss, and talk about your problems together. It's a give and take.
There's a possibility that I might have clinical depression.
I live on a tiny rezervation. Our houses are packed together so tight that my neighbors house and mine are about 5 feet apart. They keep getting dogs, neglecting them, then I call the tribal police and the dogs get taken away, then they get more dogs and it happens over and over and over and I cant stop it. I've tried everything, everytime I hear the dogs barking it breaks my heart. They take just barely enough care of the dogs that they avoid getting in serious trouble. I can't afford to move.
Can we just talk about damiens ability to improvise
That was a great sketch, it hit home considering I've listened to one or two friends of my mother talk to her over the phone who are "gewd" friends.
I totally lmao at the end when the waiter went to vent to the helpful customer who was just trying to offer her phone's services, oh my god that was the perfect punchline to tie things up.
Great work!
That was a new form of acting and accent by Shayne.
And I like it !
I guess I'm the odd one out for actually liking to be there for my friends when they need to vent.
Same here! And my friends listen to me, too. I don't get what's going on in this video..
No I think that just says you are a good friend.
I mean people deal with shitty things differently, but if venting about it is how you do it, who would you vent to if not a friend that cares about you?
This video isn’t normal. If your friends don’t give a fuck about your problems, they’re not friends. I also love helping my friends with their issues. I vent a lot myself.
Same
my favorite part of this video is everybody in the back pretending nothing's happening
This is now my favorite sketch from Smosh. Thanks for making my day.
See, my emotional bandwidth will never end because I’m like always such a mess because honest to god I don’t care about my own feelings so like. Free for all. 👍
"THe....the.....problems.....that.....I HAve..." Ahhhh I love that show!!!
Monica wrote this sketch and is honestly one of the best they’ve ever done...loved it
One of the best Smosh sketches in a while. High quality stuff.
😳😈“Liz I feel like you’re not respecting my boundaries right now” 😳😈
Almond milk does taste like a mummy tho
Yes.
Agree
Haha why does this make so much sense? Btw I tried it for the first time last week, and it tastes amazing in hot chocolate
how ya'll kno what a mummy tastes like? 🤔🤔🤔
@@rosegoldhiips no reason 😶🤐
It took therapy for me to learn to set boundaries because I'd listen to people's problems without ever sharing mine. I feel this so much lol
THIS IS LITTTTERALLY THE BEST SKETTTCH I'VE EVVVVER WATCHED!!!!
This is just Courtney and Shayne going out on a Saturday, and I'm not even complaining.
"I don't have the emotional band with"?
-Shayne topp 2020
Bandwidth
Bandaid
Bandwidth. It’s one word
with what?
This sketch was really well written. I loved it. This is the best video to come out of the main channel in a while.
Kimmy on ths background tho 🤣🤣🤣
Are Damien, Shayne, and Courtney taking over this channel if so I love it
2:36 Look how she is so calm behind them
Edit: sorry I don't know her name
GoldenHead 347 it’s Kimmy :)
She's Kimmy and she's adorable :)
Kimmador Bahhli
Jimmy
Jammy
I relate more to both characters. Sometimes you can’t handle dealing with other people’s problems. But I also relate to needing to vent when nobody will listen
Shout out to friend therapists who actually listen and comfort their friends 💖
*"AT CAPACITY"*
No one:
Shane: IM A GUUUUUD FRIEND
This was actually very refreshing. I ❤️ this video
After the day of work I had, I feel like both Shayne and Courtney's characters simultaneously
I’ve never thought of saying you can’t deal with others problems before
Everything Shane says from 0:09-0:30 is what I say internally and then I just end up saying sure go ahead vent
Thats a bad thing
Yeah it'd probably be better to not do that.
This skit is really good, yall! Keep making this kind of content, it's hilarious
this is such a roller coaster,
i love roller coasters
Ian, can you and Anthony please do a food battle 2020 for old times sake. It would make my year! and Ian’s mom too.
No one:
Literally No one:
AAA guy: Mom 😏
I find this not relatable at all. Recently, I made friends with a good guy who is really sweet and immediately when I started talking to him he asked about my day after I asked him and I guess I said something that sounded off because he soon after texted “Are you sure there is nothing serious you want to talk about?” And I find that super sweet because *no one* is that nice to me. I talked to him and he talked to me, we help each other but I need to wait for him to warm up with me, he doesn’t like expressing himself he said, but I do know something he does to cope with it and I don’t fully approve of it, but I just try to make him feel better.
*this is a vent itself almost or me just over sharing so sorry-*
this is gold; those lines were funny af; also felt like a sitcom that i want to watch more lol
aand i love the color of their clothes :3