i got cheated on but that's okay

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  • @rebelzanygaming5702
    @rebelzanygaming5702 4 년 전 +822

    When she said “i still love him...” “i still want it to work” and he voice cracked... oh honey i felt that.... everyone understands to some degree and im so sorry you’re going through that. We love you tana ❤️

    • @abbymartin5902
      @abbymartin5902 4 년 전 +3

      RebelZany Gaming it actually made me tear up

    • @haileywheeler1397
      @haileywheeler1397 4 년 전 +4

      Full disclosure I totally cried with her. Whether you got out of a relationship two days ago or two years ago you feel that. Everyone feels that

    • @aryajade9890
      @aryajade9890 4 년 전 +4

      What’s the time stamp I wanna cry

    • @rebelzanygaming5702
      @rebelzanygaming5702 4 년 전

      Arya Jade 6:30 😭

  • @happybooks6334
    @happybooks6334 4 년 전 +1500

    "I just wanted it to work." Literally broke my heart.... sending you love.

  • @LorienCox
    @LorienCox 4 년 전 +2999

    Tana, and anyone whose been cheated on/mistreated by a relationship partner:
    Don’t you dare feel embarrassed. Their behavior isn’t a reflection of you...it’s a reflection of their character. Period. PERIOD!

  • @gen6470
    @gen6470 4 년 전 +4961

    you don't miss brad. You miss the idea of him. you got this sis. Nothing lasts forever and this feeling definitely won't.

  • @shelby7197
    @shelby7197 4 년 전 +3476

    Girl, you’re not even 21 yet, you’re beautiful, and you’re making bank. You got this.

  • @samixx840
    @samixx840 4 년 전 +1781

    “i just wanted it to work.” my heart man... I’m crying ..

    • @Matty_Lafrance
      @Matty_Lafrance 4 년 전 +7

      yeah that hit me hard too... My ex also cheated on me and I felt the same. You wanted it to work, you still wanted it to work but you couldn't imagine it working after something like that happening to you.

    • @jamiegomez3562
      @jamiegomez3562 4 년 전 +1

      sami xx 😭😭

    • @caitlanharding1923
      @caitlanharding1923 4 년 전 +8

      bitch fuck me up, lowkey feel for her. I think I'm legit going to die of heart break because I love her so much I can't bare to see her in pain

  • @taisandor7623
    @taisandor7623 4 년 전 +2307

    “I just wanted it to work”
    Awww, Tana. Honey. You deserve so much better.

  • @user-xn1vd8nx9r
    @user-xn1vd8nx9r 4 년 전 +321

    Tana has shown over and over how thoughtful and introspective she is. Her intrapersonal smarts are off the charts. This hurts, do your best to keep your head up Tana.

  • @desireebarrios9834
    @desireebarrios9834 4 년 전 +1344

    10:42 where Tana said “I expect everyone to hurt me and I feel like I was finally at a place where I believed he wouldn’t” ... that hit me hard. This is what made me cry. You are loved and this is not your fault.

  • @ccccm9447
    @ccccm9447 4 년 전 +2837

    When Tana started crying and said "I just wanted it to work" that fucking hurt my heart so much

  • @faithsheridan2076
    @faithsheridan2076 4 년 전 +7232

    *you got cheated on and thats NOT* *ok.*
    *you got cheated on and thats NOT* *ok.*
    *you got cheated on and thats NOT* *ok.*
    *you got cheated on and thats NOT* *ok.*

  • @mary-gx5cl
    @mary-gx5cl 4 년 전 +677

    my boyfriend of three years just fessed up to cheating on me throughout the whole relationship. to say i needed this video and the comfort it brought me would be the understatement of the millennium.
    you’ll get through this, tana. i’ll get through this. i am right there with you and going through the same emotions as you.
    i love you, sis. now, lets rise.
    sending you positivity and prayers and love.

    • @S3khm3t._
      @S3khm3t._ 4 년 전 +27

      I rarely comment on these things but I just wanted to say even though idk you, I love you and you deserve better than that❤

    • @Nikki-tu9wx
      @Nikki-tu9wx 4 년 전 +11

      Going through something similar. Looking for someone to talk to. Lmk please

    • @laurent9994
      @laurent9994 4 년 전 +15

      I just got cheated on. Came to this video for help. I am with you girl. Hope things are so much better now for you

    • @mary-gx5cl
      @mary-gx5cl 4 년 전 +8

      Lauren T999 you as well, and its honestly fine. if he cant see me for the great person I am and wont accept me as is then just fuck him tbh

    • @mary-gx5cl
      @mary-gx5cl 4 년 전 +4

      Nikki would love to talk! do you have a snapchat?

  • @Phoebehunniexox
    @Phoebehunniexox 4 년 전 +1685

    Beyoncé put Lemonade on all streaming platforms because she wasn’t sure if Tana used Apple Music and Spotify and knew she needed it

    • @catacoolrina
      @catacoolrina 4 년 전 +8

      Oh my God I did not know she put them on Apple Music I literally have been trying forever to get her music without having to buy the album you are amazing for posting this

    • @ambergeldard9522
      @ambergeldard9522 4 년 전 +5

      Phoebe Dowling THANKYOU FOR LETTING ME KNOW THIS

    • @Aiasem
      @Aiasem 4 년 전 +1

      Point? She got him back anyway

    • @guselliott5989
      @guselliott5989 4 년 전 +1

      how would beyonce know???

    • @ambergeldard9522
      @ambergeldard9522 4 년 전 +5

      Gus Elliott dont be stupid

  • @abbydrake9120
    @abbydrake9120 4 년 전 +1013

    i find it so heart warming that even after tana was cheated on, her main concern of this video was to be a good example to her fans. tana is so so so so strong and the last person this sort of thing should happen to.

    • @PvPUnRated
      @PvPUnRated 4 년 전 +2

      abby drake i feel like you should take her with a grain of salt. tana fucked another guy quick asl.

    • @crystalbitch3943
      @crystalbitch3943 4 년 전 +11

      @@PvPUnRated I think you should fuck off

  • @DivyaDrewBiebs
    @DivyaDrewBiebs 4 년 전 +147

    "He pretty much wanted all or nothing". That's how narcissists trick you into thinking their intentions are real. It's sad cause I went through the same thing.

  • @victoriariad
    @victoriariad 4 년 전 +1386

    I honestly think this tana is such a good version of her... savage tana is cool but love honest tana always

    • @LeilaniHaywood
      @LeilaniHaywood 4 년 전

      Mom. Tana Paul. Love. 🚬🚬🍻😥😜😍😘🇺🇸me. KJ TJ

  • @rsmith3034
    @rsmith3034 4 년 전 +3395

    cheating is a choice, not a mistake. get yourself a king or queen, not a confused boy

    • @ellamor2616
      @ellamor2616 4 년 전 +4

      R Smith yessssss truuuu

    • @AliKat831
      @AliKat831 4 년 전 +23

      You can make wrong choices and those are considered mistakes but i get what you mean

    • @inezmonheim564
      @inezmonheim564 4 년 전 +1

      ^^this!!

    • @jasmineseaman853
      @jasmineseaman853 4 년 전

      Yesssssss 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

    • @MonavomMars
      @MonavomMars 4 년 전 +9

      Don't have your happiness depend upon another person at all! Be your ones closest person, the love of your life.. a relationship can give you a lot of positive experiences, but it should be a nice extra - never a mean to complete you - fill emotional voids ect. That is what creates toxicity..

  • @Jess-px4qp
    @Jess-px4qp 4 년 전 +1428

    “I expect everyone to hurt me and I was finally in a place where I believed he wouldn’t”
    ouch my heart

    • @freyalove.x
      @freyalove.x 4 년 전 +5

      i read this literally as she said it

  • @nunyabusiness278
    @nunyabusiness278 4 년 전 +546

    Tana I just got cheated on for the first time and instantly came here I need to bounce back and boss up like you did I’m so hurt it’s so painful but I know I will get better and do better

    • @kinseylangford2752
      @kinseylangford2752 4 년 전 +3

      Taylor Dauwer same 💔 it really sucks but what can you do.... hope you are doing better girl❤️

    • @nunyabusiness278
      @nunyabusiness278 4 년 전 +16

      It DOES get better, it’s been about a month or two and I feel completely different from how I did when I posted this comment. It still hurts but it gets easier and you start thinking about it a lot less. It’s one of the worst feelings ever but it will only make you stronger.

    • @siennagarcia2511
      @siennagarcia2511 4 년 전 +1

      U will baby 😘😘😘😘😎

    • @crowjre00
      @crowjre00 4 년 전 +3

      All girls get cheated on. Not all get caught. Value yourself and never place stock on what any boy or man thinks of you. Women are the most beautiful and greatest resource in this world. We need you to be strong. To stay strong. Be more selective and play hard to get. Everything hard in life is worth doing, worth having.

    • @maddielovesmac2886
      @maddielovesmac2886 3 년 전

      Girl I just got cheated on I’m broken I feel this man I feel it

  • @suzyavalos6224
    @suzyavalos6224 4 년 전 +2211

    Tana wearing Jake Paul merch in this video is EVERYTHING

  • @Wow-vc1qt
    @Wow-vc1qt 4 년 전 +759

    As much as Tana swears, is loud, outgoing and what not, she still has a very good heart for people who are around her. Unfortunately, nobody is like that with her.

    • @ninazoz6748
      @ninazoz6748 4 년 전 +2

      true I feel like she is such a sweetheart

  • @sadiewinters6394
    @sadiewinters6394 4 년 전 +2787

    I was actually surprised by this because he seemed so obsessed with you.... but now looking back it seems more like he was excited to be with someone semi-famous and get clout from being with you. This sucks and you didn't deserve this.

    • @KK-db2vd
      @KK-db2vd 4 년 전 +30

      sadie winters exactly. I knew it was gonna spiral down on his end. He was just a little too obsessed too quick.

    • @beyzaturki827
      @beyzaturki827 4 년 전 +7

      I knew from the beginning that he will make some shit and feel it I didn't like him and I was right to think that, that's sad to think that every person that Tana dated weren't worth it (apart Bella they were so perfect together i was so sad for their break up they were the perfect couple 😭😭)

    • @isaacsamuel997
      @isaacsamuel997 4 년 전 +17

      “semi-famous” 💀😂

    • @eighteenglobe1396
      @eighteenglobe1396 4 년 전 +2

      Can someone pls tell me what clout is ? I've been seeing it everywhere no idea what it is :( yesh I am behind

    • @bocajins7155
      @bocajins7155 4 년 전 +3

      Eighteen Globe like get popularity

  • @evelynsanchez9447
    @evelynsanchez9447 4 년 전 +72

    i was in a relationship for over 2 years n i was madly in love with this guy.. n then one day i find myself going to the ER to get stitches bc he hit me. it’s so crazy how people can switch up on u but u jus gotta keep ur head up and surround yourself with good people.

  • @sabsays4091
    @sabsays4091 4 년 전 +1100

    Ik this videos is supposed to be sad
    But she looks so gorgeous talking in the beginning

  • @paintaeing
    @paintaeing 4 년 전 +773

    when she cried my heart literally broke, been watching her for years back when she was in her room with the photos on the wall. never seen her like this, not even with tanacon. this is something completely new and raw. i really respect her for showing this side.

    • @jessica-kw2lw
      @jessica-kw2lw 4 년 전

      paintaeing me tooo

    • @michelleresendiz2993
      @michelleresendiz2993 4 년 전

      😪

    • @keylahjane6987
      @keylahjane6987 4 년 전 +2

      paintaeing same, she’s grown so much over the years and to try and go 100% back into a monogamous relationship again only to have it end like this breaks my heart for her

    • @KellyHollandDaily
      @KellyHollandDaily 4 년 전

      I loved brad but I was worried he’d do something like this. She’s been through so much recently, this is the last thing she needs, a twat like him crushing her down completely

    • @erikadowdy686
      @erikadowdy686 4 년 전

      paintaeing me to
      This isthe Real Tana
      Shes only human

  • @jessdelight
    @jessdelight 4 년 전 +1945

    my thoughts during this video:
    1) hair and skincare goals
    2) this is actually a really mature reaction to the shitty situation
    3) this sucks so much and you deserve better

    • @blairwaldorf-bass8180
      @blairwaldorf-bass8180 4 년 전 +10

      sugarydelight right?!? I was amazed. I had to leave her a long comment with some advice because i was so impressed. She finally sees the huge impact she has on young girls and wants to set a good example for them.

    • @TaylahJaay
      @TaylahJaay 4 년 전 +3

      sugarydelight YES!!!

    • @heatherbenner4916
      @heatherbenner4916 4 년 전 +2

      Yes, yes, and yes. 💛

    • @bokutokinnie2777
      @bokutokinnie2777 4 년 전 +3

      YES!!!

    • @lolhaha9041
      @lolhaha9041 4 년 전 +1

      you can’t lie and act like this wasn’t needed, tho. she needed something to humble herself.

  • @felicitythompson7774
    @felicitythompson7774 4 년 전 +62

    "I'm gonna go be really sad now and thats ok! That's what life is! Feeling emotion." Greatest thing ever said

  • @ashleyrussell5699
    @ashleyrussell5699 4 년 전 +73

    I know this video is old, but one quote I learned from my mom about getting through a breakup or a heartbreak.
    You didn’t fall in love overnight, and you won’t fall out overnight. Keep your head held high.

  • @Moe-qf2rb
    @Moe-qf2rb 4 년 전 +2557

    I feel like this should be called “I got cheated on but IM ok” because it’s not ok that you got cheated on. YOU deserve better

  • @xSoHappyxIMVU
    @xSoHappyxIMVU 4 년 전 +2169

    Its so triggering that he didnt want an open relationship but cheated

    • @krissa5532
      @krissa5532 4 년 전 +22

      RIGHT?! like wtfff

    • @trinitymcculloh5330
      @trinitymcculloh5330 4 년 전 +242

      Sarbear he wanted to be able to cheat, but didnt want to be cheated on - typical hypocrite

    • @ewme9157
      @ewme9157 4 년 전 +6

      BITCH TEAAAAAAA this is hot tea im gettin burned 😭

    • @gabbilaconsay395
      @gabbilaconsay395 4 년 전 +1

      Sarbear that's the true teaaaa

    • @100thdegree
      @100thdegree 4 년 전 +7

      He didn’t want her with different guys 🙄🙄🙄🙄

  • @elliecatherinejames
    @elliecatherinejames 4 년 전 +3805

    Before you go hate on Jana just realize that Jake picked her up when she was down and made her feel worthy

  • @_Carmenshenn
    @_Carmenshenn 4 년 전 +341

    Jake didn’t pick her up, he’s a “charismatic” person who knew what words to say to someone when they are down, she fell for him even tho it was all for clout at first and now she’s hurt again. Why is that kind of behaviour being praised

    • @taysyre6155
      @taysyre6155 4 년 전 +3

      Carmen Shen exactly

    • @fishstick273ASMR
      @fishstick273ASMR 3 년 전 +2

      Carmen Shen right !

    • @maihines9825
      @maihines9825 3 년 전 +6

      when you are heartbroken and dont fully give yourself to get over that pain, especially being cheated on, and you just jump into someone else to help you fill that void and distract you, you end up looking past a lot of the shitty things that they do. i think she was still heartbroken and jake was who was there when ahe was at her lowest, so she just refused to see every thing that was really going on :(

    • @sunspeakable_mushroom9592
  • @ktbaby718
    @ktbaby718 4 년 전 +907

    guys who start saying they’re going to marry u two weeks in are not to be trusted 🤦🏼‍♀️
    edit: wow this actually blew up and the queen herself liked it 😭 thx yall

    • @yomamie9254
      @yomamie9254 4 년 전 +16

      My friend dated a guy like this and he cheated on her lol. He bought her a promise ring two weeks after dating

    • @WeWannaRockAllNight
      @WeWannaRockAllNight 4 년 전 +14

      I legit dated two guys like that (i learned my lesson at the end smh) 0/10 wouldn’t recommend

    • @LawnOrnament
      @LawnOrnament 4 년 전 +4

      one time i was with a guy like this and we went to colorado with his friends and they fuxking left me there🤷🏼‍♀️my husband is nice tho❤️

    • @BRITTIE94
      @BRITTIE94 4 년 전 +7

      Cause it’s the guilt talking

    • @taylarball8285
      @taylarball8285 4 년 전 +2

      can vouch for this 🙋🏻‍♀️

  • @fivenine219
    @fivenine219 4 년 전 +1962

    you lived without brad for over 20 years. and you will continue life. because you were okay before knowing him, and you will be okay after knowing him.

    • @emmas438
      @emmas438 4 년 전 +25

      Five Nine im gonna need you to comfort me through my life dang that was so inspirational

    • @roxanne7553
      @roxanne7553 4 년 전 +7

      hi i kno this is for tana but imma say a thank u as well cuz this is Good Advice 💘

    • @ulyluna8084
      @ulyluna8084 4 년 전 +4

      this helped me a lot . thank you

    • @marilynmartinez9954
      @marilynmartinez9954 4 년 전 +11

      be my therapist please

    • @drinkbleach163
      @drinkbleach163 4 년 전 +3

      But she has knowledge of him now, you can’t just ignore someone you think about most of the time

  • @sophiaandrews4133
    @sophiaandrews4133 4 년 전 +87

    My boyfriend dumped me yesterday and this video honestly helped me so much. Thank you tana!

    • @slay.interrupted
      @slay.interrupted 4 년 전 +8

      I'm sorry there is somebody out there for you. You deserve the best 💖

  • @gulsengulsen9650
    @gulsengulsen9650 4 년 전 +159

    ANDD NOW SHE IS ENGAGED WITH JAKE. Girl I love you

    • @srikruthigannavarapu4977
      @srikruthigannavarapu4977 4 년 전 +7

      ANDD NOW SHE IS MARRIED TO JAKE

    • @xx2475
      @xx2475 4 년 전 +1

      @@srikruthigannavarapu4977 she's not really married but ok...

    • @user-ri1yd1tk9f
      @user-ri1yd1tk9f 4 년 전 +15

      AND NOW THEYRE DIVORCED AND JAKE BASICALLY CHEATED ON HER W HIS EX

  • @amyyk.9420
    @amyyk.9420 4 년 전 +740

    My stomach sunk and my heart broke. Whoever has been cheated on felt this.

    • @aakashaw
      @aakashaw 4 년 전 +2

      I have been cheated on before

    • @amyyk.9420
      @amyyk.9420 4 년 전 +3

      Where she says "I just lay in bed..alone, and I just wanna go back" 😪

  • @gigiolina8132
    @gigiolina8132 4 년 전 +2854

    "I'm not the person who sits on the floor crying about exes,I'm gonna leave that to Trisha" LMAOO

  • @courtneyhucks6907
    @courtneyhucks6907 4 년 전 +169

    If you choose to get back with him every single time you look at him you’ll just think about the text... and the lies.... and everything will start adding up when he talks... just be strong. you’re amazing.

  • @cutecats6890
    @cutecats6890 4 년 전 +67

    "it just feels so empty " ... damn i felt that

  • @Capooblackriver
    @Capooblackriver 4 년 전 +1755

    Cheating is a choice. If he didn’t want to cheat he wouldn’t have. We must have more self control and respect not only for ourselves but for our relationship, our partner.

  • @chloegrace6908
    @chloegrace6908 4 년 전 +7521

    in my opinion, cheating isn’t a mistake. it’s a choice.

    • @who1285
      @who1285 4 년 전 +59

      Chloe Grace yeah definitely! Saying it’s not a choice kinda makes it seem like an excuse. It is both I would say. A choice people make and it a mistake. So sad.

    • @kaitlynraymond9102
      @kaitlynraymond9102 4 년 전 +78

      oh most definitely a choice. nobody just accidentally or mistakenly flirts with other girls/ hooks up with them or whatever happened.

    • @newchains_sameshackles
      @newchains_sameshackles 4 년 전 +32

      I get what you mean but it’s sort of like... a mistake within a choice, if that even makes sense... cuz when people make those sort of choices, most don’t even know what they’re doing because they’re in a really dark place. So in a way yes it’s a choice cuz one could cope a different way but like... in a way you’re not fully thinking clear...

    • @taylornoch2656
      @taylornoch2656 4 년 전 +20

      Choices can be mistakes

    • @loganpercy6673
      @loganpercy6673 4 년 전 +3

      PERIODT

  • @alexmarchizza1659
    @alexmarchizza1659 4 년 전 +83

    I cried watching how genuinely hurt you are. Your words are spot on and you have the biggest heart. Hang in there honey

  • @melinasavin4401
    @melinasavin4401 3 년 전 +18

    This is such a lesson. She wanted to be open with brad but stayed monogamous bc he wanted it and got hurt. She wanted to be monogamous with jake but accepted the fact that he didnt want to and got hurt again. Communicate with the people around you and dont settle for anyone PERIOD

  • @jamespatrick8075
    @jamespatrick8075 4 년 전 +552

    We shouldn’t be sending hate to brad, we should be sending love to tana. Honestly watching tana be so vulnerable is actually in a way inspiring, showing us that it’s okay to express our thoughts and emotions. Tana, we hope you feel better soon, you deserve it. But honestly if you can bounce back from tanacon you can bounce back from anything❤️

    • @sophiastevens5211
      @sophiastevens5211 4 년 전

      James Patrick I’m sorry I was like 70th like but I love that you’re sending love to Tana

    • @usagiprincess4387
      @usagiprincess4387 4 년 전 +4

      We should send hate to brad AND send love to tana

    • @impracticalandres
      @impracticalandres 4 년 전 +3

      usagiprincess Hate doesn’t help anyone it just brings damage to yourself and the person you’re hating on. Spread love

  • @rheavnly1087
    @rheavnly1087 4 년 전 +3318

    Moral of the story : never trust someone who oddly looks like Justin Bieber

    • @Lila-rf5tu
      @Lila-rf5tu 4 년 전 +18

      I strongly agree mate

    • @Allyson59912
      @Allyson59912 4 년 전 +18

      He’s also from Canada so ya. Pos. Poor tana

    • @Erica-ed5yt
      @Erica-ed5yt 4 년 전 +10

      But he kinda looks like Leonardo DiCaprio

    • @Imsofamou
      @Imsofamou 4 년 전 +23

      Erica Begley what are you on 💀

    • @KylaTurcios
      @KylaTurcios 4 년 전 +12

      Allyson Bower hey us canadians are generally nice people lol

  • @lynnsawaf5699
    @lynnsawaf5699 4 년 전 +281

    You should edit the title: I got cheated on, but I’m okay
    Because cheating is a choice, it’s never okay

    • @amanda...7326
      @amanda...7326 4 년 전 +4

      👏i👏agree👏100👏percent👏

    • @CATSWITHKYLA
      @CATSWITHKYLA 3 년 전 +1

      I know this is old but the title the title isn't saying that cheating is ok. She was saying that SHE is ok

  • @eviemann4632
    @eviemann4632 3 년 전 +6

    Thank you for being so vulnerable. I really needed to hear this. I love you so much tana you’re so smart and thoughtful in ways the media never acknowledges

  • @johnpaul1821
    @johnpaul1821 4 년 전 +8140

    this is how many people want you to NOT get back together with Brad
    👇🏼
    edit: wow thank u so much for 5.1 k

  • @kaitlinrash
    @kaitlinrash 4 년 전 +330

    Brad literally has the word loyalty tattooed on his arm 🙄 LIKE imagine being a cheater with loyalty tattooed on your body. I love you Tana you deserve so much better than someone who would do that to you. ❤️

  • @lilysilva8088
    @lilysilva8088 4 년 전 +8

    im going through a breakup right now and immediately came to watch this video, i love you so much tana and i love u no matter what and you always help me find my happy place and make me realize my self-worth🖤🖤

  • @maddie8423
    @maddie8423 년 전 +4

    I’ve been cheated on in every relationship I’ve been in, and every time it happens I come back to this video. Thank you for this tana, it helps so many people more than you know

  • @danielasmr
    @danielasmr 4 년 전 +2835

    Imagine handing someone a career and they do you like that

    • @mrtubz4342
      @mrtubz4342 4 년 전 +15

      Daniel ASMR actually his career was already starting out before he met her cause of the Justin beiber look alike, and the whole prank of eating a burrito backwards but ya it kinda made him a little more popular

    • @ieshow6945
      @ieshow6945 4 년 전 +5

      Marcus Pimentel true but either way that in my opinion means he got his fame from someone else it started as a justin beiber lookalike or whatever so that came from him being “someone else” he never really done anything that made “him” famous like him not tana or justin beiber so someone else gave him fame either way

    • @danielasmr
      @danielasmr 4 년 전 +30

      Marcus Pimentel people knew him because he looks like someone else. He was just the ”Justin Bieber Look Alike” before Tana, Tana made people acknowledge him as Brad and not some random look alike

    • @harrison3384
      @harrison3384 4 년 전 +1

      Daniel ASMR faxxxxxxxxxxxx

    • @morganconner2999
      @morganconner2999 4 년 전 +1

      Lol hey I love your channel!

  • @delaneyandersen_
    @delaneyandersen_ 4 년 전 +882

    this has to be straight up the most real representation of what it feels like to be cheated on... stay strong sis

  • @kanatapaw
    @kanatapaw 4 년 전 +231

    It's not ok to cheat.
    No one deserves it.
    Don't stoop to there level.
    Your embarrassed?
    He is the one who cheated, he chose to do that, you didn't.
    If anything he should be embarrassed with himself.
    Girl you got this!
    It happen to me
    The guy I loved kept telling me how embarrassed I was, at the time I had no idea what he was talking about.
    Untill recently i found out myself there was someone else.
    Embarrassed? I'm ashamed of him.
    I waited a year a fucking year and the last month I finally get ready to see him he shagged someone else.
    She's had his baby and he recently marryed her so good luck to them.

  • @chloe_lynch1243
    @chloe_lynch1243 3 년 전 +3

    I love how she describes everything she felt perfectly and didn’t say a thing bad about him she is honestly a really sweet genuine person

  • @babybunny5793
    @babybunny5793 4 년 전 +2605

    He didn't make a "mistake" he made a CHOICE. multiple times...

    • @jack5501
      @jack5501 4 년 전 +13

      That doesnt mean it's not a mistake. If you decide to speed and then crash your car. Yeah it's a choice, but it's also still a mistake.

    • @avineh3864
      @avineh3864 4 년 전 +1

      If he cheated it’s not a choice it’s a MISTAKE… my opinion

    • @jack5501
      @jack5501 4 년 전 +3

      @@avineh3864 it can be both. But its never not a choice. So your opinion is wrong. Just my opinion, based in facts. 🤔😊

    • @anaihuitron1202
      @anaihuitron1202 4 년 전 +2

      Vi Jack uhh he did it MULTIPLE times.....?

    • @jack5501
      @jack5501 4 년 전 +1

      @@anaihuitron1202 Mistake : an action or judgment that is misguided or wrong.
      "OR wrong". Is the main focus here. It is, by definition, a mistake. It being a choice has no bearing
      on that. Try not to think with a one track mind.

  • @kaylachurch8844
    @kaylachurch8844 4 년 전 +685

    I know you want to forgive him, but cheating is NOT a mistake. He went into that knowing wholeheartedly what he was doing.
    Love you Tana, I hope everything gets better

  • @nicalovesharry13
    @nicalovesharry13 4 년 전 +7

    I have watched this video too much but I can’t get over how she put this in the category “humor” like a reason why I love her❤️

  • @charholliday1349
    @charholliday1349 4 년 전 +421

    Sooo who's watching this again after watching her wedding video and Jake's *possible* cheating aligations....

  • @lz2743
    @lz2743 4 년 전 +1257

    *"I expect everyone to hurt me and I was finally in a place where i thought he wouldn't"* 💔💔

    • @ericatheviking3853
      @ericatheviking3853 4 년 전 +8

      Talisha Bonny that exact phrase from her hit me the hardest because I’ve felt that exact way every time I finally feel like I’m gaining trust in someone to not hurt me they do 💔💔💔💔

    • @Ninniboo226
      @Ninniboo226 4 년 전 +3

      Felt the same way . I have such a hard time opening up and when I finally do and try to work on my trust issues it seems like I always get proved right. You can’t trust anyone 😢... that shit hit so close to home .

  • @brooklynsmithers5648
    @brooklynsmithers5648 4 년 전 +1562

    It’s not okay that you got cheated on. You got cheated on and YOU will be okay, but cheating is NOT and never will be okay.

  • @emilywillis2759
    @emilywillis2759 4 년 전 +3

    when she said "that's what life is sometimes getting hurt by people you love" i felt that

  • @jenmck23
    @jenmck23 4 년 전 +5

    OMG when you said "god gave me Brad I feel like I needed him and I still feel like I need him" man I felt that to my core 😭. I completely know what that feels like and it hurts so fucking much.

  • @wthas.4591
    @wthas.4591 4 년 전 +815

    tana might not be everyone’s most favorite influencer, but come one, why would anyone do this to her? she genuinely sees like a real sweetheart. i feel so bad for her :(

  • @kacie1567
    @kacie1567 4 년 전 +1136

    Cheating is a choice, not a mistake. It takes so much more calculation than that.

    • @kenzik7919
      @kenzik7919 4 년 전 +1

      Kacie 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

    • @SH-hg9yl
      @SH-hg9yl 4 년 전 +14

      Exactly. They have a conversation, they flirt, and they plan out when and where it’s going to happen. Nothing about cheating is a “mistake”

    • @akdenizaslan2447
      @akdenizaslan2447 4 년 전 +2

      i think she was trying to not bash him

    • @camihgn4195
      @camihgn4195 4 년 전 +6

      It’s a choice AND a mistake ;-;

    • @reeseracers1452
      @reeseracers1452 4 년 전 +1

      Kacie you are correct because they would have planned so you “wouldn’t
      Find out”

  • @laurenmoore1173
    @laurenmoore1173 4 년 전 +3

    I don't know anything about you, but I stumbled upon this and I'm so glad I did. The fact that you're thinking about how you can be an example for young humans to stick up for themselves when you're hurting is inspiring and so fucking sweet. I already love you.

  • @jazziethemonster
    @jazziethemonster 4 년 전 +6

    This is actually the saddest breakup video I have ever watched. These are such real emotions. Damn.

  • @sydney85915
    @sydney85915 4 년 전 +1384

    I won’t bash or attack him. BUT I will unfollow him on every single platform he’s on. He does not deserve the career you gave him.

  • @haleypopish8613
    @haleypopish8613 4 년 전 +670

    I’m so frustrated that he was so dead set on a monogamous relationship and then cheated. Like it could’ve been so easy to define it as an open relationship and avoided all of this. Men, dude. They’re str8 wild. It’ll be okay, bb

    • @trinflynn294
      @trinflynn294 4 년 전 +14

      Haley Popish boys* Men don’t do this bs

    • @emily-wb4fv
      @emily-wb4fv 4 년 전 +2

      Haley Popish 100% agree

    • @vampiers25
      @vampiers25 4 년 전 +2

      That's hard Facts

    • @shaggyfae
      @shaggyfae 4 년 전 +7

      Haley Popish if I’m honest, the guys that push monogamy soo hard like he did generally cheat or have already cheated

    • @haleypopish8613
      @haleypopish8613 4 년 전 +1

      trinflynn true

  • @karinasantana6278
    @karinasantana6278 4 년 전 +102

    You know you truly loved and cared for someone when you blame yourself after they treat you like shit. Know your worth, trust carefully

  • @SpicyAndSweetNikki
    @SpicyAndSweetNikki 4 년 전 +6

    Girl, you are so amazing. I know it hurts. I've been through it before. You've got this. You deserve so much better. A great person will find you, but until then, live your life, sweetheart. Don't let this get you down. You're going to bounce back. You are so much more than a relationship.

  • @heymikaylahere
    @heymikaylahere 4 년 전 +648

    Sometimes it’s hard to remember that Tana is 20. She is still a young adult who has already gone through so much. The reaction she is having is so appropriate for her age. Love you always Tana 💗💗

  • @killersunset93
    @killersunset93 4 년 전 +2383

    vote here to cut Brad out of future content. you gave him enough clout he doesn't need anymore promo !!!

    • @berthajkthatsnotmyname4898
      @berthajkthatsnotmyname4898 4 년 전 +1

      ElleOhElle YES 💀 also how does this have 1.6k likes but no replies?

    • @shars3511
      @shars3511 4 년 전

      Yes but that would be extra work on her .

    • @berthajkthatsnotmyname4898
      @berthajkthatsnotmyname4898 4 년 전

      Shars I still don’t get how this only has like two comments wit thousand likes like wouldn’t someone say sum?

    • @Dorothy_Gale
      @Dorothy_Gale 4 년 전

      Shars she has people

    • @shars3511
      @shars3511 4 년 전

      Dorothy Gale oh,,I thought she did all the editing herself.

  • @maliaraemusic
    @maliaraemusic 4 년 전 +1

    I’m going through a heartbreak right now and hearing this has really helped. I have a hard time accepting how things are and part of me feels stupid for missing somebody that doesn’t have the best intentions. But these things are normal, for teenagers and adults. And in order to move forward, you have to accept and acknowledge the hurt. Thank you for your honesty. I’m hurt now, but I know with time, things are going to be okay. ❤️

  • @salmamayeyasalinas6099

    This is how many hugs you need
    👇🏾

  • @bbjulesx
    @bbjulesx 4 년 전 +1010

    this actually breaks my heart because we really thought he was so nice and the one for her 😪 he really messed up and TANA IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT AT ALL!

    • @justanaveragething
      @justanaveragething 4 년 전

      Who is we? Cuz i sure didnt think he was The right for her

    • @bbjulesx
      @bbjulesx 4 년 전

      me not you i mean before it all happened!

  • @zacharydbooth
    @zacharydbooth 4 년 전 +1286

    tana, don’t worry about the “bounce back”. the tana we “know and love” includes this side, too.

  • @keelyedwards1554
    @keelyedwards1554 3 년 전 +2

    i just watched this video, and about a month ago i was in the exact same state that you are in this video. you're right it will be okay. i lost myself in a man that i was deeply in love with, and he changed me extremely. i lost so many friends because of him, i changed myself almost entirely for him because that's what he wanted. and im finally at the point to where im almost over it. thank you, i needed to see this a lot sooner than i did, but everything happens for a reason and i will stand be that until the day i die. some people are chapters in your life, and the real ones are characters that are with you throughout the whole story. I love you so much tana, i've been watching your videos since i was about 14 and im now 19. ik you don't know me, but i will be here for you no matter what. im a great shoulder to cry on and listener, and we could even smoke together (honestly that's on my bucket list so i would looooove that lol) if you ever wanna talk just look me up on insta. again thank you and i love you so much.

  • @StarLuna787
    @StarLuna787 3 년 전 +3

    this was such an iconic turning point

  • @marisakristina8241
    @marisakristina8241 4 년 전 +1222

    Never take him back, once he starts disrespecting you he'll never the respect for you.

    • @danx5005
      @danx5005 4 년 전 +4

      ?

    • @amandadollrey3479
      @amandadollrey3479 4 년 전 +1

      DanxGames He means if she'll come back after this he knows he can do whatever tf he wants with no respect or regard to her feelings

    • @Jacob_JRW
      @Jacob_JRW 4 년 전 +2

      Marisa Kristina it’s not your relationship, this is very surface level understanding of cheating. Sometimes it’s not that easy and people deserve a second chance.

    • @christygarza977
      @christygarza977 4 년 전

      @@Jacob_JRW nobody deserves a second chance that's the dumbest thing I've ever heard.

    • @christygarza977
      @christygarza977 4 년 전

      Cheaters dont deserve a second chance if they couldn't be loyal the first time what makes you think they'll be loyal the second chance. They wont be

  • @caitlinamandastewart
    @caitlinamandastewart 4 년 전 +1982

    “I feel like Trisha Paytas”
    HAHAHAHA ME WHEN I HAVE A BREAKDOWN

  • @dallascarlin657
    @dallascarlin657 4 년 전 +1

    You got a glow with jake now. I can see it from this video to the most recent video you posted (when your pranked jake). You look so much happier. I love you Tana❤️❤️❤️

  • @mollyfarrell8133
    @mollyfarrell8133 4 년 전 +13

    this video literally made me tear up, i feel so bad. luv you tana you've bounced back

  • @thirtyflirtythriving
    @thirtyflirtythriving 4 년 전 +2446

    i knew you couldn’t trust a man named BRAD.

    • @austinhuss5020
      @austinhuss5020 4 년 전 +12

      Skitz HAHAHA

    • @laurens9572
      @laurens9572 4 년 전 +20

      honestly same sis.

    • @mariaandlola139
      @mariaandlola139 4 년 전 +31

      Literally! My sisters ex was called Brad and he cheated on her with 11 people in total and racked up thousands of pounds of debt in her name!! 😤

    • @savannat4921
      @savannat4921 4 년 전 +22

      You LOVED brad ... but then liberty mutual calls

    • @jessellis7968
      @jessellis7968 4 년 전 +8

      My ex Brad was a cheating narcissistic piece of shit...

  • @genesiscalleja7236
    @genesiscalleja7236 4 년 전 +1566

    someone needs to balance these cheating men, they're all 2's dating 10's.

    • @alexiamenjivar4785
      @alexiamenjivar4785 4 년 전 +41

      Genesis Calleja SAY THIS LOUDER FOR THE HOES IN THE BACKKKK

    • @genesiscalleja7236
      @genesiscalleja7236 4 년 전 +9

      @@alexiamenjivar4785 THIS

    • @cadd9199
      @cadd9199 4 년 전 +14

      Genesis Calleja buddy is literally known for looking identical to Justin bieber I’m sure he’s higher then a 2

    • @genesiscalleja7236
      @genesiscalleja7236 4 년 전 +8

      @@cadd9199 its a joke.

    • @3124april
      @3124april 4 년 전 +25

      Cadd his mental capacity is a 2.

  • @ifoundtheavocados4869
    @ifoundtheavocados4869 4 년 전 +30

    And now she’s married to a millionaire. YOU GO GIRL 😛🙌

  • @Kee682
    @Kee682 4 년 전 +297

    ok but the PIPING HOT TEA is....you're wearing a jake paul shirt in this video......so like.....i need a timeline or something bc i am confusion....

    • @smugbugs7031
      @smugbugs7031 4 년 전 +1

      Courtney DUDE!!!

    • @justinkidd3247
      @justinkidd3247 4 년 전 +1

      ya

    • @courtney8464
      @courtney8464 4 년 전

      SAME. ALSO WE HAVE THE SAME NAME ;)

    • @colmreilly21
      @colmreilly21 4 년 전 +1

      Courtney hi confusion I’m confused

    • @cannanna7303
      @cannanna7303 4 년 전 +4

      Her and Jake have met and known each other for two years. So she’s been a “Jake Pauler” before their relationship so yeah...she had his merch.. It’s just cute that they turned out dating not too long after.

  • @skylarbrittanyx
    @skylarbrittanyx 4 년 전 +1457

    the amount of comments of girls going through similar situations right now is so heartbreaking. nobody deserves to get taken advantage of and i hope ALL OF YOU remember that. never let anyone make you forget your worth/beauty because it happens to the best of us unfortunately, i can assure you it’s not about being “good enough” and it does not mean you’re any less. it just means you deserve MORE. ❤️

    • @anjolaxo3875
      @anjolaxo3875 4 년 전 +2

      @Susan Mason No you are worth SO MUCH and whoever broke your heart wasnt worth it in the first place hun xxxxxx stay strong gorgeous xxxxx❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @natalielizama4248
      @natalielizama4248 4 년 전

      Skylar Brittany i needed this 😭❤️

    • @skylarbrittanyx
      @skylarbrittanyx 4 년 전 +2

      Susan Mason it’s okay to feel the way you do, but just remember it’s not gonna last forever. heartbreak is temporary pain and the best revenge is to be great on your own. you have so much beauty and strength that whoever did this to you didn’t deserve. everything happens for a reason, this will only make you stronger. sending u so much love ❤️❤️

    • @anjolaxo3875
      @anjolaxo3875 4 년 전

      @Susan Mason I am so deeply sorry and cannot even imagine how you feel. 10 years is a long time but i hope you find strength to heal. May God bless you and provide you with all you need to survive! If your ex cannot even treat a woman as brilliant as yourself properly he certainly does not deserve your dog. I hope and pray you will get your dog back love! You are so strong for opening up about your feelings! Please, please stay strong and i truly am deeply sorry that someone could hurt you like that but trust me they will get what they deserve. God and i know things WILL get better so i know you will find courage to keep moving. I pray your health gets better and your fiancial situation is resolved. You CAN do this! This relationship will NOT ruin you but strengthen you! SO much love beautiful i hope you stay strong and once again May God Truly Bless You beautiful!!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @anjolaxo3875
      @anjolaxo3875 4 년 전

      @Susan Mason You are INCREDIBLY COURAGEOUS for coming this far despite your past. I also suffer from anxiety, depression and PTSD and understand how it can be a living hell to go through but can't even begin to imagine exactly how you feel❤ God definitely has a plan for you in this world and i know you will stay long enough to see it ❤ I am so terribly sorry for your loss and may your brother's soul rest in peace❤ I hope you keep your strength and continue to heal and live a very peaceful life because i know your journey isn't over yet but perhaps just beginning ❤❤ I am so sorry that people ignore you but you definitely mean something to someone now or in the near future and i certainly know you have positively impacted my life!❤❤ I understand it must hurt and wish i could take your pain away😭❤ If by lost your bestfriend you mean you both are not friends anymore then you should remember the good times you had together and know that this has happened for a reason and i am sure something truly amazing is coming your way❤❤ Don't listen to trolls because at the end of the day that is all they are -trolls. The fact you are getting therapy shows how much of a brilliantly strong person you are and i know you will recover and heal in your own time and peacefully❤❤❤ May God continue to bless you and keep you strong because i certainly know your here on this earth for a reason❤❤❤ Just know you are never alone and are always being cared for even though it might not seem like it❤❤❤ STAY STRONG BEAUTIFUL!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ This a Bible passage that could possibly help you understand why life is so hard even though this passage may be hard to understand❤❤: John 12:25 - "Anyone who loves their life will lose it, while anyone who hates their life in this world will keep it for eternal life." GOD AND I LOVE YOU PLEASE STAY STRONG❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @kaylie2496
    @kaylie2496 4 년 전 +1159

    It’s just tana and her ringworm now. Couple goals

  • @paigecorbalis8164
    @paigecorbalis8164 4 년 전 +2

    I love this intro. I love seeing your real normal side! Makes me love you even more ❤️

  • @mcr2991
    @mcr2991 4 년 전 +4

    Idk when the pain of heartbreak ends but just know you're not going through this alone and you have so many people supporting you❤

  • @ellis7500
    @ellis7500 4 년 전 +526

    “Crying on floors im gonna leave that to Trisha”

  • @daniellacoelho5551
    @daniellacoelho5551 4 년 전 +512

    It hit me and hurted when she said "I just wanted it to work" and she started crying🤧

    • @natasha9474
      @natasha9474 4 년 전 +1

      Same here because once you've been in that situation and you start to feel stupid for judging girls that give their exes one too many chances...but then it happens to you and before you know it you're contemplating his mistakes, making them ok in your head, and on the verge of taking him back. So this should be a lesson ladies, heal yourselves mentally and emotionally before jumping into relationships. Also, anything can happen to anyone so try no to judge someone's situation. But all love to Tana ❤❤

    • @onlynasha
      @onlynasha 4 년 전

      Right, just looking at her while she said it broke my heart 😔

  • @carolinawilkinson3012

    She is so well spoken. I love her 💛

  • @larset9
    @larset9 3 년 전 +4

    I'm so sorry. I separated from my 15yr relationship last Dec due to being cheated on. It hurts so bad! And causes you to feel stupid because you trusted them. Everyone had to decide this on their own as every relationship & it's break down is different.
    I'd be asking myself tho, if he was really wanting a monogamous relationship with you (after all he's the one that cheated) or if he was really using that as a control measure in your relationship to gain or exploit the situation. Please consider this question when making your choice to try again or not with him. Stay strong! Xx

  • @awdatzya
    @awdatzya 4 년 전 +403

    "she lost him, but she found herself and somehow that was everything"
    stay strong bb, we love you

    • @Renee-zy6oy
      @Renee-zy6oy 4 년 전

      Malwina that saying is so painfully sad but freeing at the same time. 😭

  • @khadijaaomar5381
    @khadijaaomar5381 4 년 전 +1314

    YALL look at his IG stories.. while tana is hurting this guy is literally partying. BRAD IS REALLY CANCELLED PERIODTT

  • @carolinemussallem9320

    I got cheated on too. Nothing physical but emotional cheating and Snapchat, multiple times. It hurts so much and I feel like it’s my fault. I’m trying to realize my self worth because I kept forgiving him and trying to see the best in him. I want to know why he would do me like that even when I all did was love him. I wanted it to work so bad too. Watching u bounce back is inspiring me.

  • @brooklynshaw5449
    @brooklynshaw5449 4 년 전

    This vid is so relatable, i know exactly what you’re going through! You will get through this, i literally thought i never would be okay again after being cheated on but you WILL!! I feel for you girl ❤️