A rough approximation of how I react when a date is going well.
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- 게시일 2021. 04. 11.
- I'm sorry, I'm usually like this.
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Congratulations, you made a married man feel like he was in high school again.
Plot twist: Is married in highschool.
hahahaha excellent comment
same here brother
Haha... nice...
I don't miss that shit xD
Plot twist, that's actually Joel's home but because of the shame he gave it to his date.
That made me laugh out loud
happy to see he hasn't sold the house yet, hope he doesn't have to if he wants to keep it.
I wanted to like, but you already have 420 likes. God bless.
Plot twist, you're adopted.
checks her twitter "just goobered this guy out of his own house #squattersrights"
Joel, I know this is supposed to be comedic but it was really comforting to see that I'm not the only one like this
You're not alone. There are dozens of us. Dozens!
@@TasteTheRambo same
Keith arrested development reference?
@@jonathankauppi8649 yes (I'm wearing my cut off jean shorts in bed as I write this)
Keith I didn’t see you at the convention.
"They did this in Curb Your Enthusiasm but she doesn't seem like the type to watch that show so I don't know if she knows this happens." That's brilliant, I've had nearly this exact thought at multiple points in my life about the pants tent
you see, the trick is to be so confident, that you let the pants tent stand, and just keep talking like nothing is wrong. this way she is kept guessing and doesnt know if ya got a chubby, a full stand, or just a pants tent lol, and you look like a chad.
Terrifyingly accurate.
I'm a girl. This happens to our clothes too. So...it's okay. We know.
i made a "joke" about this when we did rock climbing in boyscouts. I was dubbed BW. Boner Watcher. If I had any self confidence at that point I would have just said dude, really? Boner watcher? you cant do better than that. Instead I was dubbed bonerwatcher til everyone forgot about it. The end. Childhood is miserable.
@@specter86fl i just fix it if its bothering me so I don't have to be uncomfortable thinking about it, you just act cool and like you don't care
I feel personally attacked and supported in this video. Thank you.
holy 1.5K likes but no comments lol
I feel like this is the end game of most Joel Haver videos.
@@jaydenjoonlee And I heart from Joel. Now I feel really loved.
Frankly, 1.7K likes.... well damn.
"Like I'm a man. Like I'm strong. Like I've been strong, in the past, and I was strong today in some ways..." 😂
Yeah, no, I believe you
A real trumpian vibe there
when you justify yourself but realize you shouldn't be so you just trail off and hope they didn't notice.
@@hmmfoood "Everybody's saying how strong I am. I'm possibly one of the strongest presidents in the history of this country."
Literal tears
How does Joel just have a naturally comedic face? He's making like one barely moving expression and yet I have never seen better acting.
Gotta work with what you’ve got
blame his dad
A convincing expression sometimes lies in the subtlety
It's cause he's not acting, this is Joel's natural state
U calling my guy funny looking?
It's hilarious how when you're so caught up in your own insecurities, you don't stop to realize that someone standing right outside the bathroom listening to you pee would be FAR more weird than anything you might be doing in there.
I already know this is gonna make me laugh the next time I feel insecure
that would be *L* *E* *G* *E* *N* *D* *A* *R* *Y*
Yo your here
Ok random verified person
hello checkmark badge bearing individual
Zeltik AND Joel Haver, now that would be legendary
Oh snap that boy zeltik
The part where he says “she’s probably listening through the door” I died. We’ve all had this ridiculous thought.
Some biches really be nosey like that
It came up as soon I read it lol.
And if they actually are listening through the door, DO NOT DATE THEM!
My freaking family used to listen all the time growing up. Fucking scarred me for life.
@@cdogthehedgehog6923 why?
I love how it starts out small, but then the spiral gets bigger and more out of control by the end. At first I was like, “Oh, yeah. The shorts thing may seem awkward.” And by the end I was like, “You know, sometimes you just gotta jump off the roof.”
If a girl doesn't react well to "that would be LEGENDARY!" then she ain't the one
I always say
i guess i found the one? haha
Whyy?
Yeah but he didn't wait for it.
@@elsid9656 its from the show how i met your mother
This is right up my alley in terms of comedy
This is right up my alley....in terms of my ass
I think the same thing sometimes
took the words right out of my mouth...err...Joel's....
you’re right up my alley in terms of deez nuts 🤣
gottem
Lol this has happened more often than I care to admit.
The constant screaming while completely straight faced is some a+ acting
The screaming was likely added in.
wh.... hes just recording himself with a straight face and screaming in a separate recording... Thats not hard
@@nickmagrick7702 No shit xD
@@nickmagrick7702 @Studio Maalstroom Yall, pretty sure that that's the joke.
I have days where I feel like that, all day long.
as a girl with intense date anxiety this makes me feel better that the guy might feel the same way
As a guy, it took me years to realize such anxiety isn't restricted to any gender; it's pretty much how *everyone* is if the date is going well enough.
Yeah
@@Zaranell what’s cuter than suddenly realising BOTH of you are about to have a panic attack 🥰
He probably does. He probably feels like he is on an endless job interview.
@@schnode8367 because questions are being asked to get to know each other? Lmao might as well stay an incel for ever then likeee
Her bee earrings and smile are so freakin cute
@@Abraham-Kaykski-Steinberg LEGENDARY
@@bdream6501 ty
Completely agree
Fr, her outfit is so cute 😩
i need those earrings!!
"I was strong today in some ways..." is definitely an underrated line
Did jump a story
like mentally strong for going out to see a girl? or his weenee got strong
this is the most authentic depiction of how guys confidence curmbles while dating.
This reminded me of what it was like back when I gave a shit one way or the other.
@@sundaynightdrunk sometimes I wish I just didn’t give a shit
curmbles
@@nr1341 curmbles
Curmbles is a perfectly cromulent word
God the feeling of watching yourself from an out of body perspective is terrifyingly dead on.
This is why I never leave my house!!
I should tell you that things get better as you age. None of this stuff is as bad at 70!!
2:20 "Ï hævë tø gö båthrōôm"
I'm gonna need some alcohol after watching that...
Having had some alcohol before watching, I can asure you that it‘s definetly recommandable
Having had alcohol while watching, it just made me relate more
Idk what I relate to more the video or this comment
I literally developed alcoholism by watching this so...
Seconded, and I'm not a drinker
He went from "This date is going well." to "I gotta jump off this roof!" in like 30 seconds lmao
Abstract forklift
This is literally my mind every second around people. Not even exaggerating, it is TORTURE.
It gets better with age, but at 39 it certainly isnt gone yet!
Good to know even untold eldritch deities experience anxiety.
“Oh god. I talked about whales WAY too much again. Oh god oh fuck.
its helpful to know even an eldritch abomination from the deep place still struggles with social situations like a normal the rest of us
@@chriss780 Where else did you think our aura of madness come from?
My existential crisis always starts with “does my breath smell?”
Then you just start fantasising about brushing your teeth and make any excuse to go do just that.
mine is sweaty hands and funny enough anxiety doesn't make it better
"I am having so much fun with you!"
"You are?"
*Flashbacks to the "Funny How?" video*
I like people with long brain. I have long amount of disl*kes btw. Why? Maybe people with short brain disl*ke because jealous of my long amount of subscr*bers. Please have long brain, dear nay
lolol perfect
@@AxxLAfriku Well you got me to look at your videos. Interesting strategy but I guess it works.
@@maxjones503 please dont... this bot spams everywhere
@@birdeynamnam Don't worry I'm never going back, I just find the marketing strategy interesting.
Pretend That You Love Me as a comedy instead of the emotional masterpiece that it was. I love them both.
Easy there Robert dinero
more people need to see PTYLM, it's grear
Beat me to the punchline! 😂😂 Darn it.
@@bamboeng2014 MADE ME FUCKING BALL MY EYES OUT
great callback
"I was strong today in some ways" - God bless your self-help, my dude
My partner and I quote “I was strong today in some ways” or some variation alllll the time now. Thank you for this gold. I was having a difficult day and after telling my partner this evening that I was, in fact, strong today in some ways I decided to come watch this again. Really lifted me up. Thank you, Joel! 💗
I love that! So happy my goofy quote could lift your spirits :)
@@Joel-Haver I just want to say that while it was goofy in a passing moment, it really was a strong quote. We are all strong in some ways, even when we don't feel that way. It's really easy to lose sight of the small things that you overcame that seemed like a big deal to you. Just because it isn't had for everyone doesn't mean it's not hard for you. Two steps forward, one step back, and then remember how to do that next step better next time.
This felt like an uncut 3 hour long suspense thriller and I'm not complaining
Agreed. I was about 2 minutes in and felt the video could have concluded any second, and did ye olde time check. To my delight, I was in store for another 2:34 of this suspense thriller. It felt like waking up before work, checking the time, and realizing you have like 4 hours left of sleep. Not complaining with ya.
@@usmcplu hahaha totally man. Joel is a frickin' wizard, that's what he is.
@@thedebapriyakar Hazaah
I'm not used to seeing a girl that isn't just Joel dressed up as a girl
Gave me real anxiety, enhancing the video's theme.
he's just gotten REALLY good at hiding that it's still him
Thats what was weird about this video
Do you mean on this channel, or just in general?
@@DylanMourik Yes
This literally, actually 100% happened to me EXACTLY like this. She messaged me a week later asking why I suddenly stopped talking to her.
she's probably in the same headspace
@@bankrolldame right 😔😔 can we normalize like, just being brutally honest about this stuff? I once got ghosted by a guy I was hanging out with for a while, when he apologized he said he went through a really bad depressive episode. Ok I get it, been there done that (been depressed and ghosted people because of depression), my feelings are still hurt.
Its rough on both sides
@@wrendoesnothing would you say that we're entitled to be told bitter truths? That puts some pressure on the other person. I hate being ghosted, but I could never blame someone for not being honest and brave enough to just say they're not interested.
@@gavingreenhorn i understand that completely. i don't hate anyone for ghosting it's just sometimes i think people do it for reasons that would help the other person become better if they told them why. does that make sense, sorrylol i know that is worded weirdly
“But recently enough that my pants still smell like farts” 🤣
This is just what any social interaction is like when you have social anxiety.
My mind every second I’m near someone else
This is what any social interaction is like
@@soaphope3398 a thousand yups........
Don't worry, it gets easier...
...and then suddenly gets 100 times harder when you consciously note the fact that it became easier in the middle of a social situation, which plunges you back into the depths of hyper-self-awareness and anxiety.
Oh is that whats wrong with me???
As if having social anxiety wasn't bad enough, I think a lot of people will be acting more like this after covid. It's too uncomfortable to watch because it's so accurate.
My man predicted the future
2:39 That face is LEGENDARY!!
I hate it when I jump from her second floor window and realize it'll be weird if I come back in through the front door, so I gotta climb back up again. Really takes a toll on the fingers.
Been there..... 😁
You don't bring a spare ladder in your back pocket?
@@ObitoSigma like a point and click game lol
"I am a man. Like I'm strong. Like I've been strong in the past and I WAS STRONG TODAY IN SOME WAYS." lmfao
Hey, just wanted to say I like your avatar, Brandon Sanderson rules! Have your read Rhythm of War yet? It's amazing
Oh cool thanks for noticing! I haven't, but I'm somewhere in the middle of Oathbringer. I've gotten busy with my ap curriculum so it's been a while since I've read a book outside of the literary collection we're supposed to read for AP English Literature. Hope to finish after I take my tests in May though 😊
The pants tent. Literally the first episode of curb. Love the homage
This is seriously next-level: The spinning camera in the bathroom, the silent nod from the sunny window, so much inventive camera work!
I don't know why this's so relatable, & I can never tell if I should be laughing or crying
Same brother.... same
Awkward dates are quite relatable yeah
lolol best comment
Why not both? 😆👉👉
...
(OH GOD THE FINGER GUNS ARE TOO MUCH! WHAT IS THIS, HAPPY DAYS?? EYYYY... MORE LIKE EYYYY EVERYONE'S LAUGHING IN THE BAD WAY... IT'S ALWAYS THE BAD WAYYYYYY)
...
Heh... Yeah why not both 🤣
I'm cry laughing
Imagine if this was a whole movie of just a guy going through regular everyday things. It would be the greatest worst movie of all time.
peep show
I would watch it
@@TheCueca Definitely!
It would be legendary!
oh my god please
"I'm strong. I mean, I've been strong. In the past."
Perfect.
If anyone ever wants to know what having anxiety is like:
Love how that rabbit appears out of nowhere, only to never appear or be referenced again. 10/10 setup for a potential sequel.
Zack Snyder level of filmmaking
It's a Kubrick/Lynch film
Internal Joel: "I have to go bathroom"
External Joel: "I have to go bathroom"
Dude that part was like a scene in the shining
I'll be honest, I thought the "legendary" thing was cute 😂 I would've found that very endearing. That kind of spontaneous enthusiasm is extremely disarming to me, because for one it's such a genuine expression of feeling and intention, and two, it's just charming, idk, lol
That slow walk with thought scream was so true to life.
When Joel says "That would be LEGENDARY!" I feel like that's him really shining through.
ADVENTURE... AWAITS!
He revealed his inner nerd and became the RPG hero
I know｡ﾟ(ﾟ´ω`ﾟ)ﾟ｡
@@grantklaassen2162 HUZZAH!
You're really feeding the headphone users here. The multiple internal voices from multiple directions. I was so immersed in our shared anxiety.
Wait, he panned the audio of the internal monologue? Hell yes. Doin it right Joel!
That internalised existential scream at the end - pitch perfect!
"LEGENDARY" had me in stitches 🤣
1:15 "I think the cost of her thinking I'm weird for wearing sunglasses inside would be worth it to cover my *freakish blinking eyes* !"
lol, that was gold
Don't do it, she'll think you're some freak with no eyes.
Glad to know that other people's thoughts are also just constant screaming and Curb Your Enthusiasm references.
It's always constant screaming and CYE references for me
@@dlobelow760 Sorry dont have time for a stop-n-chat
your comment is utterly accurate
@@Giles4200 😆😂🤣🤣🤣 And I certainly have no tolerance for the "chat and cut."
Hahahahaha
This is an anxious attachment style
Me to myself after watching this: "It's wonderful that Joel Haver understands so perfectly, and I love him. But he can compensate by being a genius film-maker, the funniest guy on KRplus, and young. How are YOU going to compensate, shithead?"
Chill, my man. You're strong in some ways too. Ways that people appreciate even if you don't realize it.
I know quarantine is getting to me when I feel nostalgic for social anxiety
Wow yes
I have no idea why you would ever miss something so terrible, no matter the context.
@@yukononun the days are so flat at home these days that im starting to miss like real present danger, you know actually feeling something real.
@@pauliuskaskoks1153 Ah yes, that ever present danger of someone saying "Good Morning".
I mean, how the hell should I reply to that?! There's so many options!
@@ReverendPrice "You too!"
"Like a freak who goes to the bathroom and punches his crutch" while pretending he's peeing
I can relate
puch my crutch
The thing we’re the shorts bunched up is way too accurate 😂
This channel is reaching mid 2000's Adult Swim level of hilarity with an organic DIY approach and its so fun to watch. Thanks for keeping our spirits up this past year dudes.
The sheer amount of editing and cinematography that went into this stupid sketch is unsettling and I love it.
holy shit, the "recently enough that my pants still smell like farts" bit hit me deep in my bones
God same.
oh god he said pants
i heard hands
That last bit just tears through my soul and trawls so many internal screams up my goodness.
tfw the smile fades as the vid goes from funny to excruciatingly relatable.
Joel Haver is seriously one of the best directors and film makers on this platform.
no cap
I can get behind that
he do be kinda being true to himself
and actor
The Haver Scream is more than a sound, it's an emotion.
I just realized she is the voice of the RPG player NPC wife
The caption "I'm sorry, I'm usually like this" is all I needed.
What a perfect video.
this video made me realize that it's probably anxiety keeping me from enjoying my time with others, not that i'm broken and incapable of caring about other people or having fun. thanks man
So glad you had this realization. It’s also probably anxiety and cognitive distortions that made you assume it was your fault in the first place, too. I know how it is. I hope things get easier for ya Egg
that realization was the first step i took when i beat my social anxiety!! act like everyones your friend and odds are they will want to be
Yup anxiety can completely ruin the fun of talking/hanging with people and convinces u everyones constantly watching and judging you when in reality they prob couldnt care less about what your doing.
@@threetimestables Thanks! And that’s very true. Once I started speaking up and directly addressing my uncomfortable thought patterns and feelings, I learned that I’m not alone. Another thing that helps me is doing exercises about Cognitive Distortions
As an introvert with low self-esteem, I can confirm that all of this is accurate.
Watching the video actually helped me 😆 to see from outside how dumb it is to think that way.
My last date i freaked out so much i didn't talk to the girl again thinking i was so bad but two weeks later she texted me like nothing happened it was all in my head.
I love this. I love the art you create, Joel.
My favorite part is when he says "That would be LEGENDAARY!", realizes what he just said and starts screaming internally.
Saying "I have to go bathroom" is the key to getting out of any tricky situation naturally
even during class
But what about if you come back and then you actually do have to go to the bathroom soonly?
@@stolensentience just say "big one this time"
I used that when my drunk parents wanted me to dance with them at a restaurant. I simply went to the parking lot instead of the bathroom and drove home.
I work in elder care. If you need to leave someone with dementia that gets upset if you walk away "I have to go to the bathroom" is one of the top recommended excuses. The need to go to the bathroom is so deeply ingrained in the mind that even people far gone in their condition can understand it.
Me: "oh look at that he pulled it off and he's getting a sec"
*LEGENDARY*
Me: "oh no"
OH YEAHHHHHHH
@@irongeneral7861 "It's the Kool-Aid man!"
Damn I want a friendship where I can film myself yelling "I TRUSTED YOU" at their crotch.
Your skits always escalate at the right pace. Love you Joel
dude her outfit is adorable the friggin BEE RINGS bro
That girl can fuckin ACCESSORIZE. I'm jealous!
I love you
Thanks Jesus! I love you too!!
Verified as Jesus noice
Aww, get a room you two. Just make sure the door knob is okay.
My savior?
@@Joel-Haver Jesus loves you more than you will know!
'Townton is so beautiful this time of day'
This is my favorite of your shorts. Too relatable and hilarious.
The two Joels staring at each other, like in an out of body experience, is brilliant.
"I swear I said legendary as a joke...IT WAS JUST A JOKE"
Fuck dude, why did you had to made it more relatable
“come on I’m being ironic I would actually say that haha”
@@leila5927 -me waiting for the day I dont have to fake having fake ironic humor.
Pretty legendary joke
I find the screaming-in-your-head part hits way too close to home....and thanks for giving me a panic attack....and dammit, why do you have such nice fingernails?
I love all your work Joel, but I think this might be my absolute favourite (so far, I'm still going through it all). Absolutely brilliant.
yeah usually i end up in some kind of sewer drain with a squirrel attached to my ankle by the end but that’s just me
wtf why do I relate to that??
why is it so funny hearing that from you specifically
Zark pog
Give him back to us. What did you do to Mythical History. I'm onto you. We all are.
Oh its the mythical history guy.
“Is there a weird feeling about me?” I feel that on an emotional level
That mental scream at the end over saying some stupid shit is so real.
I've been in a committed relationship for almost 2 years and this still filled me with second hand anxiety.
Same, and I can literally get away with being as weird as I like around my partner.
We need part 2, that would be legendary.
Part 2 from HER perspective would be legendary!
Yes Jon
AHHHHHHHHHH!
*INTERNAL SCREAMING INTENSIFIES*
@@zapperone7 omg yes that’s such a good idea!!
It's hilarious how many times things exactly like this has happened to all of us in one way or another.
I am so thrilled someone other than me ascertains what's correct
not me, none of my dates go well :sunglasses emoji
nope...thing like this never happened to me
For step two: "have a date get derailed by anxiety" to occur, you must first reach step one: "have a date"
it's incredible how well the just the shots and their editing alone convey the panic. You could probably watch this muted and be just as stressed out from it.
I still remember my first date. It was going very well but, suddenly...I woke up.
Joel, I could tell you felt self-conscious after that “LEGENDARY,” but just let me be the one to tell ya that Barney Stinson would have been proud.
I'm incredibly joyful there's someone that discerns the truth
wow that comment was legen- wait for it
@@Kyllano D A R Y
i like your initials, Joe(L) Ha(ver)nsen
jo(el haver)
"I have to go bathroom." Nailed it
I love this movie so much. The subtle awkwardness inbetween the awkwardness is too perfect. I watch this 2 times a week. You both play your roles perfectly.
Dude I was in tears at the end of this, legendary play!
Please do a Part 2 with Elizabeth's POV! I'm dying from this 🤣
“Omg why isn’t he looking at me... do I have something on my shirt or my face and he’s too polite to tell me? He isn’t saying much now maybe he thinks I’m boring. Or talk too much. Or ugly. These bumblebee earrings hurt my ears but I know he likes bees, he hasn’t mentioned them... oh god he thinks I’m trying too hard. Am I coming off as desperate?... this isn’t even my usual style I should have shaved my legs I hope he doesn’t notice. Oh no, he was so annoyed by me he went to the bathroom to escape, why am I like this I’m a goddamn Sasquatch. He’s only humoring me, I bet he wants to leave. Dear LORD I’m sweaty, ok air out the pits while he’s in there, hope he doesn’t see me flapping like some insane cockatoo. I’ll probably still have body odor and he’ll tell all his friends I smell.... here he comes act natural. Fuuuuuuuuck he wants to leave I KNEW it. He hates my house and those stupid handles the banes of my existence I should of had them fixed now he’ll never come back. Ummm WHAT he thinks hanging with me again would be legendary? I must have misheard him no one could be that excited about me, is he making fun of me? ... oh shit I didn’t respond yet now he’s going and he thinks I’m rude as hell and seriously won’t come back fuuuuk my life”
@@luminoustorus548 perfection
@@luminoustorus548 I love this comment.
@@luminoustorus548 HEY JOEL READ THIS MASTERPIECE
Absolutely!
That would be LEGENDARY!!!!
The dying screams with Joel's shocked face are just too beautiful a combination
Best skit yet dude. I can't get enough of you and your channel
"Why does she like me? Whats wrong with her, she seems normal..."
"something's wrong, I can feel it"
It's just a feeling I've got; like something's about to happen, but I don't know what.
@@frostyflames7864 If that means what I think it means, we're in trouble, big trouble
And if he is as bananas as you say
I'm not taking any chances
*You are just what the doc ordered*