Your Reality | Award-winning short film on Gaslighting
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- 게시일 2021. 07. 19.
- TRIGGER WARNING!
Your Reality is a multi-award winning short psychological thriller that tackles the current topic of Gaslighting, with the goal to raise awareness of this dangerous emotional abuse and help you recognise its signs.
The film follows a successful young marketing executive, who after moving in with her charming photographer boyfriend is in danger of losing everything, as she becomes increasingly unsure of her ability to trust her own memory.
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* Thank you to Velina for translating the film into Bulgarian!
* Big thank you to Brucu Savas @sevgi_icinde for the Turkish subtitles!
* Huge thank you to Ema Juniarsyah for the Indonesian subtitles!
* Thank you so much to Carlos Iván Chesñevar for the Spanish subtitles!
* Big thank you to Abdul Rahman Hasan Alshimali for the Arabic subtitles!
(If you'd like to provide subtitles for your native language, please get in touch via www.tatjana-anders.com)
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Director: Top Tarasin ( / top_tarasin )
Writer / Producer / Actress: Tatjana Anders
Executive Producer: John Clarkson
DOP: Jacob Schühle Lewis ( / jeak )
Production: Dawn Sky Films ( / dawnskyfilms )
Actors:
Alicia - Tatjana Anders ( / tatjana.anders )
Mark - Kyle James ( / actorkylejames )
Sophie - MJ Lee ( / mjayleee )
Check out the full cast and crew on IMDb: www.imdb.com/title/tt10530534/
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I told my daughter, it starts with backhand compliments. If they give you a compliment and back it up with an insult, RUN.
Definitely a red flag when they constantly make you believe your memory isn’t good. They want to make you feel like you’re crazy.
Sending love to all survivors of manipulative people and narcissistic abuse ♥
The most painful is how they are so charismatic and sweet to everyone in the world, and at home it's like a completely different person and when you try to speak up about everything, you hesitate so much because deep down you just KNOW nobody would believe you - because they would never allow others to see who he truly is at home
Red flag number one is the confusion. A good relationship doesn't include confusion. Someone who cares about you won't ever play games with your head and heart like that.
Dr. Ramani said the minute you feel like you have to start recording and saving messages like you're building a case....you're in trouble! And that is so true!!!
I was married to the ultimate gaslighter. I didn't know what I was experiencing as I was young. It was pure HELL. In the end, we were in marriage counceling and we spoke uninterrupted, him first, about our marriage life. The most SATISFYING moment was when I pointed out some of the things he said and he starts gaslighting right there infront of the councilors!! The female councilor said sternly, "You DID say those things. We all heard you." I was so grateful that finally, someone, validated my anguish.... and we divorced shortly there after with no tears shed from me.
My father was a narcissist. I met my abuser at 15 in high school, and we married before I graduated. This film was my life for 37 years. Praise God that I'm free. I had to move halfway across the country and hide, was granted a divorce, and started my life over. I'm working on healing day by day. This happens in more homes than you'd ever guess.
I love how in the beginning of the film, author included how her own mother calls her selfish. It all starts in the childhood with narcissistic parents
Going to someone’s house for a first date is insane
For those of us raised to be subservient, people pleasers instead of our parents reaffirming we are valuable, leaves us wide open for this kind of abuse. This was a great short film showing how this beautiful, sweet soul was twisted into the narcissist web of lies & deceit. Every innocent young child should be taught awareness of this type of abuse. 😢
A reliable indicator to me whether I’m in the right relationship or not if how I feel about myself when I’m with this person. If I love myself even more when I’m around them and I see myself as a good person, that’s a green flag. If I can’t stop thinking there’s something wrong with me, that’s usually a big red flag. Don’t underestimate your intuition and don’t over analyze your thoughts.
Seasoned divorce lawyer here. Avoid marrying a narcissist at all costs! Vet very carefully before you marry one! The divorce will be brutal, especially if you discard them and cause a narcissistic injury! Stay safe out there!
It's really telling that I recognized EVERYTHING he was doing:
Something I haven't seen anyone in the comments notice or point out yet--when she lost her phone, he knew exactly where it was. Buried in thr couch cushions, where he hid it, after snooping through her phone to get her friends and family's numbers and who knows what else. That's why he didn't lift a finger to help her look. She left it in her bag. People like this frequently spy on and monitor you using technology. The tiny details in this are insane
When they tell you they remember something you did, but you never done it. RUN
Sometimes being In a bad relationship can make you feel even lonlier than when you're single
The constant little jabs, the backhanded compliments, the niceness followed by coldness. Oh so familiar.
The sad thing about this is that it’s commonplace and no one considers this abuse. It IS abuse, folks-it’s called emotional and mental abuse…