How Do I Respect My Fatherโ€™s Views? - Ven. Pomnyunโ€™s Dharma Q&A

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  • ๊ฒŒ์‹œ์ผ 2020. 01. 13.
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    Questioner (Q): Hi! My father lives in California. Heโ€™s older, heโ€™s disabled. Heโ€™s not very healthy. And heโ€™s really strong in his faith in Christianity. So he has a really strong beliefs that president Trump is there because God put him there. And the only way [to have it end] is through Jesus Christ. [Heโ€™s also disabled] and he has almost died many times. So I feel that his faith and a lot of other ways [is quite (inaudible)] and the life he has right now. On the other way when I go home, he asks me questions about am I saved, and what do I really
    believe and I find it really uncomfortable because I know what he wants me to say and I know that heโ€™s worried that Iโ€™ll go to hell and Iโ€™m not born again.
    And also he sends me stuff on social media. Things that are like, Jesus was born out of a virgin, he rose from the dead, he did this Muhammad didnโ€™t do that and all that stuff that isnโ€™t helpful. And so right now up to this point I try to deflect, I try to be respectful, and Iโ€™ve tried to ignore.
    So I wan t to show up the best way I can for him, to honor him and also to ensure that I hold myself in a way that I respect him fully. And not feel just some sort of frustration.
    ์ œ๋ชฉ : ์•„๋ฒ„์ง€์˜ ๊ด€์ ์„ ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ์กด์ค‘ํ•ด์•ผ ํ• ๊นŒ์š”?

๋Œ“๊ธ€ • 39

  • @calistatv_myday
    @calistatv_myday 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +25

    ์‚ฌ๊ณ ๊ฐ€ ์ ์  ๊ตณ๊ณ  ์ดํ•ด๋ ฅ์ด ๋–จ์–ด์ง€์ง€์•Š๋Š” ์ฐธ์–ด๋ฅธ์ด ๋˜๊ธฐ์œ„ํ•ด ๋…ธ๋ ฅํ•ด์•ผ๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์„ธ๋Œ€์ฐจ์ด๋กœ ์‚ฌ์ถ˜๊ธฐ ์ž๋…€์™€ ๊ฐˆ๋“ฑ์ด ๊ฐ€๋” ์žˆ๋Š”๋ฐ, ๋งŽ์€๊ฑธ ๋Š๊ผˆ์–ด์š”. ๋Š˜ ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค๐Ÿ’—

  • @kimchibbq5242
    @kimchibbq5242 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +17

    ๋ฒ•๋ฅœ์Šค๋‹˜ ๊ฐ€์Šด์ด ์ฐกํ•ด์ง€๋„ค์š”.. ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ˜€

  • @user-hj4bi8mn3k
    @user-hj4bi8mn3k 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +6

    ๋ถ€์ฒ˜๋‹˜ ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ๋ฒ•๋ฅœ์Šค๋‹˜ ๊ณ ๋ง™์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ๋Š˜ ๊ฐ€๋ฅด์นจ์†์—์„œ ์‚ด์•„๊ฐ€๊ฒŒ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ํ˜„๋ช…ํ•˜์‹  ์„ค ํ•ญ์ƒ ๊ณ ๋ง™์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ์ถ”์šฐ์‹ ๋ฐ ๋ชธ๊ด€๋ฆฌ์ž˜ํ•˜์‹œ๊ณ  ๊ฑด๊ฐ•ํ•˜์„ธ์š”

  • @user-eu8yo4no6g
    @user-eu8yo4no6g 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +15

    ๋ฒ•๋ฅœ ์Šค๋‹˜ ์›ƒ์Œ ์†Œ๋ฆฌ ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ํฌ๊ทผํ•ด์š”โ™กโ™ก
    ๋‚ ๋งˆ๋‹ค ๋ฐฐ์›๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
    ๋ณ‘์‚ฌ๋“ค ๋ฉด๋‹ดํ•  ๋•Œ ์ž˜ ํ™œ์šฉํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
    ์—ฌ์ž์นœ๊ตฌ์™€ ํ—ค์–ด์ง„ ์นœ๊ตฌ
    ๋ถ€๋ชจ๋‹˜ ๊ณผ์˜ ๊ฐˆ๋“ฑ
    ์„ค๋ช…ํ•˜๊ธฐ ์–ด๋ ค์šธ ๋• ์ฐพ์•„์„œ ๊ฐ™์ด ๋ณด๊ธฐ๋„ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
    ํ•ญ์ƒ ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹คโ™กโ™กโ™ก

  • @kttonggeaum
    @kttonggeaum 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +1

    ๋ฒ•๋ฅœ์Šค๋‹˜์€ ์‚ด์•„๊ณ„์‹  ๋ถ€์ฒ˜๋‹˜ ์ด์‹ญ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
    ์˜ค๋Š˜๋„ ๋ฐฐ์šฐ๊ณ  ๊ฐ‘๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
    ์Šค๋‹˜ ๊ฑด๊ฐ•ํ•˜๊ณ  ์˜ค๋ž˜์˜ค๋ž˜ ํ•จ๊ป˜ํ•ด ์ฃผ์„ธ์š”.

  • @user-zz9ob2tz7j
    @user-zz9ob2tz7j 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +3

    ์ด ์†Œ๋ฆ„ ๋‹๋Š” ๊นจ๋‹ฌ์Œ. ๋™์‹œ์— ์›ƒ์Œ์ด ๋‚˜์˜ด. ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋ฉด์„œ ๋งˆ์Œ์ด ๊ฐ€๋ฒผ์›Œ์ง€๊ณ  ๋‹ซํžŒ ๋ฌธ์ด ์—ด๋ฆฌ๋ฉด์„œ ๋น›์ด ๋“ค์–ด์˜ค๋„ค์š”.

  • @catstep1
    @catstep1 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +16

    ์„ธ๋Œ€๊ฐ„์˜ ๊ฐˆ๋“ฑ์„ ๋ถ€๋“œ๋Ÿฝ๊ฒŒ ํ’€์ˆ˜์žˆ๊ฒŒ๋” ์ด๋Œ์–ด์ฃผ์‹œ๋Š” ๋ง์”€์ด๋„ค์š” ~

  • @Kkk-cu4wl
    @Kkk-cu4wl 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +15

    ํ†ต์—ญ๋“ค์œผ๋ฉด์„œ ์˜์–ด๊ณต๋ถ€๋„ ๋˜๋„ค์š” ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ๋Œ€๋‹จํ•˜์„ธ์š”

  • @KrPCA
    @KrPCA 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +21

    ๋ฒˆ์—ญ์ž๋ถ„์ด ์•„์ฃผ ํ›Œ๋ฅญํ•˜๋„ค์š”. ๋ฌผ๋ก  ๋ฒ•๋ฅœ์Šค๋‹˜ ๋ง์”€์ด ๋‹จ์ˆœํ•˜๊ณ  ๋ช…์พŒํ•ด์„œ๋„ ์žˆ์ง€๋งŒ์š”

  • @janehan5559
    @janehan5559 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +3

    ์Šค๋‹˜ ์ •๋ง ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ €์—๊ฒŒ ๊ผญ ํ•„์š”ํ•œ ๋ฒ•๋ฌธ์ด์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋…ธ์ธ๊ณผ์˜ ๊ฐˆ๋“ฑ์„ ํ”ผํ•˜๋Š”๋ฒ•! Yes!!!!

  • @user-pt4hf5wu5l
    @user-pt4hf5wu5l 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +16

    ๋…ธ์ธ๋“ค์€ ์‚ฌ์‹ค ๊ทธ๋“ค์˜ ์˜๊ฒฌ์— ๋™์กฐํ•˜๋Š”์ง€ ์•„๋‹Œ์ง€๋ณด๋‹ค/ ๊ทธ๋“ค์˜ ๋ง๋Œ€๋กœ ์ง„์งœ ๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ํ• ์ง€ ์•„๋‹์ง€๋ณด๋‹ค ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ๋งํ• ๋•Œ ์ƒ๋Œ€๊ฐ€ โ€œ์˜ˆโ€ํ•˜๊ณ  ๋“ค์–ด์ฃผ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์— ๋” ๊ด€์‹ฌ์žˆ์„์ง€ ๋ชจ๋ฅธ๋‹ค. ๋˜ ๋ฐฐ์šฐ๊ณ  ๊ฐ‘๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ์Šค๋‹˜~

  • @hyejue
    @hyejue 3 ๋…„ ์ „ +1

    ํ†ต์—ญํ•˜์‹œ๋Š” ๋ถ„ ์ •๋ง ๋ฉ‹์ง€๋„ค์š”. ๋ง์”€ํ•˜์‹œ๋Š” ํƒœ๋„๋‚˜ ๋ˆˆ๋น›์ด ์ •๊ฐˆํ•˜์‹ญ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

  • @user-mn5fw4ry4r
    @user-mn5fw4ry4r 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +1

    ๋‹ค๋ฅธ๋ง์ดํ•„์š”์—†๋„ค์š”แ†ข๊ทธ๋ƒฅํผํฝํŠธ์ตœ๊ณ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹คใ…Žใ…Ž

  • @charmingcc9455
    @charmingcc9455 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +11

    ๋ฒ•๋ฅœ์Šค๋‹˜ ์กด๊ฒฝํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค โค๏ธโค๏ธโค๏ธ

  • @donghunlee7359
    @donghunlee7359 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +8

    ์ฆ๋Œ€๋œ ์—ฐ๊ฒฐ์˜ ์ž์œ ๊ฐ€ ์˜คํžˆ๋ ค ๊ฐœ์ธ์˜ ํŽธํ–ฅ์„ ๊ฐ€์ค‘์‹œํ‚ค๋Š” ๋ฐฉํ–ฅ์œผ๋กœ ์ ์šฉ๋˜์–ด ์ž…๋ง›์— ๋งž๋Š” ์ปค๋ฎค๋‹ˆ์ผ€์ด์…˜๋งŒ ์ทจํ• ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ์ ์„ ๊ฟฐ๋šซ๊ณ  ๊ณ„์‹œ๋„ค์š”. ๋˜ ๋ถ€๋ชจ๋‹˜์˜ ์˜๊ฒฌ์„ ๋Œ€ํ•  ๋•Œ ์ค‘๋„๋ฅผ ์ ์šฉํ•˜์—ฌ์„œ ๋ฌด์กฐ๊ฑด ๋”ฐ๋ฅด๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๋„ ๋ฐ˜๋ฐ•ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๋„ ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ฉด์„œ ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฅผ ์กด์ค‘ํ•˜๊ณ  ๋‚˜๋ฅผ ๋ณด์ „ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฒ•์„ ์•Œ๋ ค์ฃผ์‹œ๋„ค์š”.

  • @jhm5371
    @jhm5371 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +11

    ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ^^~โ™กโ™ก

  • @user-hi1zi2jv5v
    @user-hi1zi2jv5v 3 ๋…„ ์ „ +1

    ์šธ ใ…กใ…ก์Šค๋‹˜ ๊ธ€๋กœ๋ฒŒ ์ •์‹ ์  ์ง€์ฃผ์ž ์ด์‹ญ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ์˜ค๋ž˜์˜ค๋ž˜ ๊ฑด๊ฐ•ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ์‚ฌ์„ธ์š” ๋™์‹œ ํ†ต์—ญ์ž๋‹˜๊ป˜์„œ๋„ ๋Œ€๋‹จํ•˜์„ธ์š” ์˜์–ด

  • @_DoDam_
    @_DoDam_ 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +10

    ๊ฐ์‚ฌ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค~ !!!!

  • @ejkim1906
    @ejkim1906 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +3

    I really proud of him. Thanks for your enlightening for the world. ๐Ÿ’ก๐Ÿ’กWish you take care n healthy always. ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™

  • @user-te5it6vo9w
    @user-te5it6vo9w 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +5

    ์ง€ํ˜œ๋กœ์šฐ์‹  ์Šค๋‹˜ ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค~

  • @user-qx1pj5hr4g
    @user-qx1pj5hr4g 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +8

    ์™ธ๊ตญ์—์„œ๋„ ์ข‹์€ ๋ง์”€๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค

  • @woosang22
    @woosang22 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +6

    ์Šค๋‹˜ ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ~~~โ™ก๐Ÿ˜Š

  • @klasse634
    @klasse634 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +1

    ์ „ ์˜์–ด๋ฅผ ์ž˜ํ•˜์ง€๋Š” ๋ชปํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ, ํ†ต์—ญํ•˜์‹œ๋Š” ๋ถ„์˜ ์„ผ์Šค ์žˆ๋Š” ํ†ต์—ญ์— ๊ฐํƒ„์ด ์ ˆ๋กœ ๋‚˜์˜ค๋„ค์š”. ์™€์šฐ~

  • @Gyulnagultv
    @Gyulnagultv 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +8

    ์†์ด ๋ปฅ๋šซ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ํ†ต์—ญ.. ๋„˜ ๋ฉ‹์ ธ์š”

  • @user-gg7io8ws3d
    @user-gg7io8ws3d 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +4

    ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ~^โ™ก^

  • @MindfulnessCoachEK
    @MindfulnessCoachEK 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +7

    ์Šค๋‹˜ ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ~

  • @energygreen3769
    @energygreen3769 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +3

    Thank you.

  • @user-hi8is6tu1d
    @user-hi8is6tu1d 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +3

    ๊ณ ๋ง™์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค

  • @user-vu8ix6zx1b
    @user-vu8ix6zx1b 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +2

    ์Šค๋‹˜์˜ ๋ง์”€์€ ์–ด๋””๋“  ๋‹ค ํ†ตํ• ์ˆ˜์žˆ๊ตฌ๋‚˜ ์—ญ์‹œ ์ง„์‹ค๊ณผ ์ง„์‹ฌ์€ ๋‹ค ํ†ตํ• ์ˆ˜์žˆ๋‹ค

  • @jadis6324
    @jadis6324 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +11

    ํ†ต์—ญ์ž๋ถ„ ์ •๋ง ํ†ต์—ญ ์ž˜ํ•˜์‹ญ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค...ํ•œ๊ตญ์–ด๋„ ์ด์ •๋„๋กœ flientํ•˜์‹ ์ง€ ๊ถ๊ธˆํ•˜๋„ค์š”.

    • @Yamgomi
      @Yamgomi 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +4

      SportsManiac ํ•œ์˜ ํ†ต์—ญ์„ ์ž˜ํ•˜๋ ค๋ฉด ์˜์–ด๋ณด๋‹ค ๋” ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ๊ฒŒ ํ•œ๊ตญ์–ด์ฃ . ๋ฐ˜๋Œ€์˜ ๊ฒฝ์šฐ ์˜ํ•œํ†ต์—ญ์„ ์ž˜ํ•˜๋ ค๋ฉด ์˜์–ด๊ฐ€ native๋ฅผ ๋„˜์–ด์„œ์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์•ผ ์›์–ด์˜ ๋œป์„ ์ œ๋Œ€๋กœ ์ „๋‹ฌํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์–ด์š”.

  • @user-ej7rj2lu9r
    @user-ej7rj2lu9r 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +3

    ๋งž์ถ”๋Š” ๊ฒŒ ์ˆ˜ํ–‰์ด๊ณ  ๋„(้“)์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹คโ™ก

  • @user-verse
    @user-verse 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +5

    Between 'Yes' and "No, thanks"..relationship is not easy But for me, keep going "yes" try it. Thanks !

  • @kcharnie
    @kcharnie 4 ๋…„ ์ „

    ์ด ํ›„ ์•„๋“ค์˜ YES๊ฐ€ ์–ด๋–ค ๊ฒฐ๊ณผ๊ฐ€ ๋‚˜์™”๋Š”์ง€ ๊ถ๊ธˆํ•ด์ง€๋„ค์š”.
    ์Šค๋‹˜ ๋ง์”€ ์ž˜ ๋“ค์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

  • @newscookies
    @newscookies 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +8

    ์ง„์งœ ๊ถ๊ทน์˜ ํ•ด๊ฒฐ๋ฒ• ใ…  ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์‹ค์ฒœ์ด ์–ด๋ ต๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒŒ ๋ฌธ์ œ์ฃ  ์œผ์œผ......๋ง๋„ ์•ˆ ๋˜๋Š” ์†Œ๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ถ€๋ชจ๋‹˜๊ป˜ ์ž…์œผ๋กœ๋งŒ ๋…œ๋„ค ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์€ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌํšŒ์ƒํ™œ๋„ ๊ฑฐ์˜ ๋งŒ๋žฉ์ผ ๋“ฏ

  • @changbinson
    @changbinson 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +1

    ์—ด์–ด ์ง„์งœ ์ž˜ํ•œ๋‹ค..

  • @user-tj6bl4jz1p
    @user-tj6bl4jz1p 4 ๋…„ ์ „ +1

    ์งˆ๋ฌธ์˜์–ด์ž๋ง‰ ๋ง๊ณ  ํ•œ๊ธ€๋กœ ํ•ด์„ํ•ด์ฃผ์‹œ๋ฉด ์ข‹๊ฒ ์–ด์š”^^

  • @jaejungkwon7116
    @jaejungkwon7116 4 ๋…„ ์ „

    Trust your father and say 'Yes' twice and 'No thanks' once..