The Dark Side of Family Vlogging Channels: 8 Passengers
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okayy hey bestiesss! how we feeling today? So this is Part 2 of the family vlogging channel videos and here is
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"her teacher is uncomfortable with her being hungry" OR she's a good teacher who realizes that children need to eat to be able to function, and she's 5?!?
Exactly
Clingy children arenβt clingy because their parents provided them with the love, attention, and proper care, theyβre clingy because they arenβt given those things- ruby is just horrible π‘
Yeah, but the teach could go to the cafeteria and get food
@@urfavleo07 the teacher has at least 20+ children in her class, teachers are underpaid, teachers can't start providing lunch to students who forget their lunch or that are being punished and not provided lunch.
@@frankie8233 that's so true and so sad
What frustrates me is that these kids are literally paying for their house and they canβt get basic respect
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Or basic things like food apparently qο½₯οΎοΎ*(>Π΄
No literally itβs so embarrassing...
What the fuck
The damn audacity
Your profile pic wins
the fact that this was made 2 years ago and she just recently got arrested is crazy.
Thats what i cant believe. Its crazy
Typical, most abused children never get rescued
I wish ppl would do more of these and start coming together early to help victims before it gets worse, thanks to haleigh for exposing these weirdos early on
I was thinking the same thing
Fr, fucking crazy.
The fact Chad isn't entirely sure why his bed was taken away is a HUGE red flag. Coming from a household where I got punishments I didn't know what for, it messes with your mind so much. AND SEVEN MONTHS?
Also if the whole point of punishment is for the kid to learn better and not do whatever they did wrong how are they supposed to do that if they donβt even know what they did wrong??
This poor kid, I feel for them because my dad would do that to me as well and it screws with you so much
The punishment was probably because he didnβt film it for content.
boo hoo
Probably because it was fun for the parents to humiliate him.
The fact that her children tell her ON CAMERA that they aren't comfortable being filmed and have no friends because of it and yet she just IGNORES and LAUGHS at them is so gross.
Itβs so sad :(
They arenβt even children to her they are dollar signs
Especially like-imagine how hard it is for them to even say something to her. I was so intimidate by my mom, I would rarely speak up against her when I was young, and sheβs nothing like this lady ππ£
It's so upsetting, imagine your entire school knowing why you're in trouble at home or when you get your period.
There's a reason why doctors have you in a safe space when talking about your period or bodily and why teachers take the kids outside and talk to them.
This is just so embarrassing.
id run away omg
Has anyone ever noticed... itβs always the super religious, high school sweet hearts, who have 16 kids, and have this βamazing perfect lifeβ that end up having a house of horrors instead of a home
@Ashlee Harvey sweetie nobody said that. You feeling called out?
@Ashlee Harvey actually pagans and witches have some things called, respect, freewill and they don't try to force others to live a life they don't want. So yeah I would say they do live better life.
@Ashlee Harvey itβs not appropriate for someone who canβt read to call another person a fool.
yeah, because it's impossible to still be the same person you were in high school, and still be with the same person. there is so so much more to experience in life than just one person. how boring it must be
@@HanHanMC lmao. Well I wouldnβt say that. I just meant all the things together. This βperfectβ charade. They always end up being nuttier than JIFFs Crunchy PB
making a five year old pack their own lunch is inappropriate. that's not okay, it's unfair. "hopefully nobody gives her food" oh my π
My mom packed my lunch until I was in 8th grade π so itβs ridiculous she makes them when they are so young I can understand making them get there snacks they want but she could make a sandwich or something
I remember that I tried to pack my own lunch when I was in kindergarten and my mom ended up having to help me do it because I didn't know what I was doing. I think it's good if a kid wants some Independence but you have to show them and most likely remind them. It's her job as a parent to make sure that the kid has a lunch it's not her kid's job especially at the age of five to remember five year olds are kind of dumb. And it's not their fault they're five their brains are kind of wired in an ADHD kind of way they're not going to be thinking about all the consequences that could happen
i made my own breakfast & lunch every day at age 7!
@@kittysmith5919 sorry you had to raise yourself. You deserved to be a child.
Iβm in high school and my mom still packs my lunch.
collect your βhere after ruby was arrestedβ ticket here
A few hours ago, there were only 25 claimed tickets
Now there are 75
"My kids are not welcome to live with me after they turn 18"
All of their children: "gladly"
Accept Shari the snitch
Because at 18 they have rights and can say no... Therefore she only wants minors who she can freely exploit. Its sick and sad her smile is like a super villains she like Rita from the power rangers.
@@spazarellapoet8735 yup. at 18 legally she has no more control of her β¨kidsβ¨ they have the actual LEGAL right to be like bitch fuck off. so instead of dealing w that sheβs kicking them out since sheβs not going to be able to control them anymore
I would never kick my children out because they turned 18 π what is the logic
@@Truther1903 that's wild for me to hear because my mom always said we were gonna be out the door the day after our 18th birthday as if it was normal, but my brother is 23 and still living with her so turns out she was full of it (even tho I ended up living w my dad I still moved out at 17- I don't recommend it lol)
theyβre going to throw their kids out when they turn 18, yet theyβve profited off of them for years??? theyβre so sick ew
Same energy as people who abandon their dogs when they grow up and are not as cute as they were as puppies. The younger the child, the more views they get you know.
Shari is 18 now I wonder where sheβs gonna go
At this point I think these family vlogger kids need their own labor union.
@@carolbaskin1857 i believe shes going to college now
I completely agree with you
2 YEARS LATER and the mom finally had been arrested. This is sad this craziness have been going on for YEARS
Arrested for what actually?
@@Amishathakur_ You don't wanna know.
@@grorfn-studio550 umm. Can u tell?
@@Amishathakur_she was arrested on 6 counts of child abuse, kinda annoyed me that no one was trying to tell you lol
@@rixannah928 thank you for letting me know :)
This parenting reminds me of how messed up my mom was.
Me and my 3 siblings all had 1 single color coded cup, one cup for every single drink, and one mug for hot drinks. We were NOT allowed to use other cups.
One night my sister was thirsty so she got up in the middle of the night, went to the kitchen, and her cup was dirty from the previous night, so she grabbed a different cup.
My sister got yelled at the next morning when my mom found the cup by her bed. She got grounded "indefinitely" meaning whenever my mom decided to take her off restrictions, then she would but there was no time frame. (A lot of times I'd be grounded til for example Tuesday, then Tuesday would come and my mom would decide I didn't learn my lesson and needed another week to "think about my actions."
But that's not the wildest part, because while my sister was grounded, she became severely depressed, considering she wasn't allowed to do anything except sit on her bed in her room and stare at the wall. So my sister decided to run away. She ran away, my dad went and got her, and then she was grounded indefinitely AGAIN, AND had to write 10,000 sentences that said something like "I love my home life and my family and vow to never disrespect my family by abandoning them" something so psychologically messed up.
My poor sister was grounded for around 9 months. No computer, no internet, no TV, no playing outside, no video games, no reading for fun, nothing. She was allowed to breathe and that was it. For 9 months.
Bottom line, don't have kids if you wanna be a controlling SOB.
This made me so sad I cried. I can't imagine living like that as a kid. I hope you and your siblings are all adults and doing well now. Bless you.
And how are you and your siblings doing ? And your sister ? Really traumatising stuff. How long ago was this?
@@happyclappy1805 oldest is 33 (I think, ran away at 17), second oldest is 30 (ran away at 17), 3rd is my sister that was grounded is 28 (ran away at 20), and I'm 26 and ran away at 18. We are all THRIVING (the best we can) actually, me and my 28yr old sis are the only ones without kids, but all of us kids are married to great people, we all have decent(ish) jobs, some of us are still in therapy, thank you for asking - we have grown a lot even though we do still suffer from time to time from the past, but we still all have each other, and that's the most special part for me. β€οΈ
@@urltima thatβs amazing that you all even though you parents were awful became good people! And also very sad that you all had to run away
Sorry thatβs terrible, I grew up with a narcissistic controlling mother as well, I have 2 beautiful daughters and got to be the mother I never had, our household operated on 100% trust and respect, so you can totally thrive after abuse, you will do great and as time past I actually just feel a lot of pity for my Mom, because of her controlling and abusive nature she missed out on so much, I feel sad for her that she was never able to have the wonderful relationship with me I have with my daughters. Iβm no longer angry, I was when I was younger now Iβm sad for her mostly she missed out on so much and my relationships are amazing. You pay a high price for being a controlling abuser, you can take comfort in that.
the fact those kids will NEVER speak to their parents after they leave lmao
@@areitikeyks true thatβs probably the worst part about this, they probably think this is normal too
@@areitikeyks Iβm hopeful they will see that people all over the world online can see how they are treated is not right and I would think it would valid a lot of their feelings.
Though as someone who grew up with a narcissistic parent it took a looong time for me to move past defending them.
They're gonna kick out and push away all 6 children at the age of 18 and act shocked when they don't wanna come visit during the holidays
@@pidanjones2486 yeah, I actually watched the video of Shari turning 18, and Ruby said that she wouldnβt kick out her kids if they are still in high school when they turn 18, but I think she said after the graduate, thatβs when they need to leave. But still, when they donβt come for the holidays, sheβll act like she did nothing wrong
They will. There are worse out there. If you are brought up this way you view it as normal.
In 10-15 years Ruby is going to be crying to her friends that all of her kids are ungrateful because they no longer speak to her or want her in their lives.
What friends?? ππ
@@rebeccaschallenges4451 Her three other sisters who also have KRplus channels and are about as negligent as she is.
@@thats-too-salty πππ
Like so many other narcissistic mothers..."after all I've done for them"...π€’
what friendsss exactly???
I am so hoping that when chad turns 18 he just comes out and says the truth/all the awful things and gets TF away from his crazy parents...
I wonder if Shari did since shes over 18 now
@@payelizabethh2131 apparently in college she's cutting communication with her parents
@@payelizabethh2131 she did krplus.net/bidio/lJyudpiEqXnRenY
Chad is now freeπ€πΌπ€πΌ
when Russell and Chad were βfightingβ they were clearly laughing and having fun. iβm not sure how ruby doesnβt know bc she grew up in a big family that siblings play fight. itβs COMPLETELY normal. also, eating is not a privilege itβs a necessity.
iβm 19 and if i forgot to pack a lunch for work my mom would show up with the entire grocery store. how can you punish your 5 year old by not feeding her? thatβs sick
yeah like they think that children can't make mistakes and have fun and have to be adults at such a young age. Plus I know for a fact they have no intention of sharing the money the KIDS are making. Literally, they are the reason they are so rich and the mom has the audacity to take away needs like a bed and food/dinner. I hope the kids become happy and successful and the parents go broke.
One of her children was sick at school, the child was then punished by Ruby and Ruby even admits to being verbally abusive to her daughter claiming it was a βtongue lashingβ because her daughter didnβt vomit Twice. She said βyou are to stay in school, donβt even bother me if your not throwing up at least twice.β I never been that upset with a parent....
@@melissagallagher8311 that some MESSED UP SHIT BRO
@@skillissue816 she didnβt believe her own daughter she questioned the sickness. like even if the daughter wasnβt sick most of the older children say that they donβt have any friends at school & most likely because of the content there parents post. π₯Ί
Imagine being the girl who likes Chad & having Ruby read your private messages for all of KRplus.
Like ruby doesnβt even work she could have easily given the lunch to Eve my mum and dad both work and Iβm 11 and once I forgot my lunch and it took my mum 2 hrs to get there and back but she still did it .
If she treats her children like this on camera, it's scary to think how she treats them when the camera isn't on. She is a narcissistic monster.
I mean think about it, when Chad mentioned that they took his bed away for 7 months, Ruby said βoh they didnβt know that, we didnβt tell them thatβ
I feel like the dad is low key abusive to her and the kids
they frequently make offhand comments on βi have to ask for this now because she only says yes when sheβs filmingβ and βsheβll only let us do this when sheβs filmingβ
@@Emily-hu5oe that is so sad. I can't imagine how nasty she must be when the camera is off. They really should not have a following on KRplus. She doesn't deserve a KRplus following.
And they all say she is much stricter and meaner off camera, in many videos the kids say they turn on the cameras and start filming when they get in trouble because they know ruby wonβt go insane on camera
This aged like fine wine.
Chads going to turns 18, the WILL NEVER see him again, and rightfully so. They deserve to lose him and he deserves to have life where his privacy is respected!
βThe privilege to eat dinnerβ just screams emotional abuse
Itβs also neglect because sheβs supposed to provide for her kids
Yes
Dinner isn't even a privilege lmao
It's a necessity. Is Ruby THAT stupid?
This reminds me of parents who tell their children they should be grateful that they're feeding them, etc. Even though that's the duty of being a parent in the first place.
@@ItBeThatWaySometimes same my mom did it for two years. Didnβt pay attention in church? No lunch or dinner . I told my dad he threatened divorce if she didnβt cut it out .
they seem like the type of people who donβt believe depression is real.
Probably, if they don't believe in simple everyday mistakes...
ik race has nothin to do w this but yo have u ever witnessed how a child of color is treated when they try to even speak out ab being mentally ill itβs rlly sad (iβm back btw plz donβt take this offensive anyb n iβm not saying itβs only poc but from what iβve witnessed they usually act like itβs nonexistent for poc to have )
@@donniebloxez8091 yeah true its really Sad π₯
"Just be happy ππ"
They actually don't.
As someone who was neglected as a child, this makes me want to cry. Seeing the unhealthy and unbalanced meal she packed for herself reminds me of when I was a kid, when I didn't know what limits I should set for my diet. Now I have a binge eating disorder. Neglect is a horrible, terrible thing and it pains me so much knowing that that poor girl will grow up traumatized and confused. I hope she finds someone who shows her what it feels like to be cared for one day.
With the recent arrest with Ruby and the child abuse being far worse then I could ever imagine just proves how fucked up family channels truly are
"Parents" who starve their childeren as punishment are literally the worst type of evil. That's one thing that I would never do if I had kids.
Or judge them if they ate and how much or little
itβs exactly how an ED gets started, I hope these poor kids can get away from these families
Literally the worst!
A child called it
Thatβs abuse it doesnβt matter what age if you starve someone you are a monster
She said food is a privilege?
No, sweetie it's a necessity.
What happens when they start starving, sweetheart?
What happens when your income starts failing, dear?
What will you do? Hm? These children are your career, donβt fucking abuse them!
(Children shouldnβt even be your career in the first place.)
she said food is a privilege? hunny when your child dies you gonna be all sad and be like "omg how did she die ππ"
like hunny shut yo mouth
Food is most definitely a necessity, especially in the 5 and up/under age range. This is why so many babies loose the lives.
Someone needs to break in there house and give the kids a better home
And you what? And the cherry on top
The parent's get arrested
@@Ann-xo4go not 7 passengers! π
A five year old canβt pack a lunch, they can help you pack a lunch but they donβt understand what a nutrient rich lunch is and they NEED to eat they are growing. Ugh it makes me so mad Iβm glad those teachers were looking out for her daughter and I know they feed her
That mom was arrested for child abuse, crazy that it took this long
Ruby better not be surprised when all her kids turn 18 and never contact her again
Literally
Love ur pfp btw
Yep. She asked for it
They will be better off.
Her grandchildren will be like "grandma who?"
Bottom line: the mother is a total narcissist. Makeup to the nines and constantly posing for the camera while she embarrasses her kids. Ruby will be lucky if her kids ever talk to her once they become adults and move out. My guess is NOT!
That's a better outcome than if the kids adopt narcissistic traits to combat their mothers narcissism. Either way, it's awful for them to be exposed to her toxicity.
@ agreed
For sure she is. No question
Yeah, my sisters brother and I were raised by a narcissistic mother and we all plan on never speaking to her again once the two youngest have moved out. I only live with them because of financial reasons. Other than that I have my own life.
Honestly that's probably what she's looking forward too. She's so vain that she can't wait to have her "own life" again. But when they DONT include her in important moments, where SHE CAN SHINE, as the "mom that raised them" she will be pissed.
She only wants the attention.
I lost it when she said "listen, we should have been in that crash" πππ
I love how the Verizon guy was quick with his answerβ¦ βyepβ lmao and heβs right. No kid has a flip phone.. then you go through it at the table and read his private messages OUT LOUD to everyone. Itβs bad enough they read them but to the whole family. And theyβre also invading the girls privacy who heβs texting.
So Chad played a joke on Russel like kids do, LIKE SIBLINGS DO, taking away his bed FOR SEVEN MONTHS is way way too extreme. All of these things are unacceptable but that really got me
Right same and like the mom and her other kids would do the same kind of stuff and get chad was the only one punished for it:/
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@@amya1803 exactly itβs very unfair π’
She she did say he could chose to get his bed back when ever he wanted. Also he didnβt do seven months and he chose it Iβm not saying I agree but yβall are mad at chad
@@merveillemusangu2562 well like I feel like the parents said that but it wasnβt true like I saw a comment somewhere saying that if he had the couch he probably would of gone back to his bed the next day and also in a vid he double the size of the bean bag so It seems really uncomfortable to have to that
Her son has no friends and nobody likes him. Then he finally gets compliments and nice things said to him on his Instagram an her first instinct was delete it. This woman is creating so much trauma on to these kids itβs crazy.
My life! #narcissiticdadlife
This is the worst part of it all.
She needs to be locked up, with the key thrown away.
I wanna be his friend now :/
Thatβs not true.... why are yβall speaking for this family? These videos are sad..
Maybe it happened after this video but I canβt stop thinking about when ruby filmed herself hiding in her bathroom for an hour when her daughter needed to go to the ER because she just needed to βbe calmβ and βprepare herselfβ like maβam take your kid to the hospital omfg
The ones Iβm most worried for is Chad and Julie. Julie has shown serious signs of high anxiety and depression in the past to the point where she had a twitch.
We need CPS in hereβ¦
βItβs not healthy for Chad to be on Instagramβ but yet heβs being recorded daily, yep makes sense
He's not allowed to have his own success, he can only be successful as a tool for his parents
Sheβs a controlling narc. What psycho parents. There will be further repercussions that result from the damage the did to them.
Right? What a fricken hypocrite the mother is.
She was just mad he was getting interaction that wasn't about her.
Yes, its also extremely healthy to starve a growing child ruby is sick
βHer teacher is uncomfortable with her not having lunch and being hungryβ. Why arenβt YOU as a mom uncomfortable with it? And then for her to say her solution is to be hungry and she hopes no one shares food with her
"her teacher is uncomfortable" yeah like ma'am??? 5 year olds are not responsible for their own well-being! hopefully she was provided with a cafeteria lunch ffs kids who are hungry cannot learn or grow to their potential
How does thus comment have 1.2k likes and just one comment lol? Hmmmm
Ikr
@@phangirl2484 I feel like this kind of parent is more suited to like a 16 year old, but sheβs five, thatβs insane.
Yeah no shit any sane adult would be horrified at a child denied food.
βThey donβt allow their children room for mistakes.β No wiser words have been spoken especially by a young woman also of whom isnβt a mother (no offense meant). That speaks volumes about youβre character and good vibes. Itβs also so very true. Itβs damaging to those children.
She had this shit figured out before Ruby was arrested, it should have happened long before now.
food isn't a privilege. It is her job to provide food to her kids, even if they misbehave. she is enforcing the idea that food is only allowed when it is deserved. not only will she give them trauma, but she is also leading them down a path to eating disorders. also, hailey, i discovered you two weeks ago and I'm so happy I did, you're so awesome
Memento mori :)
Omg one time I was talking about this in a comment section and someone fricken argued with me about it. They literally were blaming the child.
When I was younger, me and my dad did not have a good relationship and would sometimes not speak to each other for days but he'd still cook for me. And that was when I was a teen. Imagine being 5 and your mom doesn't care about you being hungry in kindergarten. So messed up
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@@MM-vl2os that poor 5 year old :(
she basically expoilts all of her children I can't imagine how these kids are going to feel when they see these years from now
The kids arenβt allowed phones or internet so they donβt know
@@sallyter1409 im sure people at school have phones and internet so im sure they feel some type of way.
In 20 years there's gonna be a big exposΓ© or documentary featuring all these gen alpha kids that have been filmed since birth. I can't imagine how traumatic it would be to grow up with your every day life being commented on by millions of strangers. It's bad enough when this happens to child actors, never mind when the "set" is your family home and the "scenes" are you being humiliated.
@@bangitybangbabang Yesssss they should do that I would watch that
Exactly! There must be some regulation for these
The whole food thing was terrible. I'm 15, so obviously I can cook some things myself but my mom mainly cooks dinner and sometimes we get into fights, and sometimes I missed dinner because I was mad or upset and again because I'm stubborn I hate asking for food when I'm hungry but my mom's usually in the kitchen late anyways I'll come out of my room at 2 am starving cause I didn't eat anything and no matter the argument, how small or big she'll usually be like "You hungry? You want leftovers or do you want me to make you something?"
It doesn't matter how much we fight, we love eachother and any good parent would feed their kid no matter what. Whether their solely responsible or not because that's what a loving parent would do.
No matter how much we fight, I know at the end of the day my mother loves me and if I needed anything she would be there in a heart beat.
At the age of 5 my mother was so extra too, she would pack my lunch box to the brim for no reason and give me cute little notes that say stuff like "I love you! Have a great bud. Xoxo" and I'm not ashamed to admit it, I loved those cute little letters.
Honestly I have a great relationship with my mother, so this just breaks my heart.
I can't image just sitting around my peers as they eat lunch and you're just starving because your mother refused to drive over to you and get you something to eat because she thinks it's your responsibility as a 5 year old.
Truly terrible.
init my mams a nightmare but she always gets food down my neck hahaha
I went to a teen wilderness program at 15 and it was extremely toxic. We were dirty,hungry,exhausted and punished for the stupidest things. If we were caught sharing food when someone was on a "limited food punishment where you'd only get to rice and water,sharing ANYTHING including sanitary products,extra sweaters or blankets,eye rolling(so if knew of us was cold,wet,out of sanitary products ect we couldn't share). Also, another big one was whispering to one another during periods of "vows of silence"(when we couldn't speak for days or sometimes weeks if they felt the group was becoming "corrupt"). They were incredibly sexists,racists,hemophobic & just all around inexperienced and rude staff. There was even a relationship that started between one of the girls and a councellor, she was 15 and he was 25 and guess what? Absolutely nothing happened.
This was all in BC Canada but I'm sure the wilderness programs aren't much different jn the states. All in all it was horrible and even though I did learn some survival skills I became more depressed,my ptsd became so much more prevalent,I got more resentful snd I made some contacts who were there for worse things and ended up getting in more trouble when I got back. I'm very much against those programs ESPECIALLY for anyone under the age of 18. I was way to young to be somewhere like that and it was ages 13-22 which is a huge gap as well as co Ed. It was just...trouble.
Anyway, I apologize for the lengthy post but this family kinda triggered something. My bad ya'llβ₯β
She wonβt tell us what Chad did but will record and post her childrenβs bra shopping, puberty talk, shaving, punishments, and that one time she recorded them in short clothes (crop tops and tight, short, low dresses) and said they shouldnβt dress like that but then proceeds to zoom in and record them in those outfits!?
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Yikes π¬
Literally and the scary part is that there are pedophiles that are watching too just for the child content so u would think the mom would try and protect them but she grabs her handy dandy vlog cameraπ·πand doesn't even try to protect the content their children are put in
I can feel the frustration radiating from this comment and let me just say anyone with common sense is equally as infuriated
@Sasha moneyβs money π₯΄π₯΄π₯΄π₯΄π₯΄π₯΄ disgusting!!!!
rubys ways of parenting literally makes me so mad like it's not even parenting at this point she just controls them like puppets
Sheβs literally making money off her kids which is absolutely disgusting she uses them for clickbate
Calling dinner a privilege π I can't cope that lady is scary
@@bangitybangbabang with ruby as your mother it must be..
sick ppl do sick things
At first I wasnβt sure if this was child neglect, but Iβm sure it is now
i really appreciate the effort you put in to blur the children's faces. i know it must've taken a long time, and i'm glad someone respects their privacy.
anybody here watching after they got arrested for major child abuse
itβs sad that she thinks the way she punishes her children is funny. taking away a bed, no dinner?? thatβs not a punishment thatβs abuse.
I agree, the worse punishment I ever got was my door taken off and my phone taken away for talking to guys on kik and Ifunny.. lol this is another level
Exactly, no dinner? Iβve been punished by like no phone for a month and stuff of that nature but no food????!??
@@mileena2637 same!! she shouldnβt have children if she doesnβt know how to actually punish them.
For prolonged periods of time, yeah.
@@CloroxBleachRose you got your bed taken for asking for a new phone??
How do you punish a FIVE year old for forgetting her lunch? Youβre the mom...YOU provide the food.
I lived with my best friend as an adult for time and I once brought her lunch because she forgot it and couldnβt get out of her shift. Normal people are forgetful and normal people help out the people they care about. Wild that this woman doesnβt even care about her kids
The ONLY acceptable βpunishmentβ necessary for this is probably just a little stern talk about the importance of bringing your lunch to school. THATS IT.
I just think itβs crazy you make a FIVE year old even pack her own lunch
Breaks my heart!! π₯Ί Poor baby!
@@dianaw4072 right?! I just donβt understand like yes responsibilities and chores blah blah yes but at 5?! Itβs a little crazy and shouldnβt be so expected.
I am GLAD that this woman recorded her every step and made it available to the public! When these kids grow old enough all of the recordings will be proofs of their abuse and they can seek justice!
DAMN THATS SMART-
justice can hopefully be served now
You were right! She got arrested and they are using all her videos, even deleted videos, against her!
Iβm fucking terrified of what goes on offline.
They deprive the kids of food and a bed.. they threaten to cut off the head of the toy.. send chad to a troubled teen camp which made him worse obviously π. One of the kids was scared that they were going to have divorced parents because they fight all the time. She wanted chad to have a near death experience at the camp.
They donβt want the kids to be βsnowflakesβ.
Recording a trauma of a car crash that she wasnβt even in!! And tells the kids β we should of been in the crashβ. What the fuck lady you donβt tell children that.
Heβs been sleeping on a bean bag chair for 7 months for playing a prank on his younger brother.... someone needs to call cps this is insane man
yeah, like hes a teen, that could seriously fuck his spinal cord up, his growth up, not to mention his HEAD up, among other things
@@IDontKnow-pf6en thatβs just insane to me these people are fucking crazy
The fact that she threatens to take away their food is another reason for why these kids need to be taken away
7 months. SEVEN MONTHS
11:37 this part really send me off
Psycho, they dont even have happiness from interaction with their brother
βChad was getting too much of his identity from Instagramβ heaven forbid the kid has an identity of his ownβ¦. Classic narcissistic parents .
Social media is also a normal thing for kids his age tooβ¦ taking something as common as Instagram is kinda dumb not to mention she posts his entire life on KRplus so it doesnβt matter
Honestly, I'm surprised they didn't have a problem with the comments he was getting. He's a literal minor, and he was getting comments that were frankly objectifying and inappropriate, and I wouldn't be happy if my kid was getting those comments.
But that really wasn't the issue, apparently.
"he was getting too much of his identity from instagram" say the parents who broadcast their children's entire lives on youtube
right?! parents vlogging his entire life yet HES getting his identity from Instagram... how ironic of them.
It's pretty clear they want to give him his identity. That's why they are so strict and send him to an ultra religious and controlling school.
Coming back to this after the news broke, she is definitely one of those people that donΒ΄t deserve to be parents
Ruby: βYouβre not welcome to live with me after you turn 18.β
Kids:
Her not taking her five year old lunch at school. βI hope no one gives her foodβ children cannot learn if they are hungry. Imagine being in a cafeteria watching other kids eat and knowing your mom isnβt bringing you food because you donβt βdeserveβ it.
itβs 100% child abuse! I hope they end up okay :(
What I also hate about the situation is that she basically hates on the teacher saying that they must be uncomfortable which is why sheβs asking. And itβs like um no? The teacher simple cares for you childβs well being
@@leeminhyung167 why does your childβs teacher care more about your child than you?
@@leeminhyung167 She used the wrong word there; "Uncomfortable" is the wrong word,because that makes the meaning of the sentence different.
The word she should've looked for is *concerned* .Her child's teacher was more *concerned* for their child's well-being than the parent was.
@@vloggerbonakid6178 concerning is a good word.
The only reason why her βparentingβ is working is cause her children are scared of her
Yep
Itβs basically putting them through labor
exactly
Yeah thatβs not true
@@luffyt1795 it is, have you been watching the video??
This aged incredibly well.
The way Chad cruelly pranked his little sibling to the point of tears and laughs about it (the reason his parents took his BED away) is a direct reflection, though way less severe, of the way his parents are cruel to all of them. The mom is laughing while he describes his neglect. And all of this in front of a camera. Absolutely disgusting.
All kids deserve parents but not all parents deserve kids π
Facts! Most people want kids but are definitely not qualified or prepared for it. And then they wonder why their kids hate them when their older.
So true
exactly this is true!
β¨PERIODβ¨
Boy do I know that to be true. As both a former social worker and former teacher, I can attest: a person shouldnβt reproduce just because they can reproduce.
I could get being mad with a child if they're like 14 and didn't pack a lunch but she's five. She's a child. She is growing.
Honestly it doesnβt really matter in my opinion itβs her CHILD does she not realize that sheβs their mother. If you know that your child is hungry and you have the means to help then just get them a lunch.
Literally. And the fact that she was ABLE to get her a lunch, but didnβt? If I ever forgot something I needed for school at home, I was always embarrassed because I knew both of my parents were at work and couldnβt help unless I was sick or in danger lmao.
One time a fucking fish tank spilled all over me in 1st grade and my nana was told to come get me, but she tried to instead get me to stay at school in fish water clothes... it wasnβt even my fault that it spilled on me. The best she did was bring me new clothes, but I never even got to go home to shower until school officially ended. It was humiliating, even for a 1st grader.
I canβt even imagine how much worse it would be though to not have food?? Thatβs actual abuse.
@@HenkaG yeah, get her a peanut butter jelly sandwich or something.
You straight up say βI could get mad with a CHILD if theyβre like 14β you just said 14 is still a child- which it is. Doesnβt matter what age, itβs their responsibility to care for them
Tbh i would come to give they a lunch at any age bcs they forget and im sure they not gonna doing it on purpose bcs they gonna feel bad for their mom
This was two years ago, and its still resurfacing now. HOW DID IT TAKE THIS LONG FOR PEOPLE TO NOTICE. Sleeping on a bean bag for 7 months is borderline torture. I cannot imagine how that poor boyβs posture and back was affected alone. How did 2+ million people not notice how messed up this was? or were all their subscribers similar psychopathic nightmares as well??
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They contacted cps.
Cps came but didnβt do anything
U need to do an updated video as the mother has been arrested for child abuse and the details are just vile π’
Can we just appreciate how respective she is to the children, blurring out their faces. We need more people like this, why isnβt she so much bigger?!?
omg, i was thinking the same thing
Guys her channel is 2 months old, 7 videos out lol
Weβll just have to keep liking and commenting so that changes!
iβm so happy sheβs getting bigger tho!
@@catyatzee4143 ik that's why its so impressive. she's come into this with incredible quality right of the bat, that's rare.
βMom can you not film itβ
Ruby: tee hee no β€οΈ
β¨noβ¨
Ruby: ummm chile anyways so
@@user-dw9us7cj6w lmao
She probably thinking *did yβall hear something*
@@nkt.11
*I dont think I heard somethin yall.*
It's so wrong to kick your child out when they're 18! That's how we end up with a nation of helpless adults that dont know how to do anything, are overwhelmed and feel inadequate. That's why young people should work for a few years and maybe pay taxes before they have to move out.
Yep, my parents made me move out at 18, right after graduating high school. I had a minimum wage job had to live with a terrible boyfriend to survive and had to delay college for 6 years. Definitely set me back in life.
He lost his bed for 7 months for a joke on his brother! That is ridiculous. The kids still think it's funny even after 7 months. The parents were so toxic.
Imagine watching your parents exploit you for money and views, and all you get is a flip phone, constant restrictions and punishment :/
It's so sad I'm really scared to see what its gonna do to kids mental health in the upcoming years and mkre
@@canadianboy5578 Exactly! It's really damaging. Their kids' social life was even affected. No privacy. So sad
Donβt forget being kicked out at 18 π
@@Eve-hb i think theyβd prefer to leave as soon as possible, a sad truth
Hahaha I understand what itβs like
They're just horrible parents. Taking a kid's bed, not letting them eat, having crazy punishments for small little things is absolutely ridiculous
its straight up abuse
yeah like, punishment for horseplay? make them sit down with a book for a while don't take away basic needs oh my god
@@phangirl2484 Exactly. You're literally ASKING to go to jail and get your children taken away from you.
And now the mother of 8 passengers has been arrestedβ¦. I cannot understand how no one took any action until now.
People on the internet have been noticing the red flags from YEARS!
as a teacher, i'm sure her daughter's teacher was telling her out of concern, not for being uncomfortable. And i hope her daughter's friends and teacher tried to give her food because thats just so cruel... at least send her with some snacks or money for the school lunches.
"It is not healthy for a child to be on Instagram. But being on KRplus 24/7, that's the healthiest"
Heβs all over her Instagram and her familyβs Instagram it makes no sense
@@alexj4556 she doesnβt want him to have his own success, she wants all the control
The hypocrisy is astounding.
He was getting positive feedback, and if she isn't there to filter all those comments out, he might start second-guessing her terrible parenting.
I was thinking the same thing. That makes no sense.
One of the things that scares me the most is that once the children turn 18 the parents will have no intention of sharing with them the money they deserve and that THEY (the kids) made.
Absolutely.. the only reason people watch is for the kids. No one wants to watch the abusive parents
Unfortunately it's the sacrifice they'll have to make for freedom
I wonder if any of the kids can take them to court and sue for any profits made off of their pain and suffering? Probably not
There should be a mandatory trust like they do for child actors.
@@bsteph5019 when they're older and all the other youtube family children are older, who knows if they could sue maybe even youtube in a class action and get some laws made. We may have to rely on these kids growing up and actually having the motivation to fight back after everything they've been through...we will just have to see. H3H3 sued someone and won a landmark case, setting precedent for anyone else who is sued for the same thing. It was a huge deal. We can only hope.
Hopefully there is some justice now for the Children after the recent events. Just hope their lives can improve from now on.
Other negligent family channels better start giving their children a good environment.
AND NOW RUBY AND JODI HAVE BEEN ARRESTED! FUCKING FINALLY! ITβS ABOUT TIME! Those poor poor babies. Iβm so glad theyβve finally been saved.
Iβm 19 and my dad still makes sure I have food for lunch, itβs called caring
My Mom will ask if I have groceries and I'm old enough to be someone's mother. That's just what most parents do, they actually care about their children. Not Ruby, she takes away beds, posts embarrassing videos of her children when they ask her to stop, and withholds food, She's a stellar parent- Mother of the freaking year.
@@divatesteddivaapproved it seriously so concerning how she treats her children. especially the bed thing like he played a prank on his brother like a normal sibling would π
Iβm 23 and my dad still offers me money for food even though he knows I donβt need his money..
Iβm fourteen and I thought my mom was a little hands off with food because she usually doesnβt prepare anything except dinner on work days but at least she makes sure I and my brother eat enough and that the fridge is stocked with stuff weβll eat, this is honestly so monstrous
@@divatesteddivaapproved I know right! 10/10 mom! Definitely wouldn't go to jail for child abuse. π
they are EXTREMELY toxic towards chad. I remember when they started checking his text messages...
On his FLIP PHONE
I canβt even π€¦π½ββοΈ
Gosh i felt so bad for him π
YES OMG AND THEY WERE BEING SO HORRIBLE
Iβd understand checking your teens text messages if they were in trouble or acting strange but those parents did it out of venomous toxic behaviour.and itβs appalling to know parents like them have no dignity of privacy.
Disgusting!
Not to mention the other kids
i wonder what hailey thinks about whatβs going on with 8 passengers right now
If ever there was a topic that deserves an update video! Crazy that you were talking about all of this TWO YEARS ago, and it's only all come to a head NOW, eh?
sheβs literally 5 years old . iβm 15 and my mom still packs my lunch . thatβs absolute bullshit
Or tell us do we have food and if the 5 years old packs lunch for herself the mom is going to complain about it if your going to complain then pack lunch for her stop acting like a big baby
Im 19 and my mom still makes me food if she notices I have eaten. That child is literally 5
Seriously. Im 15 too and if I go to someone's house for like, the afternoon she'll make sure I bring a snack lmao. Food is literally the most important thing besides water
my mom packs my sister lunch if my mom misses one food item in the lunch she goes insane and start crying then we go to the school and drop it off I donβt understand how that lady is just okay with her daughter not eating
@Zachary does gacha Good for you Zachary! Keep at it!
Depriving your child of food like breakfast, lunch, or dinner is sick. Take their phone or a toy but not their food.
Right like I get why she took his phone away but for that long no like I get a week or 1 month but not that long
I agree. Thatβs abuse and it fosters a very unhealthy relationship with eating.
she called dinner a privilege... what the actual fuck
@@napatora oh god
@@napatora i can kinda see it, like itβs a privilege to be able to afford food on your plate three times a day and not be starving but to associate food as a thing that can be taken away for misbehaving like a phone or toy is just downright wrong and abuse.
Anyone else come to see how this video aged after Rubyβs arrest!?
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Absolutely
They're back in the spot light and I want to thank you for bringing them to light in this video. That way I had an idea of who they were and their toxic family situation.
The fact those kids are getting bullied should have been enough for Ruby to stop
Sheβs bullying them too
no thats just depressing. Although I have very strict parents, that just crosses ALL the lines
She laughs when they talk about him sleeping with no bed but then tells them not laugh when talking about the Disney thing! Like girl what! You are laughing at abusing ur son!
It's families like hers that make me upset about my Disney job. I have to be kind and be a magical Disney Guest Service Princess... but you can see how miserable her kids are, and they're usually so mean and nasty to the cast members. It's even worse when they complain that it's too loud to film in the lobby. I had a vlogger mom report me to my manager because I told her I do not want to be in her video, I do not want to be recorded, I wouldn't assist her unless she put the camera away... Her family was there for some Christmas event Disney was hosting for media.
@@HanasRoom they are so obsessed with the camera and recording everything but donβt live in the moment and enjoy it.
@@HanasRoom ugh. Its one thing to film memories...but that isn't it..
@@meghanhixon3241 It's really weird seeing all of these things come up about Family Vloggers come out now, I mean it's good, but a lot of the photos or video clips used are right after some interaction with CM that wasn't very "family friendly".
@@HanasRoom whatβs CM?
watching this now... with her being charged with child abuse/neglect is crazy....
coming back to this video after what just happened...
"hopefully no one feeds her at school," of course they did. i was a preschool teacher and if a kid didn't have a lunch, i divided up my lunch for them. because that's how you should treat a five year old!!!! they have literally been on the earth for five years they are learning!!
edit: woah. this is the most freaky family, i hope those kids heal after leaving them.
Just a question, what country do you teach in?
My preschool supplied food for its young ones, so I was just wondering.
@@bucketobviously5499 I remember UK preschool (reception and year 1) gave kids lunch and everytime there was a break (recess I think in USA) you were allowed to take a snack like a fruit or vegetable.
@@OJ.17 cool, I went to pre school in New Zealand so I was just wondering if it was only in nz. I remember we were allowed to bring our own lunches but there was always food there.
@bucket obviously /// i live in the US in Illinois and at the schools I went to, the same thing happened. we had hot lunch, which was the school's pre-made lunches, and cold lunch, which was the stuff you brought from home. you had a school account that your parents put money in if you want to get hot lunch (it was like 3 dollars for each lunch i think) and some kids got hot lunch every day while other got it every time there were like chicken nuggets or smth. also they had ice cream on certain days and that was like a dollar
personally for me in my short experience of working kindergarten, we provided lunches when the kids didn't pack one, so I doubt she wasn't given anything. I would have given the kid food outta spite myself at least.
Ruby is a typical narcissist mom: the kids are just props for her ego. She doesn't care about them.
She likes the idea of having kids and how u said doesnβt really care.
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I canβt stand her!
she uses them for money/views
Iβve always thought thisβ¦. PLS the way her kid could literally be dying and she would talk about how SHE felt about it onggg
Whoβs here after Ruby got arrested ππΌββοΈ
Here ππ»ββοΈ
i SCREAMED at the car accident clip!! she really stopped on the side of the road to film an accident they weren't even involved in LOL
She literally said that βthat should of been us kidsβ like she is asking for them to get in a crash-
@@drakemakesthebestmusic EXACTLY! I thought the same thing. What a sick woman she is.
@@drakemakesthebestmusic Yup so they can have more content & money
we SHOULD have been in that crash π€
She was so dramatic too like shush. βwe shouldβve been on that crashβ + the shitty acting I canβt ππ
βMy kids cannot come live with me, when they turn 18.β
Lady, if I had a mom like you, Iβd be out that house so fast, and not look back π€·π»ββοΈ
My son is almost 21 now, he moved out when he was almost 19 (so, 2 years ago)...I miss having him at home so much, and he's only 35 mins away! If he wanted/needed to move back home for any reason, he knows he's welcome to - even if he calls me in the middle of the night. Shoot, I've got enough room for two of his friends if he wants to bring them π.
@@tinamarie2121 And that's what makes you better than some parents
@@purpleanne723 I soo appreciate that. β£οΈ To be honest, I learned it from my paternal grandparents. They had three sons, my dad being the youngest, and the house they had built when the boys were teenagers was a good sized house with a full kitchen in the basement with 2 bedrooms (2 walk in closets EACH) and a large bathroom. There was access to the basement level patio via sliding glass doors (later changed to French doors for safety reasons). The upstairs, the main level, also had two large bedrooms with 2 large walk in closets each. My grandparents later converted one of theirs to an en suite bathroom.
ANYWAY. The house is frigging huge. They've allowed any of us to come and stay with them ANY time we need to get back on our feet. Seriously the most generous couple of people you could ever hope to meet. My grandmother passed away in 2019 and that was the hardest day of my life. I still reach for my phone to call and ask her a question about a recipe or to tell her something I've read, or better yet, just to brag about her great-grandson. (Losing her hit him hard. He hasnt been the same since. I know grandparents aren't supposed to have favorites, but he and my cousin Jessie were her babies. She wouldn't evened me put him in daycare until he was over a year old! She insisted that he stay with her! I plan to pull the same card when/if John ever has kids π€£ Mamaw taught me well. "No, they are sleeping so well....just let them sleep! Y'all go out to dinner or something and I'll watch the baby tonight and that way you won't have to get up so early in the morning!"
Seriously though and honestly if I was one of her children I couldn't wait till I turn 18 so I could just get away from her. Go get a stable job and maybe try to save my siblings from her since she's literally horrible.
Well getting out the house is what she wants lol
And now she has been arrested, justices is hopefully being served.
Rewatching this two years later πΏβοΈ
i canβt wait till chad turns 18 and moves out i just know heβs gonna expose them
Right? Could you imagine not having any friends and when you post a picture and get compliments your narcissist mom makes you delete your account? He must be feeling so alone I wish I could help him
I really just hope he's okay. I hope he can navigate freedom in a healthy way and form positive and lasting relationships. I'm just super concerned for his mental health π
When Chad turns 18, I hope he takes them with him
It's not that big of a deal yall acting like he is being beaten up with a baseball bat everyday pretty sure most of the time she's joking
@@claudymusic1558 mental abuse is just as bad a physical abuse and can lead to self harm as well. Have some compassion.
Edited: hard to harm
SHE TOOK AWAY HIS BED FOR PLAYING A PRACTICAL JOKE?! IF MY PARENTS DID THAT EVERYTIME I PULLED A PRANK ON MY BROTHERS I WOULD BE SLEEPING ON ROCKS-
Stop screaming
My thoughts exactly!!! Ive played pranks on my little brother so many times and we laugh about it now π€·π½ββοΈ
@@Lina_al_j same
I once had a substitute teacher who had her son sleep on the floor for a whole week. It was bc she and her husband spent a lot of money on a new mattress for him and he complained to some relatives that he didn't like it. I think it was supposed to make the kid thankful for his bed. Seven months for a harmless prank is excessive. Sounds like he's being scapegoated.
I'm a year late to this video but I went to a wilderness therapy program as well. Not anasazi but similar. Most aren't very therapeutic and just cause more trauma and issues for children. I was 13 when I went. I went because I had/have depression, social anxiety, and just poor family dynamics. None of that was fixed or solved by wilderness. Just more issues between my parents and I.
This aged like fine wine