Pastor John Gray Confesses To Having Cheated On His "Rib" Aventer Gray!

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  • @reformedtubers1028
    @reformedtubers1028 5 년 전 +123

    We can’t keep rebuking the devil while still giving the enemy a foothold.

    • @pastorjohngray432
      @pastorjohngray432 3 년 전

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (CLINTON OLIVIA MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION.) in kebbi state Nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349053245715) tell him I sent you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you.

    • @eddiehunter1863
      @eddiehunter1863 년 전

      He is the enemy

  • @GiselleX
    @GiselleX 5 년 전 +1052

    If she had cheated, I wonder if he would have forgiven her.

  • @jeanetterogerwilliams5716

    No one is ABOVE SIN...it's important that believers not follow man but God.

    • @tyhubb804
      @tyhubb804 5 년 전 +1

      What exactly does this mean

    • @Kim_in_Cali
      @Kim_in_Cali 5 년 전 +8

      Then I should stay home and not give money

    • @kudakwashechirairo965
      @kudakwashechirairo965 5 년 전 +21

      @@Kim_in_Cali you dnt give money to people but God. Also if you're going to church because of the pastor then you are totally misdirected

    • @earleansmith8608
      @earleansmith8608 3 년 전 +3

      It's all about having a relationship with God not man he is only the messenger you don't go against leadership those in authority over you there are consequences we are not to judge

    • @joygernautm6641
      @joygernautm6641 3 년 전 +5

      That’s fine but if you have the audacity to sit on a pulpit and preach to others how they should behave then you should follow your own damn advice. He’s not sorry. He’s only sorry he got caught.

  • @henrysingletary2617
    @henrysingletary2617 5 년 전 +267

    He didn't confess to anything they both blamed the women .

    • @lilianakaspar7997
      @lilianakaspar7997 4 년 전 +22

      And the devil.

    • @carlexus3133
      @carlexus3133 4 년 전 +5

      It's woman

    • @noreenperez8666
      @noreenperez8666 4 년 전 +5

      You are so right Henry Singletary😃😃

    • @djebitra8834
      @djebitra8834 4 년 전

      22 And whether you are Asian, European, American or African, you should know that as in Noah's day, no one can be saved except by this African. There was a time when it was Paul, an Asian over there. Then in Europe with Martin Luther, John Wesley, Ulrich Zwingli and many others. And then in the United States with William Branham. And now God raises an African, outside whom there is no Salvation. Like Noah for his time, like the Lord Jesus Christ for his time, as every prophet for his time, today, it is prophet Kacou Philippe. [Ed: The congregation says, "Amen!"]. And you cannot be saved outside what prophet Kacou Philippe preaches. And he that has ears to hear let him hear!
      www.philippekacou.org

    • @tytrenamcdonald5849
      @tytrenamcdonald5849 4 년 전 +10

      He wanted that other woman. He knew his wife was going to take up for him regardless. I couldn't believe he started shouting/showing off like his was being moved by God. He's playing with God. When I first saw him on KRplus all I saw was another worldly pastor taking advantage of people and his wife

  • @glynistart7623
    @glynistart7623 5 년 전 +372

    Why is she ranting about the other woman for so many minutes, but is giving her husband a pass? He is the greater blame than the other woman!

    • @HoneyBee4163
      @HoneyBee4163 5 년 전 +55

      This is common with infidelity. It is easier to focus on the outside threat than the one that sleeps next to you. Plus...women are conditioned to be competitive with other women.

    • @coffeewsugarcream2109
      @coffeewsugarcream2109 5 년 전 +15

      She going on and on about the woman because she gave dude a pass saying the strange woman who spoke to his 16 year old couldn't get a date self. SMDH

    • @pastorveldaofosudjanmba1315
      @pastorveldaofosudjanmba1315 5 년 전 +4

      Everyone does not purpose to commit adultery some people are set up a trap is set to destroy the family, the man and his ministry read proverbs about those kind of women. Some women are fooled and do not know the man is married but everyone knows who John Gray is

    • @pastorveldaofosudjanmba1315
      @pastorveldaofosudjanmba1315 5 년 전 +1

      They said they have been going through for two years. He said he slept on the couch. He said she turned things out

    • @pastorveldaofosudjanmba1315
      @pastorveldaofosudjanmba1315 5 년 전 +7

      What if she is able to forgive her husband. What if she still loves and needs him. What if they are willing to do the work?

  • @So_Sag
    @So_Sag 5 년 전 +149

    So he just confessed to cheating on his wife after she's spent 18 + hours being a mother, having thyroid problems, fighting cancerous cells, birthing him and being his coat??!!! Ohhhh ok

    • @deannarogers9027
      @deannarogers9027 5 년 전 +5

      dlouvin lol 😂 wow it’s too much!

    • @CodyCole80
      @CodyCole80 5 년 전 +13

      dlouvin
      Right! 💯 His ass ain’t worth having. Forget the books and tv shows.
      Extra money ain’t worth your health and peace of mind. 😒
      I’d rather have a man making a decent 100k salary and be faithful then to have a man making millions that keeps my head aching. 🤷🏽‍♀️ And he ain’t even cute.

    • @LadySunflower1224
      @LadySunflower1224 5 년 전 +6

      All that and you cheat!

    • @SuperMarkus35
      @SuperMarkus35 5 년 전

      Codycole80 100K?

    • @CodyCole80
      @CodyCole80 5 년 전 +1

      SuperMarkus35
      🤔 Yeah.
      That’s a decent salary right? 😉

  • @kanamexzeroxyuuki
    @kanamexzeroxyuuki 3 년 전 +56

    That was not a sermon. I saw rage and misplaced pride in her stance. And I saw cowardice and narcissism in his. In a way he blamed the people he had to help for not seeing that he had issues, as if it was their fault that he fell into temptation....

    • @pastorjohngray432
      @pastorjohngray432 3 년 전

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (CLINTON OLIVIA MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION.) in kebbi state Nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349053245715) tell him I sent you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you.

    • @Rebecca-hc5ju
      @Rebecca-hc5ju 3 년 전 +1

      I agree. She was mad!!

    • @niacholland03
      @niacholland03 2 년 전 +1

      Thank you!!! I can read body language very clear. She wasn’t excepting him to say those things and you can read her.

  • @leslieburgess6985
    @leslieburgess6985 5 년 전 +116

    He is making a fool out of her. I would NOT be up there. He would have to explain that himself.

    • @josephudeuka2547
      @josephudeuka2547 5 년 전 +5

      Leslie Boozer she is a strong woman...and she understands that divorce is not the way out.

    • @agwriter2406
      @agwriter2406 4 년 전 +27

      @@josephudeuka2547 let me ask a question. Do you think he would be a "strong man" if she had been the one cheating? Why do women have to be put through that and expect to stay while if it was reversed he would be out the door

    • @Lily-cm3nj
      @Lily-cm3nj 10 일 전

      He's cheated on her and made a fool of her so many times that she's use to it, the money and clout are worth more that her dignity and self esteem which she obviously lacks!

  • @aikenandre
    @aikenandre 5 년 전 +503

    Never put your faith in a man, only in God!

    • @alagawatchtower8476
      @alagawatchtower8476 5 년 전 +12

      I wish I can thumbs up this a millions times over! Put your faith in no man but God!!!!!!!!

    • @PSUJerseyGirl
      @PSUJerseyGirl 5 년 전 +2

      Never truer words!

    • @rainbowlifestyle7084
      @rainbowlifestyle7084 5 년 전

      Amen. Men or ladies aren't perfect. When you married you can't divorce unless your spouse die then u can remarry or stay single

    • @shutit4024
      @shutit4024 5 년 전 +1

      Zemarko Stone ehhh

    • @bigchuckles1427
      @bigchuckles1427 5 년 전

      That means you to

  • @ShayOfficial317
    @ShayOfficial317 5 년 전 +299

    Lol... The way she snatched that mic🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣!!!

  • @torrisheree6839
    @torrisheree6839 5 년 전 +155

    This is sad.... Seems like they were blaming everyone else for what happened except for blaming themselves. If you're gonna call other people involved devils then they need to call themselves devil because he took part in it.

    • @sharonchatman6448
      @sharonchatman6448 4 년 전 +5

      They weren't calling the Woman a devil..they are speaking to the spirit inside her...the Saints of God are Saints/ saved called out by God to do his work Either your Saved or not, on God's side or the devil side..JESUS told his disciples One of you is a devil! And if People Read There Bibles then they would understand what is going on. Being saved doesn't mean we don't fall into Temptations..it means we don't practice Sinning. We are still human..we won't be All Spirit like God until we go 2 Heaven!

  • @dwalker112
    @dwalker112 5 년 전 +212

    Put you’re faith in God, not man.

  • @irresponsibleparent3
    @irresponsibleparent3 5 년 전 +383

    Funny how he wants to honor her in public but disrespects her in private... Next!

  • @Kimtyus1
    @Kimtyus1 5 년 전 +94

    Being a woman of betrayal and covering my ex-husband for years did not stop his infidelity. I forgave him, but he never stopped. I am a child of God and infidelity is wrong. Trust is broken and things are inmost instances gone. If he changes his ways, maybe they will work, but sometimes God will guide you in another direction, if what is happening is not of him and all will be forgiven.
    God Bless them in thier journey.

    • @royroyroy7293
      @royroyroy7293 5 년 전 +4

      Pray for him, for better for worse is this thing called marriage.

    • @toniaholmes2403
      @toniaholmes2403 5 년 전 +14

      @@royroyroy7293 um no! If the roles were reverse there would be no forgiveness. Y'all need to stop! These cheating men gonna stress you out & have u dying early. That's why this continues to happen women willing to except anything & not believing they deserve better. Vows should be followed by both people within marriage.

    • @enoughisenoughtrust529
      @enoughisenoughtrust529 5 년 전 +10

      I will like to say thank you for sharing this comment it is so true because if the shoe was on the other foot, would the male be willing to cover the wife and remain faithful like she was to him. I will answer that myself No No the church will drag her name through every ounce of that church from back to front. My ex husband suppose to have been a man of God cheated and like you said the only reason he was so apologetic is that he got caught and there was so many women I don't have enough fingers and toes to count tnem. I will never trust him not even with my dogs and I have three of them. Now I forgive him because I had to move on and glory be to God I got through all of the mind games the enemy was trying to use to destroy me. I was seaching in the fire for something that was already burnt up. I thank God that He caught me before I fell and broke the most important thing in life to me and that is my relationship with God himself. I got strengthened when I told my Father (God) I choose to love inspite of the pain I choose to love. Today I love my ex as God has commanded me to but not as a husband and I am blessed in so many ways I can't explain but maybe I will write a book. Thank you again. Peace🙏🙏🙏.

    • @geminilove7830
      @geminilove7830 5 년 전 +3

      He has no reason to change...she accepts it and wont go anywhere!

    • @Kimtyus1
      @Kimtyus1 5 년 전 +1

      @@geminilove7830 true

  • @WinnieClark1
    @WinnieClark1 3 년 전 +42

    Everything he said about her yet he’s complaining now that she doesn’t cook. You cook. Hire a cook. It’s such a tragedy how people treat one another.

    • @bruceford6264
      @bruceford6264 3 년 전 +9

      But he talks to another woman about cooking for her but he won't cook or provide cooked food for his kids/household...

    • @francesgreen6020
      @francesgreen6020 2 년 전 +6

      From the looks of him he looks like he's eating very well he can afford to push the plate back a little bit

    • @faithfullfertility2090
      @faithfullfertility2090 2 년 전

      Well said. He needs a colon cleanse.

  • @AEL231
    @AEL231 5 년 전 +183

    This is so embarrassing! He should step down, as a pastor he knew he was doing wrong when he was committing the sin. These so called “pastors” need to be held accountable for their adulterous lifestyle. Once you become are pastor you are no longer a babe in Christ, so there is no excuses for this man. These people give the devil too much credit, always blaming on the devil when they really need to check their own heart.

    • @divine9100
      @divine9100 5 년 전 +7

      FACTz indeed many of them ride on the forgiveness pass & quotes out the bible for many to turned the cheek to their "Toxic" behavior
      & women weaken their own abilities & strengths by accepting this BS behavior🌠

    • @joshflama2616
      @joshflama2616 5 년 전 +6

      Anna EL he's a human and not God. He will rise and fall...but his life to repair. He's gonna recover and get better. Pastor Gray has more good work for God than evil.

    • @deniseyoung4494
      @deniseyoung4494 5 년 전 +1

      Anna EL it does have to do with heart. Amen. That's exactly why the Lord said to give no place to the devil.

    • @adageorge2257
      @adageorge2257 5 년 전

      The devil is the reason for that behavior.

    • @best.videos.ever.5029
      @best.videos.ever.5029 5 년 전 +1

      You sound a hot mess. Please read your Word and make sure to back up everything with the Word. Wether or not someone decides to sit down should be a personal decision. But if Pastor John Gray knew he had been honest, repented, his wife knew, and his mentors knew, then who are we to tell him he needs to sit down. You please sit down and read. We are humans. What do you mean "as a pastor he should step down"??? He is a Christian and he's a minister just like you should be in any area of influence God places you. We can't sit out everytime we sin. We have to repent and run to God and seek deliverance. And I believe he did that. Stop with your archaic man-made legalistic views. It's damaging to the church.

  • @CiaobellaAmour
    @CiaobellaAmour 5 년 전 +294

    His cheated on his “rib” that “birthed” him 🤦🏽‍♀️. Good ole struggle love 🤔🙄. Laila you’re mad pretty, Queen 👑

  • @nessawithsmiles
    @nessawithsmiles 5 년 전 +281

    The devil is not that powerful. Everything is not the devils fault.

    • @pameladavis5948
      @pameladavis5948 5 년 전 +7

      Yes! Speak the Truth! Tell the Truth and shame the devil!

    • @hlomphopege
      @hlomphopege 5 년 전 +21

      I certainly agree. Somethings you just CHOOSE to do. It ain’t always the devils work.

    • @STManning
      @STManning 5 년 전

      Yaaaaasssss!!! @O Love!! Say that!!! Poor ding dong devil gets the blame for everything!!!! Completely agree with you! So glad someone said it!

    • @STManning
      @STManning 5 년 전 +2

      @@hlomphopege riiiiiittttteeee! #ThatFreeWillTho!

    • @TiarasLounge
      @TiarasLounge 5 년 전

      Funny because John Gray said that himself.

  • @OriginalSinner
    @OriginalSinner 3 년 전 +65

    These are the fruits of “celebrity preachers.”

    • @pastorjohngray432
      @pastorjohngray432 3 년 전

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (CLINTON OLIVIA MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION.) in kebbi state Nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349053245715) tell him I sent you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you.

  • @TheNaphisa03
    @TheNaphisa03 5 년 전 +84

    He did not openly confess about anything. What he did was dance around it and speak metaphors. Something about this couple leaves me uneasy. The way she grabbed that mike out of his hand..so rude..and I do not agree with her response to infedility.

    • @Drblackinstien
      @Drblackinstien 5 년 전 +1

      Naphisa Modmonss
      YOU ARE SO RIGHT!
      PEOPLE THINK HE IS PREACHING BECAUSE HE SOUNDS LIKE HE IS!
      DID YOU HERE A CONFESSION?
      TO WHAT?
      SOUNDS MORE LIKE A SYMPATHETIC PLEA FOR MARITAL PROBLEMS.
      DID YOU HEAR HIM SAY “I HAVE SIN”?
      DID YOU HEAR HIM ASK FOR “FORGIVENESS”?
      WHICH HE ONLY OWES TO GOD, HIS WIFE AND HIS FOLLOWERS, NOT THE PUBLIC!
      LOOKED LIKE SHOWTIME!
      HE NEEDS TO TAKE A LESSON FROM JIMMY SWAGGART WHO SAID PUBLICLY “I HAVE SINNED LORD”.
      Soooooooo
      IF YA GONNA COME OUT, COME OUT RIGHT!

    • @breebeal3344
      @breebeal3344 5 년 전 +4

      So it appears and sounds to me that she's acting more like his mother than his wife. He's not the head of that house. He's whipped!!

    • @gg86862
      @gg86862 5 년 전 +1

      It's for show. He cheated and she blames the other woman. REALLY

    • @sabrinasmith2766
      @sabrinasmith2766 4 년 전

      I'm not sure what is going on

    • @sabrinasmith2766
      @sabrinasmith2766 4 년 전

      @@breebeal3344 are you married

  • @mikomai3754
    @mikomai3754 5 년 전 +65

    He is a man called by God, NOT God. This is life, this is marriage, no one is exempt from anything. People are just quicker to throw things at Christians, because we’ve done what he’s talking about, smiling on the outside and not fixing the inside.

    • @djm2985
      @djm2985 5 년 전 +2

      Very well said

    • @legal60luv79
      @legal60luv79 5 년 전 +4

      From these comments no one here has been in or is in a long term marriage. I can tell that you r a mature women. Anybody that has has a long term marriage knows that you say for better or worse for a reason b4 God. And better or worse does not always have to be someone cheating. If you really believe what the Bible said in Matthew 18:22 didn't it say to forgive 70X7. Lets face it that a lot of them have been just a GF or a BF and put up with way more only the world just didn't see it.

    • @mikomai3754
      @mikomai3754 5 년 전 +2

      Legal60Luv Exactly!!!! Everything you said times 10!!! Some put up with worse and the person that’s putting them through it won’t even commit to them, let alone marry them.I’ve been married for 10 years and it’s not always wonderful and blissful. The vows encompass every situation that life throws at you. So if you and your spouse mean what you speak, when time comes you’ll get in and do the work. It’s not always cut and dry.

    • @briannaje5419
      @briannaje5419 5 년 전 +2

      So much carnal thinking in these comments it's unreal.

    • @legal60luv79
      @legal60luv79 5 년 전 +2

      @@mikomai3754 and for myself over 20 yrs and counting without any cheating but still ups and downs and my love for him is stronger for him than the day I married him so thanks for keeping this about us being humans and not God. Only he was perfect we will never wear that title.

  • @Noix009
    @Noix009 5 년 전 +812

    Why does it feel like this woman is putting up appearances but dying inside 🤯🤯🤯

    • @kimberley3577
      @kimberley3577 5 년 전 +62

      Because her mannerisms seem forced and practiced. All that fist pumping and hand movement

    • @CiaobellaAmour
      @CiaobellaAmour 5 년 전 +33

      You know she is

    • @RUNWAYBEAUTY
      @RUNWAYBEAUTY 5 년 전 +46

      Temi David she is. She is still having problems I can see it all over her

    • @mrshappilymarried1
      @mrshappilymarried1 5 년 전 +41

      @@RUNWAYBEAUTY yep, and she's humiliated...

    • @msqueeneats
      @msqueeneats 5 년 전 +30

      @@kimberley3577 I totally agree with you!! Everything seemed staged!! Like be real!!

  • @cindyleandreministries8664

    I gave All of the credits to Aventer Gray, but Pastor Gray should have step down for a year or more to repent,and get his life back on track.

    • @lisacox3750
      @lisacox3750 4 년 전 +8

      Cindy Leandre Ministries...that would never happen. These type of men are narcissists and will not voluntarily let go of their power. The congregation would have to make him step him down. That would be the only way. He would have to truly be kicked down to the bottom to understand what he did. He knows he will never be held accountable so he won't do anything different. She won't leave him and most of the congregation will stay. Nothing will really change. He knows all of this.

    • @jameiliajones7811
      @jameiliajones7811 4 년 전 +3

      I'm a kid...I dont know much and while i am disappointed in his actions...I understand that even though he is a leader and a pastor and a son of God...he is also human a regular man who like everybody else has to deal with the struggles of life we are no more righteous than him I think we should also remember that sin is sin and all sin is spelt s-i-n so what makes the 'little' lies we tell and the 'little' grudges we hold any better than his sin?...just a thought

    • @jameiliajones7811
      @jameiliajones7811 4 년 전

      @@lisacox3750 ok god

    • @ccarter509
      @ccarter509 4 년 전 +1

      Cindy Leandre Ministries how’s he gonna collect checks from y’all if he’s sitting? Huh? 🤑

    • @dinahharvey7763
      @dinahharvey7763 3 년 전

      That's exactly what satan want him to do. Satan would do anything to keep the word of God being spread, souls being won. No I can't agree to him stepping down. Who are we to judge. As it is written in LUKE 6:37, Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven.

  • @islandprincesscastle
    @islandprincesscastle 5 년 전 +139

    Wow!!! Let's blame the woman and not your husband, okay 🤔

    • @gnzlsdebra1064
      @gnzlsdebra1064 4 년 전 +11

      Islandprincess Castle and lets allow the husband to make all kinds of excuses for sleeping with a 16 year old.

    • @irisboulware3943
      @irisboulware3943 4 년 전

      Forgive the Pastor, but the Pastor needs to step down, and the devil did not make him have sex with this other woman. The money looks good, This is a Huge congregation.. The wife should and the Church should have told the Pastor to be withdrawn from, until he show fruits of repentance. There is a "MONEY" involved in this decision. The wife is not going to let that part go .. again ..The preacher "LUST" after another woman, and was not thinking about his wife or the church!!

    • @nelixsulu6201
      @nelixsulu6201 3 년 전 +2

      Women don’t be holding these men accountable smh

  • @auemmjee
    @auemmjee 5 년 전 +696

    Something about these two seems really disingenuous.

    • @MsDivaJonelle
      @MsDivaJonelle 5 년 전 +46

      I said that from the whole Lamborghini truck fiasco.

    • @DeeDiamond2981
      @DeeDiamond2981 5 년 전 +53

      I saw dis after the Trump.visit.. I unfollowed him.
      On the gram

    • @SmokeN.Mirrors
      @SmokeN.Mirrors 5 년 전 +14

      THIS!

    • @priscillapie
      @priscillapie 5 년 전 +72

      Most preachers/priest are some of the shadiest people walking the earth ....

    • @frankieallen4900
      @frankieallen4900 5 년 전 +30

      Thank God for discernment.

  • @rachelledavis1231
    @rachelledavis1231 5 년 전 +60

    They need to stop blaming the devil and take accountability for their own actions! Such nonsense they are spewing about both of their health.

  • @ParkviewSinger
    @ParkviewSinger 5 년 전 +31

    Why he chose to use Saul's story as an example baffles me. Saul, outside of the Church, persecuted the Church. Paul did not persecute the church after finding God. Wolf in sheeps clothing. Nothing new.

  • @zakiahart3919
    @zakiahart3919 4 년 전 +28

    He should've never shared this confession in my opinion

  • @mzdankmuzik
    @mzdankmuzik 5 년 전 +64

    Dr. Phil said it best "When you see one rat, there's 50 more you don't see." Wonder how many before the one he got CAUGHT with???? Men don't usually jus confess. They get caught in an undeniable truth (receipts) and then they want to confess and repent. I'm bothered by how he set that confession up with the Word! She snatched that mic cause she sensed him sinking in the bs. They kept referring to "us" in relation to "y'all" but If I truly believe in GOD'S plan, purose, and Devine destiny for my life...what u eat won't make me fat!

  • @theone1onhigherground496

    Thanking GOD for:
    1. Jesus
    2. The Blood of Jesus
    3. His Word
    4. His Love & Truth
    5. His Faithfulness
    6. Forgiving me
    7. Setting me Free
    8. Thank GOD. PERIOD!

  • @zandilemunyai6239
    @zandilemunyai6239 5 년 전 +40

    Weak confession. No accountability

  • @mib9632
    @mib9632 5 년 전 +98

    If you have to ask where leaders go when they bleed, then you don’t need to be a leader..... You go to GOD THE FATHER....

  • @ljvann11
    @ljvann11 5 년 전 +162

    You stayed because you wanted to. Even the scripture gives you permission to leave a marriage when you're cheated on. Don't blame God.

    • @stephaniec6873
      @stephaniec6873 5 년 전 +2

      ten sixty Gaia Casey, DJ Envy's wife said the same thing when she thought about leaving him for cheating.

    • @stephaniec6873
      @stephaniec6873 5 년 전 +2

      The only Bible verse I could find is Matthew 5:32 and 19:9

    • @karaokecatlady
      @karaokecatlady 5 년 전 +5

      On another note, this gives Wendy Williams a legitimate out.

    • @D.j.2580
      @D.j.2580 5 년 전 +1

      Stephanie C verse about what ? Leaving or not leaving ?

    • @stephaniec6873
      @stephaniec6873 5 년 전

      @@D.j.2580 Verse about leaving. ten sixty says the scripture gives you permission to leave I want to know which one.

  • @vanessa7917
    @vanessa7917 5 년 전 +520

    Maybe stop blaming the devil for your poor decisions.. 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @cindym9200
      @cindym9200 5 년 전 +3

      Jennifer Lee clearly you know nothing .

    • @becauseiknow7645
      @becauseiknow7645 5 년 전 +23

      Jennifer Lee Amen Sis! “Every man is tempted when he is drawn away by his OWN lust, and enticed” James 1:14

    • @Desmondenae_
      @Desmondenae_ 5 년 전 +28

      Agreed. The devil tempts you but he wasn't forced.

    • @londonmccray6799
      @londonmccray6799 5 년 전 +3

      Just like his is real so is the 😈...And ANY passage of weakness the 😈 will and can enter yourur life and f**k s**t up! Keep God 1st is smtg that is a daily thing and temptation is present in everyday life...So I dare not to judge this man...I PRAY FOR HIM AND HIS FAMILY UNION... That's what the 😈 wants..he wants marriages to end simply bc it's united through God ..He wants you to hold onto what your sister did or what your mama did, why bc they too were created by God...You see what I'm saying 🤷🏽‍♂️..So I say that to say this YOU CAN'T EXPECT GOD TO FORGIVE YOU OF ALL YOUR SINS (and you know you got many) AND YOU CAN'T FIND IT WITHIN YOU TO FORGIVE YOUR FELLOW MAN..Now forgiveness don't mean forgive and have this person in your life if you don't them in it...I'm simply sayin 🤷🏽‍♂️ forgiveness doesn't cost you a dime..So forgive bc you would want the same if it were you #The 😈 hates any and ALL things UNITED 😤

    • @londonmccray6799
      @londonmccray6799 5 년 전 +2

      Sn: THE 😈COMES IN ALLL FORMS #GET IN THAT WORD

  • @Capeverdeprc
    @Capeverdeprc 5 년 전 +42

    Thank God my belief is in God and not the “church”
    This ain’t nothing but Jay and Bey in the “church” version

    • @denisekinzle1672
      @denisekinzle1672 5 년 전 +5

      These people are insecure and have no worth without their so called church.Brainwashed into giving their money to a hypocrite and his money hunger wife.Not anything to with God.

  • @TerrenceTheodore
    @TerrenceTheodore 5 년 전 +52

    God can forgive his sins, but according to scripture, he should step down from being a Pastor. I'd believe his repentance is true if he humbly stepped down from ministry, and submit himself to a local church where he could learn and grow.

  • @MzRonnieBaby
    @MzRonnieBaby 5 년 전 +1769

    The fact that he openly confessed and we didn't find out in the blogs speaks volumes! It is not for us to forgive, but I believe by God he is forgiven

    • @DeeDiamond2981
      @DeeDiamond2981 5 년 전 +41

      It was out... in text form... just the woman in question waited... to get it to a blogger..

    • @hebrewqueen9280
      @hebrewqueen9280 5 년 전 +26

      It's his marriage its between the Modt High and his wife. I respect his honesty after being dishonest. People make mistake. I will only side eye it if its continuously. I'm focus on working me.

    • @PeggyRabbit32
      @PeggyRabbit32 5 년 전 +50

      When he said his wife birthed him most already knew it was code for Imma dog.

    • @MzRonnieBaby
      @MzRonnieBaby 5 년 전 +2

      @Naphtalimara7 Wow

    • @sunshine10732
      @sunshine10732 5 년 전 +2

      Well said!! Amen!!

  • @donniectv7254
    @donniectv7254 5 년 전 +742

    Your voice does not match your face. And I don’t mean that in a bad way! You sound all of like 15 so I always imagined you be no older than like 20. Wow. Pleasant surprise though, you’re very pretty

  • @kinster02
    @kinster02 3 년 전 +10

    This why I don't go to Church. I refuse to listen to these con men, pimps/players and hustlers telling me one thing why they are secretly doing another.

    • @pastorjohngray432
      @pastorjohngray432 3 년 전

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (CLINTON OLIVIA MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION.) in kebbi state Nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349053245715) tell him I sent you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you.

  • @sharonbyrd4953
    @sharonbyrd4953 5 년 전 +18

    I love this! Expose the devil and he will flee! Confess your faults that ye may be healed! God bless Pastors John and Aventer Gray!

  • @RUNWAYBEAUTY
    @RUNWAYBEAUTY 5 년 전 +1159

    I feel like someone was trying to expose him and they had to put it out there in a word 😌

  • @RayLaw89
    @RayLaw89 5 년 전 +114

    It's not my place as a Christian to forgive him. He didn't cheat on me so I don't have to dwell on it. Additionally, the best thing he could have done was admit his wrong to his wife and he also decided to admit it to his congregation. The next best thing he can do is to never do it again. His wife decided to stay and clearly, she's accepted his apologies and they are working things out. What business is it of mine? There's not much else to discuss from where I stand.

    • @MsRhonika
      @MsRhonika 5 년 전 +3

      Amen men to that

    • @polisigh216
      @polisigh216 5 년 전 +7

      The problem I have is not the cheating. That is between the two of them but they are trying to manipulate the congregation and that seems so wrong.

    • @sheliacrowe5931
      @sheliacrowe5931 5 년 전 +2

      We human people is anybody perfect.

    • @onetravlnnurse
      @onetravlnnurse 년 전

      @@sheliacrowe5931 Just because uou don't cheat doesn't mean you are perfect.

    • @deeliciousgrapes
      @deeliciousgrapes 년 전

      @@polisigh216 exactly

  • @robertfontell649
    @robertfontell649 5 년 전 +51

    I am a born again Christian and I do believe in confession and forgiveness. If I were a member of the church I would feel betrayed because it seems as though they are making this "confession" immediately after they were installed as the pastor. This is a private matter for this local church and should have been disclosed and discussed prior to him accepting the position and the members of the church should have had a chance to talk to Pastors John and Aventar about this issue prior to being offering them the positions. John said that for last 2 years his marriage and family life has been failing and he blames it on not being able to have some place to go with his hurt and not having an example of godly man in his life. When you read the Bible in 1 Timothy 3:1-7 it teaches us the qualifications of spiritual leader. John in his "confession" never took responsibility for his actions, which is what real men do. Him and his wife are blaming the devil and this other woman for John's failure. In my humble opinion this is not a "confession" but a cover up. I also think John is a classic example of being preacher but not a pastor. There is a difference (see 1 Timothy 3:1-7). I think it is situations like this that make it hard for non-Christians to trust Christ and become connected the Church. My prayer for John and Aventar is to seek wise Christian counsel and get the help they need to overcome the issues that are troubling them (Proverbs 11:4, "Where there is no counsel, the people fall; But in the multitude of counselors there is safety.").

  • @genevadiva8
    @genevadiva8 5 년 전 +15

    My interpertation: Even though my husband cheated, i'm not going anywhere because i'm accustomed to and love our lifestyle.

    • @carshacarsha7409
      @carshacarsha7409 년 전

      Well u better use protection at all times. While he kissing and sucking on other humans you’ll taking on his spirts and germs 🦠 🤢

    • @VirgoGoddessXxo
      @VirgoGoddessXxo 6 개월 전

      Basically smh it’s pathetic & it’s a shame the church condones and promotes that type of mentality

  • @terrij8468
    @terrij8468 5 년 전 +261

    Two things: either the affair was about to be exposed by the "person". and If your wife has DONE all of these things for you... You knowing what she's going through why did you cheat! I know y'all gonna say he's a man first. Over it.

    • @BayouBellePhDBe
      @BayouBellePhDBe 5 년 전 +15

      T Hall I read that he cheated. The woman became pregnant. His wife whooped her a*ss. She somehow had a miscarriage. He ended the affair after that.

    • @terrij8468
      @terrij8468 5 년 전 +13

      @@BayouBellePhDBe WHAT?? Omg I didn't know that.

    • @berthacrawford2769
      @berthacrawford2769 5 년 전 +4

      @@terrij8468 He did what he wanted to do and she knew what he was doing. She should stay quiet and stop playing with the Devil. She's doing just he wants her to do...show who she really is.

    • @TheBLESS-edOne.
      @TheBLESS-edOne. 5 년 전 +3

      BayouBelle PhD2Be
      That is fuuuuuuccccckkkkkkeeedddd UP.

    • @Yahashuaskid
      @Yahashuaskid 5 년 전 +3

      BayouBelle PhD2Be when was this

  • @bonniemanana8858
    @bonniemanana8858 5 년 전 +179

    She's still angry! She grabbed the mic to send the message to the mistress to tell her "I'm not leaving b#tch, I worked too hard for this" . Nothing more heart breaking like Christians who constantly have to put up a show and this is exactly what it is PR ! (he even says so in the beginning, they still need to show face). Nothing wrong with saying "I've done wrong" not putting everything on the devil! Pray they honestly heal!

    • @TheMAMAB123
      @TheMAMAB123 5 년 전 +21

      Bonnie Manana Thank you! She really grabbed that mic and confessed for him. This was honestly cringe-worthy. I felt like her message would be fitting for a women’s conference. At the very least she could have waited until he handed her the mic. 🤷🏾‍♀️ it just felt like she was still angry and wanted that other woman to know it. the timing (and place) seems off to me.

    • @vekiebaking-shelton1452
      @vekiebaking-shelton1452 5 년 전

      😂😂😂😂

    • @MrsPinkyThoughts
      @MrsPinkyThoughts 5 년 전 +12

      Nothing Christian about this

    • @goldenopportunitytospeak6293
      @goldenopportunitytospeak6293 5 년 전 +7

      They both are sick.

    • @ludniepolche1678
      @ludniepolche1678 5 년 전 +5

      I would never say amen to that. 👇🏾

  • @ManipuraCentreCo
    @ManipuraCentreCo 5 년 전 +94

    I love John Gray, HOWEVER I believe he wasn't ready for all the "celebrity" that came his way. Too much too fast. Years ago, he was a well-respected speaker at our church's annual youth conference. The youth and adults loved him the same. Every year his sermons always packed the house. He seemed humble at the time. This was all before he met his wife, so I remember a different John Gray. Going from speaking at megachurches, to having a reality show on OWN, to pastoring his own church....all in a very short period of time. He wasn't ready and had no idea what was in front of him...Sometimes, we have to be careful what we ask for, because we'll get it and not realize it wasn't all that we thought it would be.

  • @sjwaters787
    @sjwaters787 5 년 전 +12

    He needs to step down. It’s not about him. It’s about leading the congregation

  • @TheCootaBrown
    @TheCootaBrown 5 년 전 +168

    Good to see you on camera

  • @dnicole4236
    @dnicole4236 5 년 전 +606

    I believe in God, not the “church”

    • @terrianwilliams2624
      @terrianwilliams2624 5 년 전 +11

      thank u

    • @ROBBIN..
      @ROBBIN.. 5 년 전 +21

      Some ppl don’t know how to differentiate the two!! Good to see all are not blinded!!

    • @Deenique16
      @Deenique16 5 년 전 +1

      I'm good on both

    • @Godsbelovedson83
      @Godsbelovedson83 5 년 전 +18

      The Church is from God and Christ is the Head of it.

    • @buffsamuraifred6037
      @buffsamuraifred6037 5 년 전 +4

      Which God is that u speak of? There are many Gods out there, just saying u believe in God is too broad of a statement 😂😂😂, be more specific.....

  • @WokeAfrica
    @WokeAfrica 5 년 전 +60

    This was just Damage control. To maintain the numbers

  • @DaBeatm8ker
    @DaBeatm8ker 5 년 전 +25

    She blaming the woman. ,😂😂😂😂😋

    • @gnzlsdebra1064
      @gnzlsdebra1064 4 년 전 +4

      beatm8ker2012 She is not blaming a woman. She is blaming a 16 year old underage girl.

  • @lcc523
    @lcc523 5 년 전 +45

    I love how the responsibility has completely been shifted off of him and it's the other women's fault and a part of his growth as a man interesting

    • @ddmcfadden
      @ddmcfadden 5 년 전 +2

      @Ruru Home so true! You said that well!

    • @m.woodsrobinson9244
      @m.woodsrobinson9244 5 년 전 +1

      Right! No accountability on his part YET AGAIN! She runs out and cleans up the mess HE made YET AGAIN! He allows her to co-opt his need for correction so he can stand in his manhood YET AGAIN!!!

    • @justsaying2834
      @justsaying2834 5 년 전 +1

      And as they are preaching this sexist toxicity, are they even right to lead the church?

    • @DanielleWalcott
      @DanielleWalcott 5 년 전 +1

      Sickening, isn’t it? 😞

    • @lisasprovidence4572
      @lisasprovidence4572 5 년 전 +1

      Couldn't agree with you more ... We still live in a very sexist man's world.

  • @shi29jul
    @shi29jul 5 년 전 +175

    It's too early in the year for this!

  • @theonlyEYEBROWKING
    @theonlyEYEBROWKING 2 년 전 +5

    Cheating can be a very deep psychological issue. It's not right at all... And unfortunately you can be a very good person and still get cheated on because it's personal demons they're fighting... And instead of talking to you they go talking to somebody else. It's really up to you if you're gonna stay or go its up to you.

  • @RodNubianKing
    @RodNubianKing 5 년 전 +11

    Where is our Church Money??? BILLIONS!!!

  • @thekaerichtexas
    @thekaerichtexas 5 년 전 +602

    Wow....after she birthed him😂😂😂😂

  • @mandeelaw8410
    @mandeelaw8410 5 년 전 +367

    Hence the lavish car...

  • @msrenee7572
    @msrenee7572 5 년 전 +16

    Next ..... Church is a business ... money .... Making business ... she knows hisssssss worth !

  • @deniserobinson6210
    @deniserobinson6210 4 년 전 +3

    I hope she didn't forget to put them scriptures on her husband. Don't just blame the woman your husband has a whole lot to do with it.

  • @purposedpatience6597
    @purposedpatience6597 5 년 전 +264

    She blaming the woman.smh she's wrong she should be blaming her husband

    • @nonylee29
      @nonylee29 5 년 전 +13

      purposed patience exactly. She looks foolish.

    • @QueenKunta
      @QueenKunta 5 년 전 +4

      Thank you!

    • @ryananderson4326
      @ryananderson4326 5 년 전 +7

      purposed patience Actually both, you can’t possibly tell me the woman didn’t know he was married

    • @moonlightqueen452
      @moonlightqueen452 5 년 전 +20

      @@ryananderson4326 sure she did and she was going for what SHE wanted. He however, took the wedding vows, sorry, no excuses!!!

    • @justtia1031
      @justtia1031 5 년 전 +4

      Well let’s look at this way, if you have been cheated on who do you blame? Personally I blame everyone while I’m in anger.

  • @09kenedy
    @09kenedy 5 년 전 +164

    All this honoring right now.... where was all that honoring while he was cheating👀. ... this is trash... just trash. Why is this man always the victim ? ... so the other woman, I mean devil, is the one you are fighting. 🚮

    • @dreamfaith7
      @dreamfaith7 5 년 전 +10

      A Gold pure trash

    • @II.am.Gold.
      @II.am.Gold. 5 년 전 +22

      Your sure the other woman is a woman? Ima stop right there😂

    • @continouslyshequice
      @continouslyshequice 5 년 전 +6

      A Gold exactly ‼️

    • @seritimolapo5786
      @seritimolapo5786 5 년 전 +13

      Thank you this is pure trash !! Once a cheater always a cheater!! Now the man got away with it and the other girl is the devil who is being chased out in the name of Jesus? This is insane to me , this man is still going to cheat this woman completely fooled herself !!

    • @lattymo
      @lattymo 5 년 전 +5

      Thank you! I love his ministry but gosh I am sick of these men!

  • @Tammy-SophisticatedGlamGurls

    pray the devil away? why is he still standing there in your life. He is the damn devil, he is a grown ass man and knows better. this circus show I just can't.

  • @jamesetta64
    @jamesetta64 3 년 전 +1

    Laila you done this with so much knowledge, grace, and professionalism. Thank you.

    • @pastorjohngray432
      @pastorjohngray432 3 년 전

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (CLINTON OLIVIA MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION.) in kebbi state Nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349053245715) tell him I sent you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you..

  • @sassybdiy7565
    @sassybdiy7565 5 년 전 +98

    Nope, actually he was going to be exposed so i guess he wanted to "jump ahead" of the scandal... but good for him, right?!

    • @kimjay425
      @kimjay425 5 년 전 +6

      Thank you i cant believe people are actually believing this bullshit lol smh

    • @kayyoung9242
      @kayyoung9242 5 년 전 +5

      He ST8 TRASH 😒😒😒😒😒

    • @DionieCSmith
      @DionieCSmith 5 년 전

      I really respect his wife for standing by his side through the word. She took her vows seriously and as a result when the enemy presents itself she only use what she knew. I always love Pastor Gray and will always as it shows that he's human prone to temptation and sin like anyone else. If God has forgive them and justify their salvation who am I to judge, criticize or condemn?

  • @happilynatural4927
    @happilynatural4927 5 년 전 +126

    In my opinion, we think preachers and pastors are perfect but they go through things just as everyone else. They use there ups and downs to show us the Grace of GOD. We spend so much time judging everything not realizing that we have issues that we have to work through ourselves. No one is perfect but GOD uses whom he chooses for his purpose. I love the fact that he is showing use his GOD forgives and GOD is doing a great work in us and day by day we are changed by GODS love.

    • @natashiahuntley2
      @natashiahuntley2 5 년 전 +2

      Happily Natural they are human too

    • @jacintawallace2415
      @jacintawallace2415 5 년 전

      Happily Natural I couldn’t have said this better myself I agree sis🙌🏾

    • @valeriegaddy8833
      @valeriegaddy8833 5 년 전 +2

      A Whole Joke

    • @nisarobinson4086
      @nisarobinson4086 5 년 전 +6

      Happily Natural we don’t need to look to other people to see God’s grace. We see it in ourselves every morning we wake up. This pastor needs to Do Better.

    • @AllIAm1
      @AllIAm1 5 년 전 +5

      Nisa Robinson PERIOD. How can you lead people to a higher way of being when u yourself have not mastered this way of being? Id rather walk my path the way the Creator leads me

  • @Momof9896
    @Momof9896 5 년 전 +4

    If it works for her, I’m happy for them. My husband was cheating I asked God to reveal to me EXACTLY what was going on and not to jump to conclusions. Well, he was and I left and have never been happier. I left a 400 sq ft home with a pond in my backyard to move me and my children to a much smaller home. My kids have come to me and expressed how much happier they were cause daddy was never there and that I am much happier. You have to do WHATEVER you have to to make you happy. If she’s ok with her RIB having spread his seed and lying to herI’m happy for them.

  • @misscrystal8192
    @misscrystal8192 3 년 전 +2

    Beautiful blessings to her for her strength and to him for his honesty. ALL GLORY BE TO GOD FOREVER.

  • @ticketyblue3080
    @ticketyblue3080 5 년 전 +35

    Just don’t cheat. It’s that simple. I’d forgive, but I’d be out the door. Trust is gone dude.

  • @andrewnehemiah3467
    @andrewnehemiah3467 5 년 전 +216

    Sling hate towards him is so wrong. If people stop going to church looking for the pastor and start LOOKING FOR JESUS AND THE HOLY SPIRIT to show up they would be better of. For the HOLY SPIRIT is your teacher the man of GOD comes to confirm the teaching of the spirit. The man is a man given the same rights as we all have. We all fight agaisnt the world everyday and we fail something everyday. But if you are not being cut down for your wrong by everyone how are you to cut this man of GOD down. This is between him GOD his wife and the other party. He had to. Confess IN FRONT OF GOD FIRST the test is for the congregation. GOD got him in however he sees fit to handle it.

    • @kimjay425
      @kimjay425 5 년 전 +12

      If he didnt want negative criticism he should've kept it to himself

    • @cosmicneuromelanatedgoddess
      @cosmicneuromelanatedgoddess 5 년 전

      Dats right

    • @sayless644
      @sayless644 5 년 전 +12

      I love the part ONLY "IF" people will LOOK TO GOD & not man..Yes God uses the people on Earth to preach he's word. However, it's only one GOD.

    • @xo_fattie
      @xo_fattie 5 년 전 +2

      SAY THAT!!!!!! GOOD STUFF 👏🏿👏🏿

    • @queenlj1490
      @queenlj1490 5 년 전 +2

      PREACH

  • @gabrielleellison715
    @gabrielleellison715 4 년 전 +14

    It was so many points from his "confession" that was problematic.

    • @pastorjohngray432
      @pastorjohngray432 3 년 전

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (CLINTON OLIVIA MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION.) in kebbi state Nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349053245715) tell him I sent you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you.

    • @rosemaryespinal9755
      @rosemaryespinal9755 3 년 전 +1

      Yo this is the same message I got.. what a scam.. the dude kept bugging me for a donation. My God what is this world coming to. God help us. In Jesus mighty name amen

    • @gabrielleellison715
      @gabrielleellison715 3 년 전

      @@rosemaryespinal9755 I just politely ignored him.

    • @rosemaryespinal9755
      @rosemaryespinal9755 3 년 전

      Can you actually do that, so this comment thing is what an illusion. Jesus

    • @pastorjohngray432
      @pastorjohngray432 3 년 전

      @@rosemaryespinal9755 you are bless add this number on WhatsApp.

  • @Flixsho
    @Flixsho 3 년 전 +1

    Ain’t nobody perfect. Not everyone has the moral fortitude to come transparent like that. I admire that in them both. God bless them both and that entire family.

  • @virtuouswoman908
    @virtuouswoman908 5 년 전 +2467

    Notification Squad! I’m so shocked but as long as he repents to God, he’s forgiven; regardless of what others will say.

  • @jamaicangirlonelove1808
    @jamaicangirlonelove1808 5 년 전 +111

    there is no such thing as God putting it on his heart to confess, he got caught and he thought the best thing for me to do is come out before it hit the fan.🐰🎭🎭🎭

    • @sassybdiy7565
      @sassybdiy7565 5 년 전 +13

      Same thing i said.... just waiting on the " you're just a hater" comments lol

    • @keya31gville
      @keya31gville 5 년 전 +13

      THE ONLY THING THAT HAS HAPPEN IS HE GOT CAUGHT

    • @JaysWife
      @JaysWife 5 년 전

      😅 That sounds about right!

    • @sugarbaby547
      @sugarbaby547 5 년 전 +1

      you called it...it was getting ready to come out. this is called damage control.

    • @FreebieBabe
      @FreebieBabe 5 년 전

      Ikr 🤣😂

  • @mkblackbeauty2259
    @mkblackbeauty2259 4 년 전

    There is no sin that God cannot forgive. The pastor came out to his congregation and confessed. Who are we to condemn him ? His wife is admirable 🙌🏿 what a strong powerful woman👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿.

  • @ryancmack
    @ryancmack 5 년 전 +3

    1. I can absolutely forgive him. 2. He was preaching...some of the best sermons are confessions. God can use our pain to heal others through sermons.

    • @minuit6305
      @minuit6305 2 년 전

      I highly doubt you've reserved that forgiveness had it been a woman.

    • @ryancmack
      @ryancmack 2 년 전

      @@minuit6305 Your doubt is irrelevant to me. What is relevant to me is the Word of God. Forgiveness in the Word isn’t reserved for only one gender. Have a blessed day.

  • @thekaerichtexas
    @thekaerichtexas 5 년 전 +161

    Lol she didnt want it with her she wanted it with her husband...and she had him. Girllll good and bye😂😂😂another stand by your man silly woman made to look a fool by her philandering husband. When will we learn. No thanks. Funny how we blame the devil for actions we purposefully commit ourselves. The devil dont do everything, alot of that was your husband freshly desires sis.

    • @biaccagreen7157
      @biaccagreen7157 5 년 전 +3

      k. rich you better Preach no pun intended 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @kayyoung9242
      @kayyoung9242 5 년 전 +3

      Exactly

    • @brooklynchayse3028
      @brooklynchayse3028 5 년 전 +1

      Replying@ k.rich-So true that is why they both need prayer seriously.

    • @shamsazzie887
      @shamsazzie887 5 년 전

      k. rich yes sis

    • @sistiff3719
      @sistiff3719 5 년 전 +1

      @@mrshappilymarried1 of course she was not fulfilling..him cause he was travelling by himself how could she ...

  • @TheMoneyGoddess333
    @TheMoneyGoddess333 5 년 전 +78

    This was not a confession. He never admitted to any of it. If he did cheat, then he certainly never said it. “Confess your sins”...not cover it up in a sermon!

    • @sunshine-bj8ih
      @sunshine-bj8ih 5 년 전 +1

      Jasmine Thomas confess to who? You or the wife... lol

    • @coffeewsugarcream2109
      @coffeewsugarcream2109 5 년 전 +7

      His wife took it over because he was dancing around and never just came out with it. His immature low self esteem having ass has STILL not grown. She still raising his ass!

    • @RianaAnais
      @RianaAnais 5 년 전 +2

      He said he let someone get too close and she found out..... it's not rocket science. But what is this she keeps talking about a 16 year old?

    • @acaringtouch1131
      @acaringtouch1131 5 년 전 +2

      @@@RianaAnais I interpreted it to mean that she was saying his behavior was as a 16 year old (emotionally/mentally)? Not sure--just my opinion.

    • @wrightrrt86
      @wrightrrt86 5 년 전 +1

      Its definitely a confession notice the pronoun for the devil that she speaks of is "SHE". She dont want it with me is what she said.

  • @saifalkhaliq7904
    @saifalkhaliq7904 5 년 전 +7

    "I know how hard GOD had to work to get Me here"😯.
    How Hauty and prideful this man is. The GOD who created everything and causes 7 billion hearts and lungs to beat and breathe on time has no problem fixing any issue you or any one of us have. Am I the only one who sees the evil in that statement?

  • @BrittneyOriel
    @BrittneyOriel 5 년 전

    Thank you for this video 🌹✨ God bless

  • @Latasharamsel
    @Latasharamsel 5 년 전 +56

    He got her where he wants her too... cause when she caught that Holy Ghost over that car. He know he can always give her material peace/apology offers 🤷🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @mrshappilymarried1
      @mrshappilymarried1 5 년 전 +9

      Yep,,if you ever watched their show she was a plain Jane, no makeup wearing, no hairstyle, nothing. Her so called BFF Latoya Luckett evidently helped her step up her game. A few episodes in she was rocking MAC makeup, LV backpacks and had her a Real Housewives starter pack. I wouldn't be surprised if she ends up on another show....damn shame...

    • @donnacarter9808
      @donnacarter9808 5 년 전 +1

      God isn’t going to give you a Lambo to say with a cheating husband. She’s materialistic.

  • @tonicrawford375
    @tonicrawford375 5 년 전 +31

    Marriage takes work, prayer, trust, faith, friendship and more and there's no perfect marriage or christian. I pray for all marriages and even my own. The sin isn't in being tempted, it's in giving into the temptation.

    • @prancellaminor8892
      @prancellaminor8892 5 년 전

      So true

    • @boldandopinionated
      @boldandopinionated 5 년 전

      Toni Crawford MARRIAGE is for folks that wants to be with ONE PERSON.
      THAT'S MARRIAGE!!!!

    • @tonicrawford375
      @tonicrawford375 5 년 전 +1

      Lions Roar I agree 😊 when your married you have no business still looking and choosing.

  • @kimbailey422
    @kimbailey422 4 년 전 +1

    Whom God has set free, is free indeed. God's grace, will show up & allow you to see life from another's pain.

  • @god563616
    @god563616 3 년 전 +5

    Here again after the second time cheating

    • @pastorjohngray432
      @pastorjohngray432 3 년 전

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (CLINTON OLIVIA MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION.) in kebbi state Nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349053245715) tell him I sent you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you.

  • @ShayOfficial317
    @ShayOfficial317 5 년 전 +237

    Before I listen, I just have to say... This is the first thing I thought about when the news broke on the car... It's sad, but I swear, I knew it was some kind of major f*** up

    • @Sherrie58
      @Sherrie58 5 년 전 +22

      Its Just Shay, I said once I saw that he gifted her with that expensive automobile that it was a please forgive me and can I please come back in the house gift.

    • @AWAS-ps8sr
      @AWAS-ps8sr 5 년 전 +2

      Amen

    • @shanellem7091
      @shanellem7091 5 년 전 +2

      It's Just Shay Same! I thought what did he do wrong?

    • @carlosandmuriel
      @carlosandmuriel 5 년 전 +4

      LOL! Basically.....because unfortunately that's how most men say I'm sorry.

    • @LailahLynnTV
      @LailahLynnTV  5 년 전 +9

      Someone left me a comment saying just that on my video about the Lamborghini...

  • @leeparks15
    @leeparks15 5 년 전 +234

    Is that why he bought her that car?

    • @mechelletaylor8273
      @mechelletaylor8273 5 년 전 +16

      Nope this happend a while ago nothing to do with his car purchase. His show is doing well on OWN as well as his book sales. God's people can have the finer things in life also.

    • @leeparks15
      @leeparks15 5 년 전 +16

      @@mechelletaylor8273 I didn't say they couldn't. I don't care if he bought her that car. I'm not upset about that. Just nosey of that was what was for.

    • @tiffanyrena
      @tiffanyrena 5 년 전 +16

      Mechelle Taylor from TI to cardi b dude, the car is the "I'm sorry" once caught and confirmed they can stay. That's exactly why he bought it. She is a fool. Pray as he cheats. It ain't the devil, but her husband fucking up and her being complicit.

    • @chocolatecapricorn9418
      @chocolatecapricorn9418 5 년 전 +6

      I guess you know you not ALLOWED to ask a question without all the smart remarks, sheesh. It’s either, yes or no!

    • @QueenSugar72
      @QueenSugar72 5 년 전

      @@chocolatecapricorn9418 It's actually "how in the hell am i supposed to know?"

  • @nadrox0305
    @nadrox0305 5 년 전 +55

    They need to step back and let God finish His work before you lead the body of Christ.
    Leaders go to God when they bleed.
    Very prideful.

    • @Drblackinstien
      @Drblackinstien 5 년 전

      Nadette Ralliford
      PEOPLE THINK HE IS PREACHING BECAUSE HE SOUNDS LIKE HE IS!
      DID YOU HERE A CONFESSION?
      TO WHAT?
      SOUNDS MORE LIKE A SYMPATHETIC PLEA FOR MARITAL PROBLEMS.
      DID YOU HEAR HIM SAY “I HAVE SIN”?
      DID YOU HEAR HIM ASK FOR “FORGIVENESS”?
      WHICH HE ONLY OWES TO GOD, HIS WIFE AND HIS FOLLOWERS, NOT THE PUBLIC!
      LOOKED LIKE SHOWTIME!
      HE NEEDS TO TAKE A LESSON FROM JIMMY SWAGGART WHO SAID PUBLICLY “I HAVE SINNED LORD”.
      Soooooooo
      IF YA GONNA COME OUT, COME OUT RIGHT!

    • @butafligq1606
      @butafligq1606 5 년 전

      Nadette Ralliford yes!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @marielagarcia6173
      @marielagarcia6173 3 년 전

      We all know the only reason he “spoke” about it is because she made him.

    • @mpres1973
      @mpres1973 3 년 전

      Um.."Do not be called leaders; for One is your Leader, that is, Christ.

  • @MegaWhy7
    @MegaWhy7 5 년 전

    I like how he said nobody cares because as long as he making the money as longs as your standing in a front no one cares. Love it...show the truth same the devil

  • @1TashaLynn
    @1TashaLynn 5 년 전 +270

    Yall better stop being so quick to follow these pastors.... he would not have came out if these women had not start talking

    • @bonitaweekes4366
      @bonitaweekes4366 5 년 전 +20

      It's a good thing God doesn't expose some of you self righteous people. All have sinned and come short of the Glory of God, that God that he isn't like you all. At least he has a wife and she has a husband, many of you all criticising only have baby daddies.

    • @bonitaweekes4366
      @bonitaweekes4366 5 년 전 +2

      meant....Thank God that he isn't ...........

    • @1TashaLynn
      @1TashaLynn 5 년 전 +18

      Who is some of you?!?.... I'm not a pastor and I'm not in a public leadership role. But when you are and you are the example you have to make better decisions. I said what I said. Research the story these women was not just a 1 time 1 day relationship.

    • @Rhawn246
      @Rhawn246 5 년 전 +10

      @@1TashaLynn Perfectly said! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @jayaye1055
      @jayaye1055 5 년 전 +6

      Honestly, WHO openly tells on themselves when they do wrong??
      He's inspired me and is an AWESOME pastor....What he does as a HUSBAND is for him and his WIFE to work out and for him and God to deal with on the day of judgment.

  • @passportheavy5505
    @passportheavy5505 5 년 전 +34

    Smh. Adultery is so common with these so -called pastors

    • @joetred931
      @joetred931 5 년 전

      Happens, you don't know how exposed those people are

    • @Legalcurls
      @Legalcurls 5 년 전

      Probably because they spend a lot of time with women, who make up majority of church congregations most places. Not saying it’s an excuse, but men are already very weak in this area. It just gives too much opportunity, esp for pastors who have a lot on their plate. Again, I’m not making excuses but just tying to give a possible explanation as to why so many pastors cheat.

  • @normacoxie6407
    @normacoxie6407 4 년 전 +3

    He is a man that sinned. He who has no sin throw the first stone. He also repented. So I will imitate Christ forgiving and forgetting it. You never know one day I may be the one standing in the need of prayer. I want MERCY so I am going to give it!

    • @pastorjohngray432
      @pastorjohngray432 3 년 전

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (CLINTON OLIVIA MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION.) in kebbi state Nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349053245715) tell him I sent you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you.

  • @susanharris8626
    @susanharris8626 2 년 전

    Shes settimg the right example of FAMILY FIRST. God bless her. Her children will bless her.

  • @DanielleTRushin
    @DanielleTRushin 5 년 전 +37

    Where are his leaders and mentors? The people he's accountable to??? Also that wasn't an actual confession. They just said a woman was in his ear. That's not a confession to cheating.

    • @bjhendoable
      @bjhendoable 5 년 전

      I wonder if it was a church member, someone being counseled. I do know of a church where the couple was being given marriage counseling and the wife and counselor started having an affair.

    • @reneejohnson1356
      @reneejohnson1356 5 년 전 +1

      Read between the lines sweetie

    • @aren8484
      @aren8484 5 년 전 +1

      I take it as the woman had him in the palm of her hands, meaning he fell for it. he was trying to keep it PG

    • @victoriad5629
      @victoriad5629 5 년 전

      It’s a video with td Jakes low key rebuking him I guess?

  • @a.d.4563
    @a.d.4563 5 년 전 +191

    Complete circus. I need to get beck in the 📖

  • @TheSecretElohim
    @TheSecretElohim 5 년 전

    Don't understand why women have to endure so much for a man to know our worth, recognize we been standing there and lifting and inspiring one soul.

  • @audreyhoustonbrown2041

    They sure playing that victim role. What happened to a contrite heart, a humble repentant spirit. I see a lot of arrogance and blaming others here. Thank God for grace.
    p.s. it would have been easier to watch if your avatar and the video clip were reversed, js.

  • @tomaradoss3420
    @tomaradoss3420 5 년 전 +171

    I like them, but Women never leave, men get away with so much. Blaming the strange women,what about him being a strange man.

    • @misswogdaily2344
      @misswogdaily2344 5 년 전 +2

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @deyblu5044
      @deyblu5044 5 년 전 +4

      Exactly. I wonder what it would have been like if she would have been the one who cheated? Also if women don't cheat men DAMN sure shouldn't. As women it is MUCH easier to cheat. All men need is coochie and they are down. I bet this guy had to wine and dine her or pay her to keep quiet. Women don't need to do all that. That is why I think women should never stay because we could cheat if we wanted to and it's MUCH easier to get men than vice versa, but unlike men we don't pull our underwear down. I will never understand women who stay because men also are less likely to stay.

    • @susieroberts8457
      @susieroberts8457 5 년 전 +1

      So right..he choose to leave his,wife and went with another woman..dont blame the woman..he is a man of God..

    • @emmaxtc4692
      @emmaxtc4692 5 년 전 +6

      But when the shoe is on the other foot, a man will always leave. SMH, we gotta stop this stupid way of thinking it's 2019 and women still taking back cheating men.

    • @tomaradoss3420
      @tomaradoss3420 5 년 전 +2

      Dey Blu Yes I feel like if my husband,don’t have one, but per say I did, If he wants to come back, I would flat out say , not before I go screw me a couple . And I probably won’t screw or take him back still. My thing is Clearly I wasn’t enough for you. So set yourself free. As for women, I guess some are just weak. And I hate when they go to the Bible and pull something out to justify staying in a cheating relationship. The Bible clearly gives you the right to divorce for adultery.

  • @BigGirlsDoCry2013
    @BigGirlsDoCry2013 5 년 전 +205

    How arrogant is he? “SHEEP” can’t stand blood. Wow. Really? The way she snatched the mic from his hand. The fact she spent more time rebuking a woman who didn’t make a vow to her or him than her husband and that she didn’t once speak of love, loving him or showing him love or affection. I divorced a pastor. I’ve experienced this first hand and seen in more leaders’ marriages than I care to admit.

    • @yvettelouis5784
      @yvettelouis5784 5 년 전

      Dee Fisher 5

    • @patsy128
      @patsy128 5 년 전 +10

      And you did it your way! Their story not yours!

    • @teresahen
      @teresahen 5 년 전 +5

      Well She's, willing to make a comprise

    • @kyiarogers224
      @kyiarogers224 5 년 전 +2

      Dee Fisher the fact that you said that proves his point 😂😂😂😂 he was speaking facts!! Barsss! Watch that

    • @maryc8552
      @maryc8552 5 년 전 +6

      @Dee Fisher and your bitterness shows. Men are not the enemy, Satan is.
      And to answer the question of can we forgive him? That is not our place, that is God's place and his wife's place.

  • @pelicanfanNea
    @pelicanfanNea 3 년 전 +6

    Well he cheated again 🤷

    • @pastorjohngray432
      @pastorjohngray432 3 년 전

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (CLINTON OLIVIA MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION.) in kebbi state Nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349053245715) tell him I sent you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you.

  • @Mrsscottzpb
    @Mrsscottzpb 5 년 전

    Thank you John Grey and Aventer for showing that not one is perfect and the body of Christ needs God and His forgiveness just as much as the world. Continue to be open...